{"id":26563,"date":"2024-06-05T09:32:35","date_gmt":"2024-06-05T06:32:35","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/?p=26563"},"modified":"2024-06-05T09:32:39","modified_gmt":"2024-06-05T06:32:39","slug":"despre-dragoste-si-alte-nevoi","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/despre-dragoste-si-alte-nevoi\/","title":{"rendered":"Despre dragoste \u0219i alte nevoi"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

De c\u00e2te ori fac live pe TikTok, apar subiecte ciud\u0103\u021bele din mul\u021bime. \u0218i eu caut s\u0103 le tratez cu onestitate, pentru c\u0103 a\u0219a afli lucruri \u0219i despre al\u021bii, \u0219i despre tine. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ieri, m\u0103 \u00eentreab\u0103 un b\u0103iat: Dac\u0103 ai fi \u00eentr-o rela\u021bie stabil\u0103, l-ai l\u0103sa pe iubitul t\u0103u s\u0103 intre \u00een baie cu alte treburi c\u00e2nd tu faci treaba maronie? <\/p>\n\n\n\n

R\u0103spunsul a fost brusc \u0219i prompt: <\/p>\n\n\n\n

-Nu! <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0218i el: <\/p>\n\n\n\n

-Dar dac\u0103 nu l-ar deranja? <\/p>\n\n\n\n

-M\u0103i, e amuzant cum, \u00een mintea b\u0103rba\u021bilor, totul e numai despre voi \u0219i ce v\u0103 sup\u0103r\u0103 sau nu pe voi. M-ar deranja pe mine! <\/p>\n\n\n\n

-De ce? <\/p>\n\n\n\n

-\u00cen via\u021ba omului, exist\u0103 un moment sf\u00e2nt, intim, de singur\u0103tate \u0219i introspec\u021bie, zic eu. Momentul sacru al c\u0103c\u0103rii. E momentul \u00een care ai nevoie s\u0103 fii cu tine \u0219i at\u00e2t, \u0219i de-asta exist\u0103 l\u0103n\u021bi\u0219oare cu z\u0103vor \u00een baia oric\u0103rei familii civilizate. Ce pot face pentru bunul mers al rela\u021biei e s\u0103 anun\u021b c\u0103 m\u0103 duc s\u0103 m\u0103 cac \u0219i s\u0103-\u021bi iei ce crezi c\u0103-\u021bi trebuie din baie pentru urm\u0103toarele zece minute.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0218i m-a pocnit o amintire. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

-Uite, c\u00e2nd eram feti\u021b\u0103, maic\u0103-mea ne \u00eenc\u0103lca f\u0103r\u0103 urm\u0103 de decen\u021b\u0103 toate, TOATE limitele personale. P\u00e2n\u0103 \u00een punctul \u00een care am b\u0103nuit c-o f\u0103cea doar de-al dracului. De exemplu, c\u00e2nd m\u0103 duceam s\u0103 fac trebu\u0219oara mare, MEREU, MEREU avea de cotrob\u0103it \u0219i de tr\u00e2ntit ceva \u00een dul\u0103piorul din baie, \u00een timp ce eu muream pe interior de frustrare c\u0103 nu m\u0103 pot desc\u0103rca emo\u021bional \u00een lini\u0219te. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

La un moment dat, am \u00eencercat, copil mic fiind, s-o rog s\u0103 nu mai intre peste mine. Mi-a f\u0103cut o criz\u0103 interminabil\u0103 de isterie \u0219i de atunci, cum m\u0103 duceam s\u0103 m\u0103 cac, era cu asisten\u021b\u0103, s\u0103 m\u0103 \u00eenv\u0103\u021b minte c\u0103 dac\u0103 maic\u0103-mea vrea s\u0103 fie martor la c\u0103care, va fi martor la c\u0103care \u0219i aia e.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Cam atunci am \u0219i luat decizia c\u0103, la maturitate, voi \u021bine de singur\u0103tate cu din\u021bii, pentru c\u0103, dup\u0103 cum spunea Sartre, infernul sunt ceilal\u021bi. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0218tii c\u00e2nd am \u0219tiut c\u0103 m-am maturizat? Aveam 24 de ani \u0219i m\u0103 dusesem la Sf\u00e2ntu Gheorghe s\u0103 schimb buletinul. \u0218i ca de obicei, c\u00e2nd m-am dus la bud\u0103, maic\u0103-mea a dat s\u0103 se n\u0103pusteasc\u0103. Am pus piciorul \u00een u\u0219\u0103 \u0219i am strigat de din\u0103untru: \u201eOCUPAAAAT!!!!\u201d Ea: \u201e\u00cemi trebuie nu \u0219tiu ce.\u201d Eu: \u201eO s\u0103 a\u0219tep\u021bi cu nu \u0219tiu ce p\u00e2n\u0103 auzi tragerea apei, \u0219i \u0103la e semnalul t\u0103u c\u0103 buda e liber\u0103.\u201d <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0218i am pus un picior \u00een u\u0219\u0103, \u0219i am opus rezisten\u021b\u0103, p\u00e2n\u0103 a plecat bomb\u0103nind c\u0103 \u00eei fac plozii reguli \u00een casa ei. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

