{"id":26459,"date":"2024-05-08T12:20:31","date_gmt":"2024-05-08T09:20:31","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/?p=26459"},"modified":"2024-05-08T12:36:51","modified_gmt":"2024-05-08T09:36:51","slug":"de-ce-sa-nu-mai-agati-online","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/de-ce-sa-nu-mai-agati-online\/","title":{"rendered":"De ce s\u0103 nu mai ag\u0103\u0163i online"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Bing! Mesaj privat. Te ui\u0163i pe el. Nu e mare lucru, doar ceva de genul \u0103sta, de la o persoan\u0103 pe  care n-ai v\u0103zut-o \u00een via\u0163a ta: <\/p>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter size-large is-resized\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"474\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/image-4.png?resize=474%2C1024&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-26460\" style=\"width:317px;height:auto\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/image-4.png?resize=474%2C1024&amp;ssl=1 474w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/image-4.png?resize=139%2C300&amp;ssl=1 139w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/image-4.png?resize=69%2C150&amp;ssl=1 69w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/image-4.png?resize=768%2C1661&amp;ssl=1 768w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/image-4.png?resize=710%2C1536&amp;ssl=1 710w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/image-4.png?w=947&amp;ssl=1 947w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 474px) 100vw, 474px\" \/><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ce speri s\u0103 ob\u0163ii cu acest tip de comunicare, altceva dec\u00e2t o b\u0103gare lung\u0103 \u00een zon\u0103 intim\u0103 matern\u0103, cu multe  complemente circumstan\u0163iale de loc, de timp \u015fi de mod dac\u0103 persoana are timp \u015fi ai prins-o iritat\u0103? Respectiv un block fulger, dac\u0103 nu? <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u00cen mod paradoxal, \u015fi gigeii de pe siteurile de red pill wanking bocesc lung \u00een  batiste c\u0103 acest tip de ag\u0103\u0163at nu func\u0163ioneaz\u0103. \u015ei totu\u015fi insist\u0103. Insist\u0103 pe la sute de femei pe zi. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">M\u0103 uitam zilele trecute la un clip al unui guru de genul, care se smiorc\u0103ia: \u201eFeminismul a creat o societate  de b\u0103rba\u021bi deprima\u021bi \u0219i singuri\u201d. Nu, nu feminismul i-a creat. Nu feminismul \u00eei pune s\u0103 trateze jum\u0103tate din popula\u021bia globului ca pe carne de tun, \u0219i chiar \u0219i \u00eenainte de feminism, o femeie normal\u0103 ar fi u\u0219uit prompt o astfel de abordare, apoi ar fi pl\u00e2ns o s\u0103pt\u0103m\u00e2n\u0103 c\u0103 e tratat\u0103 ca o femeie u\u0219oar\u0103, s-ar fi spovedit popii, ar fi tr\u0103it trei zile \u00een rug\u0103ciuni \u0219i m\u0103t\u0103nii \u0219i eventual, dac\u0103 ar fi existat social media pe atunci, ar fi \u00eenchis-o cu totul. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ce a modificat feminismul e doar faptul c\u0103 nu respingem astfel de abord\u0103ri din team\u0103 c\u0103 vom fi considerate c***e, ci din stim\u0103 de sine. Nici \u00eenainte, nici dup\u0103 feminism, genul \u0103sta de abordare nu func\u0163iona dec\u00e2t cu lucr\u0103toarele sexuale, dar \u015fi ele \u0163i-ar fi cerut banii \u00eenainte. