{"id":27076,"date":"2024-10-15T11:17:55","date_gmt":"2024-10-15T08:17:55","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/?p=27076"},"modified":"2024-10-15T11:17:56","modified_gmt":"2024-10-15T08:17:56","slug":"deriva-influencerului","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/deriva-influencerului\/","title":{"rendered":"Deriva influencerului"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

Azi, am citit o \u015ftire despre \u00eenc\u0103 un faimos de TikTok care a f\u0103cut pe vitezomanul Gic\u0103 \u015fi a fost arestat de Poli\u0163ie pentru c\u0103 \u00eel chinuia talentul. Nu dau nume, pentru c\u0103 majoritatea acestor copii au 20 de ani, o iau personal dac\u0103 scrii despre ei \u015fi singurul lucru de care nu am chef la ora asta, c\u00e2nd \u00eemi revin \u015fi eu dup\u0103 o mare grip\u0103, e s\u0103 am scandal pe TikTok. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Citind \u015ftirea, mi-am dat seama c\u0103 avem un fenomen recurent. De la Dorian Popa \u015fi Ana Morodan, care \u015ftiu s\u0103 n-o ia personal, \u015fi p\u00e2n\u0103 la pu\u015ftani cu carism\u0103, urm\u0103ri\u0163i cu adula\u0163ie de sute de mii, ba chiar milioane de fani, influencerii rom\u00e2ni pierd cumva busola c\u00e2nd ajunge s\u0103 le mearg\u0103 cu adev\u0103rat bine, c\u00e2nd popularitatea lor ne\u0163\u0103rmurit\u0103 \u00eei face pe mii de oameni s\u0103 le spun\u0103 zilnic c\u0103 sunt foarte frumo\u015fi, foarte de\u015ftep\u0163i \u015fi foarte speciali. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

De ce se \u00eent\u00e2mpl\u0103 asta?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Cred c\u0103 o explica\u0163ie e dat\u0103 de faptul c\u0103, \u00een special pe TikTok, mul\u0163i dau de acest nivel de faim\u0103 la o v\u00e2rst\u0103 la care nu \u015ftiu cum s-o gestioneze \u00eentr-un mod s\u0103n\u0103tos. \u015ei nu \u00een\u0163eleg un adev\u0103r trist: iubirea oamenilor e trec\u0103toare. Cei care se extaziaz\u0103 azi c\u0103 postarea ta le-a f\u0103cut ziua sunt primii care te vor scuipa \u00een ochi dac\u0103 faci ceva ce nu le place, sau dac\u0103 un influencer mai mare face o campanie de hate la adresa ta, sau dac\u0103 e\u015fti prins \u00een flagrant cu vreo m\u0103g\u0103rie. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Iubirea oamenilor e o marf\u0103 mai perisabil\u0103 dec\u00e2t ou\u0103le de prepeli\u0163\u0103. Po\u0163i construi un \u00eenceput de carier\u0103 pe spinarea ei, ca dovad\u0103 acei influenceri care au debutat cu succes \u00een muzic\u0103 \u015fi cinema, dar nu po\u0163i s\u0103 te crezi zeu nemuritor pe baza ei. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Trebuie s\u0103 ai o anumit\u0103 maturitate, experien\u0163\u0103 de via\u0163\u0103, \u015fi mai exact, experien\u0163\u0103 de \u015futuri \u00een kuhr cu bocanci de munte, s\u0103 r\u0103m\u00e2i cu picioarele pe p\u0103m\u00e2nt \u015fi s\u0103 nu iei personal faptul c\u0103 mii de oameni strig\u0103 c\u0103 te iubesc, \u015fi s\u0103 nu \u0163i se urce la cap. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Pe de o parte, faptul c\u0103 acum nu depinzi de o cas\u0103 de discuri sau de una de produc\u0163ie s\u0103 devii o mutr\u0103 cunoscut\u0103 e un lucru bun. Justin Bieber e un exemplu de pu\u015ftan care a avut milioane de fani pe Youtube, c\u00e2nd se filma cu telefonul c\u00e2nt\u00e2nd, \u00eenainte s\u0103 lanseze o carier\u0103 interna\u0163ional\u0103. Nu l-a crescut un impresar cu pile, s-a crescut singur pe social media. Dar \u015fi Justin Bieber a comis suficiente demen\u0163e p\u00e2n\u0103 c\u00e2nd a ajuns \u00eentr-un punct al maturit\u0103\u0163ii. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Exist\u0103 \u00een zilele noastre terapie de toate tipurile, de la terapie pentru adic\u0163ii, p\u00e2n\u0103 la terapie de cuplu. Cred din toat\u0103 inima c\u0103 e nevoie s\u0103 apar\u0103 \u015fi terapia de popularitate. Unde te po\u0163i duce c\u00e2nd crezi c\u0103 num\u0103rul t\u0103u de urm\u0103ritori te plaseaz\u0103 deasupra legii, \u015fi unde s\u0103 fii trezit la realitatea faptului c\u0103 e\u015fti \u00een continuare un b\u0103iat de 20 de ani, care trebuie s\u0103-\u015fi defineasc\u0103 priorit\u0103\u0163ile \u00een via\u0163\u0103 \u015fi s\u0103 se concentreze pe a evolua uman \u015fi profesional. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Pentru c\u0103, dac\u0103 ne uit\u0103m la vedetele de alt\u0103dat\u0103, care ajungeau la celebritate dup\u0103 ani de munc\u0103 grea, observ\u0103m c\u0103 numele care nu se uit\u0103 repede sunt ale celor care au f\u0103cut efortul de a se perfec\u0163iona \u015fi de a se reinventa. Care nu \u015fi-au irosit banii prin cluburi, ci au creat viziuni. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Dar ca s\u0103 ajungi s\u0103 faci asta, ai nevoie s\u0103 te dai de c\u00e2teva ori cu capul de prag. S\u0103-\u0163i vin\u0103 min\u0163ile acolo unde le e locul. \u015ei s\u0103 con\u015ftientizezi c\u0103 lumea e schimb\u0103toare. \u201dE\u0219ti at\u00e2t de special\u201d de azi poate deveni \u201eDa’ cine plm e\u0219ti tu, b\u0103, terminatule\u201d de m\u00e2ine. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Vrei s\u0103 m\u0103 urm\u0103re\u015fti \u00een social media? \u00cemi po\u0163i da follow pe Facebook<\/strong><\/a> \u015fi Instagram<\/a><\/strong>, subscribe pe YouTube<\/a><\/strong> \u015fi pe TikTok<\/a><\/strong>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Dac\u0103 \u00ee\u021bi plac aceste articole, po\u021bi alege s\u0103-mi oferi sus\u021binerea de care am nevoie.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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