{"id":26574,"date":"2024-06-08T11:10:41","date_gmt":"2024-06-08T08:10:41","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/?p=26574"},"modified":"2024-06-08T11:10:44","modified_gmt":"2024-06-08T08:10:44","slug":"cum-treci-repede-peste-despartiri","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/cum-treci-repede-peste-despartiri\/","title":{"rendered":"Cum treci repede peste desp\u0103r\u021biri"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ieri, m-am \u00eent\u00e2lnit cu o cuno\u0219tin\u021b\u0103 pe care n-o v\u0103zusem de mult timp. Ea fusese \u00eentr-o rela\u021bie de mare iubire cu n\u0103b\u0103d\u0103i cu un b\u0103iat. S\u0103-i zicem Andrei. Dup\u0103 desp\u0103r\u021birea lor, nu s-a mai nimerit s\u0103 m\u0103 \u00eent\u00e2lnesc cu ea. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">M-am bucurat s-o v\u0103d, am intrat \u00een vorb\u0103 prietene\u0219te despre diverse, \u0219i de la una la alta, mi-a m\u0103rturisit c\u0103 sufer\u0103 foarte mult dup\u0103 Andrei, c\u0103 nu suport\u0103 g\u00e2ndul la un alt b\u0103rbat \u0219i c\u0103 e \u00eentr-o depresie constant\u0103. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Normal, zice\u021bi voi. S\u0103raca. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Dar e un am\u0103nunt, care v\u0103 va face s\u0103 v\u0103 r\u0103zg\u00e2ndi\u021bi: de la desp\u0103r\u021bire au trecut vreo trei ani! <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Eu nu sunt omul care s\u0103-\u021bi pl\u00e2ng\u0103 fals de mil\u0103 \u0219i s\u0103 te lase s\u0103 te scalzi \u00een propriul BS, a\u0219a c\u0103 i-am zis: Trei ani sunt un timp foarte lung. Nu zic s\u0103 te combini cu altul dac\u0103 nu te atrage nimeni, dar sugerez c\u0103 ai putea s\u0103 faci un efort con\u0219tient \u0219i voluntar de a pune cap\u0103t st\u0103rii de boceal\u0103 de dup\u0103 o rela\u021bie. \u00cen primul r\u00e2nd pentru tine \u0219i calitatea vie\u021bii tale. Una e s\u0103 \u00ee\u021bi tr\u0103ie\u0219ti fiecare zi cu bucuria c\u0103 e\u0219ti un om liber \u0219i po\u021bi s\u0103 faci ce vrei tu; alta e s\u0103 te \u00eenchizi \u00eentr-o colivie artificial\u0103 a suferin\u021bei \u0219i s\u0103 nu vezi p\u0103durea din cauza copacilor. Mai exact, din cauza copacilor care au fost acolo acum trei ani. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">P\u0103i, da, \u0219tiu, dar eu \u00eel iubeeeesc&#8230;  <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u0218tiu c\u0103 sunt multe femei care \u00eenc\u0103 viseaz\u0103, zece ani mai t\u00e2rziu, la unul \u0219i acela\u0219i m\u00e2ndru fecior care le-a r\u0103v\u0103\u0219it sufletul la un moment dat. Unele se pl\u00e2ng prietenelor. Altele sufer\u0103 \u00een t\u0103cere. Pentru voi, toate, iat\u0103 metoda Lorena Lupu de dep\u0103\u0219it rela\u021bii \u00een mod rapid \u0219i eficient. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>A) Asigur\u0103-te \u00eent\u00e2i c\u0103 nu mai e nici o \u0219ans\u0103 pe bune. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">D\u0103 \u0219i tu un mesaj random de \u201eCe mai faci? Mi-e dor de tine.\u201d  Uneori, \u0219i fl\u0103c\u0103ul se nimere\u0219te s\u0103 fie nostalgic, dar cum b\u0103rba\u021bii sunt extrem de la\u0219i pe plan emo\u021bional \u0219i speria\u021bi de respingere, \u00eei e mai fric\u0103 s\u0103 te contacteze dec\u00e2t \u00ee\u021bi e \u021bie. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Dar dac\u0103 \u00eei arunci o firimitur\u0103, prinde ideea \u0219i-\u0219i face curaj. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Dac\u0103 r\u0103spunde cu un sictir arogant \u0219i rece, \u021bi-e clar c\u0103 trenul a plecat din gar\u0103, aia e, vine altul, sau dac\u0103 nu au chef de altul, po\u021bi cu avionul, cu BlaBlaCar sau cu c\u0103ru\u021ba. Dup\u0103 preferin\u021be. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>B) Refuz\u0103-\u021bi con\u0219tient \u0219i voluntar amintirile de tipul \u201eCe frumos era c\u00e2nd&#8230;\u201d <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Astea sunt bestiile care te \u021bin \u00een capcana unei amintiri care te \u00eempiedic\u0103 s\u0103 tr\u0103ie\u0219ti \u00een prezent. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">V-am tot povestit de divor\u021bul dintre p\u0103rin\u021bii mei, \u0219i cum maic\u0103-mea, 30 de ani mai t\u00e2rziu, bocea tot despre cum a iubit-o taic\u0103-miu \u00een perioada de curte \u0219i cum a neglijat-o \u0219i a tratat-o na\u0219pa \u00een timpul c\u0103s\u0103toriei. Modul \u00een care femeia asta nu a \u0219tiut s\u0103-\u0219i creeze o via\u021b\u0103, odat\u0103 ie\u0219it\u0103 de acolo, \u0219i a continuat s\u0103 se v\u0103ic\u0103reasc\u0103 oricui avea chef s-o asculte, legat de boul nenorocit, a fost cea mai bun\u0103 lec\u021bie de via\u021b\u0103 pentru mine, pe linia \u201ef&#8230; no!\u201d. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Nostalgiile sunt frumoase c\u00e2nd avem 80 de ani \u0219i st\u0103m cu restul babelor \u00een fa\u021ba blocului s\u0103 vis\u0103m ce frumos era c\u00e2nd aveam c*rul tare ca piatra \u0219i rezistent la twerking. Dar nu c\u00e2nd e cazul s\u0103 pui stop unor emo\u021bii care te \u021bin blocat \u00eentr-un trecut pe care nu ai cum s\u0103-l recreezi, prin urmare, cel mai s\u0103n\u0103tos e s\u0103 le la\u0219i s\u0103 lunece. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Spune cu voce tare: <strong>\u201eDa, a fost frumos, dar nu mai e nimic. Ia s\u0103 vedem ce putem face s\u0103 fie frumos acum, cu ce avem \u00een jur\u201d. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>C) Asum\u0103-\u021bi c\u0103 volanul e la tine. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Pentru c\u0103 am avut-o ani \u00een \u0219ir material de studiu pe maic\u0103-mea, mi-am dat seama de mecanismul subtil \u0219i par\u0219iv al acestei crampon\u0103ri de trecut. \u201eBoul mi-a nenorocit via\u021ba\u201d, prin urmare nu mai trebuie s\u0103 depun nici un efort s-o fac mai bun\u0103 \u00een prezent, pot s\u0103 b\u0103ltesc \u00een mizerie \u0219i am un vinovat convenabil pe care s\u0103 arunc toat\u0103 responsabilitatea. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Wrong, baby girl. \u0102la s\u0103 zicem c\u0103 a fost responsabil pentru nefericirea ta C\u00c2T TIMP A\u021aI FOST \u00ceMPREUN\u0102. De\u0219i, \u0219i acolo, exista mereu posibilitatea s\u0103-i spui \u201eA\u0219a s-o tratezi pe m\u0103-ta, eu sunt out\u201d, prin urmare, parte din responsabilitate e la tine. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Dar v-a\u021bi desp\u0103r\u021bit. Din momentul \u0103la, e\u0219ti liber\u0103 s\u0103-\u021bi f\u0103ure\u0219ti fericirea \u00een modul cel mai potrivit pentru tine. Cu ce e \u0103la de vin\u0103 dac\u0103 tu preferi s\u0103 te scalzi \u00een balta de smiorc \u00een loc s\u0103 zici: \u201eDin acest moment, via\u021ba mea e cum vrea pwla mea\u201d? <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-medium-font-size wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Din secunda \u00een care tu \u0219i boul a\u021bi apucat-o pe drumuri separate, responsabilitatea pentru fericirea ta e la tine. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">O repet pe asta, s\u0103 ajung\u0103 \u0219i la cei care citesc greu \u0219i \u00een\u021beleg lent. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-medium-font-size wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Din secunda \u00een care tu \u0219i boul a\u021bi apucat-o pe drumuri separate, responsabilitatea pentru fericirea ta e la tine. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Con\u0219tientizeaz-o pe asta, \u0219i ac\u021bioneaz\u0103 \u00een consecin\u021b\u0103. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>D) F\u0103 terapie <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Bine, \u0219i asta cu terapia e tricky. Exist\u0103 genul de terapeut format la ceea ce eu numesc \u00een glum\u0103 \u201e\u0219coala lui smiorc\u201d, care te comp\u0103time\u0219te intens \u0219i se ad\u00e2nce\u0219te cu tine \u00een v\u0103ic\u0103real\u0103 over and over, \u0219i crede c\u0103 te-a \u00een\u021beles \u0219i te-a ajutat, dar de fapt, te \u021bine \u00een blocajul t\u0103u \u00een mizerie, pentru c\u0103 a\u0219a \u0219tie c\u0103 vii \u0219i s\u0103pt\u0103m\u00e2na viitoare s\u0103-i mai dai ni\u0219te bani. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u0218i exist\u0103 terapeutul care g\u00e2nde\u0219te din perspectiva \u201ecum \u00eel ajut pe omul \u0103sta s\u0103 ias\u0103 din kkt\u201d, care \u00ee\u021bi pune \u00eentreb\u0103ri menite s\u0103 vezi ie\u0219irea \u0219i s\u0103-\u021bi reg\u0103se\u0219ti echilibrul, cu riscul s\u0103 nu mai vii s\u0103pt\u0103m\u00e2na viitoare, pentru c\u0103 ai redevenit sigur de tine. \u0102sta e omul de care ai nevoie. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u00cen plus, uneori se \u00eent\u00e2mpl\u0103 ca cramponarea de trecut s\u0103 fie pe un fond depresiv. De fapt, s\u0103 nu ai o depresie pentru c\u0103 te g\u00e2nde\u0219ti nonstop la Andrei, ci invers, s\u0103 te g\u00e2nde\u0219ti nonstop la Andrei pentru c\u0103 ai o depresie. Dar numai un psiholog poate da acest diagnostic \u0219i tratamentul aferent.  <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>D) Nostalgia invers\u0103 <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Un mod FENOMENAL de a te deta\u0219a de persoane e s\u0103-\u021bi aminte\u0219ti mizeriile pe care \u021bi le-au f\u0103cut, modurile \u00een care te-au umplut de to\u021bi dracii \u0219i cele \u00een care te-au subminat. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Dar nu ca maic\u0103-mea: \u201eO, da, iat\u0103 \u00eenc\u0103 un prilej s\u0103 m\u0103 vaiet la vecine.\u201d <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-medium-font-size wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Ci ca trambulin\u0103 pentru a dep\u0103\u0219i situa\u021bia<\/strong>. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">C\u00e2nd vine amintirea \u201eCe frumos era c\u00e2nd\u201d, o tai brusc \u0219i sec. \u201d\u0218i cum era c\u00e2nd nu r\u0103spundea la telefon \u0219i m\u0103 l\u0103sa s\u0103 a\u0219tept cu orele, de\u0219i am stabilit s\u0103 fie acas\u0103 la \u0219ase jum\u0103tate, s\u0103 mergem la serbarea copilului? Gata cu bocetele de g\u00e2sc\u0103 proast\u0103. Nu mai vrei a\u0219a ceva \u00een via\u021ba ta.