Te felicit c\u0103 ai dat sfaturi foarte bune la at\u00e2\u0163ia oameni, dar \u00eemi pare r\u0103u c\u0103 a venit momentul s\u0103 am \u015fi eu nevoie. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Am o prieten\u0103. Voiam s\u0103 zic cea mai bun\u0103 prieten\u0103 a mea, dar acum am \u00eendoieli. Ne-am cunoscut acum cinci ani, la un team building, am r\u00e2s \u00eempreun\u0103 toat\u0103 seara, apoi am povestit tot drumul p\u00e2n\u0103 acas\u0103. Am descoperit c\u0103 locuim aproape una de cealalt\u0103, \u015fi am \u00eenceput s\u0103 ne vedem de mai multe ori pe s\u0103pt\u0103m\u00e2n\u0103.<\/strong> <\/p>\n\n\n\n Am descoperit o fat\u0103 foarte de\u015fteapt\u0103, foarte sufletist\u0103, foarte special\u0103, dar cu un singur defect. Disperat\u0103 s\u0103 se \u00eendr\u0103gosteasc\u0103 de orice prost care o bag\u0103 \u00een seam\u0103. De tipi mult sub nivelul ei, care n-o apreciaz\u0103 \u015fi care o trag \u00een jos. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Ultimul cavaler a ap\u0103rut acum \u015fase luni \u015fi e mare ortodox. Din \u0103la cu Doamne ajut\u0103 \u015fi cu ce vrea Dumnezeu \u00een gur\u0103, ca r\u0103spuns la orice. Problema e c\u0103 a convertit-o \u015fi pe a mea la ortodoxie feroce, \u015fi acum a \u00eenceput s\u0103-mi \u0163in\u0103 \u015fi mie predici despre cumin\u0163enia femeii \u015fi alte stupizenii de genul. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Cum o trezesc la realitate? <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n X.<\/strong> <\/p>\n\n\n\n ***<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u00ce\u0163i place aceast\u0103 rubric\u0103? \u015ei mie \u00eemi place c\u00e2nd m\u0103 sus\u0163ii \ud83d\ude00 <\/p>\n\n\n\n ***<\/p>\n\n\n\n Drag\u0103 X, <\/p>\n\n\n\n Cum vrea Dumnezeu. \ud83d\ude00 <\/p>\n\n\n\n Trebuie s\u0103 \u00een\u0163elegi c\u0103 fiecare dintre noi suntem motiva\u0163i de lucruri diferite \u00een via\u0163\u0103. Pe unii \u00eei motiveaz\u0103 succesul, pe al\u0163ii banii, pe al\u0163ii iubirea \u015fi tot a\u015fa. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Prietena ta de\u015fteapt\u0103 \u015fi sufletist\u0103 are nevoie de stabilitate emo\u0163ional\u0103, s\u0103 se simt\u0103 \u00eemplinit\u0103. Nu poate tr\u0103i f\u0103r\u0103 ea. A\u015fa cum eu nu pot tr\u0103i f\u0103r\u0103 sentimentul libert\u0103\u0163ii personale, iar Andrew Tate nu poate tr\u0103i f\u0103r\u0103 hoarde de gigei care s\u0103 \u00eel considere t\u0103ticul lor. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Nu ai cum s\u0103 schimbi nevoia fundamental\u0103 a unui om. E ceea ce \u00eel define\u015fte ca persoan\u0103. Po\u0163i doar s\u0103 \u00eel accep\u0163i a\u015fa cum este sau s\u0103 \u00eel respingi a\u015fa cum este. <\/p>\n\n\n\n \u00centre tine \u015fi b\u0103rbatul care \u00eei ofer\u0103 echilibrul emo\u0163ional, aceast\u0103 femeie \u00eel va alege \u00eentotdeauna pe el. \u015ei pe tine te va trata \u00een func\u0163ie de ideile de\u0163in\u0103torului de cucurigu. <\/p>\n\n\n\n E ceva extrem de dubios \u00een modul \u00een care unii oameni preiau pe nemestecate ideile \u015fi modul de via\u0163\u0103 al partenerului \/ partenerei, ca \u015fi cum nu ar avea o personalitate proprie? Desigur. \u015ei de obicei, \u0103\u015ftia nimeresc tipologia de partener care face pre\u015f din ei, pentru c\u0103 se poate.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Dar oric\u00e2t ai insista tu, o faci degeaba, pentru c\u0103, dac\u0103 aceast\u0103 femeie vrea \u00eenainte de orice o rela\u0163ie, \u015fi e dispus\u0103 s\u0103 se investeasc\u0103 at\u00e2t de mult \u00eentr-o rela\u0163ie, nimic din ce ai tu de spus nu conteaz\u0103 pentru ea. <\/p>\n\n\n\n \u015ei da, religio\u015fii, exact ca veganii, nu pot niciodat\u0103 s\u0103-\u015fi \u0163in\u0103 credin\u0163a doar pentru ei, ci trebuie s\u0103 te frece la icre \u015fi pe tine s\u0103 le urmezi exemplul, altfel pierd cardul de credincios \/ vegan. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Din c\u00e2te \u00een\u0163eleg, ortodoxul nostru nu e abuziv cu ea, doar extrem de sf\u0103tos, \u015fi aparent, pe ea nu o deranjeaz\u0103, de vreme ce \u00eei preia sfaturile. \u015ei ea se a\u015fteapt\u0103 de la tine s\u0103 faci acela\u015fi lucru. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Dac\u0103 stai prin preajm\u0103, probabil c\u0103 \u00eendoctrinarea va deveni din ce \u00een ce mai insistent\u0103, \u015fi nu prea ai ce face s\u0103 opre\u015fti asta. Remember, prietena ta a g\u0103sit ce \u015fi-a dorit. Dac\u0103 vine la pachet cu Doamne miluie\u015fte, pentru ea nu e o problem\u0103. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Po\u0163i alege s\u0103 \u00eenduri eroic \u015fi s\u0103 tot refuzi, ceea ce, probabil, la un moment dat \u00eel va nemul\u0163umi pe capul familiei, sau, pur \u015fi simplu, s\u0103 r\u0103re\u015fti interac\u0163iunea \u015fi s\u0103 vezi ce urmeaz\u0103. Dac\u0103 e mare ortodox, sau o ia de nevast\u0103 – c\u0103 amorul extraconjugal nu prea e \u00een armonie cu Sf\u00e2nta Scriptur\u0103 – sau o p\u0103r\u0103se\u015fte c\u00e2nd g\u0103se\u015fte pe una virgin\u0103 \u015fi cu p\u0103r la subra\u0163. <\/p>\n\n\n\n \u00cen primul caz, ghinion pentru prietenia voastr\u0103. \u00cen al doilea, prietena ta o s\u0103 reapar\u0103 pl\u00e2ng\u00e2nd cu muci c\u0103 ea e eroina iubirii ne\u00eemp\u0103rt\u0103\u015fite \u015fi porcii \u0103\u015ftia nu \u015ftiu s\u0103 respecte o femeie cu adev\u0103rat devotat\u0103. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Dar eu \u00ee\u0163i sugerez s\u0103 \u00ee\u0163i cau\u0163i prietene care \u015ftiu cine sunt ca oameni \u015fi nu \u00eencep s\u0103-\u0163i frece creierii cu mersul trenurilor, dac\u0103 se combin\u0103 cu un conductor de tren. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Sper c\u0103 am fost util\u0103, <\/p>\n\n\n\n Lorena. <\/p>\n\n\n\n ***<\/p>\n\n\n\n Vrei s\u0103 m\u0103 urm\u0103re\u015fti \u00een social media? \u00cemi po\u0163i da like pe Facebook<\/strong><\/a>, follow pe Twitter<\/a><\/strong> \u015fi Instagram<\/a><\/strong>, subscribe pe YouTube<\/a><\/strong> \u015fi pe TikTok<\/a><\/strong>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n <\/p>\n\n\n\n <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" Periodic, oferim iubire cititorului nostru. \u00cen sensul \u00een care el sau ea, sau chiar tu, de ce nu, ne trimite(\u021bi) problema voastr\u0103 de suflet...<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":16544,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_feature_clip_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":true,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2},"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-26953","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-spicy"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/ortodox-vader.jpg?fit=640%2C946&ssl=1","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_likes_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/26953","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=26953"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/26953\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":26955,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/26953\/revisions\/26955"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/16544"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=26953"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=26953"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=26953"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}![\"\"](\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/01\/paypal-.jpg?w=700&ssl=1\")
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