{"id":26252,"date":"2024-03-26T11:16:31","date_gmt":"2024-03-26T08:16:31","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/?p=26252"},"modified":"2024-03-26T12:07:02","modified_gmt":"2024-03-26T09:07:02","slug":"ce-e-hipergamia","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/ce-e-hipergamia\/","title":{"rendered":"Ce e hipergamia?"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

Dac\u0103 e\u015fti femeie \u015fi e\u015fti c\u00e2t de c\u00e2t vizibil\u0103 online, la un moment dat, \u00ee\u0163i vor ap\u0103rea b\u0103ie\u0163ei frustra\u0163i pe cont, s\u0103 bat\u0103 c\u00e2mpii despre hipergamia ta. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u015ei tu o s\u0103 morm\u0103i \u00een barb\u0103: Plm, rom\u00e2n\u0103 simpl\u0103 de pe vremea p\u0103rin\u0163ilor mei nu \u015fti\u0163i s\u0103 vorbi\u0163i? <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nu, nu \u015ftiu, dar iat\u0103, m\u0103 ai acum pe mine, care s\u0103-\u0163i explic ce e aia hipergamie. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Dup\u0103 cum a\u0163i remarca\u0163i, \u00een ultima vreme, mul\u0163i l\u0103bu\u0163i sup\u0103ra\u0163i foc pe faptul c\u0103 femeile prefer\u0103 s\u0103-\u015fi vad\u0103 de \u015fcoli, cariere, vise personale, \u00een loc s\u0103 se arunce \u00een c\u0103s\u0103torii nefericite cu b\u0103rba\u0163i cu care nu se potrivesc, dar pe care tradi\u0163ia le spune c\u0103 ar trebui s\u0103-i slug\u0103reasc\u0103 – mul\u0163i l\u0103bu\u0163i sup\u0103ra\u0163i s-au str\u00e2ns cirezi pe siteuri \u015fi forumuri, \u00een jurul lui Tate, Jordan Peterson \u015fi mul\u0163i al\u0163i guru de \u201eneomasculinitate\u201d. Neomasculinitate fiind c\u00e2nd gigel care nu \u00ee\u021bi ofer\u0103 nimic \u0219i c\u0103ruia nu-i datorezi nimic \u00ee\u0219i arog\u0103 totu\u0219i dreptul s\u0103 rag\u0103 la tine s\u0103 treci la crati\u021b\u0103. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Recuno\u0219ti haita neomasculin\u0103 dup\u0103 limbajul specific pe care ador\u0103 s\u0103-l arunce de colo-colo: \u201epilula ro\u0219ie\u201d (asta e furat\u0103 din The Matrix \u0219i simbolizeaz\u0103 o pilul\u0103 metafor\u0103 care \u00eei cocoa\u021b\u0103 brusc pe altarul superiorit\u0103\u021bii lor de purt\u0103tori de virgul\u0103, care nu trebuie s\u0103 aib\u0103 nici un merit, e suficient c\u0103 exist\u0103, \u0219i asta deja \u00eei face superiori), \u201eperetele\u201d (dac\u0103 femeia trece de 30 de ani, a ajuns la un \u201eperete\u201d imaginar \u0219i de acolo, nu mai are nici o valoare\u201d \u0219i \u201ehipergamia femeii.\u201d <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Miturile astea, evident, sunt false \u0219i nule, dar ca \u00een Game of Thrones, \u201ea story we agree to tell each other over and over, until we forget that it’s a lie\u201d. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Except\u00e2nd faza cu hipergamia. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ce \u00eenseamn\u0103 hipergamia? <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00censeamn\u0103 c\u0103, de exemplu, dac\u0103 te cer de nevast\u0103 un milionar \u0219i un s\u0103rac, tu o s\u0103 alegi milionarul. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

