{"id":27763,"date":"2025-03-23T14:04:47","date_gmt":"2025-03-23T11:04:47","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/?p=27763"},"modified":"2025-03-23T14:04:49","modified_gmt":"2025-03-23T11:04:49","slug":"da-draga-carmen-femeile-frumoase-pot-fi-furioase","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/da-draga-carmen-femeile-frumoase-pot-fi-furioase\/","title":{"rendered":"Da, drag\u0103 Carmen, femeile frumoase POT fi furioase"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>Dac\u0103 da\u0163i un scroll pe blogul \u0103sta, ve\u0163i vedea c\u0103 am mai multe interviuri cu jurnalista Carmen Dumitrescu. Care s-a impus pe scena public\u0103 printr-un act impresionant de curaj: pres\u0103 liber\u0103 \u00een Teleorman, pe vremea c\u00e2nd Dragnea t\u0103ia \u015fi sp\u00e2nzura pe acolo. Evident, un mediu de abuzuri e foarte fertil din punct de vedere al subiectelor, numai c\u0103 e cam riscant s\u0103 o iei pe alei insuficient luminate noaptea. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>De aceea subliniez c\u0103 am o mare admira\u0163ie fa\u0163\u0103 de Carmen. E u\u015for s\u0103 fii tare-n peni\u0163\u0103 la Bucure\u015fti, unde po\u0163i s\u0103 te ascunzi cu mare succes de hateri, dar s\u0103 fii gic\u0103 contra \u00eentr-un ora\u015f de provincie unde toat\u0103 lumea pup\u0103 poala st\u0103p\u00e2nului e genul de joc rezervat pentru cei cu c*aie mari \u015fi grele. \u015ei subliniez c\u0103 acest text nu o combate pe ea ca persoan\u0103, ci strict un punct de vedere, pe care \u00eel g\u0103sesc gre\u015fit \u015fi periculos. <\/p>\n\n\n<p><iframe loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/plugins\/post.php?href=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.facebook.com%2Fcarmen.dumitrescu2%2Fposts%2Fpfbid02yaK6VsCkUVAgz2XDPy6c3JBMuoEjN5rnTxq9K3jHAahJVKDsDShgbgr4gwyfSCphl&#038;show_text=true&#038;width=500\" width=\"500\" height=\"296\" style=\"border:none;overflow:hidden\" scrolling=\"no\" frameborder=\"0\" allowfullscreen=\"true\" allow=\"autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; picture-in-picture; web-share\"><\/iframe><\/p>\n\n\n<p>Cum ar veni, dac\u0103 e\u015fti superb\u0103, gra\u0163ioas\u0103, frumoas\u0103 \u015fi c\u00e2rlion\u0163at\u0103, ar trebui s\u0103 nu te superi niciodat\u0103, s\u0103 nu te enervezi niciodat\u0103 \u015fi s\u0103 nu ripostezi conform abuzurilor niciodat\u0103, pentru c\u0103 e mai important s\u0103 placi la trec\u0103tori dec\u00e2t s\u0103 ai tu closure dup\u0103 ce \u0163i s-a f\u0103cut o m\u0103g\u0103rie. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ca o fost\u0103 domni\u0163\u0103 angelic\u0103, \u0163in s\u0103 confirm c\u0103 domni\u0163ele angelice sunt grupul social cel mai supus mizeriilor de toate tipurile. B\u0103rba\u0163i care \u00eencearc\u0103 s\u0103 te combine, uneori \u00een cele mai grosolane \u015fi mai vomitive moduri. Femei care te invidiaz\u0103 pentru tinere\u0163ea \u015fi frumuse\u0163ea ta \u015fi \u00ee\u0163i fac r\u0103ut\u0103\u0163i doar a\u015fa, pentru c\u0103 le \u0163ine. Fiecare bab\u0103 ar\u0163\u0103goas\u0103 crede c\u0103 te poate trata ca pe servitoarea ei nepl\u0103tit\u0103 \u015fi fiecare gigi duru de cartier crede c\u0103 e\u015fti la o replic\u0103 idioat\u0103 distan\u0163\u0103 de a-i pica la a\u015fternut. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u015ei pentru c\u0103 pari inocent\u0103, naiv\u0103 \u015fi manipulabil\u0103, orice nemernic caut\u0103 s\u0103 \u00ee\u015fi preseze ideile asupra ta \u015fi s\u0103 te gaslight cum vrea, pentru c\u0103 nemernicii adulmec\u0103 vulnerabilitatea cam cum adulmec\u0103 animalele de prad\u0103 s\u00e2ngele. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Taman de aceea, e at\u00e2t de periculoas\u0103 atitudinea: \u201etu ca femeie nu ai voie s\u0103 \u00eenjuri, s\u0103 fii furioas\u0103 \u0219i s\u0103 ai frustr\u0103ri\u201d. Pentru c\u0103 li se aplic\u0103 exact grupului celui mai expus mizeriilor de toate tipurile, \u0219i care are cele mai multe MOTIVE \u00ceNDREPT\u0102\u021aITE s\u0103 \u00eenjure, s\u0103 fie furios \u0219i s\u0103 aib\u0103 frustr\u0103ri. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Mi s-a \u00eent\u00e2mplat de at\u00e2tea ori s\u0103-mi vin\u0103 un cocalar \u00een sec\u021biunea de comentarii, s\u0103-mi posteze o \u00eenjur\u0103tur\u0103 nemeritat\u0103, eu s\u0103 \u00eei r\u0103spund pe m\u0103sur\u0103, \u0219i 30 de martori la conversa\u021bie s\u0103 m\u0103 frece pe mine la melodie c\u0103 nu sunt o doamn\u0103, ignor\u00e2nd cu senin\u0103tate faptul c\u0103 ini\u021biatorul conflictului a fost gigelul. De vin\u0103 nu e \u0103la c\u0103 te atac\u0103. El e b\u0103rbat \u0219i are voie. De vin\u0103 e\u0219ti tu, c\u0103 \u00ee\u021bi permi\u021bi s\u0103 fii femeie \u0219i s\u0103 te aperi, ambele \u00een acela\u0219i timp. