{"id":26344,"date":"2024-04-15T10:43:47","date_gmt":"2024-04-15T07:43:47","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/?p=26344"},"modified":"2024-04-15T10:45:27","modified_gmt":"2024-04-15T07:45:27","slug":"madalin-si-dragostea","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/madalin-si-dragostea\/","title":{"rendered":"M\u0103d\u0103lin \u0219i dragostea"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

Ieri seara am f\u0103cut live pe TikTok, \u015fi singurul subiect pe care \u00eel deschideau noii-veni\u0163i era M\u0103d\u0103lin. Sincer, habar nu aveam despre ce e vorba. Contentul lui M\u0103d\u0103lin, cu ma\u015fini \u015fi viteze-record, nu m-a interesat niciodat\u0103, prin urmare, nu \u015ftiam nici detalii despre via\u0163a lui. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Apoi, oamenii m-au iluminat. Era vorba de o dram\u0103 amoroas\u0103. M\u0103d\u0103lin, un b\u0103iat de 23 de ani pasionat de ma\u015fini, avea o iubit\u0103 pe nume Narcisa. Cum se \u00eent\u00e2mpl\u0103 la 20 de ani, \u00eentr-o zi, Narcisa a cunoscut un alt b\u0103iat \u015fi i-a spus lui M\u0103d\u0103lin c\u0103 nu-l mai iube\u015fte. M\u0103d\u0103lin a \u00eencasat-o nasol. Fata a plecat cu ma\u015fina noului amorez, iar M\u0103d\u0103lin a pornit dup\u0103 ei. Dar pentru c\u0103 tocmai fusese r\u0103nit \u00een orgoliu, a condus neglijent, cu o vitez\u0103 mult prea mare, s-a ciocnit de un copac \u015fi a murit. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Evident, pu\u015ftimea \u00eel pl\u00e2ngea pe M\u0103d\u0103lin \u015fi o \u00eenjura cu sete pe Narcisa. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Adev\u0103rul e c\u0103 moartea unui t\u00e2n\u0103r de 23 de ani este o tragedie, oricum ai lua-o. Dar \u00een acela\u015fi timp, adev\u0103rul este c\u0103 M\u0103d\u0103lin \u015fi-a f\u0103cut-o cu m\u00e2na lui. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ce c\u0103uta la volan, \u00een starea lui emo\u0163ional\u0103? De ce sim\u0163ea nevoia s\u0103-i fug\u0103reasc\u0103 pe cei doi porumbei? \u015ei o \u00eentrebare mai interesant\u0103: <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Dac\u0103 \u00eei prindea, ce?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ar fi \u0163ipat la ei, iar ei i-ar fi r\u00e2s \u00een fa\u0163\u0103 c\u0103 e un at\u00e2rnache care trage de cineva care nu-l mai iube\u015fte? <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Sau ar fi \u00eencercat s\u0103-i h\u0103r\u0163uiasc\u0103 cu ma\u015fina pe \u015fosea, s\u0103 fac\u0103 ei accident?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Un lucru care sigur NU s-ar fi \u00eent\u00e2mplat ar fi fost ca fata s\u0103 zic\u0103: da, iubitule, acum c\u0103 ne urm\u0103re\u015fti ca un disperat, vreau s\u0103 m\u0103 \u00eentorc la tine. Dac\u0103 a ales s\u0103 plece cu cel\u0103lalt b\u0103iat, \u0103la era cel cu care-\u015fi dorea s\u0103 fie. \u015ei punct. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Noi, femeile, primim mereu speechul \u0103sta: dac\u0103 te p\u0103r\u0103se\u015fte, nu trage de el, las\u0103-l s\u0103 plece, e\u015fti mai bun\u0103 de at\u00e2t, e pierderea lui. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Dar strict \u00een acest caz, \u00een\u0163elepciunea b\u0103beasc\u0103 tradi\u0163ional\u0103 are dreptate. Femeile care-l las\u0103 pe \u0103la s\u0103 plece \u0219i trec prompt la diet\u0103 \u0219i exerci\u021bii r\u0103m\u00e2n \u00een via\u021b\u0103<\/strong>. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nu doar c\u0103 r\u0103m\u00e2n \u00een via\u021b\u0103, dar au \u0219i \u0219ansa s\u0103 aleag\u0103 pe altul mai de doamne ajut\u0103. Sau, pur \u0219i simplu, s\u0103-\u0219i g\u0103seasc\u0103 lini\u0219tea \u0219i s\u0103 nu investeasc\u0103 timp, efort \u0219i resurse \u00eentr-o rela\u021bie care nu merge. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Poate c\u0103 \u00een\u021belepciunea asta b\u0103beasc\u0103 tradi\u021bional\u0103 ar trebui predicat\u0103 \u0219i b\u0103rba\u021bilor. Care \u00eenc\u0103 o aud pe aia cu \u201eE femeia ta \u0219i faci ce vrei tu cu ea.\u201d <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nu, nu e femeia ta, pentru c\u0103 oamenii nu sunt propriet\u0103\u021bi. A\u0219a cum mii de femei de 40 de ani sunt p\u0103r\u0103site pentru altele mai tinere, dar se resemneaz\u0103 \u0219i merg \u00eenainte, \u0219i b\u0103rba\u021bilor ar trebui s\u0103 li se explice c\u0103 dragostea e o experien\u021b\u0103 temporar\u0103, care se poate termina oric\u00e2nd, \u0219i tot ce po\u021bi face e s\u0103-\u021bi str\u00e2ngi juc\u0103riile \u0219i s\u0103 pleci demn, \u00een primul r\u00e2nd pentru tine. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