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Dar una peste alta, c\u00e2nd aceasta e conduita ta online, nu e de mirare c\u0103 e\u015fti deprimat \u015fi singur. Cu sau f\u0103r\u0103 feminism. E\u015fti deprimat \u015fi singur pentru c\u0103 ac\u0163iunile tale te fac s\u0103 fii a\u015fa. Pentru c\u0103 \u00eencerci o abordare umilitoare \u015fi defectuoas\u0103 cu oameni care nu-\u0163i datoreaz\u0103 nimic, \u015fi \u00eenduri consecin\u0163ele propriului comportament. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Alege  s\u0103 nu mai fii deprimat  \u015fi singur. Alege s\u0103 nu mai trimi\u0163i astfel de mesaje. Alege s\u0103 \u00een\u0163elegi c\u0103 dac\u0103 ne doream s\u0103 ne ar\u0103t\u0103m p*** unor necunoscu\u0163i, eram la ora asta pe Chaturbate \u015fi duceam 3.000 de euro acas\u0103 la finalul lunii. Alege s\u0103 \u00een\u0163elegi c\u0103 dac\u0103 ne doream s\u0103 ne co\u0163\u0103im la nimereal\u0103, puneam anun\u0163 pe publi24 \u015fi, din nou, f\u0103ceam b\u0103i\u0163\u0103 \u00een bancnote. Alege s\u0103 tratezi femeile ca pe oameni normali. \u015ei a\u015fa, poate c\u0103 te apropii suficient de una, \u00eenc\u00e2t s\u0103 devin\u0103 interesat\u0103 de tine. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Dar s\u0103 stabilim \u00eenainte de toate un adev\u0103r, care e singurul adev\u0103r, \u015fi anume: <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-medium-font-size wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Ag\u0103\u0163atul online nu func\u0163ioneaz\u0103. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">De ce nu func\u0163ioneaz\u0103? <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>A) Noi nu trat\u0103m social media ca pe un uria\u015f bordel. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Mul\u0163i gigei tr\u0103iesc cu impresia gre\u015fit\u0103 c\u0103 prietenele lor de Facebook caut\u0103 s\u0103 se  cupleze cu aceea\u015fi disperare ca \u015fi ei, \u015fi c\u0103 p\u00e2ndesc fiecare like ca pe un posibil partener. Fetele, \u00een schimb, intr\u0103 pe social media s\u0103 mai r\u00e2d\u0103 de o glum\u0103, s\u0103 mai citeasc\u0103 o \u015ftire, s\u0103 mai povesteasc\u0103 cu prietenii &#8211; <strong>PE  CARE \u00ceI CUNOSC \u015eI CU CARE AU CONSTRUIT DEJA O FAMILIARITATE. <\/strong>Foarte pu\u0163ine intr\u0103 pe social media s\u0103 aga\u0163e, iar dac\u0103 pun multe selfies, de obicei o fac s\u0103 primeasc\u0103 machiaj \u015fi creme gratis de la branduri. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Taman de aceea, majoritatea  au o reac\u0163ie de c\u00e2\u00e2\u00e2\u00e2h chiar dac\u0103 mesajul privat e decent: Bun\u0103, Maricica, vrei s\u0103 ne cunoa\u015ftem? Sigur, dac\u0103 tonul e decent, probabil c\u0103 \u015fi nu-ul va  fi decent, urmat de un mul\u0163umesc. Dar va  fi un nu, nonetheless. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Maricica nu e pe net s\u0103 te cunoasc\u0103. Maricica e pe net \u00een scopuri de entertainment. Dac\u0103 o \u00een\u0163elegi pe asta, nu vei mai da mesaje private finalizate \u00een respingeri \u015fi nu te vei mai sim\u0163i deprimat \u015fi singur. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>B) Majoritatea femeilor sunt s\u0103tule de ag\u0103\u0163at online <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Cum am punctat, multe primesc c\u00e2te zece-dou\u0103zeci de mesaje ca \u0103la de mai sus pe zi. Pentru c\u0103 gigeii de genul trimit acela\u015fi lucru la sute de femei, \u00een speran\u0163a c\u0103 pic\u0103 ceva. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Rezultatul e c\u0103, dup\u0103 ce  prime\u015fti at\u00e2tea gre\u0163o\u015fenii, \u00eencepe s\u0103 \u0163i se aplece. \u015ei s\u0103 \u00ee\u0163i plac\u0103 din ce \u00een ce mai pu\u0163in interac\u0163iunea cu b\u0103rba\u0163ii. Nu e din feminism, ci din repulsia visceral\u0103 pe care \u0163i-o st\u00e2rnesc astfel de tentative de luare de proast\u0103. