{"id":26638,"date":"2024-06-25T10:38:03","date_gmt":"2024-06-25T07:38:03","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/?p=26638"},"modified":"2024-06-25T10:38:06","modified_gmt":"2024-06-25T07:38:06","slug":"uneori-raspunsul-e-un-nu-evident","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/uneori-raspunsul-e-un-nu-evident\/","title":{"rendered":"Uneori, r\u0103spunsul e un \u201enu\u201d evident"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

Citeam un status pe social media al unei amice, care fusese martor\u0103 la o ceart\u0103 \u00een parc. Cuplu de adolescen\u021bi. El f\u0103cea o criz\u0103 de gelozie c\u0103 de ce ea nu poart\u0103 sutien, \u0219i c\u0103, uite, to\u021bi gigeii se uit\u0103 la ea. Ea \u00eencerca s\u0103-i explice omene\u0219te c\u0103, pe canicul\u0103, sutienul e o tortur\u0103. \u0218i subscriu, chiar este. E ca \u0219i cum \u00ee\u021bi str\u00e2nge ceva s\u00e2nii \u00een cle\u0219ti de fier. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Tipul a f\u0103cut ce fac dintotdeauna b\u0103rba\u021bii care Nu merit\u0103 p\u0103stra\u021bi: a continuat s\u0103 \u021bipe c\u0103 uite, se uit\u0103 gigeii. \u0218i fata s-a enervat \u0219i l-a b\u0103gat \u00een mor\u021bii lui. Remarcabil de inteligent pentru o adolescent\u0103. Eu am tot v\u0103zut situa\u021bii c\u00e2nd fata a cedat \u0219i, de\u0219i suferea fizic, i-a f\u0103cut pe plac boului care \u00ee\u0219i punea propriul ego mai presus de nevoile umane normale ale persoanei de l\u00e2ng\u0103 el. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Am v\u0103zut inclusiv caz de fat\u0103 care \u00eencepuse s\u0103 creasc\u0103 bini\u0219or pe Instagram, deja veneau campaniile pl\u0103tite, avea un al doilea venit de acolo, p\u00e2n\u0103 c\u00e2nd s-a trezit bovina din dotare s\u0103 mugeasc\u0103 c\u0103 de ce se posteaz\u0103 ademenitoare pentru al\u021bi b\u0103rba\u021bi, \u0219i c\u0103 nu admite ca femeia lui s\u0103 fie \u021binta dorin\u021bei ob\u0219te\u0219ti. \u0218i proasta mea \u0219i-a \u00eenchis Instagramul \u0219i a renun\u021bat la un venit agreabil \u0219i ob\u021binut prin ceva ce-i pl\u0103cea s\u0103 fac\u0103, doar pentru c\u0103 boul \u00ee\u0219i punea propriul ego mai presus de succesul \u0219i veniturile persoanei de l\u00e2ng\u0103 el. \u00cenc\u0103 n-am \u00eent\u00e2lnit femeie combinat\u0103 cu influencer b\u0103rbat care s\u0103 \u021bipe la el s\u0103 se dea jos de pe internet \u0219i s\u0103 nu mai fac\u0103 bani, c\u0103 sigur se uit\u0103 alte muieri cu jind. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Bine, dar nici un influencer b\u0103rbat n-ar permite vreunei idioate care nu-i apreciaz\u0103 eforturile \u0219i rezultatele s\u0103 \u00eei m\u0103n\u00e2nce energia cu istericale. Asta fac eu, de aici vin bani, dac\u0103 \u00ee\u021bi convine, bine, dac\u0103 nu, nu uita s\u0103 scrii neamurilor. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Adeseori, c\u00e2nd sunt \u00eentrebat\u0103 de ce nu m-am m\u0103ritat, r\u0103spund c\u0103: dac\u0103 un b\u0103rbat \u00ee\u0219i ia nevast\u0103, se cam \u00een\u021belege de la sine c\u0103 ea \u00eel va sus\u021bine \u00een tot ce vrea el s\u0103 realizeze. Dar dac\u0103 o femeie \u00ee\u0219i ia b\u0103rbat, se cam \u00een\u021belege de la sine c\u0103 ea va trebui s\u0103 renun\u021be la o gr\u0103mad\u0103 de ambi\u021bii personale s\u0103 fie el ok cu egoul. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0218i atunci, nu mai bine \u00ee\u021bi vezi de ambi\u021bii personale \u0219i acorzi aten\u021bie celor care \u021bi se al\u0103tur\u0103 natural s\u0103 te sus\u021bin\u0103, nu s\u0103 te \u00eencurce? <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201eDa, iubita, luna asta au venit 400 de euro din Instagram. Uite ce putem face ca luna viitoare s\u0103 vin\u0103 500.\u201d <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Dac\u0103 zice asta, \u00eenha\u021b\u0103-l, c\u0103 merit\u0103 p\u0103strat. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Iar \u0103la care te pune s\u0103 por\u021bi sutien vara, s\u0103 nu se uite gigeii la tine? Trimis urgent la cote\u021b, s\u0103 mediteze lung dac\u0103 vreodat\u0103 \u00een via\u021b\u0103 \u00eei va mai spune unei femei ce s\u0103 poarte. \u0218i a doua zi, te duci la \u0219coal\u0103 f\u0103r\u0103 sutien, \u0218I cu cel mai obscen decolteu din tot dulapul, s\u0103 se holbeze gigeii \u0219i s\u0103 fac\u0103 pariuri dac\u0103 se ive\u0219te sf\u00e2rcul p\u00e2n\u0103 la urm\u0103, sau nu. \u0218i prostul s\u0103 nu mai poat\u0103 c\u00e2r\u00e2i nimic, de vreme ce NU mai sunte\u021bi \u00eempreun\u0103. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

N-o s\u0103 citez o feminist\u0103, ci un mascul alfa, dar unul trecut prin via\u021ba real\u0103, nu doar wankereala de internet. Jordan Peterson: \u201eDac\u0103 nu ascul\u021bi o femeie c\u00e2nd caut\u0103 s\u0103-\u021bi explice ceva, o vei asculta \u00een tribunal, la divor\u021b.\u201d <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Fetelor, fi\u021bi adolescenta care \u00eel bag\u0103 pe prost \u00een mor\u021bii lui c\u00e2nd \u0103la insist\u0103 aiurea \u0219i nu \u021bine cont de binele ei, nu fraiera care-\u0219i \u00eenchide contul de influencer s\u0103 fac\u0103 pe plac unui idiot nesigur pe el. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00cen fond, un b\u0103rbat care e ok cu sine \u0219i cu tot ce face are reac\u021bia: \u201eda, m\u0103, gigeilor, holba\u021bi-v\u0103. Voi ave\u021bi doar holbatul, dar eu am dormitorul. 1 – 0 pentru mine.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0218i \u0103sta e b\u0103rbatul care merit\u0103 p\u0103strat. Restul sunt un \u201enu\u201d evident. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

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