{"id":26128,"date":"2024-02-27T13:44:25","date_gmt":"2024-02-27T10:44:25","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/?p=26128"},"modified":"2024-02-27T13:44:30","modified_gmt":"2024-02-27T10:44:30","slug":"posta-redactiei-abuzuri-din-copilarie","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/posta-redactiei-abuzuri-din-copilarie\/","title":{"rendered":"Po\u015fta redac\u0163iei: Abuzuri din copil\u0103rie"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

Periodic, oferim iubire cititorului nostru. \u00cen sensul \u00een care el sau ea, sau chiar tu, de ce nu, ne trimi(te)\u021bi problema voastr\u0103 de suflet pe birou@lorenalupu.com. Noi citim, cuget\u0103m \u0219i analiz\u0103m, apoi propunem o solu\u021bie sau d\u0103m o opinie \u00ceNTR-UN ARTICOL PE BLOG.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Sau \u00een consulta\u0163ie privat\u0103 remunerat\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Subliniez: dac\u0103 NU vrei s\u0103 scriu despre, NU-mi trimite o po\u015ft\u0103 a redac\u0163iei cu amendamentul \u201cdar vreau r\u0103spuns privat\u201d<\/strong>, dup\u0103 ce am citit un \u00eentreg roman fluviu. Exist\u0103 dou\u0103 op\u0163iuni: vrei formatul \u0103sta, sau \u00eemi recompensezi timpul. Merci de \u00een\u0163elegere.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Scrisorica de azi spune a\u015fa:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Bun\u0103, <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

M\u0103 tot g\u00e2ndesc de c\u00e2teva zile daca s\u0103 \u00ee\u021bi scriu sau nu…<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Dar uite c\u0103 azi o fac. Am avut parte de abuzuri \u00eenc\u0103 din copil\u0103rie, asta pentru c\u0103 aveam s\u00e2ni \u0219i fund, iar specimenelor \u0103lora de copii \/ b\u0103rba\u021bi, sau tentative de oameni, le pl\u0103cea s\u0103 pun\u0103 m\u00e2na. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

M-am ap\u0103rat cum am \u015ftiut \/ putut. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Eram prin general\u0103. nu mai \u015ftiu ce clas\u0103, c\u00e2nd unul mai mare ca mine, care fusese \u0219i repetent, (repetase o clas\u0103 sau dou\u0103), mi-a pus m\u00e2na pe fund c\u00e2nd treceam pe coridor. (Ie\u0219isem noi din comunism de c\u00e2\u021biva ani,era democra\u021bie.) <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

M-am enervat \u0219i i-am tras un picior, el a dat \u00eenapoi \u0219i uite a\u0219a ne-am b\u0103tut, am dat ultima \u0219i apoi am fugit \u00een clas\u0103, m-am trezit cu un pumn \u00een figur\u0103, mai apoi cu o v\u00e2n\u0103taie… individul nu a p\u0103\u021bit nimic, mai apoi nu \u0219tiu ce a mai f\u0103cut \u0219i l-au exmatriculat.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

O alt\u0103 p\u0103\u021banie, cu un vecin. Aceea\u0219i chestie. I-am ras una peste ochi de i-am spart ochelarii. A\u0219a am putut s\u0103 m\u0103 ap\u0103r eu, copil fiind. Nu a mai avut curaj s\u0103 se ia de mine, c\u0103 i-am spus mamei mele \u0219i a luat ea m\u0103suri (nu mai \u0219tiu care).<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Mai t\u00e2rziu, aveam vreo dou\u0103zeci de ani, tot a\u0219a, un domn din \u0103sta cu familie acas\u0103 \u0219i copil mai mare ca mine se tot lua de mine, doar verbal,nu fizic. Atunci a intervenit mama mea, i-a spus c\u0103-l spune so\u021biei ,iar el s a potolit. Mai am astfel de \u00eent\u00e2mpl\u0103ri, dar o s\u0103 le povestesc pe parcurs.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Mul\u0163umesc!<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

X. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Drag\u0103 X., <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Cred c\u0103 acest mail este important, de\u015fi nu intri \u00een detalii specifice \u015fi nici nu \u00eemi ceri o solu\u0163ie. E important ca s\u0103 vad\u0103 to\u0163i Godinii \u015fi to\u0163i gigeii care au impresia c\u0103 trebuie s\u0103 ne \u00eent\u00e2lnim pe furi\u015f cu Nu\u0163u C\u0103m\u0103taru \u00een persoan\u0103 ca s\u0103 ajungem \u00eentr-o situa\u0163ie periculoas\u0103 c\u0103, iat\u0103, de fapt nu-i deloc a\u015fa.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

C\u0103 \u00een multe cazuri, h\u0103r\u0163uirea vine de la vecini, colegi de \u015fcoal\u0103, colegi de la munc\u0103, profesori, \u015fefi, ba, \u00een cazuri de un ghinion extrem, chiar de la un membru de familie. Prin alian\u0163\u0103 sau rud\u0103 de s\u00e2nge. H\u0103r\u0163uirea locuie\u015fte vizavi, sau st\u0103 \u00een banca din spatele t\u0103u, sau dou\u0103 birouri mai \u00eencolo. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Partea bun\u0103 e c\u0103, \u00eencet – \u00eencet, multe \u015fcoli \u015fi locuri de munc\u0103 au \u00eenceput s\u0103 ia m\u0103suri de preven\u0163ie \u015fi combatere, dar sunt \u00eenc\u0103 g\u00e2rl\u0103 de institu\u0163ii care nu fac asta, \u015fi atunci, femeile \u015ftiu c\u0103 nu se pot ap\u0103ra. Mai ales \u00een businessurile private cu patron rom\u00e2n narcisist care se crede Dumnezeu pogor\u00e2t pe p\u0103m\u00e2nt sau companiile de stat unde \u015fefia e \u00een ghearele unuia cu pile grele, pe care nu-l po\u0163i \u00eenfrunta, c\u0103 dup\u0103 aia \u00ee\u0163i creeaz\u0103 ani \u00een \u015fir de probleme. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Sfat prietenesc. \u015etiu c\u0103 nu mi l-ai cerut, dar eu \u0163i-l dau.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nu acumula negativitate iar \u015fi iar, derul\u00e2nd \u00een minte over and over ce a f\u0103cut \u0103la \u015fi ce ai fi putut face tu, dac\u0103 aveai mu\u015fchii lui Schwarzenegger t\u00e2n\u0103r. Asta e o capcan\u0103 a traumelor. Faptul c\u0103 ajungi s\u0103 le retr\u0103ie\u015fti \u00een minte de o mie de ori, \u015fi atunci, nu te vindeci niciodat\u0103 de ele. R\u0103m\u00e2i blocat\u0103 mintal \u00een situa\u0163ia abuziv\u0103. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Spune-le \u00een minte tuturor abuzatorilor t\u0103i un c\u0103lduros \u201ebag pl \u00een mor\u021bii vo\u0219tri, gunoaie bolnave\u201d \u0219i MOVE ON. Cu terapie, dac\u0103 e nevoie. Dar dac\u0103 faci terapie, fere\u0219te-te de tipul de terapeut care boce\u0219te comp\u0103timitor cu tine \u0219i alege genul care te \u00eencurajeaz\u0103 s\u0103-\u021bi tr\u0103ie\u0219ti ziua de azi ca pe prima ta zi de om pe care nu-l afecteaz\u0103 rahaturile alea. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

N-au fost vina ta. Nu tu i-ai creat pe \u0103ia gre\u021bo\u0219i \u0219i libidino\u0219i. \u0218i \u00een definitiv, ai sc\u0103pat cu succes de ei. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Porne\u0219te de la aceast\u0103 victorie \u0219i bucur\u0103-te de faptul c\u0103, totu\u0219i, asta e o lume \u00een care putem sc\u0103pa u\u0219or de idio\u021bi. Bunicile noastre, dac\u0103 nimereau un dement abuziv, erau legate de el pe tot restul vie\u021bii. We have it great. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Te \u00eembr\u0103\u021bi\u0219ez, <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Lorena. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

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