{"id":26907,"date":"2024-09-08T10:52:32","date_gmt":"2024-09-08T07:52:32","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/?p=26907"},"modified":"2024-09-08T10:54:46","modified_gmt":"2024-09-08T07:54:46","slug":"respectati-va-timpul","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/respectati-va-timpul\/","title":{"rendered":"Respecta\u0163i-v\u0103 timpul"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">S\u0103pt\u0103m\u00e2na trecut\u0103, am avut o po\u015ft\u0103 a redac\u0163iei care a devenit viral\u0103 pe Facebook. Cea cu rom\u00e2nca mutat\u0103 \u00een str\u0103in\u0103tate, care a \u00eenceput un flirt cu un indian, \u015fi dup\u0103 o prim\u0103 etap\u0103 de lugu-lugu, \u0103la i-a f\u0103cut m\u0103rturisiri surpriz\u0103. Unu, c\u0103 trimite tot venitul acas\u0103 \u00een India familiei, iar lui \u00eei r\u0103m\u00e2ne de chirie \u015fi m\u00e2ncare. \u015ei doi, c\u0103 mai are, colac peste pup\u0103z\u0103, \u015fi un credit de 100.000 de euro.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Postarea \u015fi, implicit, sfaturile mele, se afl\u0103 <a href=\"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/posta-redactiei-despre-iubire-si-bani\/\" data-type=\"link\" data-id=\"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/posta-redactiei-despre-iubire-si-bani\/\"><strong>aici<\/strong><\/a>. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">C\u00e2t timp postarea s-a men\u0163inut \u00een cercul meu de followeri, sec\u0163iunea de comentarii a r\u0103mas agreabil\u0103. Da, s\u0103 ias\u0103 din situa\u0163ie f\u0103r\u0103 discu\u0163ii, pe baza argumentelor date de mine \u00een numitul articol. Chiar \u015fi autoarea mailului mi-a mul\u0163umit \u015fi hot\u0103r\u00e2t s\u0103 aplice recomandarea. Sper c\u0103 s-a men\u0163inut tare pe pozi\u0163ie, pentru c\u0103 un vibrator decent cost\u0103 50 de euro, dar un b\u0103rbat \u00eenglodat \u00een datorii \u015fi obliga\u0163ii fa\u0163\u0103 de al\u0163ii, o via\u0163\u0103 de chin. Asta dac\u0103 nu era un scam \u015fi atunci el se f\u0103cea nev\u0103zut de cum f\u0103cea ea \u00eemprumut la banc\u0103 s\u0103-i pl\u0103teasc\u0103 datoriile.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Apoi, de cum a s\u0103rit de 50 de share-uri \u015fi a \u00eenceput s\u0103 circule liber pe paji\u015ftile Facebook, au \u00eenceput s\u0103 vin\u0103 \u015fi comentariile retardate. C\u0103 vin unii gigei cu \u201esunte\u021bi ni\u0219te stricate materialiste\u201d s\u0103 zicem c\u0103 e de a\u0219teptat. Pentru unii, orice femeie care nu se sacrific\u0103 pe altarul p*lii lor muncind 24 de ore pe zi s\u0103 le fie lor bine, f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103 se a\u0219tepte ca ei s\u0103 mute o solni\u021b\u0103, e o stricat\u0103 materialist\u0103. G\u00e2ndul c\u0103 \u0219i femeia are nevoi, \u0219i c\u0103 acestea trebuie respectate, e chinez\u0103 pentru ei. Totul e despre ei \u0219i ce le trebuie lor. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Nimic surprinz\u0103tor p\u00e2n\u0103 aici. Dimpotriv\u0103, faptul c\u0103 sumedenie de b\u0103rba\u021bi au zis \u201eda, e inadmisibil a\u0219a ceva\u201d a fost surpriza pl\u0103cut\u0103 pentru mine. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Dar ce m-a exasperat a fost c\u00e2nd au venit femei s\u0103 abereze. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u0218i dau un singur exemplu: \u201eAr trebui s\u0103 te duci \u00een India, s\u0103-i cuno\u0219ti familia, s\u0103 vezi dac\u0103 spune adev\u0103rul, apoi s\u0103 te prefaci c\u0103 vrei s\u0103-i refinan\u021bezi creditul \u0219i s\u0103 ceri documentele creditului original.\u201d <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ceee? <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">At\u00e2ta b\u0103taie de cap \u0219i timp pierdut aiurea, pentru ce? <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Pentru unul care a declarat din start c\u0103 n-are bani de investit \u00een rela\u021bie? <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u0218i dac\u0103 nu are bani de investit \u00een rela\u021bie, e cazul s\u0103 \u021bi se f\u00e2lf\u00e2ie dac\u0103 \u00eei bag\u0103 \u00een familie, la ciorap, \u00ee\u0219i aprinde trabuce cu ei sau pur \u0219i simplu minte. R\u0103spunsul final din punctul t\u0103u de vedere e c\u0103 n-are bani de investit \u00een rela\u021bie, \u0219i nu te intereseaz\u0103 ce e dincolo de asta. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">S\u0103 te duci \u00een India s\u0103-i cuno\u0219ti familia c\u00e2nd el deja \u021bi-a spus cum st\u0103 treaba din punctul lui de vedere? PIERDERE DE TIMP. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Dac\u0103 descoperi c\u0103 a spus adev\u0103rul, iar \u0103ia chiar se a\u0219teapt\u0103 s\u0103 fie \u00eentre\u021binu\u021bi toat\u0103 via\u021ba, momentan de el, apoi \u0219i de viitoarea nor\u0103, informa\u021bia nu te ajut\u0103 dec\u00e2t s\u0103 te despar\u021bi cu inima \u00eemp\u0103cat\u0103. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Iar dac\u0103 descoperi c\u0103 a min\u021bit, \u0219i de fapt familia \u00eei trimite lui bani, pe care \u00eei joac\u0103 la p\u0103c\u0103nele, imagineaz\u0103-\u021bi frustrarea. Finalul e tot desp\u0103r\u021bire, de data asta cu mor\u021bi de mam\u0103. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u0218i dac\u0103 A \u0219i B duc ambele la consecin\u021ba c1, de ce s\u0103 mai spargi bani pe un drum \u00een India? Stai pe c*rul t\u0103u la tine acas\u0103 \u0219i d\u0103-i cu Time To Say Good-Bye, de Andrea Bocelli \u0219i Sarah Brightman. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">S\u0103 mimezi c\u0103 vrei s\u0103-l refinan\u021bezi, \u0219i s\u0103-i ceri acte??? <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Din nou, wtf? <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Dac\u0103 descoperi c\u0103 nu te-a min\u021bit \u0219i chiar are un credit de 100.000 de euro, \u021bi-ai asumat o datorie imens\u0103, pe care cel mai probabil o vei pl\u0103ti singur\u0103. Dac\u0103 tot iei de la banc\u0103 100.000 de euro, cump\u0103r\u0103-\u021bi o cas\u0103 \u021bie, nu-i irosi pe p*l\u0103r\u0103i inep\u021bi financiar. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u0218i dac\u0103 descoperi c\u0103 te-a min\u021bit, din nou, desp\u0103r\u021bire cu mor\u021bi de mam\u0103. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u0218i atunci, din nou: dac\u0103 \u0219i versiunea A, \u0219i versiunea B, duc ambele spre o situa\u021bie de rahat, spune stop de dinainte, nu intra pe fund\u0103tur\u0103. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Fetelor, nu mai irosi\u021bi timp valoros pe kkturi \u0219i pe kknari. Via\u021ba e scurt\u0103. De cum afla\u021bi ce v\u0103 intereseaz\u0103, \u0219i anume a) nu vreau o rela\u021bie stabil\u0103 b) nu vreau copii c) nu am bani pentru nevoile cuplului etc. etc. etc. etc. etc., stop joc \u0219i v\u0103 elibera\u021bi op\u021biunile. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Undeva e un b\u0103iat bun, care vrea o rela\u021bie stabil\u0103 \/ vrea copii \/ are o situa\u021bie financiar\u0103 decent\u0103 etc. etc. etc., iar voi pierde\u021bi acea \u0219ans\u0103, pentru c\u0103 sunte\u021bi \u00een drum spre India, s\u0103 vede\u021bi dac\u0103 Jamal are p\u0103rin\u021bi t\u00e2mpi\u021bi sau minte de \u00eenghea\u021b\u0103 apele, chit c\u0103 ambele r\u0103spunsuri sunt cu x. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Sau apare b\u0103iatul \u0103la bun, \u0219i voi sunte\u021bi cu o datorie de 100.000 la banc\u0103, c\u0103 l-a\u021bi refinan\u021bat pe Jamal. P\u0103i nu se va uita \u0103la la voi ca la cele mai cutremur\u0103tor de proaste fiin\u021be \u00een via\u021b\u0103 \u0219i nu-\u0219i va c\u0103uta prompt pe una care \u0219tie ce vrea \u0219i nu pierde timpul cu to\u021bi rata\u021bii? <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Via\u021ba omului e scurt\u0103. Durata medie a vie\u021bii pe glob e de 73,3 ani. \u0218i oricum, ce e peste 73,3 ani nu prea mai e distrac\u021bie. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Investi\u021bi acest timp scurt \u00een oameni care s\u0103 aduc\u0103 ceva bun \u00een via\u021ba voastr\u0103, nu investig\u00e2nd dac\u0103 \u021beparii dau \u021beap\u0103 mare sau \u021beap\u0103 mic\u0103. E irelevant. E bou? OK, e partea pe care ai nevoie s\u0103 o \u0219tii. Restul sunt detalii care nu influen\u021beaz\u0103 rezultatul alegerii. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Move on. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Iar dac\u0103 ai a\u0219a mare nevoie de dragoste, intr\u0103 \u00een grupul meu de adop\u021bii CIVILIZAT,<strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/groups\/1931162130645507\"> aici<\/a><\/strong>, \u0219i vei g\u0103si c\u0103\u021bei \u0219i pisoi de toate v\u00e2rstele \u0219i din toate localit\u0103\u021bile. Iubire mai pur\u0103, mai tandr\u0103, mai pu\u021bin condi\u021bionat\u0103 nu vei g\u0103si niciodat\u0103. M\u00e2ncare, nisip, vaccinuri, juc\u0103rii \u0219i veterinar. \u0218i nici nu te treze\u0219ti cu 100.000 de euro datorie. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Nu mai fi\u021bi oi imbecile, c\u0103 a\u0219a ajunge\u021bi s\u0103 pierde\u021bi ani \u00een \u0219ir cu c\u00e2te un nemernic. De multe ori, victimele societ\u0103\u021bii sunt, \u00een egal\u0103 m\u0103sur\u0103, victimele propriilor alegeri. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Mai bine s\u0103 rag\u0103 gogu c\u0103 e\u0219ti \u201eprea selectiv\u0103\u201d dec\u00e2t s\u0103 suni la poli\u021bie pl\u00e2ng\u00e2nd noaptea la 2 cu o imens\u0103 v\u00e2n\u0103taie la ochi. Ad\u0103posturile pentru victime ale violen\u021bei domestice sunt pline ochi de femei \u201enu prea selective\u201d. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">***<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Vrei s\u0103 m\u0103 urm\u0103re\u015fti \u00een social media? \u00cemi po\u0163i da like pe&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/lorenaalmighty\/\"><strong>Facebook<\/strong><\/a>, follow pe&nbsp;<strong><a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/lorenalupu\">Twitter<\/a><\/strong>&nbsp;\u015fi&nbsp;<strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/lorena.lup\/\">Instagram<\/a><\/strong>, subscribe pe&nbsp;<strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/channel\/UCCHBtHi6S2GlUFqETH70cjQ\">YouTube<\/a><\/strong>&nbsp;\u015fi pe<strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/@lorena.lupu\">&nbsp;TikTok<\/a><\/strong>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">***<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Dac\u0103 \u00ee\u021bi plac aceste articole, po\u021bi alege s\u0103-mi oferi sus\u021binerea de care am nevoie.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.paypal.com\/paypalme\/Trollywood\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"250\" height=\"82\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/01\/paypal-.jpg?w=700&amp;ssl=1\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-25884\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/01\/paypal-.jpg?w=250&amp;ssl=1 250w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/01\/paypal-.jpg?resize=150%2C49&amp;ssl=1 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 250px) 100vw, 250px\" \/><\/a><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>S\u0103pt\u0103m\u00e2na trecut\u0103, am avut o po\u015ft\u0103 a redac\u0163iei care a devenit viral\u0103 pe Facebook. Cea cu rom\u00e2nca mutat\u0103 \u00een str\u0103in\u0103tate, care a \u00eenceput un&#46;&#46;&#46;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":22097,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_feature_clip_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":true,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2},"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-26907","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-spicy"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/07\/wow3.png?fit=640%2C640&ssl=1","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_likes_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/26907","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=26907"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/26907\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":26910,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/26907\/revisions\/26910"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/22097"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=26907"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=26907"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=26907"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}