{"id":26697,"date":"2024-07-20T07:26:24","date_gmt":"2024-07-20T04:26:24","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/?p=26697"},"modified":"2024-07-20T07:26:26","modified_gmt":"2024-07-20T04:26:26","slug":"be-strong-mariuca","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/be-strong-mariuca\/","title":{"rendered":"Be strong, M\u0103riuca!"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Mergeam eu la magazin, s\u0103 cump\u0103r ou\u0103, legume congelate, iaurt \u0219i fulgi de ov\u0103z &#8211; iau toate acele medicamente pentru polipoz\u0103 \u0219i sinuzit\u0103, \u0219i trebuie s\u0103 \u021bin regim f\u0103r\u0103 sare. Prin urmare, am descoperit dou\u0103 m\u00e2nc\u0103ruri care sunt s\u0103\u021bioase \u0219i nu le pot spune delicioase, c\u0103 absen\u021ba s\u0103rii le cam anihileaz\u0103 gustul, ci mai degrab\u0103 reconfortante: iaurtul cu fulgi de ov\u0103z \u0219i omleta nes\u0103rat\u0103 cu legume congelate \u0219i praf de paprika. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u0218i cum mergeam eu flutur\u00e2nd punga \u00een m\u00e2n\u0103, m\u0103 \u00eent\u00e2lnesc cu o t\u00e2n\u0103r\u0103 scriitoare. Salut-salut, ce mai faci, cum \u00ee\u021bi mai merge. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u0218i \u00eemi poveste\u0219te c\u0103 a avut dou\u0103 luni de depresie cumplit\u0103 pentru c\u0103 un gogu la care \u021binea \u0219i pe care \u00eel respecta i-a spus c\u0103 nu e talentat\u0103 \u0219i c\u0103 ar trebui s\u0103 se lase de scris. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Doamne, mi-am zis eu. Ce arm\u0103 cu dublu t\u0103i\u0219 e tinere\u021bea. Pe de o parte, ai o putere de munc\u0103 pe care o regre\u021bi dup\u0103 ce treci de 30. Dar pe de alta, e\u0219ti fragil ca un por\u021belan chinezesc \u0219i orice prost\u0103l\u0103u care-\u0219i d\u0103 cu p\u0103rerea te poate fr\u00e2nge. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">-Hai, m\u0103\u0103\u0103. De ce s\u0103 te ui\u021bi \u00een gura tuturor pro\u0219tilor? <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">-P\u0103i \u0103sta nu era \u201eto\u021bi pro\u0219tii\u201d, \u0103sta era Gogu. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">-Da, nu era to\u021bi pro\u0219tii, era prostul fudul cu ifose de intelectual. \u0218i, ce anume din asta \u00eel calific\u0103 s\u0103 dea verdicte dac\u0103 ai tu talent sau nu? Doar impresia lui c\u0103 e special? <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">-Dar nu \u00eel pot opri s\u0103 spun\u0103 ce vrea. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">-Sigur c\u0103 nu po\u021bi. Dar te mai ui\u021bi \u0219i cine vorbe\u0219te. Are cultura general\u0103 \u0219i sim\u021bul artistic necesare evalu\u0103rii corecte a ce faci tu? \u0218i dac\u0103 le are, are bun\u0103voin\u021ba necesar\u0103 s\u0103-\u021bi dea o opinie care s\u0103 te ajute, \u0219i nu doar o copit\u0103 care s\u0103 te \u00eengroape, pentru c\u0103, din varii motive, se simte amenin\u021bat de prezen\u021ba ta? <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">-Ai dreptate, Lorena. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">-E\u0219ti o fat\u0103 frumoas\u0103. O gr\u0103mad\u0103 de gigei vor \u00eencerca accesul la chilo\u021bii t\u0103i povestindu-\u021bi c\u0103 e\u0219ti ultimul geniu nedescoperit. \u0218i o gr\u0103mad\u0103 de gigei vor \u00eencerca accesul la chilo\u021bii t\u0103i atac\u00e2ndu-\u021bi stima de tine \u0219i c\u0103ut\u00e2nd s\u0103-\u021bi exploateze vulnerabilitatea. Dac\u0103 \u00eel vezi c\u0103 se uit\u0103 lihnit la tine, \u0103la e semnul t\u0103u c\u0103 nimic din ce spune nu e despre talentul t\u0103u, ci despre cum te-ar pune capr\u0103. \u0218i \u00ceN NICI UN CAZ nu  la\u0219i nimic din ce claxoneaz\u0103 genul \u0103sta de specimen s\u0103 \u00ee\u021bi afecteze stima de sine \u0219i s\u0103 ai depresii, insomnii, alte drame. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">-A\u0219a e. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">-Critica binevoitoare e cea care-\u021bi arat\u0103 cum po\u021bi s\u0103 evoluezi cu ceea ce scrii, ce te poate ajuta tehnic sau artistic, cum po\u021bi \u00eembun\u0103t\u0103\u021bi construc\u021bia sau expresivitatea. \u201eE\u0219ti proast\u0103\u201d, \u201enu ai talent\u201d \u0219i \u201elas\u0103-te de scris\u201d sunt doar expresia limitelor celui care le enun\u021b\u0103. OK? \u0218i dac\u0103 vine cu de-astea, \u00eel blochezi pe social media, \u00eei \u0219tergi num\u0103rul din agend\u0103 \u0219i \u00eei spui s\u0103-\u0219i caute tovar\u0103\u0219i c\u0103rora le poate respecta individualitatea artistic\u0103 \u0219i DA, talentul. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">-Lore, de ce nu te-am \u00eent\u00e2lnit mai devreme? <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">-E ok, nici eu nu m-am \u00eent\u00e2lnit pe mine mai devreme. