{"id":26247,"date":"2024-03-25T12:58:10","date_gmt":"2024-03-25T09:58:10","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/?p=26247"},"modified":"2024-03-25T12:58:13","modified_gmt":"2024-03-25T09:58:13","slug":"tu-la-ce-facultate-dai","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/tu-la-ce-facultate-dai\/","title":{"rendered":"Tu la ce facultate dai?"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

\u0162in minte, c\u00e2nd eram eu la liceu, nu aveai cum s\u0103 nu dai la facultate. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

P\u00e2n\u0103 \u015fi elevii cu rezultate medii povesteau tuturor c\u0103, desigur, vor da la facultate, \u015fi desigur, vor intra cu brio. Pe atunci, d\u0103dea bine s\u0103 dai la drept, la sociologie \u015fi la psihologie. Cei trecu\u0163i de 30 de ani nu fuseser\u0103 niciodat\u0103 la un minu\u0163el de terapie \u00een via\u0163a lor, \u015fi totu\u015fi, nimeni nu se \u00eentreba din ce vor c\u00e2\u015ftiga bani de facturi to\u0163i ace\u015fti ilu\u015ftri psihologi. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Doar talpa-clasei nu voia studii superioare. \u015ei era desconsiderat pentru asta. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

A\u015fa s-a ajuns la un exces de psihologi, sociologi \u015fi avoca\u0163i, care au dat la facult\u0103\u0163i care nu-i interesau cu adev\u0103rat, s\u0103 \u00eenve\u0163e meserii pentru care nu aveau urm\u0103 de voca\u0163ie, \u015fi s\u0103 se angajeze p\u00e2n\u0103 la urm\u0103 assistant manager \u015fi customer satisfaction engineer. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Pe l\u00e2ng\u0103 cei pe care p\u0103rin\u0163ii \u00eei l\u0103sau \u00een pace, erau \u015fi cei pe care p\u0103rin\u0163ii \u00eei presau s\u0103 dea la facult\u0103\u0163ile \u201eb\u0103noase\u201d. ASE \u0219i Medicin\u0103. Chit c\u0103 \u0103la mic le\u0219in\u0103 c\u00e2nd vede un strop de s\u00e2nge. Las\u0103, drag\u0103, c\u0103 e prost \u0219i nu \u0219tie acum, dar \u00eei trece c\u00e2nd prime\u0219te prima \u0219pag\u0103. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Singura problem\u0103 cu acest mod de g\u00e2ndire era c\u0103 statul \u00ee\u021bi d\u0103 drept la o singur\u0103 facultate absolvit\u0103 la locuri pe buget, \u0219i dac\u0103 \u00ee\u021bi consumi acest bilet de aur la 18 ani, pe cu totul alte criterii dec\u00e2t cine e\u0219ti tu ca om, ce munc\u0103 te \u00eempline\u0219te personal \u0219i te ajut\u0103 s\u0103 cre\u0219ti \u0219i care e stilul t\u0103u de via\u021b\u0103, ajungi la 30 s\u0103 vrei s\u0103 faci o a doua facultate \u0219i s\u0103 te coste o c\u0103ru\u021b\u0103 de bani, pe care \u00eei ai sau nu \u00een acel moment. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

