\u00ce\u021bi d\u0103 add tipul care are \u201esingle\u201d la profil \u0219i fiecare postare e despre cum caut\u0103 jum\u0103tatea ideal\u0103. \u201eAoleu\u201d, \u00ee\u021bi zici tu, \u0103sta mi se va oplo\u0219i direct \u00een mesaje private \u0219i va \u00eencepe s\u0103 m\u0103 frece la icre. Delete request. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Vibe-ul lihnit \u0219i h\u0103mesit e at\u00e2t, dar at\u00e2t de resping\u0103tor. \u00cen primul r\u00e2nd pentru c\u0103 pune o presiune teribil\u0103 pe cel\u0103lalt, \u0219i \u00een general, lumea vrea s\u0103 fie \u00eentr-o rela\u021bie pentru c\u0103 se simte tentat\u0103, nu pentru c\u0103 cineva le d\u0103r\u00e2m\u0103 mesageria cu insisten\u021be interminabile. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u0218i pentru c\u0103 orice om s\u0103n\u0103tos cu capul se \u00eentreab\u0103: Dac\u0103 \u0103sta face at\u00e2ta t\u0103r\u0103boi acum, c\u00e2nd nu e nimic \u00eentre noi, \u00een ce hal va face dac\u0103 va avea revendic\u0103ri legitime la timpul \u0219i la r\u0103bdarea mea?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
2. Libidino\u0219enia. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n \u00cen general, aluziile la diverse activit\u0103\u021bi orizontale sau complimentele deocheate au efect afrodisiac DAC\u0102 DEJA \u00ce\u021aI PLACE PERSOANA. Dac\u0103 n-o cuno\u0219ti \u0219i nu o placi, genul \u0103sta de abord\u0103ri se duc prompt \u00een teritoriul creepy \u0219i cringe.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Poart\u0103-te normal, ba chiar u\u0219or rezervat cu oameni pe care nu-i \u0219tii \u0219i despre care nu \u0219tii c\u00e2t sunt dispu\u0219i s\u0103 tolereze. Libidino\u0219enia care nu se bazeaz\u0103 pe atrac\u021bie reciprroc\u0103, ci doar pe proiec\u021bie unilateral\u0103, te pune instant pe lista neagr\u0103 a celui vizat. \u201e\u00ceuuu, slinosul.\u201d <\/p>\n\n\n\n Aici, replica e: \u201eDac\u0103 era Brad Pitt \/ Angelina Jolie slinos \/ slinoas\u0103 cu tine nu aveai o problem\u0103.\u201d <\/p>\n\n\n\n Of course, dar vezi cum arat\u0103 Brad Pitt \/ Angelina Jolie, vezi cum ar\u0103\u021bi tu \u0219i ai g\u0103sit r\u0103spunsul. <\/p>\n\n\n\n 3. V\u0103ic\u0103reala. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Toat\u0103 ziua te pl\u00e2ngi. De fostul, de p\u0103rin\u021bi, de munc\u0103, de \u0219coal\u0103, de copii, dac\u0103 ai, de ma\u0219in\u0103, de s\u0103n\u0103ate, de pre\u021bul castrave\u021bilor \u0219i de cine iese la alegeri. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Apoi te miri c\u0103 nu g\u0103se\u0219ti \u0219i tu un suflet care s\u0103 se lipeasc\u0103 de tine. <\/p>\n\n\n\n O fi oare pentru c\u0103 v\u0103ic\u0103reala e antiatrac\u021bie \u0219i anticlimax definitiv \u0219i irevocabil? Pentru c\u0103 modul \u00een care \u00eei tragi pe al\u021bii \u00een jos \u00eei face s\u0103 fug\u0103 m\u00e2nc\u00e2nd p\u0103m\u00e2ntul? <\/p>\n\n\n\n Toat\u0103 lumea are probleme. Mai mici sau mai mari. Diferen\u021ba e \u00een cum ne raport\u0103m la ele. <\/p>\n\n\n\n \u00cePrimul pas: \u00een loc s\u0103 te v\u0103ic\u0103re\u0219ti, rezolv\u0103 problemele care te nemul\u021bumesc. Rupe sau renegociaz\u0103 rela\u021bii toxice, caut\u0103 un job mai bun, \u00eenva\u021b\u0103 mai mult, etc. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Caut\u0103 s\u0103 te concentrezi pe punctele vesele ale zilei, nu pe toxicitate. <\/p>\n\n\n\n \u0218i caut\u0103 s\u0103 fii un punct de lumin\u0103 pentru cei din via\u021ba ta, nu sugativa depresiilor. To\u021bi care te aud c\u0103 te pl\u00e2ngi \u00ee\u0219i imagineaz\u0103 cum le-ai face via\u021ba un infern, dac\u0103 ar trebui s\u0103 te aud\u0103 v\u0103ic\u0103rindu-te zi de zi. Iar chestia asta e foarte, foarte neatr\u0103g\u0103toare. <\/p>\n\n\n\n 4. Arogan\u021ba. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Majoritatea oamenilor vor un partener, un suflet pereche, nu s\u0103 se angajeze slugi f\u0103r\u0103 salariu. Prin urmare, atitudinea arogant\u0103, cu nasul pe sus, tratamentul execrabil la adresa celor \u00een pozi\u021bii inferioare \u021bie \u00eei va face s\u0103 vrea s\u0103 ia distan\u021b\u0103. \u201eDac\u0103 va \u00eencepe s\u0103-mi vorbeasc\u0103 \u0219i mie a\u0219a?\u201d <\/p>\n\n\n\n \u201dP\u0103i, da, Lorena, dar \u0219i tu e\u0219ti arogant\u0103 cu gigeii pe care-i pui cu botul pe labe.\u201d <\/p>\n\n\n\n Sigur. Dar eu pe \u0103ia vreau s\u0103-i u\u0219ui, nu s\u0103-i combin. <\/p>\n\n\n\n 5. Neglijen\u021ba. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Ai tendin\u021ba de a da r\u0103spunsuri \u00een doi peri, de a trata expeditiv oamenii \u0219i de a sta lung la taclale la telefon cu al\u021bii c\u00e2nd e\u0219ti la mas\u0103 cu ei?<\/p>\n\n\n\n Anticlimactic. <\/p>\n\n\n\n \u0218i da, \u0219tiu, exact ca la punctul anterior, \u0219i eu sunt expeditiv\u0103 cu gigeii care mi se par pro\u0219ti. Dar subliniez iar: pe \u0103ia vreau s\u0103-i u\u0219ui, nu s\u0103-i combin. <\/p>\n\n\n\n 6. Neglijen\u021ba fa\u021b\u0103 de sine. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Toat\u0103 lumea face mi\u0219to de pensa\u021bi, dar totodat\u0103 nimeni nu vrea s\u0103 se combine cu un tip care arat\u0103 ca un neica Costi generic. <\/p>\n\n\n\n \u00cengriji\u021bi-v\u0103 fa\u021ba \u0219i corpul. \u00cen fond, o face\u021bi pentru voi. Merge\u021bi la coafor, la cosmetcian, la sal\u0103, cump\u0103ra\u021bi-v\u0103 periodic haine noi, care s\u0103 v\u0103 pun\u0103 \u00een valoare atuurile. Femeile nu se uit\u0103 la b\u0103rba\u021bi care se neglijeaz\u0103 \u0219i punct. B\u0103rba\u021bii ar da acolo indiferent de acest tip de detalii, dar dac\u0103 femeia e neglijent\u0103, n-o scot \u00een ora\u0219, nu-\u0219i asum\u0103 rela\u021bia pe social media \u0219i n-o prezint\u0103 familiei. Ci doar o co\u021b\u0103ie pe furi\u0219 cu vinov\u0103\u021bie nem\u0103rturisit\u0103 c\u0103 \u0219i-au sc\u0103zut at\u00e2t de mult standardele.<\/p>\n\n\n\n ***<\/p>\n\n\n\n Dac\u0103 apreciezi acest articol, po\u021bi sus\u021bine la r\u00e2ndul t\u0103u site-ul \u00een singurul mod care conteaz\u0103. Aici<\/strong><\/a>. Pentru dona\u021bii de 50 de euro sau mai mult, \u00eemi po\u021bi propune tu un subiect. 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