Pe de o parte, oamenii nu sunt niciodat\u0103 forma\u021bi numai din lumin\u0103 sau numai din \u00eentuneric. E adev\u0103rat, sunt persoane calde \u0219i bune, care te ajut\u0103 cu orice \u0219i nu \u0219tiu ce s\u0103 fac\u0103, s\u0103-\u021bi fie bine. Apoi, \u00eentr-o noapte de be\u021bie, \u00ee\u021bi povestesc de noaptea aia din studen\u021bie c\u00e2nd, dispera\u021bi c\u0103 nu aveau bani, au f\u0103cut trotuarul \u0219i au felat un str\u0103in pe 100 de lei. \u0218i sunt oameni care au fost jigodii cu tine toat\u0103 via\u021ba p\u00e2n\u0103 c\u00e2nd, printr-o \u00eemprejurare misterioas\u0103, ajungi s\u0103 depinzi de ei \u0219i descoperi c\u0103 \u00ee\u021bi \u00eentind o m\u00e2n\u0103. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Mi se pare extrem de gre\u0219it s\u0103 creezi o a\u0219teptare de perfec\u021biune pentru oameni. Sunt oameni, \u0219i nu se vor ridica acolo, orice ai face. Eu am renun\u021bat s\u0103 cultiv o imagine public\u0103 pozitiv\u0103 c\u00e2nd mi-am dat seama c\u0103 a fi bun \u00een mintea multora \u00eenseamn\u0103 c\u0103 faci orice pentru oricine, dar obligatoriu gratuit, nimeni nu simte c\u0103 e cazul de reciprocitate niciodat\u0103, pentru c\u0103 tu o faci din bun\u0103tate \u0219i oamenii buni nu a\u0219teapt\u0103 nimic la schimb, \u0219i, \u0219oc – po\u021bi fi p\u00e2inea lui Dumnezeu de o sut\u0103 de ori, dac\u0103 din varii motive nu e\u0219ti disponibil a 101-a oar\u0103, n-ai fost disponibil niciodat\u0103. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Nu e nevoie de politicieni, \u0219p\u0103gi \u0219i droguri s\u0103 corupi un suflet bun \u0219i cu inten\u021bii nobile. Toxicitatea standardelor nerealiste \u0219i misecuvenismul c\u00e2\u0219tig\u0103torilor la belciuge sunt mecanismele care \u00eenr\u0103iesc orice om, \u00een secunda \u00een care se satur\u0103 s\u0103 fie prostul comunit\u0103\u021bii. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Culmea, mi-e mult mai bine de c\u00e2nd sunt personajul negativ. Te por\u021bi frumos cu mine sau nu m\u0103 mai contactezi. Dac\u0103 vrei s\u0103 tratez un anumit subiect, pl\u0103te\u0219ti. \u0218i nu m\u0103 freci la icre \u00een mesaje private – excep\u021bie fac doar cu cei care sus\u021bin cu dona\u021bii blogul \u0219i \u00eemi arat\u0103 c\u0103 nu doar pretind con\u021binut zi de zi, ci \u0219i investesc \u00een el. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
C\u00e2nd e\u0219ti personajul negativ, beneficiezi brusc de mai mult\u0103 \u00een\u021belegere, mai multe scuze \u0219i mai mult fair play dec\u00e2t ai primit vreodat\u0103 c\u00e2nd toat\u0103 lumea se a\u0219tepta la perfec\u021biune. \u0218i cred c\u0103 to\u021bi ar trebui s\u0103 medit\u0103m de ce se \u00eent\u00e2mpl\u0103 asta. \u0218i ce putem face s\u0103 repar\u0103m asta. Dac\u0103 vrem ca bun\u0103tatea s\u0103 mai aib\u0103 o \u0219ans\u0103 \u00een lume. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
B. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Mult\u0103 lume a uitat ce \u00eenseamn\u0103 s\u0103 ai 20 de ani \u0219i lucrurile la care visezi c\u00e2nd ai 20 de ani. Preten\u021bia ca un pu\u0219ti de 20 s\u0103 vad\u0103 lumea cu \u00een\u021belepciunea unui adult de 40, trecut prin e\u0219ecuri \u0219i umilin\u021be de toate tipurile, e absolut ridicol\u0103 \u0219i arat\u0103 c\u0103 ai inteligen\u021ba emo\u021bional\u0103 a unei ciubote. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Spre norocul general, eu la 20 de ani eram o student\u0103 am\u00e2r\u00e2t\u0103 \u0219i fomist\u0103, pe care n-o ajuta niciun p\u0103rinte m\u0103car cu un leu s\u0103 fac\u0103 facultatea, \u0219i atunci, \u00eemi \u00eemp\u0103r\u021beam cu greu timpul \u00eentre facultate \u0219i jobul din care m\u0103 \u00eentre\u021bineam la \u0219coal\u0103. Via\u021ba m\u0103 for\u021ba la \u00een\u021belepciune, dar sufletul meu nu era deloc \u00een\u021belept. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Presupun\u00e2nd c\u0103, peste noapte, mi-ar fi picat \u00een poal\u0103 ni\u0219te premii de zeci de mii de euro dintr-un achievement interna\u021bional, iat\u0103 ce mi-a\u0219 fi cump\u0103rat cu mintea de la 20 de ani: <\/p>\n\n\n\n
a) Chitar\u0103 electric\u0103 Gibson Les Paul Supreme. Doar vreo 18.000 de lei. Dar o foloseau \u0219i Billie Joe Armstrong de la Green Day, \u0219i Lenny Kravitz, \u0219i Slash. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
b) C\u00e2rcium\u0103 de rockeri. Vreo 50.000 de lei sum\u0103 ini\u021bial\u0103 de deschidere. \u00cemi pl\u0103cea s\u0103 ard gazul prin ele \u0219i m\u0103 g\u00e2ndeam c\u0103 dac\u0103 e c\u00e2rciuma ta, te respect\u0103 altfel lumea \u0219i bei la pre\u021b de produc\u0103tor. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
c) Geac\u0103 de piele Ralph Lauren. 5.000 de lei. Pentru c\u0103 ar\u0103tau ale naibii de cool, iar eu ar\u0103t perfect \u00een piele. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
d) Circuit de festivaluri de var\u0103 prin Europa. F\u0103r\u0103 num\u0103r. Pentru c\u0103 rock n’ roll nu moare. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
e) Primul Dracula f\u0103cut \u00een Rom\u00e2nia, \u0163ara care a dat personajul. 2.000.000 de euro. Pentru c\u0103 de ce plm s\u0103 nu avem \u015fi noi propriul nostru Dracula? \u015ei da, eu a\u015f fi fost Dracula. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u015ei multe alte m\u0103run\u0163i\u015furi, care v-ar oripila \u015fi mai tare. Dar acesta era universul meu mintal la 20 de ani. Pentru c\u0103 e v\u00e2rsta la care visezi cai verzi pe pere\u0163i. \u015ei \u00ee\u0163i \u015fi st\u0103 bine s\u0103 visezi cai verzi pe pere\u0163i. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Voi, s\u0103 fi avut banii, ce nebunii v-a\u0163i fi luat la 20 de ani? Promit s\u0103 nu judec, c\u0103 eu am \u00eentrebat. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
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