{"id":26699,"date":"2024-07-21T10:04:46","date_gmt":"2024-07-21T07:04:46","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/?p=26699"},"modified":"2024-07-21T10:04:50","modified_gmt":"2024-07-21T07:04:50","slug":"posta-redactiei-semnale-mixte","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/posta-redactiei-semnale-mixte\/","title":{"rendered":"Po\u0219ta redac\u021biei: Semnale mixte"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Periodic, oferim iubire cititorului nostru. \u00cen sensul \u00een care el sau ea, sau chiar tu, de ce nu, ne trimite(\u021bi) problema voastr\u0103 de suflet pe birou@lorenalupu.com. Noi citim, cuget\u0103m \u0219i analiz\u0103m, apoi propunem o solu\u021bie sau d\u0103m o opinie \u00ceNTR-UN ARTICOL PE BLOG.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Sau \u00een consulta\u0163ie privat\u0103, contra cost.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Scrisorica de azi zice a\u0219a:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Drag\u0103 Lorena, <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">S<strong>unt o fat\u0103 de 24 de ani \u0219i m-am angajat acum c\u00e2teva luni la un nou loc de munc\u0103. Acolo l-am cunoscut pe b\u0103iatul care m-a f\u0103cut s\u0103 m\u0103 simt cea mai frumoas\u0103 \u0219i cea mai ur\u00e2t\u0103, care m-a f\u0103cut s\u0103 m\u0103 simt special\u0103 \u0219i banal\u0103, de\u0219teapt\u0103 \u0219i proast\u0103 \u0219i care m-a f\u0103cut s\u0103 m\u0103 zv\u00e2rcolesc nop\u021bile \u00een pat p\u00e2n\u0103 diminea\u021ba, chinuit\u0103 de \u00eentreb\u0103ri.<\/strong> <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>\u00cen unele momente, \u00eemi vorbe\u0219te \u0219i m\u0103 trateaz\u0103 ca \u0219i cum a\u0219 fi femeia vie\u021bii lui. \u00cen altele, are o atitudine obraznic\u0103 \u0219i recalcitrant\u0103, ca \u0219i cum a\u0219 fi idioat\u0103 \u0219i nu a\u0219 merita nici m\u0103car s\u0103-mi r\u0103spund\u0103 la salut. Problema e c\u0103 eu m-am \u00eendr\u0103gostit de el ca o nebun\u0103 \u0219i modul \u00een care se poart\u0103 cu mine \u00eemi face ziua mai frumoas\u0103 sau mai ur\u00e2t\u0103. \u0218i ur\u0103sc c\u0103 are at\u00e2ta putere asupra mea. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Ce \u00eemi recomanzi s\u0103 fac? <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>X. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">***<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Drag\u0103 X., <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Citind mailul t\u0103u, \u00eemi dau seama c\u00e2t de inutile sunt sfaturile \u00een general \u0219i c\u00e2t de greu e s\u0103 ne ajut\u0103m de fapt unii pe al\u021bii. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">S\u0103 \u00eencerce unul semnale mixte cu mine acum, c\u00e2nd nimic nu m\u0103 mai uime\u0219te? P\u0103i, l-a\u0219 lua la ni\u0219te mi\u0219touri crunte \u0219i, de c\u00e2te ori s-ar purta nesim\u021bit, l-a\u0219 interpela cu \u201eP\u0103i cum, Pamfilic\u0103, parc\u0103 ieri m\u0103 iubeai\u201d, \u0219i viceversa, cu \u201eP\u0103i cum, Costelu\u0219, parc\u0103 ieri nu eram good enough, acum ce facem, serenad\u0103 de amor?\u201d <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Dar \u0219i eu am avut 20 de ani, c\u00e2nd capriciile cuiva \u00eemi luminau sau \u00eemi stricau ziua, \u0219i \u00eemi dau seama c\u00e2t de inutil e acest sfat, pentru c\u0103 tu \u00een acest moment nu ai nici relaxarea, nici miserupismul necesare s\u0103 faci asta. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Poate cel mai onest lucru pe care po\u021bi s\u0103-l faci e s\u0103 \u00eentrebi: \u201eCare e de fapt scopul t\u0103u?\u201d c\u00e2nd nimere\u0219ti un episod de negging sau unul de love bombing. C\u00e2teodat\u0103, sinceritatea e cea mai bun\u0103 arm\u0103. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Exist\u0103 50% \u0219anse ca \u0103la s\u0103 fi remarcat c\u0103 e\u0219ti atras\u0103 de el \u0219i s\u0103 joace bambilici cu tine, savur\u00e2ndu-\u0219i puterea, sau s\u0103 fie o fiin\u021b\u0103 tulburat\u0103 emo\u021bional, care s\u0103 nu prea \u0219tie ce s\u0103 fac\u0103 atunci c\u00e2nd e atras de o femeie \u0219i atunci s\u0103 joace jocule\u021be de rahat pentru c\u0103 \u00eei e team\u0103 de propriile emo\u021bii. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Cum faci diferen\u021ba? <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Penalizeaz\u0103-i episoadele de comportament prost. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">C\u00e2nd nu te respect\u0103, c\u00e2nd vorbe\u0219te peste tine, c\u00e2nd face ceva ce nu-\u021bi place, \u00eei spui: \u201eEu nu permit acest comportament\u201d, apoi te \u00eentorci cu spatele \u0219i pleci. Sau \u00eei spui c\u0103 din acest moment discu\u021bia e strict profesional\u0103 pe proiecte de munc\u0103 \u0219i glumele au luat sf\u00e2r\u0219it. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Dac\u0103 doar se joac\u0103, te va lua la mi\u0219to \u00een continuare \u0219i va presa mai mult b\u0103\u021bul prin gard, p\u00e2n\u0103 \u00een punctul \u00een care po\u021bi s\u0103-i faci o pl\u00e2ngere la HR pentru h\u0103r\u021buire. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Dac\u0103 \u021bine cu adev\u0103rat la tine, vei citi pe fa\u021ba lui panica \u00een momentul \u00een care \u00eei transmi\u021bi c\u0103 glumele s-au terminat \u0219i o schimbare prompt\u0103 \u00een bine. Pentru c\u0103 majoritatea b\u0103rba\u021bilor nu sunt idio\u021bi \u0219i \u0219tiu cum vor femeile s\u0103 fie tratate. \u00ce\u0219i \u00eencearc\u0103 norocul pentru c\u0103 le place riscul, dar dac\u0103 v\u0103d c\u0103 exist\u0103 \u0219ansa s\u0103 te piard\u0103, \u00ee\u0219i revizuiesc instant galeria de figuri. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Dar c\u00e2nd spui c\u0103 tu nu permi\u021bi acest comportament, trebuie s\u0103 fii 100% pe bune \u0219i s\u0103 fii preg\u0103tit\u0103 s\u0103 te lipse\u0219ti definitiv, \u00een caz c\u0103 nu-i vine mintea la cap. Ceea ce e greu de f\u0103cut dac\u0103-\u021bi place tipul. Pe de alt\u0103 parte: dec\u00e2t s\u0103 fii cu un bou manipulator care se  folose\u0219te de puterea lui asupra ta s\u0103-\u021bi fac\u0103 via\u021ba varz\u0103, mai bine singur\u0103. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Iar dac\u0103 nu po\u021bi trece peste sentimente \u0219i nici \u0103la nu \u021bi le ia \u00een serios, poate c\u0103 e o idee bun\u0103 s\u0103 cau\u021bi un job nou. Stabilitatea emo\u021bional\u0103 e comoara cea mai de pre\u021b a zilelor noastre. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Sper c\u0103 \u021bi-am fost util\u0103, <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Lorena. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">***<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Vrei s\u0103 m\u0103 urm\u0103re\u015fti \u00een social media? \u00cemi po\u0163i da like pe&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/lorenaalmighty\/\"><strong>Facebook<\/strong><\/a>, follow pe&nbsp;<strong><a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/lorenalupu\">Twitter<\/a><\/strong>&nbsp;\u015fi&nbsp;<strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/lorena.lup\/\">Instagram<\/a><\/strong>, subscribe pe&nbsp;<strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/channel\/UCCHBtHi6S2GlUFqETH70cjQ\">YouTube<\/a><\/strong>&nbsp;\u015fi pe<strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/@lorena.lupu\">&nbsp;TikTok<\/a><\/strong>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">***<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Dac\u0103 \u00ee\u021bi plac aceste articole, po\u021bi alege s\u0103-mi oferi sus\u021binerea de care am nevoie.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.paypal.com\/paypalme\/Trollywood\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"250\" height=\"82\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/01\/paypal-.jpg?w=700&amp;ssl=1\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-25884\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/01\/paypal-.jpg?w=250&amp;ssl=1 250w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/01\/paypal-.jpg?resize=150%2C49&amp;ssl=1 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 250px) 100vw, 250px\" \/><\/a><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Periodic, oferim iubire cititorului nostru. \u00cen sensul \u00een care el sau ea, sau chiar tu, de ce nu, ne trimite(\u021bi) problema voastr\u0103 de suflet&#46;&#46;&#46;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":16623,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":true,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2},"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-26699","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-spicy"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/mail.png?fit=640%2C387&ssl=1","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_likes_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/26699","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=26699"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/26699\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":26700,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/26699\/revisions\/26700"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/16623"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=26699"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=26699"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=26699"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}