{"id":27197,"date":"2024-11-19T04:37:00","date_gmt":"2024-11-19T01:37:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/?p=27197"},"modified":"2024-11-19T04:37:02","modified_gmt":"2024-11-19T01:37:02","slug":"posta-redactiei-prima-dragoste","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/posta-redactiei-prima-dragoste\/","title":{"rendered":"Po\u015fta redac\u0163iei: Prima dragoste"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

Periodic, oferim iubire cititorului nostru. \u00cen sensul \u00een care el sau ea, sau chiar tu, de ce nu, ne trimite(\u021bi) problema voastr\u0103 de suflet pe birou@lorenalupu.com. Noi citim, cuget\u0103m \u0219i analiz\u0103m, apoi propunem o solu\u021bie sau d\u0103m o opinie \u00ceNTR-UN ARTICOL PE BLOG.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Sau \u00een consulta\u0163ie privat\u0103, contra cost.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Scrisorica de azi zice a\u0219a:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Bun\u0103 seara, Lorena, <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nu \u015ftiu dac\u0103 m\u0103 po\u0163i ajuta cu un sfat, e ok dac\u0103 nu po\u0163i, clocotesc de draci \u015fi simt nevoia s\u0103 scriu despre lucurile care \u00eemi scot peri albi \u015fi m\u0103 \u0163in treaz\u0103 noaptea. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Sunt o mam\u0103 singur\u0103 de aproape 40 de ani, tat\u0103l \u015fi-a g\u0103sit alt\u0103 iubit\u0103 la trei ani dup\u0103 ce s-a n\u0103scut a doua feti\u0163\u0103, poveste ur\u00e2t\u0103, nu intru \u00een detalii, nu vreau s\u0103-\u0163i scriu un roman cum v\u0103d c\u0103 fac unii pe aici. Nu \u00eel regret\u0103 nimeni, le-am oferit o copil\u0103rie decent\u0103 feti\u0163elor, nu am huzurit, dar nici nu am tr\u0103it \u00een lipsuri. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Dar de dou\u0103 luni, fata mea cea mare, care are 16 ani, \u015fi-a g\u0103sit iubit. Iubit cu care se vede sear\u0103 de sear\u0103, \u00een ora\u015f sau la el acas\u0103, \u015fi \u00eemi tot spune de vreo s\u0103pt\u0103m\u00e2n\u0103 c\u0103 vrea s\u0103 se mute cu el \u015fi s\u0103-\u015fi \u00eenceap\u0103 via\u0163a s*xual\u0103!! Singurul mod \u00een care am oprit-o a fost c\u00e2nd am amenin\u0163at c\u0103 fac reclama\u0163ie la Poli\u0163ie \u015fi c\u0103 \u00eel bag\u0103 pe \u0103la la pu\u015fc\u0103rie pentru corupere de minori. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Iubitul \u0103sta are cu vreo zece ani \u00een plus fa\u0163\u0103 de ea, \u00eel \u015ftiu doar de pe Instagram, c\u0103 a zis c\u0103-i e fric\u0103 s\u0103 mi-l aduc\u0103 pentru c\u0103 sunt mahalagioaic\u0103. Cum s\u0103 spui a\u015fa ceva propriei mame?? P\u0103rin\u0163ii no\u015ftri ne-ar fi pocnit de ne-ar fi l\u0103sat f\u0103r\u0103 din\u0163i! St\u0103 singur \u00eentr-un apartament, cred c\u0103 e de la p\u0103rin\u0163i, dar nu am detalii. Nu \u015ftiu unde lucreaz\u0103, nu \u00eei cunosc anturajul \u015fi nu \u015ftiu de ce, de c\u00e2nd \u00eel cunoa\u015fte, fata mea se poart\u0103 cu mine ca \u015fi cum a\u015f fi un du\u015fman. Certuri, lacrimi, \u0163ipete, scandal. Dar eu sunt mahalagioaic\u0103. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nu pot s\u0103 dorm, Lorena, sunt la limita nervilor. Te felicit c\u0103 n-ai f\u0103cut copii \u015fi c\u0103 n-o s\u0103 treci niciodat\u0103 prin a\u015fa ceva. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nici nu \u015ftiu ce s\u0103 te \u00eentreb, nu \u015ftiu dac\u0103 exist\u0103 un r\u0103spuns care s\u0103 ajute cu ceva, <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

X. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Drag\u0103 X., <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00cemi pare r\u0103u pentru starea \u015fi situa\u0163ia \u00een care e\u015fti. Cred c\u0103 e \u00eengrozitor de dificil pentru tine, mai ales c\u0103 e\u015fti singur\u0103. Nici nu am cum s\u0103-\u0163i spun s\u0103 te lini\u015fte\u015fti, pentru c\u0103 genul \u0103sta de situa\u0163ie inspir\u0103 orice, numai lini\u015fte nu. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Dar s\u0103 \u015ftii c\u0103 am trecut printr-o situa\u0163ie destul de asem\u0103n\u0103toare, chiar \u015fi f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103 am copii. Var\u0103-mea avea 18 ani c\u00e2nd a \u00eenceput o mare iubire, tot a\u015fa, cu amor pe toate gardurile \u015fi mutat \u00eempreun\u0103 cu un b\u0103iat. Ea era major\u0103, nu puteau s\u0103 o \u0163in\u0103 \u00een \u015fah cu poli\u0163ia. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

