{"id":26646,"date":"2024-06-29T05:30:50","date_gmt":"2024-06-29T02:30:50","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/?p=26646"},"modified":"2024-06-29T05:30:53","modified_gmt":"2024-06-29T02:30:53","slug":"de-ce-e-nevoie-de-marsul-pride-2","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/de-ce-e-nevoie-de-marsul-pride-2\/","title":{"rendered":"De ce e nevoie de Mar\u0219ul Pride"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

Nu \u0219tiu care e problema anul \u0103sta, dar nu am v\u0103zut niciodat\u0103 \u00een Rom\u00e2nia at\u00e2ta heterosexualitate \u00eencordat\u0103, l\u0103tr\u0103toare, toxic\u0103 p\u00e2n\u0103 \u00een p\u00e2nzele albe, \u00eencerc\u00e2nd cu toat\u0103 for\u021ba s\u0103 oprime dreptul la expresie al comunit\u0103\u021bilor de minorit\u0103\u021bi. De exemplu, mar\u0219ul Pride. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Am zi de zi sec\u021biunea de comentarii plin\u0103 de zoaie pe subiect \u0219i, evident, block pe linie, pentru c\u0103 dac\u0103 nu e\u0219ti \u00een stare s\u0103 \u00een\u021belegi c\u0103 to\u021bi suntem oameni \u0219i to\u021bi avem dreptul la c\u0103utarea propriei fericiri, dup\u0103 criterii personale, nu ai ce c\u0103uta pe pagina mea. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Poate c\u0103 are leg\u0103tur\u0103 cu valul \u0103sta agasant de na\u021bionalism \u0219i tradi\u021bionalism care \u00eei face pe to\u021bi s\u0103 se agite ca o turm\u0103 de maimu\u021be. \u0218i principala problem\u0103 a na\u021bionalismului \u0219i a tradi\u021bionalismului este c\u0103 trebuie s\u0103 fii \u0219i tu ca ei, sau se apuc\u0103 s\u0103 spumege ca tine de zici c\u0103 sunt poseda\u021bi de satana. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Norocul general este c\u0103 eu primesc nonstop bullying pe internet de c\u00e2nd mi-am f\u0103cut primul cont. Deja am devenit imun\u0103. \u0219i dac\u0103 spumegi la mine, nu ob\u021bii dec\u00e2t un deget mijlociu foarte erect \u0219i \u00eenfoiat. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

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O gr\u0103mad\u0103 de indivizi convin\u015fi c\u0103 preferin\u0163a lor pentru sexul opus \u00eei face mai valoro\u015fi ca specimene latr\u0103 mult, prost \u015fi degeaba, c\u0103 de ce s\u0103 existe parad\u0103 LGBTQ. Preferin\u021ba ta e strict o chestiune de op\u021biune personal\u0103, \u0219i nu are nici o valoare pentru nimeni, \u00een afar\u0103 de tine, de m\u0103-ta care vrea nepo\u021bi \u0219i de partener\u0103, dac\u0103 \u0219i ea consimte s\u0103 fie jum\u0103tatea ta la bine \u0219i la r\u0103u. Noi, restul, nu avem nici de c\u00e2\u0219tigat, nici de pierdut dac\u0103 tu preferi o g\u0103uric\u0103 roz \u0219i nu una maro. Ne e totuna. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00cen ignoran\u0163a lor galopant\u0103, m\u00e2ndr\u0103 de sine \u2013 c\u0103 dac\u0103 prostia cras\u0103 nu e m\u00e2ndr\u0103 de sine, nu e prostie \u2013 gui\u0163\u0103 ceva de genul: \u201cUite, eu sunt hetero, de ce eu nu am nevoie de parad\u0103\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Gigele, nu ai nevoie de parad\u0103 din mai multe motive.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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  1. Perspectiva istoric\u0103<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n\n\n\n

    \u00cen timp ce \u0103ia ca tine erau \u00eencuraja\u0163i s\u0103 fac\u0103 tot ce vor \u00een via\u0163\u0103, s\u0103 tuf\u0103 femei f\u0103r\u0103 num\u0103r \u015fi s\u0103 aib\u0103 ce ambi\u0163ii vor, persoanele cu identit\u0103\u0163i \u015fi orient\u0103ri diferite de ale tale erau arse pe rug sau torturate \u00een Evul Mediu, arestate \u015fi b\u0103gate \u00een \u00eenchisoare \u00een secolele trecute, pedepsite sistematic de societate pentru c\u0103 nu erau ca tine.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