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">De aceea, majoritatea NU sunt ag\u0103\u0163abile online nici cu siropo\u015fenii, nici cu libidino\u015fenii. Chiar  dac\u0103 tu consideri c\u0103 le-ai \u00eentrebat decent dac\u0103 vor s\u0103 te cunoasc\u0103, reac\u0163ia instinctual\u0103 e \u201edac\u0103 spun nu, o s\u0103 treac\u0103 la obscenit\u0103\u021bi!\u201d <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>C) Femeile sunt seduse de prezen\u021ba fizic\u0103<\/strong> <strong>\u0219i de atitudinea face to face. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Cum se \u00eendr\u0103goste\u0219te o femeie? C\u00e2nd te vede \u0219i te aude. C\u00e2teva litere pe un ecran nu vor avea niciun fel de  impact dac\u0103 nu te cunoa\u0219te, indiferent ce cuvinte formezi cu ele. Pur \u0219i simplu, nu o ating cu nimic, dac\u0103 nu le  asociaz\u0103 unui chip \u0219i unui corp cunoscute. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Taman  de aceea, las\u0103 femeile online \u00een pace \u0219i vezi cum interac\u021bionezi cu cele pe care le \u00eent\u00e2lne\u0219ti face to face. Dac\u0103 fata te place din prima, pentru c\u0103 ar\u0103\u021bi bine, te \u00eengrije\u0219ti \u0219i ai o atitudine agreabil\u0103, jum\u0103tate din conexiune e ca \u0219i f\u0103cut\u0103. Dac\u0103 strici impresia cu gher\u021boieli \u0219i m\u00e2rl\u0103neli, nu doar c\u0103 nu f***i nimic, ci \u00ee\u021bi mai \u0219i creezi un du\u0219man. Nu subestima puterea de r\u0103zbunare a unei femei. Te va lovi c\u00e2nd te vei a\u0219tepta mai pu\u021bin, \u0219i dac\u0103 alegeai pur \u0219i simplu s\u0103 nu fii t\u00e2rlete, nu ajungeai \u00een situa\u021bie. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>D) Nu for\u021ba o familiaritate care nu exist\u0103. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Am o regul\u0103 general\u0103: prefer s\u0103 le vorbesc oamenilor cu \u201edumneavoastr\u0103\u201d \u0219i s\u0103 m\u0103 invite ei s\u0103 ne tutuim dec\u00e2t s\u0103-i iau cu \u201etu\u201d \u0219i s\u0103 risc s\u0103 m\u0103 \u00eentrebe: \u201eDar ce, spargem semin\u021be \u00eempreun\u0103 pe maidan?\u201d. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Polite\u021bea \u0219i respectarea limitelor personale nu dau niciodat\u0103 gre\u0219, pe c\u00e2nd a\u0219a-numitele \u201eglume\u201d impertinente fa\u021b\u0103 de necunoscu\u021bi \u0219i, \u00een special, necunoscute, da. Reamintesc: femeile de azi au aceast\u0103 traum\u0103 a sutelor de gre\u021bo\u0219enii \u0219i libidino\u0219enii primite de la dubio\u0219i online. Da, chiar \u0219i cele mai cumin\u021bele, cele care nu se pozeaz\u0103 incitant, cele care pun poze cu iubitul, sau cu copiii. Pentru mul\u021bi din dubio\u0219ii \u0103ia, faptul c\u0103 ai iubit e doar o provocare \u00een plus. Prin urmare, majoritatea femeilor reac\u021bioneaz\u0103 cu furie visceral\u0103 la \u00eenc\u0103 o tentativ\u0103 de tragere de br\u0103cinari de la Mirel din Turnu-M\u0103gurele.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Poate c\u0103 asta ar  trebui s\u0103 fie o materie \u0219colar\u0103, \u00een loc de religie: bunele maniere cu necunoscu\u021bi. Nu neap\u0103rat temenele \u0219i plec\u0103ciuni, dar un ton civilizat \u0219i respectuos. