{"id":26538,"date":"2024-05-26T11:50:28","date_gmt":"2024-05-26T08:50:28","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/?p=26538"},"modified":"2024-05-26T12:00:41","modified_gmt":"2024-05-26T09:00:41","slug":"nu-nu-ti-doresti-o-femeie-agresiva","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/nu-nu-ti-doresti-o-femeie-agresiva\/","title":{"rendered":"Nu, nu-\u0163i dore\u015fti o femeie agresiv\u0103"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

Ieri, am repostat o po\u015ft\u0103 a redac\u0163iei – pe care o pute\u0163i citi aici<\/strong><\/a>. Un tip \u00eemi scrie c\u0103 l-a abordat o individ\u0103 extrem de agresiv pe Insta, cu nuduri \u015fi invita\u0163ii la ac\u0163iune, \u015fi c\u00e2nd el a refuzat, pentru c\u0103 nu-i pl\u0103cea genul acesta de agresivitate, aia a \u00eenceput s\u0103-l \u00eenjure \u015fi s\u0103-l fac\u0103 \u00een toate felurile. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Fetele au fost de acord cu mine, block nebunei, nu st\u0103m la discu\u0163ii \u00een aceast\u0103 manier\u0103, pa\u015fol na turbinca. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Dar, spre surprinderea mea, o parte din audien\u0163a masculin\u0103 a reac\u0163ionat horny. OMG, \u015fi zici c\u0103 \u00ee\u0163i trimitea nuduri? OMG, \u015fi zici c\u0103 te chema la ea acas\u0103, f\u0103r\u0103 curte, romantism \u015fi restul t\u00e2mpeniilor? De ce norocul d\u0103 doar peste pro\u015fti? <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Crede\u0163i-m\u0103, prieteni, NU vre\u0163i genul \u0103sta de noroc. NU \u00eel vre\u0163i. NU vre\u0163i s\u0103 vi se urce o psihopat\u0103 \u00een cap \u015fi s\u0103 \u00eenceap\u0103 s\u0103 v\u0103 frece la icre. E tortur\u0103 pur\u0103 (& not the sexy kind). <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ca efect al vibeului meu androgin, am avut destule femei c\u0103rora li s-a pus pata pe mine de-a lungul istoriei. \u015ei printre ele, c\u00e2teva psihopate demente obsedate, de care nu izbuteam s\u0103 scap nici cu explica\u0163ia bl\u00e2nd\u0103, nici cu mar\u015f \u00een mor\u0163ii t\u0103i, nici cu blockul, pentru c\u0103 \u00ee\u015fi f\u0103ceau urm\u0103torul cont fake \u00een urm\u0103toarele 50 de secunde \u015fi erau din nou ciotc\u0103 pe capul meu. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

1. Psihopata te va pis\u0103logi nonstop, la orice or\u0103 din zi \u015fi din noapte <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Naivul care se declar\u0103 \u00eenc\u00e2ntat de abordarea cu nuduri \u015fi co\u0163\u0103ial\u0103 din prima crede c\u0103 f** ceva, apoi \u00ee\u015fi vede lini\u015ftit de via\u0163\u0103. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

UHM, not the case. Asta merge cu o s*** workeri\u0163\u0103 pe care o pl\u0103te\u015fti, care e con\u015ftient\u0103 c\u0103 are loc o tranzac\u0163ie \u015fi care nu are alte preten\u0163ii de la tine.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Psihopata ARE MEREU ALTE PRETEN\u0162II DE LA TINE, \u015fi partea cu adev\u0103rat psihopat\u0103 e c\u0103 nu le prezint\u0103 \u00een avans, s\u0103 decizi dac\u0103 vrei superoferta sau mai bine pas. \u015ei ce e cu adev\u0103rat cringe e faptul c\u0103 SE CONSIDER\u0102 \u00ceNDREPT\u0102\u0162IT\u0102 LA ORICE, c\u0103 doar ai f***t-o. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Prostul se treze\u015fte \u00eentr-o situa\u0163ie \u00een care nu poate s\u0103 respire, pentru c\u0103 nebuna e peste tot, omniprezent\u0103 \u015fi omniscient\u0103, \u015fi are mereu ceva s\u0103-\u0163i bage pe g\u00e2t. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

2. \u015ei teroarea psihopatei e mai eficient\u0103 psihologic<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Sunt un om care a fost h\u0103r\u0163uit \u015fi de b\u0103rba\u0163i refuza\u0163i, \u015fi de femei refuzate. \u015ei pot face o compara\u0163ie. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