    Strict \u00een Rom\u00e2nia, vestitul articol 200, care prevedea \u00eenchisoare pentru homosexualitate a fost anulat abia \u00een 2001 de guvernul Bombonel. Da, remarc c\u0103 tot hulitul PSD a f\u0103cut acest prim pas spre normalitate. Normalitate pe care orice om s\u0103n\u0103tos cu capul ar trebui s-o \u00een\u0163eleag\u0103 drept RESPECT PENTRU IDENTITATEA \u015eI OP\u0162IUNILE ALTORA, AT\u00c2TA TIMP C\u00c2T NU D\u0102UNEAZ\u0102 NIM\u0102NUI, \u015fi nu ca \u201ceu tuf izd\u0103 \u015fi atunci vin s\u0103 latru fioros la tine pentru c\u0103 tufutul de izd\u0103 m\u0103 face special\u201d. Nu, nu te face. E o simpl\u0103 preferin\u0163\u0103 pe care ai primit-o la loteria geneticii \u015fi nu e cu nimic meritul t\u0103u.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

    2. Perspectiva social\u0103<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

    \u00cen acest moment, nu mai exist\u0103 condamnare oficial\u0103, arest\u0103ri, razii, persecu\u0163ie f\u0103\u0163i\u015f\u0103 public\u0103 pentru LGBT.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

    \u00ceNC\u0102.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

    La cum vine valuri valuri propaganda ruseasc\u0103, pe de o parte, \u015fi neo-nazi, pe de alta, \u015fi la cum se manifest\u0103 ea prin to\u0163i heteroii extrem de g\u0103l\u0103gio\u015fi, care se pare c\u0103 nu-\u015fi pot tuf\u0103 lini\u015fti\u0163i nevestele \/ b\u0103rba\u0163ii (PE CARE AU VOIE S\u0102-I AIB\u0102) f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103 latre la gay-ii \u0103\u015ftia care fac parade, prev\u0103d c\u0103 \u00een cur\u00e2nd o s\u0103 fie. \u0218i desigur, se va baza pe aluzii ipocrite la \u201cfamilie\u201d \u015fi la \u201ccopii\u201d, de parc\u0103 persoanele LGBTQ n-ar avea \u015fi ei familii \u015fi \u00een multe cazuri, nu \u015fi-ar dori \u015fi ei copii. \u015ei de parc\u0103 nu ar fi at\u00e2\u0163ia ta\u0163i \u201cnormali\u201d \u015fi mame \u201cnormale\u201d care abuzeaz\u0103, bat sau neglijeaz\u0103 copii.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

    Doar pentru c\u0103 nu exist\u0103 persecu\u0163ie oficial\u0103, nu \u00eenseamn\u0103 c\u0103 nu exist\u0103 s\u00e2c\u00e2ial\u0103 interminabil\u0103 \u00een via\u021ba de zi cu zi, de la to\u021bi p\u0103reri\u0219tii nesolicita\u021bi. Ba chiar firme luate la vizor de autorit\u0103\u0163i, strict pentru specificul activit\u0103\u0163ii. \u0162in minte un caz concret: Delirio Timi\u015foara. Un bar LGBTQ \u00een care am urcat \u015fi eu pe scen\u0103. Primarul Robu \u0219i ai lui au dat amenzi peste amenzi peste \u00eenc\u0103 ni\u015fte amenzi pe diverse motive ridicole, p\u00e2n\u0103 \u00een punctul \u00een care i-au constr\u00e2ns pe posesori s\u0103 pun\u0103 lac\u0103tul.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

    Persoane publice h\u0103r\u0163uite interminabil pentru c\u0103, \u00een calitate de b\u0103rba\u0163i, ar\u0103tau prea efeminat, sau, \u00een calitate de femei, aveau calit\u0103\u0163i cotate drept nefeminine. Mai \u0163ine\u0163i minte cum boul \u0103la apoteotic de Cosmin Nedelcu s-a luat de mine \u015fi, strict pentru c\u0103 am vocea groas\u0103, a insinuat c\u0103 a\u0219 fi agramat\u0103, \u015fi toat\u0103 turma de oi bete a crezut c\u0103 eu chiar spusesem \u201cfemei indedentente\u201d \u015fi \u201cladalier\u0103\u201d? <\/p>\n\n\n\n

    Cine ascult\u0103 versiunea original\u0103, aude \u00eentr-adev\u0103r o voce groas\u0103, dar pronun\u0163ie corect\u0103 \u015fi acord gramatical bine f\u0103cut. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

    C\u00e2t\u0103 h\u0103r\u0163uire a \u00eendurat Mihai Tr\u0103istariu, pentru implantul de p\u0103r? C\u00e2t\u0103 h\u0103r\u0163uire a \u00eendurat chiar \u0219i o trompet\u0103 a virtu\u021bilor cum e Bendeac, pentru c\u0103 juca roluri \u00een travesti \u015fi, prin urmare, to\u0163i gigeii l-au f\u0103cut p**nar \u0219i c**ist? Numai c\u0103 Bendeac, mai pu\u021bin dotat de la g\u00e2t \u00een sus, nu s-a \u00eentors \u00eempotriva gigeilor care se \u015ftergeau cu el \u00een toate cotloanele anusului, ci a devenit mega macho \u015fi a \u00eenceput s\u0103 publice content abuziv la adresa femeilor, \u00een speran\u0163a c\u0103 a\u015fa o s\u0103 demonstreze ce taur comunal beton \u015fi 100% hetero este.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