D\u0103\u0103h, o s\u0103 spun\u0103 toat\u0103 lumea ra\u021bional\u0103. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Sau, dac\u0103 \u021bi se ofer\u0103 un job cu salariu de 2.000 de euro \u0219i unul cu salariu de 500 de euro, tu o s\u0103 alegi jobul pl\u0103tit cu 2.000 de euro. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Pe scurt, hipergamia e tendin\u021ba uman\u0103 normal\u0103 de a alege oferta mai bun\u0103. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201dP\u0103i, da, Lorena, dar \u0219i b\u0103rba\u021bii lupt\u0103 pentru joburile mai bune, pentru femeile mai pies\u0103, pentru casele mai mari, pentru ma\u0219inile mai scumpe \u0219i a\u0219a mai departe.\u201d <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Corect, my dear Watson. Dar mentalul masculin e plin de duble standarde. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Un b\u0103rbat care are multe gagici e plin de succes. O femeie care are mul\u021bi gagii e o c. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Un b\u0103rbat care duce o via\u021b\u0103 de chefuri \u0219i b\u0103ute e un bonviveur, un tip de ga\u0219c\u0103, un petrec\u0103re\u021b. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

O femeie care face acela\u0219i lucru e o be\u021biv\u0103 nenorocit\u0103. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Un b\u0103rbat care vrea lucruri \u0219i face eforturi pentru ele e ambi\u021bios. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

O femeie care vrea lucruri \u0219i face eforturi pentru ele e materialist\u0103. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Un b\u0103rbat care alege cea mai bun\u0103 ofert\u0103 e un tip de\u0219tept, care \u0219tie s\u0103 se orienteze. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

O femeie care alege cea mai bun\u0103 ofert\u0103 e \u201ehipergam\u0103\u201d (presupun c\u0103 asta e forma de adjectiv a termenului.) <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0218i asta, pentru c\u0103 mentalul neomasculin e \u00eemb\u00e2csit de imaginea femeii care sacrific\u0103 totul \u0219i nu prime\u0219te nimic la schimb, pentru c\u0103, \u00een min\u021bile lor, asta ar trebui s\u0103 fac\u0103 femeia. Neomasculinitatea porne\u0219te dintr-un egoism feroce \u0219i nu \u00een\u021belege ideea c\u0103 femeia are interese personale, exact ca un b\u0103rbat. \u0218i c\u0103 trebuie s\u0103 oferi, dac\u0103 vrei s\u0103 prime\u0219ti. \u0218i da, s\u0103 oferi ce vrea partea advers\u0103. \u0218i, firesc, oferta mai apropiat\u0103 de nevoile p\u0103r\u021bii adverse c\u00e2\u0219tig\u0103. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Simplul fapt c\u0103 se flutur\u0103 termeni ca materialism \u0219i hipergamie, s\u0103 \u00eencerce s\u0103-\u021bi induc\u0103 vinov\u0103\u021bie pentru c\u0103 vrei s\u0103 fii pl\u0103tit\u0103 corespunz\u0103tor pentru timpul \u0219i efortul t\u0103u, respectiv, pentru c\u0103 alegi ce e mai bun pentru tine, arat\u0103 c\u00e2t de \u00eenapoia\u021bi suntem \u00een \u00een\u021belegerea nevoilor umane normale ale femeilor. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Gigelul care v\u0103 face hipergame \u0219i-ar p\u0103r\u0103si prompt jobul pl\u0103tit cu salariu minim pe economie la fast food din col\u021b dac\u0103 i s-ar oferi 300 de lei \u00een plus \u00een alt\u0103 parte. Dar el are voie. E b\u0103rbat. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Genera\u021bii \u00eentregi de gigei \u0219i-au p\u0103r\u0103sit nevestele \u00eemb\u0103tr\u00e2nite pentru altele mai tinere. Pentru c\u0103 oferta era mai bun\u0103. Dar ei au voie. Sunt b\u0103rba\u021bi. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Singura problem\u0103 din capul lor e c\u00e2nd \u00ee\u021bi vezi \u0219i tu interesul. Ca un b\u0103rbat. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Prin urmare, data viitoare c\u00e2nd vine unul s\u0103 v\u0103 frece la cap c\u0103 sunte\u021bi \u201ematerialiste\u201d \u0219i \u201ehipergame\u201d, t\u0103ia\u021bi-i-o scurt cu: \u201eDa, gigele, sunt ambele. Hai, orienteaz\u0103-\u021bi pilula ro\u0219ie \u00een alt\u0103 direc\u021bie, c\u0103 nu \u021bi-ai g\u0103sit proasta.\u201d <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

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