B\u0103rbatul refuzat care nu \u00een\u0163elege ideea de refuz de obicei e prost. Insultele lui sunt \u201ee\u0219ti o c***\u0103, o nef**t\u0103 \u0219i o materialist\u0103\u201d, iar pe astea le-a auzit orice femeie cu un cont pe social media de milioane de ori. Oftezi \u201e\u00eenc\u0103 un bou\u201d \u0219i-i dai block, f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103 te ating\u0103 prea mult. Mai mult te enervezi de c\u00e2t poate fi de idiot, dar nu te sim\u021bi vizat, pentru c\u0103 e scriptul generic \u201e\u00eenjur\u0103m femei care nu se f.\u201d <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Femeia refuzat\u0103 care are o obsesie \u0219tie totul despre tine. \u0218i se apuc\u0103 s\u0103 te jigneasc\u0103 \u00een moduri care ating toate traumele tale din copil\u0103rie, s\u0103 te loveasc\u0103 cu ni\u0219te c\u0103caturi incredibil de subtile \u0219i de tic\u0103loase, care pe unul mai fragil l-ar putea face praf. Evident c\u0103 un om cu experien\u021b\u0103 \u00een bullying e imun. Dar discu\u021bia tot te umple de to\u021bi nervii p\u0103m\u00e2ntului, pentru c\u0103 nu-\u021bi vine s\u0103 crezi unde se duce nebuna insuportabil\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

3. \u0218i nu prea exist\u0103 pace. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

B\u0103rbatul e o fiin\u021b\u0103 cu nevoi simple. Dac\u0103 \u00eel \u021bii hr\u0103nit, sp\u0103lat \u0219i f**t, e bine. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nebuna psihopat\u0103 nu e niciodat\u0103 mul\u021bumit\u0103. Mereu, dar mereu are s\u0103-\u021bi repro\u0219eze un mic rahat insignifiant \u00een marea schem\u0103 a lucrurilor, dar care pentru ea e motiv de dram\u0103 exact atunci. Se hr\u0103ne\u0219te din isterie \u0219i din certuri, \u0219i din furia ta la o nou\u0103 \u00eenc\u0103lcare a limitelor personale. \u0218i din nou, nu ai cum s\u0103 o faci s\u0103 \u00eenceteze: dac\u0103 \u00eencerci s-o \u00eempaci, \u00ee\u021bi cere o m\u00e2n\u0103 \u0219i un picior, dac\u0103 \u00eencepi s\u0103 \u00eenjuri, e \u00een elementul ei, pentru c\u0103 \u00eei place scandalul la nebunie, \u0219i dac\u0103 treci la violen\u021b\u0103 fizic\u0103, are poli\u021bia pe speed dial \u0219i e victim\u0103 nevinovat\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

E un joc cu c\u00e2\u0219tig zero, din care ie\u0219i cu nervii praf \u0219i via\u021ba franjuri, indiferent cum \u00eencerci s\u0103-l joci. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

4. \u0218i nici evitatul nu merge. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Dup\u0103 un timp, c\u00e2nd vezi c\u0103 nu merge cu bini\u0219orul, \u0219i nici cu tuzguram\u0103tii, decizi c\u0103 e mai simplu s\u0103 mimezi c\u0103 nu exist\u0103 \u0219i s\u0103 ocole\u0219ti cu cercuri largi locurile pe care le frecventeaz\u0103. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ei, bine, dar psihopata \u0219tie totul despre tine. Deja are 100 de conturi fake, unele cu care te comenteaz\u0103 doar pozitiv \u0219i nice, \u0219i nu \u0219tii care-s alea, c\u0103 au tone de content pe ele \u0219i par reale. \u00ce\u021bi apare la munc\u0103 \u0219i pe la evenimente, \u00ee\u021bi bag\u0103 scrisori cu amenin\u021b\u0103ri \u00een cutia po\u0219tal\u0103 \u0219i \u00ee\u021bi sun\u0103 la u\u0219\u0103 noaptea la 3. Mai exact, se propte\u0219te \u00een sonerie cu o m\u00e2n\u0103 \u0219i bubuie \u00een u\u0219\u0103 cu cealalt\u0103. Dac\u0103 eram americani din suburbie. care nu-\u0219i \u00eencuie u\u0219ile de la intrare, probabil c\u0103 \u00ee\u021bi \u0219i fierbea iepura\u0219ul. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ah, \u0219i partea cea mai halucinant\u0103 e cum vezi c\u0103 brusc to\u021bi cunoscu\u021bii t\u0103i sunt mari pretenari cu ea, to\u021bi \u00eei cred minciunile \u0219i to\u021bi au brusc s\u0103-\u021bi repro\u0219eze lucruri. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Pe scurt: dac\u0103 o femeie se apuc\u0103 din senin \u0219i f\u0103r\u0103 flirt prealabil s\u0103 te umple de nuduri \u0219i de \u201ehai pe la mine, puiu\u021b\u201d, e RED FLAG. Dac\u0103 trece la \u00eenjur\u0103turi c\u00e2nd tu nu te execu\u021bi, e parad\u0103 comunist\u0103 de red flags. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

D\u0103-i block \u0219i f\u0103 o lab\u0103. O fi plictisitoare via\u021ba ta de acum, dar m\u0103car nu e thriller psihologic cu tine pe post de victim\u0103. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Dac\u0103 apreciezi acest articol, po\u021bi sus\u021bine la r\u00e2ndul t\u0103u site-ul \u00een singurul mod care conteaz\u0103. Aici<\/strong><\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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