{"id":27193,"date":"2024-11-18T13:04:52","date_gmt":"2024-11-18T10:04:52","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/?p=27193"},"modified":"2024-11-18T13:04:54","modified_gmt":"2024-11-18T10:04:54","slug":"bela-karolyi-aur-si-sange","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/bela-karolyi-aur-si-sange\/","title":{"rendered":"B\u00e9la K\u00e1rolyi: aur \u015fi s\u00e2nge"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

Pe 15 noiembrie, \u00een Texas, a murit antrenorul care a adus primele medalii de aur \u00een gimnastica feminin\u0103 rom\u00e2neasc\u0103. B\u00e9la K\u00e1rolyi \u015fi Nadia s\u0103rb\u0103torind primul zece perfect de la Montreal sunt genul de fotografii alb-negru pe care patrio\u0163ii declarativi ador\u0103 s\u0103 le fluture la fiecare eveniment despre trecutul glorios. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Totodat\u0103, gimnastele rom\u00e2nce au dat repetate interviuri \u00een care au relatat c\u00e2t de dificil era s\u0103 lucrezi cu B\u00e9la K\u00e1rolyi. Omul nu avea urm\u0103 de compasiune. El \u00eensu\u015fi campion la box \u00een categoria juniori, a descoperit gimnastica \u015fi, dup\u0103 ce s-a \u00eendr\u0103gostit & c\u0103s\u0103torit cu o gimnast\u0103, M\u00e1rta Er\u0151ss, a format cu ea o echip\u0103 redutabil\u0103 de antrenori de gimnastic\u0103 feminin\u0103. Metodele lui de lucru includeau b\u0103taia (\u00een Rom\u00e2nia; dup\u0103 ce s-a mutat \u00een State \u00een 1981, nu \u015fi-a mai permis, c\u0103 l-ar fi s\u0103ltat Protec\u0163ia Copilului \u00een minutul imediat urm\u0103tor), abuzul verbal \u015fi psihologic (care a tot creat controverse \u015fi \u00een State \u015fi care i-a umbrit victoriile de la Olimpiade), antrenamentele intense \u015fi extenuante, care demolau limitele potejatelor lui, \u015fi regimul alimentar extrem de strict, care le men\u0163inea la limita \u00eenfomet\u0103rii.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u015ei totu\u015fi, omul nostru a ob\u0163inut succese notabile \u00een patru decenii de carier\u0103, cu genera\u0163ii peste genera\u0163ii de sportive rom\u00e2nce \u015fi americance. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Pe de alt\u0103 parte, metoda lui traumatizant\u0103 a creat porti\u0163e pentru abuzatori ca fostul medic Larry Nassar, care, pe la spatele lui K\u00e1rolyi, le strecura alimente copilelor lihnite de foame, le c\u00e2\u015ftiga \u00eencrederea, apoi le abuza s*xual. E unul dintre riscurile metodei de antrenament care merge pe anihilarea respectului de sine \u015fi umilirea sportivului p\u00e2n\u0103 la medalie: faptul c\u0103 acesta devine un instrument perfect pentru glorie, dar un spirit f\u0103cut cioburi. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Agresivitatea de fost boxer \u015fi voin\u0163a nestr\u0103mutat\u0103 l-au adus pe K\u00e1rolyi \u00een panteonul sportului interna\u0163ional \u015fi i-au adus patru ani de carier\u0103. Tot ele au stat la baza unei situa\u0163ii cum a fost scandalul Larry Nassar, cel care i-a \u00eencheiat cariera \u00een 2016. Chit c\u0103 K\u00e1rolyi nu a atins niciodat\u0103 \u00een mod nepotrivit o atlet\u0103, starea perpetu\u0103 de sindrom Stockholm \u00een care le men\u0163inea le-a f\u0103cut mult mai u\u015for de ademenit de c\u0103tre pedofili ca Nassar. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Unele sportive, cum ar fi Nadia, nu au \u00eencetat niciodat\u0103 s\u0103-\u015fi exprime recuno\u015ftin\u0163a fa\u0163\u0103 de K\u00e1rolyi, \u015fi au explicat c\u0103 metodele lui de lucru au fost calea lor de succes. Altele, ca Emilia Eberle \u015fi Dominique Moceanu, l-au descris drept trauma vie\u0163ii lor. Ambele puncte de vedere sunt de \u00een\u0163eles, pentru c\u0103 vorbim de feti\u0163e de 12 – 14 ani, pe care brutalitatea le poate marca pe via\u0163\u0103. M\u0103 g\u00e2ndesc c\u0103, dac\u0103 a\u015f fi avut o urm\u0103 vag\u0103 de abilitate sportiv\u0103 \u00een acest cartof pe care \u00eel numesc corpul meu, a\u015f fi fost \u00een tab\u0103ra Eberle – Moceanu, pentru c\u0103 \u015fi eu tolerez greu umilin\u0163a \u015fi presiunea, \u015fi singurele mele rezultate bune \u00een orice domeniu profesional au fost ob\u0163inute cu oameni care mi-au spus iar \u015fi iar c\u0103 sunt inteligent\u0103 \u015fi special\u0103. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Dar pot \u00een\u0163elege c\u0103 pe unii oameni \u00eei motiveaz\u0103 mor\u0163ii de mam\u0103. Am v\u0103zut-o cu ochii mei. Am at\u00e2\u0163ia cunoscu\u0163i pe care nu-i motivezi s\u0103 dea mai mult dec\u00e2t dac\u0103 \u00eencepi s\u0103-i jigne\u015fti. Prin urmare, probabil c\u0103 \u015fi K\u00e1rolyi avea partea lui de dreptate. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Mai \u0163ine \u015fi de o form\u0103 de inteligen\u0163\u0103 emo\u0163ional\u0103 s\u0103-\u0163i dai seama cu cine func\u0163ioneaz\u0103 abuzul, \u015fi cu cine merge motivarea pozitiv\u0103. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Cert e c\u0103 omul nostru a creat o metod\u0103, iar aceast\u0103 metod\u0103 a adus unor tinere femei un succes de care s-au bucurat pentru tot restul vie\u0163ii lor. Iar acest lucru merit\u0103 pre\u0163uit \u00een cele din urm\u0103. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Dac\u0103 \u00ee\u021bi plac aceste articole, po\u021bi alege s\u0103-mi oferi sus\u021binerea de care am nevoie.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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