E cel mai simplu s\u0103 \u00eenchei definitiv interac\u0163iunea cu ixulica, dac\u0103 nu derivi dec\u00e2t negativitate \u015fi stres, s\u0103 \u00ee\u0163i vezi de treburile tale \u015fi s\u0103 MOVE ON. Sau, m\u0103 rog, uneori nu e simplu, mai ales c\u00e2nd e\u015fti tras pe sfoar\u0103 \u015fi nedrept\u0103\u0163it. \u015ei totu\u015fi, dac\u0103 b\u0103lte\u015fti \u00een sentimentul de frustrare, \u00ee\u0163i faci r\u0103u doar \u0163ie. Cel mai bun lucru cu care te po\u0163i vindeca de orice v\u00e2n\u0103taie a egoului e s\u0103-i dai, pur \u015fi simplu, \u00een mor\u0163ii lor. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Unii \u00ee\u015fi petrec 30 de ani v\u0103ic\u0103rindu-se ce le-a f\u0103cut fostul. Al\u0163ii \u00ee\u015fi petrec 30 de ani vorbind rahat despre fosta. Either way, \u00ee\u0163i faci r\u0103u exclusiv \u0163ie. \u015ei dac\u0103 rahatul mai \u015fi ajunge la fosta, fosta te poate da \u00een judecat\u0103 pentru bullying, \u015fi \u00eei poate cita martori pe to\u0163i cei c\u0103rora le-ai \u00een\u015firat rahaturi despre ea. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Momentan, minimum cinci persoane o pot da \u00een judecat\u0103 pe comentatoarea mea care nu poate s\u0103 doarm\u0103 de grija lor, \u015fi, sincer, dac\u0103 o fac \u015fi vor probe de pe pagina mea, sunt liberi s\u0103 se serveasc\u0103. Nu sunt de acord cu b\u00e2rfa \u015fi cu plimbatul mizeriilor de colo-colo. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Cel mai s\u0103n\u0103tos mod de ac\u0163iune este: <\/p>\n\n\n\n X \u00ee\u0163i face un r\u0103u. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Tu verifici dac\u0103 ai o cale legal\u0103 de a face dreptate, \u015fi dac\u0103 merit\u0103 deranjul. E, s\u0103 zicem, un p\u00e2rlit fomist rupt \u00een cr care m\u0103 tot agaseaz\u0103 pe TikTok de pe 80 de conturi false, \u015fi de cum dau block unuia, \u00ee\u015fi face altele zece. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Merit\u0103 dat \u00een judecat\u0103 pentru bullying? Nu, pentru c\u0103 probabil c\u0103 nu are nimic pe numele lui, \u015fi pierd ni\u015fte ani prin tribunal ca la final s\u0103 am o crean\u0163\u0103 pe care \u0103la nu o va onora ever. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Deci, nu merit\u0103 deranjul. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Block repetat p\u00e2rlitului, p\u00e2n\u0103 c\u00e2nd se plictise\u015fte. Periodic c\u00e2te o b\u0103gare de p \u00een mor\u0163ii lui, s\u0103-i fie clar c\u0103-i dai block din sc\u00e2rb\u0103 \u015fi nu din intimidare, \u015fi cam aia e. Nu st\u0103m s\u0103 facem dram\u0103 lung\u0103 din c\u00e2t de agasant e p\u00e2rlitul. Lumea \u015ftie c\u0103 e agasant. P\u00e2n\u0103 \u015fi el \u015ftie c\u0103 e agasant. E singurul lui asset \u00een via\u0163\u0103. Faptul c\u0103 te consumi tu pe c\u00e2t e el de agasant \u00eei d\u0103 putere. Decizia deliberat\u0103 de a-l da \u00een mor\u0163ii lui \u00eel priveaz\u0103 de puterea singurului s\u0103u asset: faptul c\u0103 e agasant. <\/p>\n\n\n\n De aceea, b\u00e2rfa e at\u00e2t de inutil\u0103, at\u00e2t de plictisitoare – cel pu\u0163in pentru mine – \u015fi un consum at\u00e2t de prost al timpului. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Comentatoarea asta s-a cramponat de mine pentru c\u0103 ne-am luat la ceart\u0103 cu aceea\u015fi individ\u0103. De atunci, ea urm\u0103re\u015fte obsesiv tot ce face individa \u015fi d\u0103 comentarii lungi \u015fi \u00eenver\u015funate despre ea zi de zi. Eu am dat unfollow la tot ce face individa, refuz s\u0103-mi pese \u015fi m\u0103 concentrez pe ce am eu de f\u0103cut s\u0103 cresc \u015fi s\u0103 m\u0103 dezvolt ca autor, ca artist \u015fi ca om. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Care din noi are mai mult de c\u00e2\u015ftigat? <\/p>\n\n\n\n \u00cenv\u0103\u0163a\u0163i s\u0103 move on, oameni buni. Via\u0163a e prea scurt\u0103 pentru b\u00e2rfe. Alege\u0163i pe loc dac\u0103 v\u0103 face\u0163i sau nu dreptate, \u015fi dac\u0103 ave\u0163i cum s\u0103 v\u0103 face\u0163i dreptate – eu doar am relatat public impertinen\u0163a individei, \u015fi apoi m-am deta\u015fat definitiv de situa\u0163ie. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Pute\u0163i fi perpetua victim\u0103 a lui X, Y \u015fi Z, sau eroina \u00een armur\u0103 str\u0103lucitoare a propriei pove\u015fti de glorie. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Ghici care e versiunea care v\u0103 va face s\u0103 v\u0103 sim\u0163i\u0163i mai bine. \ud83d\ude00 <\/p>\n\n\n\n ***<\/p>\n\n\n\n Dac\u0103 apreciezi acest articol, po\u021bi sus\u021bine la r\u00e2ndul t\u0103u site-ul \u00een singurul mod care conteaz\u0103. Aici<\/strong><\/a>. Pentru dona\u021bii de 50 de euro sau mai mult, \u00eemi po\u021bi propune tu un subiect. 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