{"id":26491,"date":"2024-05-14T11:09:33","date_gmt":"2024-05-14T08:09:33","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/?p=26491"},"modified":"2024-05-14T21:39:14","modified_gmt":"2024-05-14T18:39:14","slug":"despotismul-fustei","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/despotismul-fustei\/","title":{"rendered":"Despotismul fustei"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>Ieri a venit o gr\u0103mad\u0103 de p*lime pe paginile mele s\u0103 \u021bipe asurzitor c\u0103 se simte amenin\u021bat\u0103 de un c\u00e2nt\u0103re\u021b \u00een fust\u0103 care c\u00e2\u0219tig\u0103 un concurs. Chit c\u0103 \u0219i popa de la ei din cartier tot fust\u0103 poart\u0103. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Unu la m\u00e2n\u0103; muzicianul \u0103la nu are preten\u021bia s\u0103-\u021bi spun\u0103 \u021bie cum s\u0103 tr\u0103ie\u0219ti. Nici un activist LGBTQ+ nu a venit vreodat\u0103 la o persoan\u0103 hetero s\u0103-i spun\u0103 c\u0103 ar trebui s\u0103-\u0219i schimbe stilul de via\u021b\u0103, orientarea, identitatea \u0219i s\u0103  poarte fust\u0103 de m\u00e2ine. Tu faci ce vrei cu via\u021ba ta, eu vreau pur \u0219i simplu libertatea s\u0103 o tr\u0103iesc pe a mea. Cam asta e ideea de baz\u0103 a discursului LGBTQ+. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u00cen schimb, exist\u0103 o categorie de oameni care \u021bine foarte tare s\u0103-\u021bi spun\u0103 ce s\u0103 faci cu via\u021ba ta. Oameni ca tanti asta. Nu i-am mai g\u0103sit clipul pe TikTok, c\u0103 pe TikTok e ca \u0219i cum cau\u021bi acul \u00een carul cu f\u00e2n. Dar a postat-o un suflet binevoitor pe Facebook: <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><iframe loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/plugins\/video.php?height=476&#038;href=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.facebook.com%2FMirelCalebAxinte%2Fvideos%2F1338267270173637%2F&#038;show_text=false&#038;width=219&#038;t=0\" width=\"219\" height=\"476\" style=\"border:none;overflow:hidden\" scrolling=\"no\" frameborder=\"0\" allowfullscreen=\"true\" allow=\"autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; picture-in-picture; web-share\" allowFullScreen=\"true\"><\/iframe><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Nu-i a\u015fa c\u0103, p\u00e2n\u0103 la final, ajungi s\u0103 ur\u0103\u015fti acel \u201edraga mea\u201d mieros \u0219i infuzat de superioritate, \u0219i aproape c\u0103 ai prefera s\u0103-\u021bi spun\u0103 \u201eb\u0103i, proasto\u201d?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Tanti asta e din ceva sect\u0103 oplo\u0219it\u0103 pe TikTok ca o infesta\u021bie de g\u00e2ndaci \u00eentr-un bloc din Obor. \u0218i \u0103\u0219tia sunt agasan\u021bi \u0219i insisten\u021bi ca r\u00e2ia.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Eu nu m\u0103 duc niciodat\u0103 s\u0103-i caut s\u0103 le spun c\u0103 sunt pro\u0219ti, pentru c\u0103 1. nu e treaba mea c\u0103 sunt pro\u0219ti, c\u0103 nu sunt pro\u0219ti pe banii mei \u0219i 2. prefer s\u0103 m\u0103 concentrez s\u0103-mi cresc contul meu, dec\u00e2t s\u0103 b\u00e2z\u00e2i aiurea pe ale lor. Dar ei-ele nu \u00eencap de existen\u021ba mea. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>De c\u00e2te ori mi se nimeresc c\u00e2teva specimene pe un video sau un live, se apuc\u0103 s\u0103 m\u0103 agaseze cu Domnul Nostru, cu Calea Cea Dreapt\u0103, cu faptul c\u0103 ar trebui s\u0103-mi las p\u0103r lung \u0219i s\u0103 nu m\u0103 mai machiez, singurul mod \u00een care scap de ele e s\u0103 le elimin din live sau \u00eencaz de recidiv\u0103, s\u0103 le dau block.  Sunt at\u00e2t de convin\u0219i \/ convinse c\u0103 numai ce au ei \/ ele de cotcod\u0103cit conteaz\u0103, trec peste ce ai tu de spus ca intercity prin D\u00e2rste \u0219i \u00eencep s\u0103 te pis\u0103logeasc\u0103 necru\u021b\u0103tor cu narativa \u0219i nu le po\u021bi transmite ideea c\u0103 nu e\u0219ti interesat\u0103 s\u0103 fii convertit\u0103, nici cu diploma\u021bia, nici cu mor\u021bii de mam\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Eu \u00eenc\u0103 nu \u0219tiu de o persoan\u0103 gay, sau trans, care s\u0103 vin\u0103 pe contul t\u0103u, s\u0103 \u00eenceap\u0103 s\u0103 te cic\u0103leasc\u0103 sufocant c\u0103 de m\u00e2ine te f \u00een c, fie c\u0103 vrei, fie c\u0103 nu, \u0219i te ia mama dreq dac\u0103 nu o ascul\u021bi. A\u0219a cum fac propagandi\u0219tii \u0103\u0219tia religio\u0219i. