{"id":26866,"date":"2024-09-02T12:16:02","date_gmt":"2024-09-02T09:16:02","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/?p=26866"},"modified":"2024-09-02T12:16:05","modified_gmt":"2024-09-02T09:16:05","slug":"nu-nu-e-treaba-ta-daca-fac-ciorba","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/nu-nu-e-treaba-ta-daca-fac-ciorba\/","title":{"rendered":"Nu, nu e treaba ta dac\u0103 fac ciorb\u0103"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

Mai \u0163ine\u0163i minte cum, c\u00e2nd eram mici, orice ini\u0163iativ\u0103 a unei femei era prompt taxat\u0103 cu \u201ela crati\u021b\u0103, f\u0103\u201d? \u0218i cum, pe m\u0103sur\u0103 ce am crescut, fraza asta de trist\u0103 amintire a ajuns mai mult o glum\u0103, pentru c\u0103 o parte dintre gigeii acelei genera\u021bii s-au prins c\u0103 efectul e doar acela de a enerva femeia \u00een cauz\u0103, \u0219i nu doar c\u0103 nu prime\u0219ti de la ea chiftele, ci alt tip de bilu\u021be c\u0103rnoase \u00een gur\u0103? <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Acum, sub influen\u021ba lui Tate \u0219i a omologilor lui rom\u00e2ni, au ap\u0103rut gigeii de genera\u021bie nou\u0103. \u0102\u0219tia se bag\u0103 \u00een seam\u0103 pe la orice postare c\u00e2t de c\u00e2t viral\u0103, pe toate re\u021belele sociale, sau pe orice live, \u0219i \u00eentreab\u0103: \u201eDar \u0219tii s\u0103 g\u0103te\u0219ti \/ s\u0103 faci sarmale \/ s\u0103 faci ciorb\u0103 \/ s\u0103 faci whatever m\u00e2ncare?\u201d <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Mesajul de printre r\u00e2nduri e tot \u201ela crati\u021b\u0103, f\u0103\u201d \u0219i ce \u00eencearc\u0103 genul \u0103sta de bou s\u0103-\u021bi sugereze e c\u0103 oricum nimic din ce faci nu valoreaz\u0103 doi bani dac\u0103 nu vine la pachet cu sarmale \u0219i cu ciorb\u0103. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Cel mai amuzant e c\u00e2nd acest bullying legat de stereotipuri de gen vine de la un losera\u0219 patetic, care are preten\u021bia s\u0103-\u021bi bage \u021bie pe g\u00e2t rolul tradi\u021bional al femeii, dar nu \u00een\u021belege nimic din rolul tradi\u021bional al b\u0103rbatului. Cel care pl\u0103te\u0219te toate facturile, toate cele necesare casei \u0219i toate cele necesare partenerei, cel care face toate repara\u021biile din cas\u0103 \u0219i cel care asigur\u0103 tot ce e necesar. Da, dac\u0103 \u0219tii s\u0103 faci toate astea, te califici s\u0103 \u00eentrebi O FEMEIE INTERESAT\u0102 DE TINE dac\u0103 face ciorb\u0103 \u0219i sarmale, pentru c\u0103 iat\u0103 c\u00e2te pui tu pe mas\u0103 \u0219i te intereseaz\u0103 dac\u0103 \u0219i ea poate oferi lucrurile care-\u021bi trebuie \u021bie. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Da, am zis INTERESAT\u0102 DE TINE. S\u0103 \u00eentrebi la nimereal\u0103 femei care nu au nici o treab\u0103 cu tine dac\u0103 fac ciorb\u0103 \u0219i sarmale e ca \u0219i cum ar porni Alinu\u021ba la colindat pe internet s\u0103 \u00eentrebe b\u0103rba\u021bi la nimereal\u0103 dac\u0103 sunt dispu\u0219i s-o \u00eentre\u021bin\u0103, s\u0103-i cumpere pantofi Manolo Blahnik \u0219i s\u0103-i pl\u0103teasc\u0103 o croazier\u0103 de lux \u00een Indonezia \u0219i Filipine. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

A\u0219a cum Alinu\u021ba pare doar disperat\u0103 \u00een caz c\u0103 ar afi\u0219a un astfel de comportament, tu pari doar fl\u0103m\u00e2nd. \u0218i nu ob\u021bii oricum ciorb\u0103 sau sarmale, ci doar blockuri dac\u0103 femeia e ocupat\u0103, \u0219i expediere \u00een mor\u021bi de mam\u0103, dac\u0103 a iritat-o \u0219eful la munc\u0103 \u0219i simte nevoia s\u0103 se descarce pe cineva, iar curul t\u0103u prost tocmai ofer\u0103 prilejul perfect cu o \u00eentrebare care echivaleaz\u0103 cu un coming out: Sunt bou inutil \u0219i m\u00e2ndru de asta. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u021aii la rolurile tradi\u021bionale? OK, atunci nu deranja femei c\u00e2nd e\u0219ti un p\u00e2rlit rupt \u00een cur. B\u0103rbatul tradi\u021bional are casa lui, \u0219i banii lui, \u0219i pl\u0103te\u0219te tot. Merit\u0103 s\u0103-i faci ciorb\u0103 \u0219i sarmale, pentru c\u0103 \u0219tii c\u0103 ai ziua de m\u00e2ine asigurat\u0103. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Sau dac\u0103 e\u0219ti un p\u00e2rlit rupt \u00een cur, \u0219i \u0219tii c\u0103 nu ai nimic de oferit, asum\u0103-\u021bi c\u0103 epoca modern\u0103 e singura \u00een care nu e\u0219ti considerat automat un e\u0219ec \u00een calitate de b\u0103rbat \u0219i dispre\u021buit de \u00eentreaga societate. Pentru c\u0103 b\u0103rba\u021bii \u0103ia c\u0103rora femeia le aducea cafelu\u021ba la pat f\u0103ceau foarte multe pentru cas\u0103 \u0219i pentru ea, s\u0103 merite deranjul. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Fetelor, ca s\u0103 stop\u0103m trendul \u0103sta al \u00eentreb\u0103rilor agasante legate de g\u0103tit de la gigei care vor rol tradi\u021bional de la tine \u0219i plat\u0103 fifty-fifty la restaurant, am rug\u0103mintea s\u0103 bloca\u021bi instant, dac\u0103 sunte\u021bi ocupate, iar dac\u0103 nu, s\u0103 \u00eentreba\u021bi: \u201eTe oferi s\u0103-mi cumperi o garderob\u0103 nou\u0103 \u0219i pantofi de designer. C\u0103 tot v\u0103d c\u0103 vrei s-o ardem domestic a\u0219a \u0219i nu \u0219tiu dac\u0103 te \u021bine bugetul s\u0103 fii domestic cu mine\u201d. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Pe mul\u021bi din gigeii \u0103\u0219tia, \u00eei potoli\u021bi instant cu un astfel de r\u0103spuns. Pentru c\u0103 tradi\u021bionalismul lor se refer\u0103 doar la ce ave\u021bi voi de f\u0103cut. Nu-i auzi nici pe Tate, nici pe restul pro\u0219tilor s\u0103 abereze despre tot ce avem de f\u0103cut noi ca b\u0103rba\u021bi \u00een rela\u021bia tradi\u021bional\u0103. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

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