{"id":26233,"date":"2024-03-21T12:52:47","date_gmt":"2024-03-21T09:52:47","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/?p=26233"},"modified":"2024-03-21T15:12:10","modified_gmt":"2024-03-21T12:12:10","slug":"de-ziua-parintilor-singuri","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/de-ziua-parintilor-singuri\/","title":{"rendered":"De ziua p\u0103rin\u021bilor singuri"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

Azi, americanii s\u0103rb\u0103toresc ziua p\u0103rin\u021bilor singuri. O categorie social\u0103 ignorat\u0103 de mul\u021bi, dar, dup\u0103 p\u0103rerea mea, adev\u0103ra\u021bii eroi ai lumii noastre.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

La un moment dat, mi se oplo\u0219ise pe page un gher\u021boi penal, s\u0103 m\u0103 frece la icre c\u0103 de ce nu fac copii \u0219i faze de genul. \u0218ti\u021bi, eternul mascul pe care-l tufe grija de ovarele unei femei c\u0103reia nu-i pl\u0103te\u0219te facturile, s\u0103 justifice \u00eentr-un mod oarecare numita tufere de grij\u0103. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Dar de aceast\u0103 dat\u0103, pac, mesaj privat: Sunt cut\u0103reasca, prieten\u0103 cu fosta so\u021bie a lui gher\u021boi penal. \u0218tii c\u0103 gher\u021boi penal are obr\u0103znicia s\u0103 te agaseze pe tine s\u0103 faci copii, dar el are doi copii c\u0103rora nu le trimite nici un ban \u0219i nici nu se intereseaz\u0103 de ei? <\/p>\n\n\n\n

At\u00e2t mi-a trebuit: Ia zi, b\u0103i, rahat pansat, cum e cu condi\u021bia de p\u0103rinte, b\u0103ga-mi-a\u0219 o mie de p—> belite \u00een doamna mama ta? Tu m\u0103 \u0219cole\u0219ti pe mine legat de condi\u021bia femeii, c\u00e2nd tu nu respec\u021bi condi\u021bia b\u0103rbatului: S\u0102 PUN\u0102 P\u00c2INE PE MAS\u0102 COPIILOR PE CARE I-A F\u0102CUT? Mai bine ca mine, gunoi bor\u00e2t \u0219i jegos, c\u0103 \u0219tiu c\u0103 nu am calit\u0103\u021bi de p\u0103rinte \u0219i \u00eemi asum asta, dec\u00e2t ca tine, un kkt care, cu bun\u0103 \u0219tiin\u021b\u0103 \u0219i tupeu, o las\u0103 pe mama copiilor lui s\u0103 se chinuie sub povara obliga\u021biilor financiare \u0219i ignor\u0103 ce vor m\u00e2nca copiii lui \u00een seara aia. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

M\u0103 a\u0219teptam s\u0103 fac\u0103 mai mult circ, dar nu. A dat block instant. A\u0219a cum a dat block mintal \u0219i obliga\u021biilor fa\u021b\u0103 de copiii lui. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

E o decizie ra\u021bional\u0103 care trebuie luat\u0103 din timp, \u00eenainte s\u0103 faci vie\u021bile altora un iad: vrei sau nu copii. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Dac\u0103 \u00eei vrei, asum\u0103-\u021bi c\u0103 vei investi extrem de mult timp \u0219i extrem de mul\u021bi bani, p\u00e2n\u0103 c\u00e2nd \u00eemplinesc 18 ani. \u0218i nu da chiulul de cum vezi c\u00e2t cost\u0103 scutecele. Mai bine dai o fug\u0103 prin Mega Image, te ui\u021bi dinainte c\u00e2t cost\u0103 toate, \u0219i faci un calcul simplu: am de dat \/ n-am de dat ace\u0219ti bani. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Dac\u0103 r\u0103spunsul e \u201enu\u201d, folose\u0219te cu \u00eencredere prezervativul \/ u\u0219a din spate \/ ambele \u00eempreun\u0103. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Dar, pentru c\u0103 mul\u021bi nu g\u00e2ndesc dec\u00e2t \u00een metafore ieftine: \u201es\u0103-mi duc\u0103 \u0219i mie numele mai departe cineva\u201d, \u0219i nu \u00een termeni de investi\u021bie \u0219i de buget, apoi, solu\u021bia lor e s\u0103 se care \u0219i s\u0103-\u0219i re\u00eenceap\u0103 traiul glorios de celibatari, o gr\u0103mad\u0103 de p\u0103rin\u021bi r\u0103m\u00e2n singuri, s\u0103 care \u00een spate \u00eentreaga responsabilitate financiar\u0103 \u0219i emo\u021bional\u0103. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

De aceea, p\u0103rin\u021bii singuri ar merita o medalie. Sunt cei care nu doar c\u0103 nu abandoneaz\u0103 lupta, ci o preiau cu totul. \u0218i o duc p\u00e2n\u0103 la cap\u0103t. Izbutesc s\u0103 fac\u0103 un efort pe care societatea l-a destinat pentru dou\u0103 persoane. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Iar acest lucru merit\u0103 respectul nostru, al tuturor. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Azi, americanii s\u0103rb\u0103toresc ziua p\u0103rin\u021bilor singuri. O categorie social\u0103 ignorat\u0103 de mul\u021bi, dar, dup\u0103 p\u0103rerea mea, adev\u0103ra\u021bii eroi ai lumii noastre. La un moment...<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":15111,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":true,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2},"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-26233","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-spicy"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/mom.jpg?fit=640%2C426&ssl=1","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_likes_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/26233","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=26233"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/26233\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":26236,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/26233\/revisions\/26236"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/15111"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=26233"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=26233"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=26233"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}