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u0218i cum drepturile femeii au fost mereu fragile prin aceast\u0103 parte a Europei, trebuie s\u0103 recunosc c\u0103 m\u0103 tem de acest tip de indivizi ca de cancer la ovare.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Un singur lucru nu m\u0103 intereseaz\u0103 \u00een via\u021b\u0103: s\u0103 ajung o femeie smerit\u0103. Femeia smerit\u0103 e cea mai lipsit\u0103 de coloan\u0103 vertical\u0103 fiin\u021b\u0103 din lume. Orice gigel cu tupeu se \u0219terge cu ea \u00een fiecare cotlon al anusului, \u0219i pe fa\u021b\u0103, \u0219i pe dos. De aceea, trucurile de pick up arti\u0219ti sunt concepute anume pentru femei smerite, care sunt \u0219i nef*tute din cretacicul timpuriu, ca s\u0103 nu punctez c\u0103 interac\u021biunea cu ele e nepl\u0103cut\u0103 din prima \u0219i p\u00e2n\u0103 \u00een unica secund\u0103. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>E o performan\u021b\u0103 s\u0103 fii iritant \u0219i plictisitor \u00een acela\u0219i timp, dar femeile smerite o reu\u0219esc. Plictisitoare cu spume prin monotonia a ce abereaz\u0103, dar iritante cu spume prin preten\u021bia c\u0103 ele \u0219tiu ce s\u0103 faci cu via\u021ba ta. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Iar legat de obliga\u021bia de a purta fust\u0103 \u0219i \u00een timpul iernii, am de spus doar at\u00e2t: NO. FOOKING. WAY. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Nu risc eu o infec\u021bie urinar\u0103 pentru m\u00e2ntuirea sufletului, sorry. Mi se fix f\u00e2lf\u00e2ie ce cred poc\u0103i\u021bii c\u0103 ar crede Dumnezeu pe subiect. Oricum, c\u00e2nd s-a scris Biblia, toat\u0103 lumea purta ve\u0219mintele alea lungi \u0219i albe, deci fusta era obligatorie pentru ambele genuri, c\u0103 pantalonii nu se inventaser\u0103, \u0219i \u00een c\u0103ldura insuportabil\u0103 a de\u0219ertului, ar fi fost inutil s\u0103 se inventeze.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Dar asta e o zon\u0103 friguroas\u0103, unde p\u0103s\u0103rica noastr\u0103 are nevoie de pantaloni s\u0103 se simt\u0103 protejat\u0103 corespunz\u0103tor, iar dac\u0103 asta nu e feminitate, sunt preg\u0103tit\u0103 s\u0103 renun\u021b la feminitate cu totul. Oricum mi-a adus doar lips\u0103 de respect, permanente tentative de la diver\u0219i s\u0103 \u00eemi minimalizeze varii munci, s\u0103 fure credittul pentru ele \u0219i s\u0103 caute s\u0103 m\u0103 pl\u0103teasc\u0103 c\u00e2t mai pu\u021bin \u0219i mult\u0103, mult\u0103 obr\u0103znicie pocnibil\u0103 peste bot de la diver\u0219i gigei online \u0219i offline. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ca s\u0103 nu m\u0103 lungesc, c\u0103 se lunge\u0219te oaia Domnului destul \u00een videoul ei \u0219i poate ave\u021bi treab\u0103: dac\u0103 voi vedea vreodat\u0103 vreun Nemo insist\u00e2nd a\u0219a pe la b\u0103rba\u021bi c\u0103 ar fi cazul s\u0103 poarte to\u021bi fust\u0103, voi \u00een\u021belege crizele unora legate de comunitatea LGBTQ+. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Dar sper s\u0103 nu apuc ziua c\u00e2nd \u021bip\u0103 pro\u0219tii la tine pe strad\u0103 s\u0103 te duci \u00een cas\u0103 \u0219i s\u0103 revii cu fust\u0103, c\u0103 altfel e\u0219ti o c**\u0103. C\u0103 \u00een ziua aia \u00eemi voi tatua frumos pe frunte cu litere gotice. \u201eDa, oilor, sunt o c&#8230;v\u0103!\u201d \u0219i voi defila \u00een continuare \u00een blugii mei slim fit care \u00eemi pun c**rul mare c\u00e2t China \u00een eviden\u021b\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>***<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Dac\u0103 apreciezi acest articol, po\u021bi sus\u021bine la r\u00e2ndul t\u0103u site-ul \u00een singurul mod care conteaz\u0103.&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/www.paypal.com\/paypalme\/Trollywood\"><strong>Aici<\/strong><\/a>. Pentru dona\u021bii de 50 de euro sau mai mult, \u00eemi po\u021bi propune tu un subiect. 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