O s\u0103 \u00eencep cu o m\u0103rturisire: sunt proast\u0103. Doare s\u0103 admi\u021bi c\u0103 e\u0219ti proast\u0103, dar c\u00e2nd te compor\u021bi ca o proast\u0103, uneori, e nevoie s\u0103 faci \u0219i asta. Te rog, ajut\u0103-m\u0103 cu tough love, c\u0103 am nevoie. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n De c\u00e2teva luni, iubitul meu mi-a cerut desp\u0103r\u021birea, dup\u0103 9 ani de rela\u021bie. Din \u0103\u0219tia, am locuit \u00eempreun\u0103 5. Evident c\u0103 au existat ne\u00een\u021belegeri \u00eentre noi, ca \u00een orice cuplu. Dar am petrecut lockdownul \u00eempreun\u0103 \u0219i ne-am \u00een\u021beles ok, \u00een timp ce al\u021bii ajungeau s\u0103 se urasc\u0103 \u00een c\u00e2teva luni. Mereu am sim\u021bit c\u0103 exist\u0103 o compatibilitate perfect\u0103 \u00eentre noi, c\u0103 ne dorim acelea\u0219i lucruri, c\u0103 rezon\u0103m la acelea\u0219i lucruri, c\u0103 ne g\u00e2ndim la acelea\u0219i lucruri. De aceea, faptul c\u0103 voia s\u0103 se despart\u0103 a fost un \u0219oc cutremur\u0103tor pentru mine. Nu mi-a dat niciodat\u0103 un semn c\u0103 ceva e \u00een neregul\u0103, nu am sim\u021bit c\u0103 e interesat de alta. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Apoi, hodoronc-tronc, \u00eemi spune \u00eentr-o zi c\u0103 ne desp\u0103r\u021bim, c\u0103 se vede de c\u00e2teva luni cu o tip\u0103, de care simte c\u0103 s-a \u00eendr\u0103gostit. Mi-a c\u0103zut fa\u021ba. Efectiv m-a l\u0103sat t\u00e2mpit\u0103. \u0218tiu c\u0103 de obicei femeile spun c\u0103 po\u021bi intui c\u0103 te \u00een\u0219al\u0103. \u0102sta nu ar\u0103tase niciun fel de semne, Lorena. Avusese \u00een continuare acelea\u0219i glumi\u021be, m\u0103 ajutase la treab\u0103 ca \u00eenainte, chiar \u0219i sexul fusese ca \u00eenainte. \u00cenainte s\u0103-mi spun\u0103 el c\u0103 m\u0103 \u00een\u0219al\u0103, fusesem proasta perfect\u0103, care nu \u0219tie nimic, iar el \u00ee\u0219i jucase perfect rolul de iubit model. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n La c\u00e2teva s\u0103pt\u0103m\u00e2ni dup\u0103 desp\u0103r\u021bite, a \u00eenceput s\u0103-mi scrie, s\u0103 m\u0103 \u00eentrebe ce mai fac, s\u0103 treac\u0103 pe la mine serile. \u0218i da, \u0219tiu c\u0103 sunt proast\u0103, dar \u00ee\u021bi spun c\u0103 ne-a fost natural s\u0103 \u0219i facem dragoste. Dar el pune pe Facebook \u0219i Instagram poze cu cea nou\u0103 \u0219i cu via\u021ba lor frumoas\u0103 \u00eempreun\u0103. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Ce s\u0103 fac? Porc\u0103ie-m\u0103, Lorena, \u00een stilul t\u0103u, c\u0103 sunt devastat\u0103 \u0219i mi-e o ru\u0219ine \u00eengrozitoare de mine c\u0103 nu \u0219tiu s\u0103 pun piciorul \u00een prag. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Mul\u021bumesc, <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n X. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n ***<\/p>\n\n\n\n Drag\u0103 X., <\/p>\n\n\n\n O s\u0103 aleg s\u0103 nu te porc\u0103i, pentru c\u0103 nou\u0103 ani sunt o investi\u021bie emo\u021bional\u0103 imens\u0103, \u0219i pot \u00een\u021belege c\u0103, dac\u0103 a existat compatibilitate, cumva \u00ee\u021bi dore\u0219ti ca lucrurile s\u0103 revin\u0103 pe f\u0103ga\u0219ul care \u00ee\u021bi era confortabil. E uman, e normal. To\u021bi t\u00e2njim dup\u0103 momente de fericire trecut\u0103. Apoi ne ducem s\u0103 facem un du\u0219 \u0219i ne trezim la realitate: Alooo, ce-a fost a fost, iar trecutul nu se mai \u00eentoarce. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Dac\u0103 \u0103la voia s\u0103 fie cu tine, azi era cu tine \u0219i nu-\u0219i punea pe social media poze cu alta. Un b\u0103rbat care te vrea cu adev\u0103rat \u0219tie unde \u00eei sunt priorit\u0103\u021bile \u0219i, chiar dac\u0103 se \u00eent\u00e2mpl\u0103 s\u0103 calce str\u00e2mb, se \u00eentoarce sp\u0103sit acas\u0103 \u0219i jur\u0103 c\u0103 a fost doar fizic \u0219i iubirea lui e\u0219ti tu. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Dar \u0103la a ales-o pe ea. Ei, bine, las\u0103-l s-o aib\u0103 \u0219i s\u0103 fie fericit cu ea. Dac\u0103 tot se laud\u0103 pe re\u021bele c\u0103 e fericit, de ce s\u0103 nu-l la\u0219i s\u0103 fie?