{"id":26735,"date":"2024-08-02T08:34:06","date_gmt":"2024-08-02T05:34:06","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/?p=26735"},"modified":"2024-08-02T08:34:08","modified_gmt":"2024-08-02T05:34:08","slug":"respect-studentelor-de-la-snspa","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/respect-studentelor-de-la-snspa\/","title":{"rendered":"Respect, studentelor de la SNSPA"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

Citesc de c\u00e2teva zile articole peste articole, despre studentele care au descris modul \u00een care erau h\u0103r\u021buite \u0219i abuzate de profesori universitari b\u0103rba\u021bi, doar pentru c\u0103 ei aveau \u00een m\u00e2n\u0103 puterea de a le trece sau de a le pica. Dincolo de orice, simt o uria\u0219\u0103 admira\u021bie pentru cele care aleg s\u0103 rup\u0103 lan\u021bul t\u0103cerii. Amintirile ur\u00e2te din copil\u0103rie \u0219i adolescen\u021b\u0103 sunt ca ni\u0219te cicatrici coagulate cu stima de sine inexistent\u0103 pe care o aveai fa\u021b\u0103 de propria persoan\u0103, pe c\u00e2nd erai mic\u0103 \u0219i lipsit\u0103 de ap\u0103rare. S\u0103 sf\u00e2\u0219ii aceste cicatrici e un act de curaj nebun. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0218i realitatea e c\u0103, acum cincisprezece, ba chiar zece ani, abuzul s*xual era la ordinea zilei, \u00een absolut toate facult\u0103\u021bile. Am tot avut joburi cu interne studente, sau cu angajate studente, \u0219i auzeam istorii care reflectau cele relatate \u0219i de colegele mele de la UNATC. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Eu am avut noroc. Nu s-a dat nimeni la mine \u00een timpul \u0219colii. Sau, m\u0103 rog, nu \u00een mod pr\u0103d\u0103tor – conconsensual. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Am avut parte de alt tip de bullying. Din ur\u00e2t\u0103, gras\u0103, obez\u0103, resping\u0103toare pe scen\u0103 \u0219i al\u021bi termeni din \u0103\u0219tia dr\u0103g\u0103la\u0219i, meni\u021bi s\u0103-\u021bi anihileze complet stima de sine, nu m-au scos. De\u0219i aveam o greutate normal\u0103 pentru \u00een\u0103l\u021bimea \u0219i conforma\u021bia mea. Dar pe atunci, standardul de showbiz era femeia piele \u0219i os. \u0218i nu \u00eencercau dec\u00e2t s\u0103 m\u0103 fac\u0103 vandabil\u0103 cu extrem de mult abuz verbal. Ce au izbutit a fost o lung\u0103 depresie, \u00een care am investit ani de terapie \u0219i zeci de mii de lei, \u0219i am r\u0103mas cu sechele: \u0219i acum, c\u00e2nd face cineva o remarc\u0103 pe care o percep ca pe un atac, reac\u021bionez fulger\u0103tor \u0219i foarte defensiv. \u0218i nu am de g\u00e2nd s\u0103 schimb asta cu nimic, pentru c\u0103 am observat c\u0103 oamenii tind s\u0103-i foloseasc\u0103 pe post de \u021bapi isp\u0103\u0219itori \u0219i de saci de box emo\u021bionali pe cei care nu-i bag\u0103 instant \u00een origini c\u00e2nd \u00eencep cu atacurile. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00cen schimb, din punct de vedere s*xual nu a \u00eencercat nimeni nimic. Spre norocul lor, I might add. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nu le denun\u021b pe b\u0103b\u0103ciunile care mi-au f\u0103cut via\u021ba iad cu astfel de remarci pentru c\u0103 s-a ocupat via\u021ba de ele \u0219i sunt toate varz\u0103 cu carne. E ca \u00een proverbul \u0103la indian cu \u201euneori, tot ce ai de f\u0103cut e s\u0103 stai lini\u0219tit pe malul r\u00e2ului \u0219i s\u0103 a\u0219tep\u021bi s\u0103 vin\u0103 la vale cadavrul du\u0219manului t\u0103u\u201d. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Dar colegele mele de facultate au pove\u0219ti cutremur\u0103toare, legate de b\u0103rba\u021bi care le-au amenin\u021bat cu examene picate, exmatricul\u0103ri \u0219i alte groz\u0103vii, dac\u0103 nu cooperau. Invita\u021biile acas\u0103 sau la garsonier\u0103, cu consecin\u021be clare \u00een caz de refuz, erau la ordinea zilei. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