NU DE\u021aINEM PE NIMENI. MENTALITATEA C\u0102 DE\u021aINEM PE CINEVA \u00ceL VA MU\u0218CA DE C*** MAI ALES PE CEL CU IMPRESII DE DE\u021aIN\u0102TOR. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0218i da, respingerea doare. Dar trebuie s\u0103 \u00een\u021belegi c\u0103, \u00een afar\u0103 de cei c\u0103rora le-ai \u00eemprumutat bani, sau cu care ai semnat un contract, nimeni nu-\u021bi datoreaz\u0103 absolut nimic. \u0218i solu\u021bia e s\u0103-i faci pe oameni s\u0103 VREA EI s\u0103 fie cu tine, nu s\u0103 \u021bipi la ei c\u0103 TREBUIE s\u0103 fie cu tine. Pentru c\u0103, iat\u0103, rezultatul e c\u0103 se urc\u0103 \u00een ma\u0219ina altuia \u0219i pleac\u0103. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

M\u0103d\u0103lin nu e o victim\u0103 a Narcisei. Ea e st\u0103p\u00e2n\u0103 pe p\u0103s\u0103rica ei \u0219i decide liber cui o \u00eemparte. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

M\u0103d\u0103lin e o victim\u0103 a propriilor alegeri iresponsabile. A deciziei de a face circ, a deciziei de a trage mai departe de cineva care nu te vrea \u0219i a deciziei de a conduce \u00eentr-o stare emo\u021bional\u0103 sc\u0103pat\u0103 de sub control. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Oamenii ne p\u0103r\u0103sesc tot timpul. Oric\u00e2t de buni am fi, undeva e o ofert\u0103 mai bun\u0103. Doare? Sigur c\u0103 doare, dar dac\u0103 to\u021bi am adopta pisici care s\u0103 ne consoleze torc\u00e2ndu-ne lini\u0219titor \u00een bra\u021be c\u00e2nd suntem furio\u0219i \u0219i nedrept\u0103\u021bi\u021bi, accidente ca al lui M\u0103d\u0103lin nu s-ar \u00eent\u00e2mpla. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nu le mai spune\u021bi b\u0103rba\u021bilor c\u0103 sunt miezul universului \u0219i c\u0103 li se cuvin chestii \u0219i n-o s\u0103-i mai culege\u021bi mor\u021bi din copaci. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

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