S-a \u015fi mutat \u00eempreun\u0103 cu b\u0103iatul, la 19 ani a n\u0103scut, pentru c\u0103 a\u015fa mare amor neprotejat nu putea r\u0103m\u00e2ne f\u0103r\u0103 roade, iar la 20 de ani, era o proasp\u0103t\u0103 divor\u0163at\u0103. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ce au gre\u015fit p\u0103rin\u0163ii \u00een acest caz? <\/p>\n\n\n\n

C\u0103 s-au \u00eenver\u015funat isteric \u00eempotriva b\u0103iatului \u015fi a idilei. \u015ei cu c\u00e2t ei c\u0103utau s\u0103 conving\u0103 fata s\u0103-\u015fi bage min\u0163ile \u00een cap \u015fi s\u0103-\u015fi vad\u0103 de \u015fcoal\u0103 \u015fi de viitorul ei, cu at\u00e2t ea era mai furioas\u0103 \u015fi \u00eenc\u0103p\u0103\u0163\u00e2nat\u0103 c\u0103 hodorogii \u0103\u015ftia \u00eenapoia\u0163i nu \u015ftiu ce e iubirea \u015fi nu \u00een\u0163eleg profunzimea unei emo\u0163ii care \u00ee\u0163i face sufletul s\u0103 vibreze \u015fi vaginul idem. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u015etii povestea lui Romeo \u015fi a Julietei, \u015fi a modului tragic \u00een care au murit \u015fi au r\u0103mas simbolurile eternei iubiri din Verona? <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Dac\u0103 familiile nu erau at\u00e2t de \u00eenc\u0103p\u0103\u0163\u00e2nate \u015fi-i l\u0103sau pur \u015fi simplu \u00een pace, poate c\u0103 se plictiseau unul de altul dup\u0103 c\u00e2teva \u00eent\u00e2lniri. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

D\u0103-i omului un fruct interzis \u015fi o s\u0103 r\u0103stoarne paradisul pentru el. Asta e natura uman\u0103. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

De aceea, \u00ee\u0163i propun o solu\u0163ie care \u0163i se va p\u0103rea contraintuitiv\u0103: duhul bl\u00e2nde\u0163ii. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

M\u00e2ine diminea\u0163a, la cafea, spune-i fetei c\u0103 ai hot\u0103r\u00e2t s\u0103 te schimbi \u015fi s\u0103 fii al\u0103turi de ea. C\u0103 vrei s\u0103 o \u00een\u0163elegi mai bine \u015fi pe ea, \u015fi s\u0103-l cuno\u015fti \u015fi pe b\u0103iat. Fii POZITIV\u0102 \u015fi poart\u0103-te de parc\u0103 ai crede sincer c\u0103 aceast\u0103 mare iubire are o \u015fans\u0103. Fii prietenoas\u0103, aminte\u015fte-\u0163i cum petreceai \u015fi tu cu prietenele tale la 16 ani, spune-i din aventurile tale. F\u0103-o s\u0103 \u0163i se deschid\u0103. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Poate c\u0103 adolescen\u0163ii fac pe durii, dar \u00een realitate sunt sufle\u0163ele sensibile disperate dup\u0103 iubire \u015fi \u00een\u0163elegere. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Spune-i c\u0103 mutatul p\u00e2n\u0103 la v\u00e2rsta majoratului \u015fi ob\u0163inerea diplomei de bac iese definitiv din discu\u0163ie, pentru c\u0103 e responsabilitatea ta de mam\u0103 s\u0103 ai grij\u0103 de ea, dar \u00een rest, vrei s\u0103-i fii aproape \u015fi s\u0103-l cuno\u015fti pe amorez. O s\u0103 vezi, dac\u0103 nu vor mai avea cu cine s\u0103 se r\u0103zboiasc\u0103 pentru triumful amorului, \u015fi ei o vor l\u0103sa mai moale, \u015fi p\u00e2n\u0103 la majorat mai sunt doi ani, e posibil s\u0103 cunoasc\u0103 zece al\u0163i b\u0103ie\u0163i p\u00e2n\u0103 atunci. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Cu c\u00e2t vei fi mai pozitiv\u0103 \u015fi prietenoas\u0103, cu at\u00e2t vei rec\u0103p\u0103ta controlul asupra situa\u0163iei. Cu c\u00e2t te agi\u0163i \u015fi persi\u015fti \u00een scandal, cu at\u00e2t v\u0103 ve\u0163i face zile fripte reciproce, pentru c\u0103 nu te pui cu marea dragoste de la 16 ani. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Sper c\u0103 \u0163i-am fost util\u0103. Tot ce am spus mai spus, am spus cu dorin\u0163a sincer\u0103 s\u0103 v\u0103 fie bine \u015fi \u0163ie, \u015fi ei. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Lorena. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Vrei s\u0103 m\u0103 urm\u0103re\u015fti \u00een social media? \u00cemi po\u0163i da follow pe Facebook<\/strong><\/a> \u015fi Instagram<\/a><\/strong>, subscribe pe YouTube<\/a><\/strong> \u015fi pe TikTok<\/a><\/strong>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Dac\u0103 \u00ee\u021bi plac aceste articole, po\u021bi alege s\u0103-mi oferi sus\u021binerea de care am nevoie.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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