{"id":27180,"date":"2024-11-13T14:19:31","date_gmt":"2024-11-13T11:19:31","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/?p=27180"},"modified":"2024-11-13T14:19:33","modified_gmt":"2024-11-13T11:19:33","slug":"ziua-internationala-a-bunatatii","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/ziua-internationala-a-bunatatii\/","title":{"rendered":"Ziua interna\u0163ional\u0103 a bun\u0103t\u0103\u0163ii"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

Ar fi greu de definit ce e aceea bun\u0103tate. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Unii \u00een\u0163eleg prin asta disponibilitatea de a face totul pentru ceilal\u0163i. \u015ei ajungi \u00een punctul \u00een care nu mai ai timp de tine \u015fi de lucrurile de care ai tu nevoie, pentru c\u0103 mereu cineva e pe capul t\u0103u, insist\u00e2nd c\u0103 \u00eei trebuie ceva. Oamenii au tendin\u0163a s\u0103 \u00eei dispre\u0163uiasc\u0103 pe cei prea buni \u015fi s\u0103 \u00eei considere slabi \u015fi manipulabili. \u00centr-o vreme, eu ca blogger ajutam gratuit pe oricine \u00eemi cerea ajutorul, \u015fi nimeni nu ar\u0103ta urm\u0103 de apreciere. Dimpotriv\u0103: dup\u0103 ce le rezolvam problema, se coalizau cu haterii mei s\u0103-mi g\u0103seasc\u0103 defecte. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

De cum am \u00eenceput s\u0103 cer bani pentru numitul ajutor, oamenii au \u00eenceput s\u0103 m\u0103 respecte astfel. Sigur, nu to\u0163i sunt dispu\u015fi s\u0103 r\u0103spl\u0103teasc\u0103 munca unui om, dar, datorit\u0103 butoanelor Block \u015fi Mut\u0103 \u00een spam, misecuveni\u015ftii sunt extrem de u\u015for de \u00eenl\u0103turat din experien\u0163a online. M\u0103car dac\u0103 ar fi la fel de u\u015for de ejectat \u015fi din vie\u0163ile noastre reale. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Al\u0163ii au o viziune extrem de pervertit\u0103 asupra no\u0163iunii de bun\u0103tate. \u015ei anume, decid ei pentru tine care e binele t\u0103u, f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103 te consulte \u015fi f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103-\u0163i evalueze cu adev\u0103rat personalitatea, s\u0103 vad\u0103 dac\u0103 binele lor \u0163i se potrive\u015fte sau nu, apoi \u00eencep s\u0103 te frece cu asiduitate la icre. Unii \u00een\u0163eleg din explica\u0163ii simple c\u0103 tu e\u015fti decidentul binelui t\u0103u, nu ei. Al\u0163ii se apuc\u0103 s\u0103 se r\u0103zboiasc\u0103 cu tine, \u00een numele binelui t\u0103u la care nu ai consim\u0163it. \u015ei r\u0103m\u00e2ne din nou op\u0163iunea de a-i \u00eenl\u0103tura cu totul din via\u0163a ta. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Al\u0163ii \u00een\u0163eleg prin bun\u0103tate o form\u0103 de del\u0103sare \u015fi de complezen\u0163\u0103. \u015etii c\u0103 fi-tu e dependent de jocuri de noroc \u015fi a consumat averi cu asta, dar nu ai curajul s\u0103-l trimi\u0163i la terapie. \u00cei c\u00e2n\u0163i \u00een strun\u0103, pentru c\u0103 \u0163i-e fric\u0103 c\u0103, altfel, nu te sun\u0103. Aceasta nu e bun\u0103tate, ci la\u015fitate. Bun\u0103tatea adev\u0103rat\u0103 presupune onestitate. Nu \u00eencurajezi oamenii \u00een obiceiurile lor cu care-\u015fi distrug propriile vie\u0163i \u015fi pe ale celor din jur, \u00een numele \u201ebun\u0103t\u0103\u021bii\u201d. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Dar cred c\u0103 uneori, e mai simplu de at\u00e2t s\u0103 ar\u0103\u021bi bun\u0103tate altora. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Pur \u0219i simplu, ofer\u0103 fiec\u0103rui om care interac\u021bioneaz\u0103 cu tine o experien\u021b\u0103 pl\u0103cut\u0103. Fii politicos \u0219i cald cu al\u021bii. Mai pu\u021bin cu cei care sunt ei \u021b\u0103r\u0103noi t\u00e2rlani, pentru c\u0103 nimeni nu are de ce s\u0103 ofere bun\u0103tate dec\u00e2t acolo unde e nevoie de ea. M\u00e2rletele a ales lupta, prin urmare, bun\u0103tatea e s\u0103-i oferi exact lupta pe care a ales-o. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0218i \u00een m\u0103sura \u00een care po\u021bi ajuta pe al\u021bii, ajut\u0103-i. Evident, nu e cazul s\u0103 creezi raporturi de parazitare direct\u0103, \u00een care \u0103ia se oplo\u0219esc pe capul t\u0103u ca r\u00e2ia \u0219i, dac\u0103 nu livrezi \u00een secunda urm\u0103toare ce le trebuie lor, cu titlu de obliga\u021bie, se apuc\u0103 s\u0103 \u021bipe ca din gur\u0103 de \u0219arpe, \u0219i nimic din ce ai oferit p\u00e2n\u0103 atunci nu se pune. Aia e o specie extrem de p\u0103guboas\u0103 de bun\u0103tate, care te expune tuturor pr\u0103d\u0103torilor, narcisi\u0219tilor \u0219i c\u00e2\u0219tig\u0103torilor la belciuge ai planetei. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

F\u0103 un bine celui care \u021bi-l cere \u0219i care \u00ee\u021bi arat\u0103 c\u0103 \u00een\u021belege binele f\u0103cut de tine \u0219i \u00eel apreciaz\u0103. A\u0219a te protejezi \u0219i pe tine de frustrarea care apare c\u00e2nd sco\u021bi omul din r\u00e2u, s\u0103 nu se \u00eenece, \u0219i omul te mai \u0219i ia la b\u0103taie c\u0103 \u00eel \u00eencurci. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

E esen\u021bial s\u0103 fii bun \u0219i cu tine, altfel, oric\u00e2te resurse ai investi \u00een al\u021bii, nu vei fi niciodat\u0103 fericit. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Vrei s\u0103 m\u0103 urm\u0103re\u015fti \u00een social media? \u00cemi po\u0163i da follow pe Facebook<\/strong><\/a> \u015fi Instagram<\/a><\/strong>, subscribe pe YouTube<\/a><\/strong> \u015fi pe TikTok<\/a><\/strong>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Dac\u0103 \u00ee\u021bi plac aceste articole, po\u021bi alege s\u0103-mi oferi sus\u021binerea de care am nevoie.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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