<\/p>\n\n\n\n Spune-i c\u0103, pentru propria ta stabilitate emo\u021bional\u0103, o s\u0103 ai nevoie de o pauz\u0103 \u00een prietenia voastr\u0103 cu beneficii, timp \u00een care \u00eel rogi frumos s\u0103 nu te mai caute. \u0218i \u00ee\u021bi impui s\u0103 treci peste. Doar e cu alta, nu? Locuie\u0219te cu ea, \u00ee\u0219i documenteaz\u0103 online via\u021ba cu ea. E \u00eentr-o rela\u021bie, nu? Las\u0103-l s\u0103 tr\u0103iasc\u0103 cu propria alegere. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Dac\u0103 v\u0103 are \u0219i pe tine, \u0219i pe ea, evident c\u0103 n-a pierdut nimic, \u0219i mai are \u0219i varietate \u00een via\u021ba lui. Cam egoist, dac\u0103 m\u0103 \u00eentrebi pe mine. \u0218i ipocrit. \u0218tie c\u0103 tu \u00eenc\u0103 speri \u0219i se folose\u0219te de asta. \u0218i totodat\u0103, se folose\u0219te \u0219i de povestea nou\u0103 de iubire. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Ia o decizie ferm\u0103 c\u0103 nu ai nevoie de a\u0219a ceva \u00een via\u021ba ta, trimite-l ferm la actuala \u0219i, dac\u0103 nu te po\u021bi ab\u021bine s\u0103 nu-l cau\u021bi, blocheaz\u0103-l. S\u0103 \u00eendure \u0219i el m\u0103car o consecin\u021b\u0103 a faptului c\u0103 a plecat, nu? Dac\u0103 el nu pierde nimic, nu prea are ce s\u0103 regrete. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Iar tu ai nevoie de cineva care \u00ee\u021bi respect\u0103 sentimentele \u0219i nu joac\u0103 bambilici cu tine. Sau, poate, ai nevoie s\u0103 stai un pic singur\u0103, s\u0103-\u021bi limpeze\u0219ti g\u00e2ndurile. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Iube\u0219te-te \u00een primul r\u00e2nd pe tine, \u0219i vei \u00eenv\u0103\u021ba s\u0103 te deta\u0219ezi de cei care nu te iubesc. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Sper c\u0103 \u021bi-am fost util\u0103, <\/p>\n\n\n\n Lorena. <\/p>\n\n\n\n ***<\/p>\n\n\n\n Dac\u0103 apreciezi acest articol, po\u021bi sus\u021bine la r\u00e2ndul t\u0103u site-ul \u00een singurul mod care conteaz\u0103. Aici<\/strong><\/a>. Pentru dona\u021bii de 50 de euro sau mai mult, \u00eemi po\u021bi propune tu un subiect. Pentru dona\u021bii de 25 de euro sau mai mult, po\u021bi propune o poezie pentru cele 365 de zile de poezie.<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n ***<\/p>\n\n\n\n ***<\/p>\n\n\n\n Vrei s\u0103 m\u0103 urm\u0103re\u015fti \u00een social media? \u00cemi po\u0163i da like pe Facebook<\/strong><\/a>, follow pe Twitter<\/a><\/strong> \u015fi Instagram<\/a><\/strong>, subscribe pe YouTube<\/a><\/strong> \u015fi pe TikTok<\/a><\/strong>.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" Periodic, oferim iubire cititorului nostru. \u00cen sensul \u00een care el sau ea, sau chiar tu, de ce nu, ne trimite(\u021bi) problema voastr\u0103 de suflet...<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":20018,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_feature_clip_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":true,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2},"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-26609","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-spicy"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/mailbox-507594_640.jpg?fit=640%2C426&ssl=1","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_likes_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/26609","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=26609"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/26609\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":26611,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/26609\/revisions\/26611"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/20018"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=26609"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=26609"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=26609"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}![\"\"](\"https:\/\/i2.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea-300x300.jpg?resize=300%2C300\")
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