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Pentru c\u0103 dup\u0103 ce \u00eei repezi de nu se v\u0103d, tot gher\u021boii \u00eencep s\u0103 rag\u0103 c\u0103 nu e\u0219ti elegant\u0103. P\u0103i, ofer\u0103-mi prilejul s\u0103 fiu elegant\u0103, imbecilule. Ofer\u0103 civiliza\u021bie dac\u0103 vrei civiliza\u021bie, ofer\u0103 respect dac\u0103 vrei respect, ofer\u0103 dac\u0103 vrei s\u0103 prime\u0219ti. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Dac\u0103 am tr\u0103i \u00eentr-un univers \u00een care to\u021bi gigeii sunt civiliza\u021bi, eu a\u0219 fi doamna absolut\u0103. \u00cen ACEST univers, \u00eemi rezerv domnia pentru domni \u0219i mor\u021bii de mam\u0103 pentru melteni jego\u0219i. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>E) \u0218i totu\u0219i, Lorena, sunt femei care trimit mesaje obscene. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">P\u0103i da, pentru c\u0103 la b\u0103rba\u021bi \u021bine. G\u00e2ndi\u021bi-v\u0103 la  defunctele 8989, unde gigeii pl\u0103teau s\u0103 aud\u0103 gemete \u0219i s\u0103 primeasc\u0103 mesaje pline de obscenit\u0103\u021bi de la nimeni \u00een mod special. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">A\u0219a \u0219i ag\u0103\u021batul online: func\u021bioneaz\u0103 c\u00e2nd \u00eel ini\u021biaz\u0103 femeia. Asta \u0219i pentru c\u0103 \u00een general femeia are o art\u0103 a seduc\u021biei, \u0219tie s\u0103 te ia \u00eencet \u0219i s\u0103 te duc\u0103 cu z\u0103h\u0103relul de nu \u0219tii nici tu ce te-a luat. Nu \u00eencepe direct cu \u201dAno, trimite poz\u0103 cu p***a\u201d, ca boul din screenshotul de mai sus. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u00cen concluzie: dac\u0103 sunte\u021bi horny, merge\u021bi pe publi24 \u0219i rezolva\u021bi-v\u0103 problemele. \u0218i men\u021bine\u021bi interac\u021biunile online civilizate. \u00cen primul r\u00e2nd pentru voi \u00een\u0219iv\u0103. Oricum nu v\u0103 bag\u0103 nimeni \u00een seam\u0103 cu astfel de agariceli, dec\u00e2t pentru o \u00eenjur\u0103tur\u0103 sau un block. \u0218i \u00een timpul \u0103la, putea\u021bi face ceva util. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">***<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Dac\u0103 apreciezi acest articol, po\u021bi sus\u021bine la r\u00e2ndul t\u0103u site-ul \u00een singurul mod care conteaz\u0103.&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/www.paypal.com\/paypalme\/Trollywood\"><strong>Aici<\/strong><\/a>.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Bing! Mesaj privat. Te ui\u0163i pe el. Nu e mare lucru, doar ceva de genul \u0103sta, de la o persoan\u0103 pe care n-ai v\u0103zut-o&#46;&#46;&#46;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":20433,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":true,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2},"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-26459","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-spicy"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/online.jpg?fit=640%2C426&ssl=1","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_likes_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/26459","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=26459"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/26459\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":26462,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/26459\/revisions\/26462"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/20433"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=26459"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=26459"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=26459"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}