{"id":27133,"date":"2024-11-02T16:11:04","date_gmt":"2024-11-02T13:11:04","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/?p=27133"},"modified":"2024-11-02T16:11:05","modified_gmt":"2024-11-02T13:11:05","slug":"draga-prietena-invidioasa","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/draga-prietena-invidioasa\/","title":{"rendered":"Drag\u0103 prieten\u0103 invidioas\u0103"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Sigur, e cazul s\u0103 pun \u00een ghilimele termenul \u201eprieten\u0103\u201d, pentru c\u0103, dac\u0103 ac\u021biunile \u0219i vorbele tale izvor\u0103sc din r\u0103utate \u0219i din \u201ecare pe care\u201d, numai despre prietenie nu poate fi vorba, cel pu\u021bin din punctul t\u0103u de vedere. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">S\u0103 nu crezi c\u0103 nu se vede furia mocnit\u0103 care te face s\u0103 arunci mereu cu cele mai r\u0103ut\u0103cioase cuvinte \u0219i s\u0103 cau\u021bi \u00een permanen\u021b\u0103 punctul sensibil, unde s\u0103 dai cu sete. S\u0103 nu crezi c\u0103 nu se cite\u0219te invidia crunt\u0103 din spatele insultelor subtil mascate \u00een complimente sau din partea observa\u021biilor care vin mereu ca nuca-n perete, \u00een cele mai nepotrivite momente. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Atitudinea normal\u0103 a unui om care nu \u00eencape nicicum de altul este s\u0103 plece pur \u0219i simplu. \u0218i totu\u0219i, tu nu o faci. Te cramponezi de aceast\u0103 \u201eprietenie\u201d, pe care nu o pre\u021buie\u0219ti \u0219i pe care o sabotezi pe toate c\u0103ile, ca scaiul de oaie sau ca impozitul de om. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Oare de ce? <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Poate pentru c\u0103 \u021bi-e team\u0103 c\u0103, dac\u0103 dispar eu din via\u021ba ta, nu vei mai avea un model pe care s\u0103 te strofoci tare s\u0103-l dep\u0103\u0219e\u0219ti, din simplul motiv pentru c\u0103 \u0219i eu \u0219i tu \u0219tim c\u0103 sunt mai bun\u0103 dec\u00e2t tine? \u021ai-e fric\u0103 de singur\u0103tate? <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ei, bine, ghici ce te a\u0219teapt\u0103, dac\u0103 tu nu \u00eencapi de bucuriile \u0219i de realiz\u0103rile altora, \u0219i \u00een loc s\u0103 le sus\u021bii cu entuziasm, a\u0219a cum face un prieten sincer, cau\u021bi mereu nodul \u00een papur\u0103 \u0219i faci tot posibilul s\u0103 transformi buna dispozi\u021bie a celui de l\u00e2ng\u0103 tine \u00een iritare. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Pe termen lung, te sabotezi doar pe tine. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ce speri tu s\u0103 ob\u021bii este s\u0103-l aduci \u0219i pe cel\u0103lalt la nivelul t\u0103u. \u00cenc\u0103 nu am v\u0103zut om \u00eemplinit \u0219i satisf\u0103cut profesional \u0219i personal care s\u0103 stea cu ochii pe treburile altuia \u0219i s\u0103 \u00eencaseze fiecare reu\u0219it\u0103 a celuilalt de parc\u0103 i s-ar fura lui boii de la biciclet\u0103. Singurii pe care \u00eei doare succesul altora sunt cei care nu pot realiza nimic. Angelina Jolie nu are nevoie s\u0103 arunce cu comentarii toxice, pentru c\u0103 e frumoas\u0103 \u0219i bogat\u0103, \u0219i nu-\u0219i refuz\u0103 nimic. E prea ocupat\u0103 s\u0103 fie un om de succes, s\u0103 aib\u0103 timp s\u0103 trag\u0103 pe al\u021bii \u00een jos. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u0218tii de ce se folose\u0219te expresia \u201ea trage pe al\u021bii \u00een jos\u201d? Tocmai pentru c\u0103 singurii care au nevoie de asta sunt cei afla\u021bi deja jos. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Nu eu te-am plasat jos, scumpo. Tu te plasezi acolo de una singur\u0103, prin comportamentul t\u0103u. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Crezi c\u0103 m\u0103 vor afecta vreodat\u0103 r\u0103ut\u0103\u021bile tale? Crezi c\u0103 nu pot vedea din ce se nasc ele? Crezi c\u0103 nu \u0219tiu c\u0103 nu au de fapt leg\u0103tur\u0103 cu mine, ci cu halul \u00een care te ur\u0103\u0219ti tu pe tine? <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Mie mi-e u\u0219or s\u0103-mi g\u0103sesc prietene. Sunt simpatic\u0103, vesel\u0103, dac\u0103 lumea iese la cafea cu mine, garantat r\u00e2de toat\u0103 seara. Te pot \u00eenlocui cu cineva pozitiv \u0219i amuzant, cu care s\u0103 ne trimitem numai meme \u0219i b\u00e2rfe hazlii de diminea\u021ba p\u00e2n\u0103 seara, \u0219i nici m\u0103car nu va fi o pierdere. C\u0103 obiectiv nu am ce pierde. O acritur\u0103 \u021b\u00e2fnoas\u0103, mereu pus\u0103 pe har\u021b\u0103 e o pierdere de timp pentru absolut oricine: b\u0103rbat, femeie, ba chiar extraterestru. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Dar \u021bie \u021bi-e imposibil s\u0103-\u021bi g\u0103se\u0219ti prietene, pentru c\u0103 le iei tot aerul cu dramele tale, apoi \u00eencepi s\u0103 le s\u00e2c\u00e2i cu indica\u021bii pre\u021bioase, observa\u021bii de  soacr\u0103 comunist\u0103 \u0219i \u201ecritici\u201d, p\u00e2n\u0103 \u00een punctul \u00een care \u00ee\u021bi dau block pur \u0219i simplu, pentru c\u0103 nimeni nu are de ce s\u0103 \u00eendure a\u0219a ceva. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Dar tu, chiar dac\u0103 o s\u0103 r\u0103m\u00e2i singur\u0103 cuc, o s\u0103 acuzi tot pe ceilal\u021bi. Pentru c\u0103, \u00een mintea ta, oamenii sunt prizonieri, tu e\u0219ti tribunalul suprem \u0219i tu le dai lor sentin\u021be pentru vinov\u0103\u021bii imaginare. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">E\u0219ti transparent\u0103, dr\u0103gu\u021b\u0103. Se vede c\u0103 problemele tale sunt \u00een primul r\u00e2nd cu tine, \u0219i singurul lucru pe care \u00eel poate face un om e s\u0103 te lase cu dracii t\u0103i, s\u0103 v\u0103 m\u0103cina\u021bi reciproc p\u00e2n\u0103 c\u00e2nd B\u0103l\u0103ceanca v\u0103 va desp\u0103r\u021bi. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u0218i dac\u0103 nu-\u021bi voi mai r\u0103spunde la mesaje, cite\u0219te atent textul \u0103sta. Nu veni tot tu cu o litanie c\u0103 \u00ee\u021bi dau cu seen. Da, \u00ee\u021bi dau cu seen pentru c\u0103 am v\u0103zut tot ce po\u021bi \u0219i nu v\u0103 intereseaz\u0103 s\u0103 v\u0103d mai mult. Da, e dreptul meu s\u0103 dau cu seen. A\u0219 da \u0219i cu unseen la toate experien\u021bele legate de tine, dar nu s-a inventat ma\u0219ina timpului. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Pe viitor, dac\u0103 un om \u00ee\u021bi acord\u0103 o \u0219ans\u0103, poate \u00eel vei vedea ca pe cineva care \u00ee\u021bi e al\u0103turi, nu ca pe o juc\u0103rie de mestecat de care s\u0103-\u021bi ascul\u021bi col\u021bii. Sau poate nu. Oricum, nu va mai fi problema mea. Tr\u0103ie\u0219te cum vrei tu, c\u0103 tu vei suporta consecin\u021bele, nu eu. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">***<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">***<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Vrei s\u0103 m\u0103 urm\u0103re\u015fti \u00een social media? \u00cemi po\u0163i da follow pe&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/lorenaalmighty\/\"><strong>Facebook<\/strong><\/a>&nbsp;\u015fi&nbsp;<strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/lorena.lup\/\">Instagram<\/a><\/strong>, subscribe pe&nbsp;<strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/channel\/UCCHBtHi6S2GlUFqETH70cjQ\">YouTube<\/a><\/strong>&nbsp;\u015fi pe<strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/@lorena.lupu\">&nbsp;TikTok<\/a><\/strong>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">***<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Dac\u0103 \u00ee\u021bi plac aceste articole, po\u021bi alege s\u0103-mi oferi sus\u021binerea de care am nevoie.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.paypal.com\/paypalme\/Trollywood\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"250\" height=\"82\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/01\/paypal-.jpg?w=700&amp;ssl=1\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-25884\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/01\/paypal-.jpg?w=250&amp;ssl=1 250w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/01\/paypal-.jpg?resize=150%2C49&amp;ssl=1 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 250px) 100vw, 250px\" \/><\/a><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Sigur, e cazul s\u0103 pun \u00een ghilimele termenul \u201eprieten\u0103\u201d, pentru c\u0103, dac\u0103 ac\u021biunile \u0219i vorbele tale izvor\u0103sc din r\u0103utate \u0219i din \u201ecare pe care\u201d,&#46;&#46;&#46;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":23112,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":true,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2},"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-27133","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-spicy"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/cat-angry.jpg?fit=640%2C427&ssl=1","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_likes_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/27133","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=27133"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/27133\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":27134,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/27133\/revisions\/27134"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/23112"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=27133"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=27133"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=27133"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}