M\u0103 \u00eentreb \u0219i acum dac\u0103 maic\u0103-mea \u00eemi savura cu sadism disconfortul sau avea un feti\u0219 cu parfumul irezistibil al c\u0103c\u0103rii mele. Either way, acolo i-am pus o limit\u0103 \u0219i de atunci, cu mult\u0103 fermitate, am impus regula: te anun\u021b c\u0103 merg s\u0103 m\u0103 cac, tu \u00ee\u021bi iei ce-\u021bi trebuie din baie \u0219i \u00eemi respec\u021bi intimitatea.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nu vreau s\u0103 v\u0103d pe nimeni cum se cac\u0103 \u0219i nu vreau s\u0103 se uite la mine cum m\u0103 cac. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201eDar Lorena, eu \u0219i nevast\u0103-mea Cerasela ne c\u0103c\u0103m at\u00e2t de armonios \u00eempreun\u0103, \u00eenc\u00e2t vis\u0103m la o bud\u0103 cu dou\u0103 vase de WC al\u0103turate, s\u0103 ne c\u0103c\u0103m \u021bin\u00e2ndu-ne de m\u00e2n\u0103.\u201d <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Treaba voastr\u0103. Whatever floats your boat. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Din punctul meu de vedere, e a\u0219a: num\u0103rul de divor\u021buri e at\u00e2t de mare, oamenii \u00ee\u0219i pierd dragostea, dorin\u021ba \u0219i atrac\u021bia reciproc\u0103 TOCMAI pentru c\u0103 renun\u021b\u0103 complet la mister \u0219i \u00eencep s\u0103 se b\u0103\u0219easc\u0103 \u0219i se cace \u00eempr\u0103\u0219tiat unul pe l\u00e2ng\u0103 cel\u0103lalt.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Dac\u0103 te vedea \u00een prima sear\u0103 cufurindu-te cu susur, garantat nu se \u00eendr\u0103gostea de tine. \u0218i dac\u0103 te bazezi prea mult pe acea mare dragoste \u0219i \u00eencepi s\u0103 \u00eei ar\u0103\u021bi lui iubi ce c\u0103cat \u00een form\u0103 de Turnul Eiffel ai produs, \u0219ansele sunt s\u0103 \u00eei treac\u0103 orice urm\u0103 de pasiune \u0219i de fior \u0219i s\u0103 te treze\u0219ti cu cererea de divor\u021b c\u00e2nd \u021bi-e lumea mai drag\u0103. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Da, inclusiv c\u00e2nd sunte\u021bi \u00een etapa de iubire cu n\u0103b\u0103d\u0103i, p\u0103streaz\u0103 o urm\u0103 de demnitate \u0219i de elegan\u021b\u0103. Las\u0103-i loc s\u0103 poat\u0103 visa la tine \u00een continuare ca la o persoan\u0103 frumoas\u0103 \u0219i dezirabil\u0103..<\/p>\n\n\n\n

-P\u0103i da, dar dac\u0103 tu dai b\u0103\u0219ini la toalet\u0103 \u0219i partenerul e pe hol \u0219i te aude? <\/p>\n\n\n\n

-Nu m\u0103 aude, c\u0103 iau laptopul \u0219i pun Rammstein. S\u0103 se bucure tot blocul de reverbul lui \u201eDuuu, duuu hast, duuu hast mich.\u201d <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00cen rest, vreau \u0219i eu punctul vostru de vedere pe subiect. Care e rela\u021bia voastr\u0103 cu c\u0103carea partenerului \u0219i reciproc? Sunt eu ie\u0219it\u0103 din comun s\u0103 nu vreau martori c\u00e2nd \u00eemi eliberez intestinul gros? <\/p>\n\n\n\n

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