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Pentru c\u0103 nu-i a\u0219a, dac\u0103 e\u0219ti femeie, trebuie s\u0103 fii fraiera comunit\u0103\u021bii, s\u0103 fac\u0103 oricine din tine ce vrea \u0219i dac\u0103 te enervezi, nu ne pas\u0103, mu\u0219c\u0103 din pern\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Uhm, nu. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Vorbim despre drepturile femeilor, \u00een timp ce le neg\u0103m femeilor acest drept de baz\u0103, spun eu: s\u0103 reac\u021bioneze cu furie la m\u0103g\u0103rii care merit\u0103 furie. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Chiar dac\u0103 \u00ee\u021bi tr\u0103ie\u0219ti via\u021ba focusat pe r\u00e2s, pozitivitate \u0219i partea plin\u0103 a paharului, tot \u00ee\u021bi ies \u00een cale idio\u021bi r\u0103uvoitori \u0219i rahaturi enervante. Dac\u0103 refulezi nervii, nu faci dec\u00e2t s\u0103 interiorizezi \u0219i s\u0103 te dezechilibrezi pe termen lung. Apoi, tot ei: \u201eToate femeile sunt nebune\u201d. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>S\u0103 \u00eencepem s\u0103 \u00een\u021belegem c\u0103, doar pentru c\u0103 vedem o prin\u021bes\u0103 frumoas\u0103 pe strad\u0103, nu \u00eenseamn\u0103 c\u0103 nu are un vecin libidinos care-i las\u0103 mesaje gre\u021boase pe u\u0219\u0103, o \u0219ef\u0103 t\u00e2mpit\u0103 care o persecut\u0103 pentru c\u0103 e mai frumoas\u0103 sau un profesor universitar care \u00eei sugereaz\u0103 c\u0103 o va pica dac\u0103 nu livreaz\u0103 ac\u021biune de dormitor. Dimpotriv\u0103, TAMAN pentru c\u0103 e o prin\u021bes\u0103 frumoas\u0103, are mai multe \u0219anse s\u0103 le \u00eendure pe astea, sau altele, la fel de deranjante. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u0218i c\u0103 nu-i \u0219tim via\u021ba, \u0219i nu putem judeca prin ce trece f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103 avem mai multe detalii. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201eCum s\u0103 \u00eenjuri tu ca femeie?\u201d <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Uite a\u0219a, cu pwl\u0103 \u0219i cu mwie. Prefer s\u0103 vorbesc frumos \u0219i s\u0103 am rela\u021bii iubitoare cu oamenii, dar, cum spune RuPaul: sometimes you gotta break it DOWN for a motherfwcker. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Cred sincer c\u0103, dac\u0103 cineva \u00ee\u021bi face, neprovocat \u0219i nejustificat, o m\u0103g\u0103rie, e dreptul t\u0103u s\u0103 \u00ee\u021bi exprimi furia, exact cum o sim\u021bi, \u0219i s\u0103 te revan\u0219ezi exact cum crezi de cuviin\u021b\u0103, \u00een limitele legii. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Iar noi, femeile, ar trebui s\u0103 \u0219tim asta mai bine dec\u00e2t oricine altcineva.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>***<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Mul\u021bumesc frumos pentru cafea! <\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.paypal.com\/paypalme\/Trollywood\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"250\" height=\"82\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/01\/paypal-.jpg?w=700&amp;ssl=1\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-25884\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/01\/paypal-.jpg?w=250&amp;ssl=1 250w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/01\/paypal-.jpg?resize=150%2C49&amp;ssl=1 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 250px) 100vw, 250px\" \/><\/a><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>***<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Vrei s\u0103 m\u0103 urm\u0103re\u015fti \u00een social media? \u00cemi po\u0163i da follow pe&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/lorenaalmighty\/\"><strong>Facebook<\/strong><\/a>&nbsp;\u015fi&nbsp;<strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/lorena.lup\/\">Instagram<\/a><\/strong>, subscribe pe&nbsp;<strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/channel\/UCCHBtHi6S2GlUFqETH70cjQ\">YouTube<\/a><\/strong>&nbsp;\u015fi pe<strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/@lorena.lupu\">&nbsp;TikTok<\/a><\/strong>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>***<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ce le-a f\u0103tat&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Dac\u0103 da\u0163i un scroll pe blogul \u0103sta, ve\u0163i vedea c\u0103 am mai multe interviuri cu jurnalista Carmen Dumitrescu. 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