Scrisorica de azi spune a\u015fa:<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Dtag\u0103 Lorena, <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Am v\u0103zut c\u0103 ai o rubric\u0103 de scrisori anonime de la oameni \u015fi \u00eemi plac foarte mult r\u0103spunsurile tale. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Eu am o problem\u0103 mai delicat\u0103, \u015fi mi-e ru\u015fine s\u0103 scriu despre ea, dar simt nevoia s\u0103 vorbesc cu cineva, \u015fi te rog s\u0103 nu m\u0103 expui \u00een nici un fel. \u015etiu c\u0103 tu nu expui pe nimeni, dar te rog \u00een mod special s\u0103 nu m\u0103 expui. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Acum dou\u0103 seri, iubita mea a \u00eencercat s\u0103 ini\u0163ieze s\u0103 facem dragoste. De obicei, \u00eemi place c\u0103 e deschis\u0103 \u015fi are mereu ini\u0163iativ\u0103, dar de data asta, eram extrem de stresat cu o situa\u0163ie complicat\u0103 de la munc\u0103 \u015fi citisem ni\u015fte mailuri furioase \u00een timpul mesei. Nu am reu\u015fit s\u0103 am niciun fel de erec\u0163ie. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Dup\u0103 asta, ea s-a sup\u0103rat \u015fi \u00eemi d\u0103 silent treatment, iar eu nu prea \u015ftiu cum s\u0103 deschid subiectul. N-a \u0163inut de voin\u0163a mea, doar c\u0103 sunt extrem de cople\u015fit. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Ce s\u0103 fac? <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n X. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n ***<\/p>\n\n\n\n Drag\u0103 X., <\/p>\n\n\n\n Mult\u0103 lume \u0163i-ar \u0163ine aici o predic\u0103, s\u0103 la\u015fi jobul la munc\u0103 \u015fi s\u0103 te concentrezi pe via\u0163a privat\u0103 c\u00e2nd e\u015fti acas\u0103, dar eu te \u00een\u0163eleg. Mari\u0163a de la Carrefour, care ia 3.000 de lei salariu, poate face asta f\u0103r\u0103 probleme, pentru c\u0103 g\u0103se\u015fte u\u015for banii \u0103ia \u015fi \u00een alt\u0103 parte, dar, \u00een cazul joburilor de timp high risk, high reward, cu un nivel ridicat de stres \u015fi cu un salariu imens pe care te ustur\u0103 dac\u0103-l pierzi, duci jobul cu tine cam peste tot \u015fi cine spune c\u0103 nu-i a\u015fa, n-a lucrat dec\u00e2t la Carrefour pe 3.000 lei. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Fata tace nu pentru c\u0103 vrea s\u0103 te pedepseasc\u0103 ci, probabil, pentru c\u0103 se \u00eentreab\u0103 dac\u0103 mai e\u015fti atras de ea, dac\u0103 s-a \u00eengr\u0103\u015fat, dac\u0103 i s-a accentuat celulita, dac\u0103 ai observat ridul cel nou din col\u0163ul gurii. Multe femei sunt extrem de nesigure de ele, \u015fi c\u00e2nd vezi c\u0103 iubitului t\u0103u nu i se mai scoal\u0103 la tine, e o lovitur\u0103 imens\u0103 \u00een stima de sine. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Ce cred c\u0103 trebuie s\u0103 face\u0163i? S\u0103 te a\u015fezi \u00een fa\u0163a ei \u015fi s\u0103 roste\u015fti cuvintele magice \u015fi dificile: Hai s\u0103 vorbim despre ce s-a \u00eent\u00e2mplat alalt\u0103ieri. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Lipsa comunic\u0103rii genereaz\u0103 acele t\u0103ceri grele \u015fi stinghere, care dau senza\u0163ia de singur\u0103tate \u00een propria rela\u0163ie. \u015etiu, e dificil pentru tine ca b\u0103rbat s\u0103 discu\u0163i despre absen\u0163a erec\u0163iei. Dar pentru a vindeca ceea ce poate fi o ran\u0103 \u00een leg\u0103tura voastr\u0103, e bine s\u0103 iei aceast\u0103 ini\u0163iativ\u0103. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Ideea de job dificil, solicitant \u015fi demoralizator nu e dificil de \u00een\u0163eles. \u015ei sper c\u0103 \u0103ia te pl\u0103tesc suficient de bine, dac\u0103 te streseaz\u0103 p\u00e2n\u0103 \u00een punctul \u00een care nu \u0163i se mai \u00eenal\u0163\u0103 steagul, altfel, EJobs e \u00eencolo. —–> <\/p>\n\n\n\n Un cuplu poate rezolva problemele despre care discut\u0103. Calm, cu bun\u0103tate, f\u0103r\u0103 \u00eenvinuiri \u0219i r\u0103ut\u0103\u021bi. Un cuplu nu poate rezolva problemele despre care tace. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Poart\u0103 aceast\u0103 conversa\u021bie chiar azi. <\/p>\n\n\n\n \u0218i, dac\u0103 tot ai perioade grele la job, care \u00ee\u021bi afecteaz\u0103 rela\u021bia, \u00eencearc\u0103 s\u0103 te revan\u0219ezi: \u00een momentele mai calme, \u00eenchide telefonul \u0219i ofer\u0103-i timp pentru aten\u021bie reciproc\u0103 exclusiv\u0103. Merge\u021bi la un restaurant, dar \u021bine\u021bi telefoanele \u00een geant\u0103. Merge\u021bi \u00eentr-o drume\u021bie, \u0219i conversa\u021bi pe tot parcursul ei. Ca \u00een perioada date-urilor, c\u00e2nd timpul \u00eent\u00e2lnirii era \u00een mod natural dedicat celuilalt, pentru c\u0103 \u00ee\u021bi pl\u0103cea \u0219i voiai s\u0103 construie\u0219ti conexiunea. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Rela\u021biile mor din clipa \u00een care oamenii se consider\u0103 c\u00e2\u0219tiga\u021bi la belciuge \u0219i nu mai investesc timp \u0219i energie \u00een cel\u0103lalt. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Sper c\u0103 am fost util\u0103, <\/p>\n\n\n\n Lorena. <\/p>\n\n\n\n <\/p>\n\n\n\n ***<\/p>\n\n\n\n Dac\u0103 apreciezi acest articol, po\u021bi sus\u021bine la r\u00e2ndul t\u0103u site-ul \u00een singurul mod care conteaz\u0103. Aici<\/strong><\/a>. Pentru dona\u021bii de 50 de euro sau mai mult, \u00eemi po\u021bi propune tu un subiect. 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