{"id":27610,"date":"2025-02-13T12:47:20","date_gmt":"2025-02-13T09:47:20","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/?p=27610"},"modified":"2025-02-13T12:47:22","modified_gmt":"2025-02-13T09:47:22","slug":"despre-obsesia-familiei-traditionale","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/despre-obsesia-familiei-traditionale\/","title":{"rendered":"Despre obsesia familiei tradi\u021bionale"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

Se \u00eent\u00e2mpl\u0103 un fenomen ciudat \u00een zilele noastre. Oamenii se apuc\u0103 s\u0103 voteze to\u021bi pro\u0219tii, nebunii, escrocii \u0219i impostorii, pentru c\u0103 ace\u0219tia abereaz\u0103 despre familia tradi\u021bional\u0103. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00centr-un fel, \u00een\u021beleg. Nu g\u0103se\u0219ti un partener serios sau o partener\u0103 serioas\u0103, \u00eel auzi pe \u0103la la tv povestind ce frumos e s\u0103 ai familie adev\u0103rat\u0103, \u021bi se umplu ochii de lacrimi \u0219i zici, da, a\u0219a e. Dar dac\u0103 tot vorbe\u0219te pe inima ta, f\u0103-l influencer pe categoria family & parenting. Nu-l face politician strict pe baza a ce abereaz\u0103 despre familie. Vezi ce propune politic. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Am o veste: nici un pre\u0219edinte, oric\u00e2t de familist ar fi, nu are puterea s\u0103-\u021bi livreze un mire sau o mireas\u0103 la cheie, s\u0103-\u021bi faci \u0219i tu familie tradi\u021bional\u0103 doar pentru c\u0103 e el pre\u0219edinte. Deci blabla-ul lui despre familie tradi\u021bional\u0103 r\u0103m\u00e2ne at\u00e2t. Blabla. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Pe de alt\u0103 parte, s\u0103 zicem c\u0103 am vota un pre\u0219edinte gay. Dar nu gay ca Maurice Munteanu, cu aspect de tractorist \u0219i profund implicat \u00een critica vestimenta\u021biei femeilor. Ci gay ca RuPaul, mereu machiat, mereu \u00een rochie. Tu \u00een continuare ai putea s\u0103-\u021bi faci o familie tradi\u021bional\u0103, dac\u0103 asta dore\u0219ti, pentru c\u0103 nu \u0103la de la c\u00e2rma \u021b\u0103rii \u00ee\u021bi dicteaz\u0103 cum s\u0103 tr\u0103ie\u0219ti tu. (\u00cen democra\u021bie, that is.) <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Arta de a forma o familie tradi\u021bional\u0103 e la nivelul cet\u0103\u021beanului sau cet\u0103\u021benei. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

B\u0103rba\u021bii \/ femeile nu te resping pentru c\u0103 pre\u0219edintele e liberal sau pentru c\u0103 gay-ii au drepturi. Te resping pentru c\u0103 oferta ta nu e interesant\u0103. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Pe de o parte, caut\u0103-\u021bi un partener sau o partener\u0103 interesat(\u0103) \u00een mod real de tine. Nu trage de oameni care nu te vor. Po\u021bi s\u0103 votezi pre\u0219edinte pe Adolf Hitler clonat \u00een persoan\u0103, iar oamenii care nu te vor \u00een continuare nu te vor vrea. \u0218i nu trage de oameni care nu \u00ee\u0219i doresc \u0219i ei o familie tradi\u021bional\u0103. Nu po\u021bi constr\u00e2nge pe nimeni s\u0103 vrea ce vrei tu. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0218i pe de alta, \u00eenva\u021b\u0103 s\u0103 fii tu un partener sau o partener(\u0103) mai bun(\u0103), mai afectuos(oas\u0103), s\u0103 ai o comunicare mai bun\u0103, s\u0103 g\u0103se\u0219ti un numitor comun real cu persoana iubit\u0103 \u0219i s\u0103 construi\u021bi o rela\u021bie care s\u0103 v\u0103 dezvolte ca oameni pe am\u00e2ndoi. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

A\u0219a \u00ee\u021bi creezi o familie tradi\u021bional\u0103, sau chiar una modern\u0103, INDIFERENT cine e pre\u0219edinte. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Politicianul nu \u00ee\u021bi face familie. Tu \u0219i persoana iubit\u0103 ave\u021bi aceast\u0103 prerogativ\u0103. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Cafeaua de la tine e inspira\u021bia mea. \ud83d\ude00<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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