La 18 ani, nu \u0219tii cine e\u0219ti ca om. \u0218tii doar chestiile cu care te-au frecat p\u0103rin\u021bii la icre, dar identitatea ta personal\u0103 \u00eencepe s\u0103 se dezvolte abia din momentul \u00een care te mu\u021bi de acas\u0103, \u00eencepi s\u0103 g\u00e2nde\u0219ti cu capul t\u0103u, s\u0103 iei decizii pentru tine \u0219i s\u0103 \u00ee\u021bi descoperi propriile limite personale. \u0218i identitatea ta profesional\u0103 \u00eencepe s\u0103 se dezvolte din momentul \u00een care \u00eencepi s\u0103 munce\u0219ti, s\u0103 descoperi diverse climate profesionale \u0219i s\u0103 \u00een\u021belegi ce \u021bi se potrive\u0219te cu adev\u0103rat. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Aveam un vechi prieten \u00een v\u00e2rst\u0103. Familie bun\u0103 din Bucure\u0219ti, rela\u021bii care s\u0103-i deschid\u0103 toate u\u0219ile, facultate bun\u0103, tot \u00een Bucure\u0219ti. Drama era una: lui nu-i pl\u0103cea via\u021ba de intelectual la ora\u0219. A p\u0103r\u0103sit toate astea \u0219i s-a f\u0103cut ghid la munte. \u0218i acolo a fost fericit \u0219i a sim\u021bit c\u0103 tr\u0103ie\u0219te cu adev\u0103rat. Dar la 18 ani, nu avea de unde s\u0103 \u0219tie asta. A trebuit s\u0103 piard\u0103 ni\u0219te ani f\u0103c\u00e2nd o facultate bun\u0103, de care nu era interesat. S\u0103 joace dup\u0103 cum i-au fluierat p\u0103rin\u021bii. S\u0103 \u00ee\u0219i exploreze \u00een vacan\u021be propriile pasiuni, p\u00e2n\u0103 \u00een punctul \u00een care s-a convins c\u0103 asta \u00ee\u0219i dorea. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ar fi ajuns oare mai repede acolo \u00eentr-o lume \u00een care facultatea la 18 ani nu era o obliga\u021bie impus\u0103 de societate? <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Poate da. Poate nu. Nu vom \u0219ti niciodat\u0103. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Acum, c\u0103 am o comunitate de pu\u0219ti pe TikTok, discut cu ei tema facult\u0103\u021bii. Unii sunt elevi excep\u021bionali \u0219i au diverse op\u021biuni de burse \u00een str\u0103in\u0103tate. Ceea ce oricum merit\u0103 explorat, pentru c\u0103 un schimb cultural te ajut\u0103 s\u0103 \u00een\u021belegi infinit mai mult din lumea \u00een care tr\u0103im \u0219i s\u0103 nu r\u0103m\u00e2i blocat \u00een ideile pu\u021bine \u0219i fixe ale familiei tale. Al\u021bii se preg\u0103tesc s\u0103 dea bacul \u0219i s\u0103 se angajeze, pentru c\u0103 nu se consider\u0103 suficient de buni. \u0218i le spun: Ba da, e\u0219ti suficient de bun. Po\u021bi \u00eenv\u0103\u021ba, dac\u0103 \u00ee\u021bi pui ambi\u021bia. Po\u021bi \u00eenv\u0103\u021ba orice, dac\u0103 te motivezi tu pe tine. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Dar cred c\u0103 e o idee bun\u0103 s\u0103 am\u00e2ni, s\u0103 apuci \u00eent\u00e2i s\u0103 te cuno\u0219ti. S\u0103 vezi ce vrei de fapt s\u0103 faci. Ce te face fericit. Ce job e prelungirea natural\u0103 a vie\u021bii tale. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0218tiu o tip\u0103 care e un medic minunat. Atent\u0103, afectuoas\u0103, r\u0103bd\u0103toare cu toate pensionarele care vin s\u0103-i povesteasc\u0103 exhaustiv despre fiecare c\u00e2rcel \u00een talp\u0103 \u0219i fiecare puseu de ame\u021beal\u0103. Un medic care te caut\u0103 s\u0103 te \u00eentrebe ce-\u021bi mai face astmul. Tu fiind obi\u0219nuit cu modelul vechi, cel al medicului pe care-l doare \u00een basc\u0103 de tine \u0219i la cabinetul c\u0103ruia suni pentru o programare c\u00e2nd treburile devin problematice. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Fata asta a dat la medicin\u0103 pentru c\u0103 grija fa\u021b\u0103 de al\u021bii o face s\u0103 se simt\u0103 \u00eemplinit\u0103. E ceea ce \u00eei umple ziua de bucurie. Eu dac\u0103 ar trebui s\u0103 suport v\u0103ic\u0103relile interminabile ale pacientelor ei m-a\u0219 arunca de pe bloc. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

N-ar fi fost p\u0103cat ca locul ei de la facultate s\u0103 fie ocupat de mine, pe criteriul \u201eMi-au zis mami \u0219i tati c\u0103 a\u0219a se fac mul\u021bi bani?\u201d <\/p>\n\n\n\n

C\u00e2nd vin statisticile cu \u201eNu \u0219tiu c\u00e2t la sut\u0103 din absolven\u021bii de liceu nu vor s\u0103 urmeze studii superioare\u201d, nu \u00eenseamn\u0103 neap\u0103rat un lucru r\u0103u. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Las\u0103-i s\u0103 se dezvolte \u00eent\u00e2i ca oameni. Iar nevoia unei facult\u0103\u021bi va ap\u0103rea de la sine, c\u00e2nd le va fi clar cine sunt \u0219i ce au de f\u0103cut. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Iar uneori, nu va ap\u0103rea niciodat\u0103, \u0219i e ok. Nu toat\u0103 lumea trebuie s\u0103 plimbe mapa. Unii pot fi virtuozi cu sapa. Iar eu, \u00een momentul \u0103sta, pre\u021buiesc un bun instalator mai mult dec\u00e2t pe un guru al dezvolt\u0103rii personale. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

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