    Dac\u0103 dau o strigare pe pagina mea, o s\u0103 plou\u0103 cu pove\u015fti ale unor persoane LGBT concediate de la diverse joburi, date afar\u0103 din chirii pe care le pl\u0103teau la timp, sau ajunse \u0163inta b\u0103t\u0103ii de joc strict pentru c\u0103 erau LGBT.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

    <\/p>\n\n\n\n

    3. Perspectiva psihologic\u0103<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

    Povestea nepo\u0163elului trans<\/strong><\/a>, postat\u0103 de mine acum c\u00e2teva zile, mi-a umplut sec\u0163iunea de comentarii de to\u0163i idio\u0163ii care au \u0163ipat la mine c\u0103 de ce s\u0103 conving bunica s\u0103-\u015fi iubeasc\u0103 \u015fi accepte nepotul a\u015fa cum e, c\u00e2nd poate s\u0103 \u00eel tortureze \u00een continuare cu refuzul de a \u00een\u0163elege, cu sentimentul c\u0103 nu e suficient de bun pentru ea \u015fi cu alte toxicit\u0103\u0163i similare.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

    Genul acesta de presiune psihologic\u0103 continu\u0103 \u015fi incredibil de dureroas\u0103, care evident c\u0103 nu \u00eel schimb\u0103 pe individul queer cu nimic, dar \u00eei induce doar umilin\u0163\u0103, ru\u015fine \u015fi suferin\u0163\u0103, nu are termen de compara\u0163ie pentru b\u0103rba\u0163ii hetero, pentru c\u0103 pe ei nu-i h\u0103r\u0163uie\u015fte societatea cu nimic. Dimpotriv\u0103, \u00eei pup\u0103 \u00een penis de c\u00e2nd se nasc \u0219i p\u00e2n\u0103 mor. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

    Dar, pentru femei, ar trebui s\u0103 aib\u0103, pentru c\u0103 \u015fi educa\u0163ia lor mergea tradi\u0163ional pe mult\u0103 ru\u015fine, mult\u0103 umilin\u0163\u0103 \u015fi mult\u0103 negare a personalit\u0103\u0163ii lor reale, \u00een ideea de a forma slugi perfecte gratuite pentru gigei \u015fi mame eroine.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

    Manipularea aceasta organizat\u0103, bazat\u0103 pe shaming, discreditare \u0219i minimalizare, a dus mereu la ripost\u0103 public\u0103. Feministele timpurii \u015fi-au ars sutienele. Feministele din zilele noastre au organizat SlutWalks. Iar persoanele LGBT, Pride Parades.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

    Un mod de a spune: Refuz s\u0103 m\u0103 identific cu ru\u015finea pe care \u0163ii neap\u0103rat s\u0103 mi-o bagi pe g\u00e2t.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

    \u015ei bomboana de pe tort<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

    Vine un \u0163\u0103ran prost pe peretele meu de Facebook s\u0103 \u0163ipe c\u0103 ba daaaa, pe el \u00eel afecteaz\u0103\u0103\u0103 Parada Gay.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

    Cu ce?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

    Cine de acolo \u00ee\u0163i spune \u015fi \u00ee\u0163i face \u0163ie direct ceva?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

    Nimeni. OK. Ia hai mar\u015f voios \u00een direc\u0163ia general\u0103 a pluii mele.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

    Compara\u0163i \u201cafectarea\u201d asta la nivel superficial, u\u015for de evitat dac\u0103 te ui\u0163i pe trotuarul cel\u0103lalt cu mesajele private, injuriile directe, h\u0103r\u0163uirea interminabil\u0103 de care are parte o persoan\u0103 queer.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

    De aceea, tu ca hetero nu ai nici un motiv \u00eentemeiat s\u0103 faci o parad\u0103, iar omul LGBT, da.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

    Sigur, faptul c\u0103 nu ai un motiv \u00eentemeiat nu te va \u00eempiedica s-o faci anyway. Ca dovad\u0103, a\u015fa-numitul Mar\u015f al Normalit\u0103\u0163ii. Care e motiva\u0163ia lui? Drepturi pentru hetero? Le au deja pe toate. Nimeni nu-i \u00eempiedic\u0103 s\u0103-\u0219i ia neveste, sau b\u0103rba\u021bi, cel mult propria ur\u00e2\u021benie. Motiva\u021bia lui e prostia \u0219i r\u0103utatea. Pentru care, \u00een mod bizar, ei \u00eei \u00eenvinuiesc tot pe LGBTQ. Dar dac\u0103 de m\u00e2ine ar disp\u0103rea ca prin minune toate persoanele LGBTQ, prostia \u0219i r\u0103utatea lor nu ar face dec\u00e2t s\u0103 g\u0103seasc\u0103 o nou\u0103 \u021bint\u0103. <\/p>\n\n\n\n


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