{"id":27078,"date":"2024-10-16T12:54:42","date_gmt":"2024-10-16T09:54:42","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/?p=27078"},"modified":"2024-10-16T12:54:44","modified_gmt":"2024-10-16T09:54:44","slug":"de-ce-te-temi-de-batranete","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/de-ce-te-temi-de-batranete\/","title":{"rendered":"De ce te temi de b\u0103tr\u00e2ne\u0163e?"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

Un lucru pe care unii b\u0103rba\u0163i – cei neinteresan\u0163i – ador\u0103 s\u0103-l spun\u0103 femeilor este: Las\u0103 c\u0103 \u00eemb\u0103tr\u00e2ne\u015fti tu. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00cen ideea c\u0103 o s\u0103 vin\u0103 o zi \u00een care nimeni nu va mai dori cu disperare s\u0103 \u0163i-o introduc\u0103 pe d\u00e2nsa \u00eentr-\u00e2nsa, \u015fi ziua aia va fi de intens\u0103 jale \u015fi mare durere, \u015fi \u00een momentul acela, \u00ee\u0163i va disp\u0103rea subit tot respectul de sine \u015fi vei trage de to\u0163i ur\u00e2\u0163ii s\u0103 te ia \u015fi pe tine unul, \u015fi \u0103la nu o s\u0103 vrea. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Pe c\u00e2nd realitatea situa\u0163iei e c\u0103 singurii b\u0103rba\u0163i cu care am avut stabilitate \u015fi predictibilitate \u00een rela\u0163ii, \u015fi pe care m-am bazat cu ceva au fost cei care nu erau interesa\u0163i de niciun fel de ac\u0163iune, prin urmare, erau mai aten\u0163i la mine ca om \u015fi ca profesionist. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Pe m\u0103sur\u0103 ce avansez \u00een v\u00e2rst\u0103, \u00eemi place de mine mai mult. \u015etiu ce vreau, cer direct \u015fi f\u0103r\u0103 sub\u00een\u0163elesuri ce vreau, ascult interlocutorul \u015fi \u00eencerc s\u0103 \u00een\u0163eleg ce dore\u015fte – sigur, dac\u0103 interlocutorul \u015ftie ce dore\u015fte, pentru c\u0103 mai sunt \u015fi cei cu creierul varz\u0103, care azi vor h\u0103is \u015fi m\u00e2ine cea, \u015fi n-are nimeni timp de a\u015fa ceva. \u015ei decid rapid dac\u0103 avem ce discuta sau nu. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Citesc instant arogan\u0163ele \u015fi toxicitatea, descifrez repede inten\u0163iile reale, \u015fi am toleran\u0163\u0103 din ce \u00een ce mai sc\u0103zut\u0103 pentru baliverne. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Degeaba eram un \u00eenger cu pielea perfect\u0103 \u015fi s\u00e2ni fermi la dou\u0103zeci de ani, dac\u0103 din punct de vedere emo\u0163ional eram \u00een deriv\u0103 complet\u0103 \u015fi toat\u0103 energia mea se ducea \u00een a masca haosul pe care \u00eel tr\u0103iam. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Farmecul maturit\u0103\u0163ii e c\u0103 te concentrezi pe esen\u0163ial \u015fi pe prioritar, \u015fi \u015ftii s\u0103 spui jet, sictir \u015fi mar\u015f la cote\u0163 c\u00e2nd e cazul. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u015ei c\u00e2nd voi \u00eemb\u0103tr\u00e2ni, presupun\u00e2nd c\u0103 nu voi suferi de o boal\u0103 mintal\u0103 degenerativ\u0103, singura de care mi-e cu adev\u0103rat team\u0103, pentru c\u0103 arma mea cea mai sexy a fost mereu creierul, voi fi o doamn\u0103 mai pu\u0163in frumoas\u0103, dar mai mult a dracului. Nu voi avea filtru, pentru c\u0103 voi avea scuza v\u00e2rstei, \u015fi lumea m\u0103 va iubi pentru asta. Babele cu umor \u015fi un strop de r\u0103utate au mare c\u0103utare. Think Lady Olenna. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Oricum, c\u00e2t timp virguli\u0163a aia trist\u0103 nu e un leac miraculos contra b\u0103tr\u00e2ne\u0163ii – \u015fi nu e – recomand s\u0103 nu mai curta\u0163i femei cu promisiunea \u00eemb\u0103tr\u00e2nirii. Acesta e inevitabil\u0103. Dar \u00eemb\u0103tr\u00e2ne\u015fti mai mi\u015fto dac\u0103 nu te enerveaz\u0103 un idiot. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Dac\u0103 \u00ee\u021bi plac aceste articole, po\u021bi alege s\u0103-mi oferi sus\u021binerea de care am nevoie.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Un lucru pe care unii b\u0103rba\u0163i – cei neinteresan\u0163i – ador\u0103 s\u0103-l spun\u0103 femeilor este: Las\u0103 c\u0103 \u00eemb\u0103tr\u00e2ne\u015fti tu. \u00cen ideea c\u0103 o s\u0103...<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":12983,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":true,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2},"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-27078","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-spicy"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/alain-old.jpg?fit=599%2C621&ssl=1","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_likes_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/27078","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=27078"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/27078\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":27079,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/27078\/revisions\/27079"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/12983"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=27078"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=27078"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=27078"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}