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Dup\u0103 ce copila a plecat la ale ei, am stat a\u0219a \u0219i m-am g\u00e2ndit c\u00e2te specimene g\u0103sesc bucurie \u00een a se p*\u0219a pe ambi\u021biile \u0219i visele semenilor lor, doar pentru c\u0103 ei \u00een\u0219i\u0219i nu au nimic care s\u0103 le motiveze ambi\u021biile \u0219i visele. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Dar s\u0103 te r\u0103zbuni pe \u0103\u0219tia e simplu. Nici m\u0103car nu trebuie s\u0103 le faci lor ceva. Oricum, via\u021ba lor e goal\u0103 pe interior. Sunt ca ni\u0219te coji care nu ascund nici un s\u00e2mbure, iar motorul lor sunt rahaturile pe care le spun \u0219i le fac altora. Tot ce trebuie s\u0103 le faci e s\u0103-\u021bi vezi lini\u0219tit\u0103, cu maxim\u0103 durere \u00een p*l\u0103, de ale tale, \u0219i s\u0103 ai \u0219i succes, dac\u0103 se poate. Asta o s\u0103 le m\u0103n\u00e2nce fica\u021bii. Pentru c\u0103 succesul altora \u00eei doare direct, ca \u0219i cum ar fi o nenorocire care li se \u00eent\u00e2mpl\u0103 lor. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u00cen loc s\u0103-\u021bi pese ce cred al\u021bii, mai bine scrie zi de zi. Studiaz\u0103 tehnici noi de scriere. Experimenteaz\u0103. G\u0103se\u0219te modalit\u0103\u021bi noi de expresie. G\u0103se\u0219te bucurie \u00een arta ta. Iar p\u0103rerea lui Gogu e despre el, nu despre tine. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Am v\u0103zut oameni care au publicat un prim roman mediocru, la \u00eenceputul carierei, \u0219i c\u0103r\u021bi absolut minunate, 10 ani mai t\u00e2rziu, pentru c\u0103 scrisul, ca orice alt talent, are nevoie de munc\u0103 pentru a se perfec\u021biona. E irelevant ce cred gogii. Relevant e c\u00e2t\u0103 munc\u0103 \u0219i c\u00e2t\u0103 creativitate e\u0219ti tu dispus s\u0103 investe\u0219ti \u00een tine. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u0218i caut\u0103 s\u0103-\u021bi formezi propriile standarde culturale, nu mai at\u00e2rna dup\u0103 p\u0103rerea gogilor. C\u00e2nd ajungi s\u0103-\u021bi plac\u0103 \u021bie ce faci, ce cred gogii ca fi doar zgomot irelevant de fundal. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Succes! <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">***<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Vrei s\u0103 m\u0103 urm\u0103re\u015fti \u00een social media? \u00cemi po\u0163i da like pe&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/lorenaalmighty\/\"><strong>Facebook<\/strong><\/a>, follow pe&nbsp;<strong><a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/lorenalupu\">Twitter<\/a><\/strong>&nbsp;\u015fi&nbsp;<strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/lorena.lup\/\">Instagram<\/a><\/strong>, subscribe pe&nbsp;<strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/channel\/UCCHBtHi6S2GlUFqETH70cjQ\">YouTube<\/a><\/strong>&nbsp;\u015fi pe<strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/@lorena.lupu\">&nbsp;TikTok<\/a><\/strong>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">***<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Dac\u0103 \u00ee\u021bi plac aceste articole, po\u021bi alege s\u0103-mi oferi sus\u021binerea de care am nevoie.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.paypal.com\/paypalme\/Trollywood\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"250\" height=\"82\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/01\/paypal-.jpg?w=700&amp;ssl=1\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-25884\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/01\/paypal-.jpg?w=250&amp;ssl=1 250w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/01\/paypal-.jpg?resize=150%2C49&amp;ssl=1 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 250px) 100vw, 250px\" \/><\/a><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><\/h3>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Mergeam eu la magazin, s\u0103 cump\u0103r ou\u0103, legume congelate, iaurt \u0219i fulgi de ov\u0103z &#8211; iau toate acele medicamente pentru polipoz\u0103 \u0219i sinuzit\u0103, \u0219i&#46;&#46;&#46;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":20163,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":true,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2},"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-26697","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-spicy"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/woman-3683224_640.jpg?fit=640%2C426&ssl=1","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_likes_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/26697","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=26697"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/26697\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":26698,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/26697\/revisions\/26698"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/20163"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=26697"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=26697"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=26697"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}