\u201d <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Nu exist\u0103 rela\u021bie interuman\u0103 care s\u0103 nu aib\u0103 o latur\u0103 intens iritant\u0103. Folose\u0219te-te de ea pentru a-\u021bi cimenta deta\u0219area. DETA\u0218AREA, nu b\u0103ltirea \u00een \u201evai, eu sunt victimu\u021ba destinului impecabil\u201d. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Nu e\u0219ti. Tr\u0103ie\u0219ti \u00eentr-o \u021bar\u0103 liber\u0103. Ai libertatea s\u0103 faci ce vrei tu. E alegerea ta s\u0103 nu vezi partea plin\u0103 a paharului \u0219i s\u0103 smiorc-smiorc toat\u0103 ziua. E\u0219ti doar victima propriei la\u0219it\u0103\u021bi \u0219i nesiguran\u021be. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-medium-font-size wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>E) Ie\u0219i \u00een lume. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Un mod foarte bun de a te reorienta spre prezent e s\u0103 te vezi cu oameni, s\u0103 stai de vorb\u0103 cu ei, s\u0103 mergi la sal\u0103, s\u0103 te plimbi \u00een parc, s\u0103 te duci la evenimente,<strong> s\u0103 \u00ee\u021bi creezi o via\u021b\u0103 social\u0103. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Nu te invit\u0103 nimeni nic\u0103ieri? Poate e pentru c\u0103 s-au s\u0103turat de smiorc. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">E acest mit: c\u0103 femeile singure sau divor\u021bate nu mai sunt invitate de nimeni la  chefuri. Din experien\u021ba mea, ba da, oamenii continu\u0103 s\u0103 te cheme colo \u0219i colo <strong>DAC\u0102 E\u0218TI FUN<\/strong>. Dac\u0103 singurul t\u0103u subiect e iubi, ce porc a fost \u0219i ce ruin\u0103 e via\u021ba ta, logic c\u0103 nu te cheam\u0103 nimeni nic\u0103ieri, pentru c\u0103 nimeni n-are chef s\u0103 aud\u0103 asta. \u0219i nefiind terapeu\u021bii t\u0103i pl\u0103ti\u021bi, au dreptate. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Pe smiorc\u0103itoarele profesioniste nu le cheam\u0103 nimeni nic\u0103ieri nu pentru c\u0103 sunt singure sau divor\u021bate, ci pentru c\u0103 <strong>stric\u0103 vibe-ul<\/strong> \u0219i <strong>vampirizeaz\u0103 energia interlocutorilor. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Tu ce faci pentru buna dispozi\u021bie a altora? Dac\u0103 ai un r\u0103spuns la aceast\u0103 \u00eentrebare, probabil c\u0103 e\u0219ti o persoan\u0103 iubit\u0103 \u0219i apreciat\u0103. Dac\u0103 r\u0103spunsul t\u0103u e \u201ede ce e treaba mea buna dispozi\u021bie a altora\u201d, iat\u0103 motivul pentru care n-ai prieteni. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u00cenchei cu un c\u0103lduros: \u201eNu uita c\u0103 e\u0219ti la volan. Pe ce drum ai de g\u00e2nd s\u0103 o apuci?\u201d \u0219i las pe fiecare dintre voi s\u0103 dea ce r\u0103spuns dore\u0219te. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">***<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Dac\u0103 apreciezi acest articol, po\u021bi sus\u021bine la r\u00e2ndul t\u0103u site-ul \u00een singurul mod care conteaz\u0103.&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/www.paypal.com\/paypalme\/Trollywood\"><strong>Aici<\/strong><\/a>. Pentru dona\u021bii de 50 de euro sau mai mult, \u00eemi po\u021bi propune tu un subiect. 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