{"id":26331,"date":"2024-04-12T11:01:07","date_gmt":"2024-04-12T08:01:07","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/?p=26331"},"modified":"2024-04-12T11:01:10","modified_gmt":"2024-04-12T08:01:10","slug":"inca-un-caz-de-abuz","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/inca-un-caz-de-abuz\/","title":{"rendered":"\u00cenc\u0103 un caz de abuz"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

O lozinc\u0103 pe care incelii ador\u0103 s-o plimbe pe tot netul este c\u0103 feminismul destram\u0103 familia tradi\u021bional\u0103. \u00cen realitate, cazuri ca acesta despre care am citit azi <\/a><\/strong> afecteaz\u0103 mai mult familia tradi\u021bional\u0103 dec\u00e2t orice lozinc\u0103 pe care ar scrie-o cineva pe social media. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0218tirea este despre \u00eenc\u0103 o fat\u0103 de 15 ani desfigurat\u0103 \u00een b\u0103taie de un tat\u0103 alcoolic, \u201epentru c\u0103 vorbea cu b\u0103ie\u021bi pe Facebook\u201d. Individul \u0219i-a lovit fiica adolescent\u0103 cu pumnii \u0219i picioarele pe tot corpul, apoi a dat \u00een ea \u0219i cu lopata. Apoi a \u0219i str\u00e2ns-o de g\u00e2t. Apoi a \u0219i amenin\u021bat-o cu moartea, cu un cu\u021bit din buc\u0103t\u0103rie. Fata a ajuns la spital, unde a descris ce i s-a \u00eent\u00e2mplat, a \u00eenceput o anchet\u0103 \u0219i individul a fost condamnat la doi ani \u0219i patru luni de \u00eenchisoare. Mult prea pu\u021bin pentru modul \u00een care \u0219i-a maltratat copilul. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0218i acum \u00eentreb eu: dup\u0103 astfel de traume, ce o va determina vreodat\u0103 pe aceast\u0103 fat\u0103 s\u0103 mai aib\u0103 \u00eencredere vreodat\u0103 \u00eentr-un b\u0103rbat \u0219i s\u0103 accepte s\u0103 devin\u0103 parte a vreunei familii tradi\u021bionale, c\u00e2nd via\u021ba \u0219i integritatea ei fizic\u0103 au fost puse \u00een pericol \u00een acest mod chiar acas\u0103, chiar de c\u0103tre taic\u0103-su, adic\u0103 omul care ar fi trebuit s\u0103 fie principalul ei sprijin \u00een via\u021b\u0103? <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Mul\u021bi p\u0103rin\u021bi devin extrem de abuzivi \u0219i de tiranici c\u00e2nd copilul intr\u0103 \u00een adolescen\u021b\u0103, \u00eencepe s\u0103-\u0219i formeze idei \u0219i dorin\u021be proprii, iar ei simt c\u0103 nu-l mai manipuleaz\u0103 cum vor. C\u00e2nd sentimentul de pierdere a controlului vine la pachet cu mentalitatea \u201eeu te-am f\u0103cut, eu te omor\u201d, cu consumul de alcool \u0219i, probabil, cu misoginismul \u00eenn\u0103scut rural – c\u0103 dac\u0103 fiul vorbea cu fete pe Facebook, probabil c\u0103 nu era o problem\u0103, dimpotriv\u0103 – se las\u0103 cu violen\u021be greu de descris \u0219i de procesat. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Iar dac\u0103 familia asta mai era \u0219i genul cu mam\u0103 casnic\u0103, care nu iese din cuv\u00e2ntul boului, m\u0103 \u00eentreb din ce se vor \u00eentre\u021bine c\u00e2t timp boul e la \u00eenchisoare. \u0218i dup\u0103 ce boul iese de la \u00eenchisoare. Nu e ca \u0219i cum \u00eel va angaja cineva, dup\u0103 ce \u00eei vede cazierul. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Sufletul meu e cu s\u0103rmana feti\u021b\u0103. Bine c\u0103 imbecilul nu a apucat s\u0103-\u0219i pun\u0103 amenin\u021b\u0103rile \u00een aplicare. Bine c\u0103 e \u00een via\u021b\u0103, \u0219i boul dup\u0103 gratii, m\u0103car doi ani. Pe de alt\u0103 parte, nu ne garanteaz\u0103 nimeni c\u0103, dup\u0103 cei doi ani, nu va ie\u0219i din \u00eenchisoare \u00eenvinuind-o tot pe ea c\u0103 a ajuns acolo \u0219i nu va \u00eencerca orori \u0219i mai sinistre. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

C\u0103 a\u0219a e genul \u0103sta de gunoi. Mereu altul e de vin\u0103 c\u00e2nd faptele lui \u00ee\u0219i primesc consecin\u021bele binemeritate. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Anyway: c\u00e2nd ve\u021bi c\u0103uta pe cineva de \u00eenvinuit pentru faptul c\u0103 femeile nu mai vor familii, ar\u0103ta\u021bi cu degetul spre boii ca \u0103sta. Probabil c\u0103, \u00eentr-un climat familial echilibrat \u0219i iubitor, fiica lui ar fi fost un copil fericit \u0219i \u00eemplinit. A\u0219a, e perfect de \u00een\u021beles dac\u0103 va alege s\u0103 nu mai depind\u0103 de niciun b\u0103rbat niciodat\u0103. C\u0103 iat\u0103 unde risc\u0103 s\u0103 ajung\u0103. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

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