De ce nu vorbesc? <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Pentru c\u0103, dac\u0103 ai 30 – 40 de ani \u0219i o via\u021b\u0103 lini\u0219tit\u0103, te \u00eengroze\u0219te g\u00e2ndul c\u0103 ai putea s-o \u00eentorci cu susul \u00een jos, formul\u00e2nd o acuza\u021bie care ar deschide o cutie a Pandorei. B\u0103rba\u021bii \u0103ia sus-pu\u0219i au rela\u021bii \u0219i prieteni, care le pot face extrem de mult r\u0103u. Nemaivorbind de mentalitatea oribil\u0103 din Rom\u00e2nia, care acuz\u0103 \u00eentotdeauna victima \u0219i justific\u0103 mereu abuzurile h\u0103r\u021buitorului cu \u201ee b\u0103rbat, e normal c\u0103 a f\u0103cut asta\u201d. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Profesori universitari care cred c\u0103 func\u021bia \u0219i autoritatea le dau dreptul s\u0103 profite de corpurile studentelor erau, chiar \u0219i acum zece ani, la absolut toate facult\u0103\u021bile din \u021bar\u0103. Bunul lor renume depinde de t\u0103cerea mai multor femei. \u0218i de teama respectivelor femei c\u0103 dezv\u0103luirile abuzurilor din studen\u021bie le-ar pune \u0219i pe ele \u00eentr-o lumin\u0103 proast\u0103. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Dar t\u0103cerea aduce cu sine continuarea abuzului. Noi \u0219i noi genera\u021bii de fete inocente de 18 ani vor fi corupte de bo\u0219orogi libidino\u0219i, cu \u0219antaj de tipul \u201evrei s\u0103 promovezi anul \/ s\u0103-\u021bi p\u0103strezi bursa?\u201d Pentru ei, puterea vine la pachet cu lipsa scrupulelor de orice tip. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0218i din acest motiv, le consider pe fostele studente de la SNSPA care l-au expus pe Bulai ni\u0219te veritabile eroine. Ultima \u0219tire spune c\u0103 individul se pensioneaz\u0103. M\u0103car \u0219tim c\u0103, \u00een calitate de pensionar, nu va trage de fusta nim\u0103nui niciodat\u0103. \u0218i nu va avea cu ce s\u0103 preseze sau s\u0103 \u0219antajeze pe nimeni. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Locul t\u0103u \u00eentr-o facultate e pl\u0103tit de statul rom\u00e2n, dac\u0103 e\u0219ti la f\u0103r\u0103 tax\u0103, \u0219i de propriul buzunar, dac\u0103 e\u0219ti pe loc cu tax\u0103. Nu e\u0219ti acolo din bun\u0103voin\u021ba nim\u0103nui, ci din dreptul t\u0103u la educa\u021bie, derivat din statutul t\u0103u de cet\u0103\u021bean rom\u00e2n \u0219i notele ob\u021binute la admitere \/ bacalaureat \/ etc, \u00een func\u021bie de regulile fiec\u0103rei universit\u0103\u021bi \u00een parte. NU datorezi profesorilor nimic altceva, dec\u00e2t s\u0103 \u00eenve\u021bi materia predat\u0103. Ei sunt pl\u0103ti\u021bi din banii contribuabililor, dac\u0103 universitatea e de stat, \u0219i din ai t\u0103i direct, dac\u0103 universitatea e privat\u0103, s\u0103-\u021bi predea materia x. Nu au absolut nici un drept s\u0103-\u021bi cear\u0103 nimic pe l\u00e2ng\u0103. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0218i dac\u0103 o fac, e perfect \u00een regul\u0103 s\u0103-i expui. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

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