Te citesc de vreo zece ani, \u015fi \u00eemi place foarte mult Po\u015fta redac\u0163iei. Acum a sosit momentul s\u0103-\u0163i cer \u015fi eu o p\u0103rere. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Nu vreau s\u0103 te plictisesc cu o poveste lung\u0103, pentru c\u0103 am mai citit pe unii care aberau interminabil \u015fi nu vreau s\u0103 fiu plictisitoare ca ei. Uite care e problema pe scurt: am o rela\u0163ie \u00een linii mari ok. \u00cen schimb, dac\u0103 al meu face ceva ce nu-mi place \u015fi \u00eencerc s\u0103 discut problema cu el, m\u0103 \u00eentrerupe \u015fi \u00eencepe s\u0103 se victimizeze g\u0103l\u0103gios c\u0103 nu e apreciat \u015fi nu e \u00een\u0163eles, apoi bag\u0103 dou\u0103 s\u0103pt\u0103m\u00e2ni de silent treatment. \u015ei face asta indiferent c\u00e2t de frumos \u015fi de calm \u00eencerc s\u0103-i explic problema. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Am ajuns \u00eentr-un punct \u00een care am acumulat extrem de multe frustr\u0103ri pe aceast\u0103 tem\u0103 \u015fi simt c\u0103 o s\u0103 \u00eencep s\u0103 \u0163ip la el, ceea ce i-ar da tot lui dreptate s\u0103 se victimizeze. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Ce \u00eemi recomanzi?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n X. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n ***<\/p>\n\n\n\n Drag\u0103 X.,<\/p>\n\n\n\n Uneori, prefer s\u0103 aud povestea mai pe lung \u015fi cu mai multe detalii, pentru a avea tabloul complet al situa\u0163iei. Ca s\u0103 \u015ftiu c\u00e2t de fondat\u0103, sau c\u00e2t de c\u0103ut\u0103toare de nod \u00een papur\u0103 e critica. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Sunt cupluri \u00een care ea munce\u015fte full-time, face \u015fi treaba de acas\u0103 full-time, \u00eel roag\u0103 pe el s\u0103 cumpere p\u00e2ine, gest simbolic, s\u0103 simt\u0103 c\u0103 nu e slug\u0103rit\u0103 100%, iar el nici at\u00e2ta nu face. Pe de alt\u0103 parte, sunt cupluri \u00een care b\u0103rbatul pl\u0103te\u015fte tot \u015fi \u00eei face ei toate capriciile, iar ea \u00een continuare g\u0103se\u015fte ceva chichi\u0163\u0103 mic\u0103 de repro\u015fat, caz \u00een care, da, pot \u00een\u0163elege de ce spune c\u0103 e ne\u00een\u0163eles \u015fi neapreciat. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Dac\u0103 situa\u0163ia e A, \u00eentrebarea mea e dac\u0103 nu te-ai descurca mai bine singur\u0103. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Dac\u0103 situa\u0163ia e B, recomand s\u0103 faci un bilan\u0163 contabil. \u00cen st\u00e2nga, pui tot ce nu face. \u00cen dreapta, tot ce aduce \u00een via\u0163a ta. Iar dac\u0103 totalul din dreapta e mult mai mare, \u00eenva\u0163\u0103 s\u0103 la\u015fi \u015fi tu de la tine. <\/p>\n\n\n\n \u00cen orice rela\u0163ie echilibrat\u0103 din via\u0163a noastr\u0103, to\u0163i trecem cu vederea anumite lucruri, \u0163in\u00e2nd cont de bilan\u0163. C\u00e2nd exist\u0103 un bilan\u0163. C\u00e2nd nu are de ce s\u0103 existe, c\u0103 \u0103la oricum nu contribuie nimic la nimic, d\u0103-i papucii \u015fi explic\u0103-i c\u0103 vezi manevra \u015fi c\u0103 nu \u015fi-a g\u0103sit proasta cu care s\u0103 \u0163in\u0103 manevra. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Pentru c\u0103 asta cu \u201e\u021bip\u0103 mai tare dec\u00e2t ea \u0219i d\u0103-te tot tu victim\u0103\u201d e truc de pe forumurile de manosfer\u0103 \u0219i red pill. De aceea, c\u00e2nd \u00eel v\u0103d \u00een comentarii, dau instant block. Iar \u00een via\u021ba privat\u0103, nu-l tolerez nici m\u0103car o secund\u0103. Eu \u00ee\u021bi spun frumos \u0219i calm care e problema \u0219i de ce am nevoie. Dac\u0103 v\u0103d blabla pe l\u00e2ng\u0103 subiect \u0219i \u00eencerc\u0103ri de a crea o ceart\u0103 pe alte t\u00e2mpenii, la revedere, mult\u0103 s\u0103n\u0103tate la neamuri, \u0219i nu mai e loc de silent treatment, c\u0103 nu mai au cu cine s\u0103-l aplice. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Dac\u0103 vrei sfaturi mai aplicate la situa\u021bia ta, revino, te rog, cu mai multe detalii. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Lorena. <\/p>\n\n\n\n ***<\/p>\n\n\n\n Dac\u0103 apreciezi acest articol, po\u021bi sus\u021bine la r\u00e2ndul t\u0103u site-ul \u00een singurul mod care conteaz\u0103. Aici<\/strong><\/a>. Pentru dona\u021bii de 50 de euro sau mai mult, \u00eemi po\u021bi propune tu un subiect. Pentru dona\u021bii de 25 de euro sau mai mult, po\u021bi propune o poezie pentru cele 365 de zile de poezie.<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n ***<\/p>\n\n\n\n ***<\/p>\n\n\n\n Vrei s\u0103 m\u0103 urm\u0103re\u015fti \u00een social media? \u00cemi po\u0163i da like pe Facebook<\/strong><\/a>, follow pe Twitter<\/a><\/strong> \u015fi Instagram<\/a><\/strong>, subscribe pe YouTube<\/a><\/strong> \u015fi pe TikTok<\/a><\/strong>.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" Periodic, oferim iubire cititorului nostru. \u00cen sensul \u00een care el sau ea, sau chiar tu, de ce nu, ne trimite(\u021bi) problema voastr\u0103 de suflet...<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":25834,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_feature_clip_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":true,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2},"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-26322","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-spicy"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/12\/girl.jpg?fit=640%2C529&ssl=1","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_likes_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/26322","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=26322"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/26322\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":26324,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/26322\/revisions\/26324"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/25834"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=26322"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=26322"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=26322"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}![\"\"](\"https:\/\/i2.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea-300x300.jpg?resize=300%2C300\")
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