{"id":27150,"date":"2024-11-07T12:22:23","date_gmt":"2024-11-07T09:22:23","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/?p=27150"},"modified":"2024-11-07T12:22:25","modified_gmt":"2024-11-07T09:22:25","slug":"nu-toata-lumea-ne-iubeste","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/nu-toata-lumea-ne-iubeste\/","title":{"rendered":"Nu toat\u0103 lumea ne iube\u015fte"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

Azi, mi-a trecut pe sub nas postarea acestui fl\u0103c\u0103u sup\u0103rat:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Dragule, e \u015fi nu e normal. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

De c\u00e2nd ne-am ridicat pe vertical\u0103 ca fiin\u0163e umane, b\u0103rba\u0163ii limiteaz\u0103 drepturile femeilor s\u0103 le pedepseasc\u0103 pe cele care r\u0103spund negativ la avansurile lor, sau pe cele care r\u0103spund pozitiv la avansurile altora. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Dar asta nu schimb\u0103 cu nimic biologia: femeile au propriile gusturi \u015fi preferin\u0163e, \u015fi sunt atrase de cine e compatibil cu aceste gusturi \u015fi preferin\u0163e, nu de cine insist\u0103 mai agresiv. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Valabil \u015fi invers: b\u0103rba\u0163ii neglijeaz\u0103 f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103 ezite femei extrem de iubitoare, care le fac toate poftele, dar fug dup\u0103 c\u00e2te una care le d\u0103 cu sictir repetat. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Eu, dac\u0103 nu te pl\u0103ceam, \u00ee\u0163i explicam frumos \u015fi politicos c\u0103 nu-mi doresc s\u0103 ies la cafea cu tine. Am Lavazza acas\u0103. \u015ei nu are rost s\u0103 dai speran\u0163e cuiva de care nu e\u015fti interesat. Ca dup\u0103 aia s\u0103 se chir\u0103ie lung pe net ce na\u015fpa este \u00een friendzone. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Altele nu au acest nivel de asumare a propriilor pl\u0103ceri \u015fi nepl\u0103ceri, \u015fi accept\u0103 s\u0103 ias\u0103 \u015fi cu b\u0103rba\u0163i de care nu sunt interesate, s\u0103 \u201eacorde o \u0219ans\u0103\u201d. Dar c\u00e2nd sim\u021bi c\u0103 \u201eacorzi o \u0219ans\u0103\u201d, de parc\u0103 ai da un leu unui cer\u0219etor de la metrou, nu sim\u021bi cu adev\u0103rat atrac\u021bie. Atrac\u021bia e \u201eabia a\u0219tept s\u0103 te v\u0103d. C\u00e2nd ne atingem, ies sc\u00e2ntei magnetice.\u201d <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nu, \u00een iubire nu e cazul s\u0103 \u201eacorzi \u0219anse\u201d, pentru c\u0103 nevoile intime nu sunt pe baz\u0103 de democra\u021bie and justice for all. \u00ce\u021bi place ce \u00ee\u021bi place \u0219i aia e. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nu e deloc elegant s\u0103 fug\u0103 de la cafeaua cu tine, dar situa\u021bia putea fi mai nasoal\u0103. Putea s\u0103 flirteze cu tine, s\u0103 te conving\u0103 c\u0103 te place, \u0219i s\u0103 te exploateze \u00een timp ce se vedea cu al\u021bii de care nu \u0219tiai nimic. Iar asta ar fi fost mai nasol pentru tine. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

C\u00e2nd un om e sincer cu lipsa lui de interes, eu cred c\u0103 ar trebui s\u0103-i mul\u021bumim. M\u0103car \u0219tim cum st\u0103m. Cred c\u0103 dac\u0103 nu ai sc\u00e2ntei magnetice, singur\u0103tatea e mai bun\u0103 dec\u00e2t efortul \u00eengrozitor de a mima dragostea \u00een fiecare zi. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Cred c\u0103 o gr\u0103mad\u0103 de dezam\u0103giri pot fi evitate dac\u0103 fiecare dintre noi \u00ee\u0219i asum\u0103 c\u0103 nu are cum s\u0103 plac\u0103 tuturor \u0219i c\u0103 un \u201enu\u201d e un r\u0103spuns perfect acceptabil. Acolo e util\u0103 modestia aia de care ne tot vorbesc preo\u021bii. \u201eVai, dar trebuie s\u0103 m\u0103 plac\u0103.\u201d Nu, nu trebuie. Nu \u0219tii niciodat\u0103 ce detaliu al fiin\u021bei tale st\u00e2rne\u0219te respingere \u00een al\u021bii, dar vestea bun\u0103 e c\u0103 exact aspectul care e \u201eyuck-yuck\u201d pentru x e \u201eoh, yeah\u201d pentru y. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Exemplu: sunt oameni care \u00eemi detest\u0103 vocea \u0219i oameni care o g\u0103sesc foarte sexy. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

De ce a\u0219 trage de cei care o detest\u0103 \u0219i s\u0103 le explic c\u0103 nu \u0219tiu ce pierd? <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Drum bun, cale intens spr\u00e2ncenat\u0103. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ia hai s\u0103 fac pagin\u0103 pe Facebook<\/a><\/strong> \u0219i cont pe TikTok<\/a><\/strong> pentru cei care o g\u0103sesc foarte sexy. Ei sunt tribul meu \u0219i lor vreau s\u0103 le \u0219optesc dulci nimicuri \u00een continuare. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Aplic\u0103 strategia asta \u00een via\u021ba ta personal\u0103 \u0219i vei pierde zero neuroni pe cei care nu te vor. \u0102sta e de fapt secretul fericirii. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Vrei s\u0103 m\u0103 urm\u0103re\u015fti \u00een social media? \u00cemi po\u0163i da follow pe Facebook<\/strong><\/a> \u015fi Instagram<\/a><\/strong>, subscribe pe YouTube<\/a><\/strong> \u015fi pe TikTok<\/a><\/strong>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Dac\u0103 \u00ee\u021bi plac aceste articole, po\u021bi alege s\u0103-mi oferi sus\u021binerea de care am nevoie.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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