{"id":28074,"date":"2025-05-28T18:32:44","date_gmt":"2025-05-28T15:32:44","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/?p=28074"},"modified":"2025-05-28T19:01:33","modified_gmt":"2025-05-28T16:01:33","slug":"sindromul-stockholm","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/sindromul-stockholm\/","title":{"rendered":"Sindromul Stockholm"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">}n 1973, un infractor pe nume Jan Erik Olsson a \u00eencercat s\u0103 jefuiasc\u0103 o banc\u0103 din Stockholm, Suedia. Pentru c\u0103 poli\u021bia a fost alertat\u0103 \u0219i a venit \u00eentre timp, individul s-a \u00eenchis \u00een cl\u0103dire cu patru ostatici: trei femei \u0219i un b\u0103rbat. Cum Suedia e o \u021bar\u0103 \u00een care lumea are drepturi, inclusiv infractorii, negocierile au durat  \u0219ase zile. Timp \u00een care cele patru persoane au fost \u021binute captive de Olsson. Dup\u0103 ce, \u00een sf\u00e2r\u0219it, poli\u021bia a reu\u0219it s\u0103 intre \u00een cl\u0103dire, s\u0103 aresteze criminalul \u0219i s\u0103 elibereze prizonierii, a constatat o situa\u021bie bizar\u0103: niciunul nu era dispus s\u0103 depun\u0103 m\u0103rturie \u00eempotriva lui Olsson. Nu doar asta: au str\u00e2ns bani \u00een beneficiul lui. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">A\u0219a a ap\u0103rut o expresie care define\u0219te cel mai absurd comportament posibil: sindromul Stockholm. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">C\u00e2nd e\u0219ti abuzat, dar \u00eei g\u0103se\u0219ti mereu scuze abuzatorului \u0219i faci cu el front comun \u00eempotriva propriei persoane. \u0102la te brutalizeaz\u0103, te priveaz\u0103 de libertate, te minte, te \u00een\u0219al\u0103, \u00eel prinzi c\u0103 bate c\u00e2mpii o dat\u0103, de dou\u0103 ori, de zece ori, \u0219i tu at\u00e2rni de el ca scaiul de oaie \u0219i nu vezi nimic gre\u0219it. \u021ai se deseneaz\u0103, \u021bi se explic\u0103, \u021bi se rumeg\u0103 \u00een gur\u0103 ce e gre\u0219it \u0219i tu negi evidentul, prinzi ur\u0103 pe cei ce vor s\u0103 te ajute \u0219i tragi mai departe de abuzator. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Sindromul Stockholm nu e un termen psihologic oficial, dar e un comportament des \u00eent\u00e2lnit \u0219i u\u0219or de observat \u00een via\u021ba de zi cu zi. Poate e pentru c\u0103, dincolo de pojghi\u021ba sub\u021bire a ra\u021biunii, unii t\u00e2njesc s\u0103 fie dresa\u021bi ca ni\u0219te animale \u0219i \u00ee\u0219i doresc pe cineva s\u0103 le pun\u0103 bocancul pe cap. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u00cen societatea rom\u00e2neasc\u0103 recent\u0103, sindromul Stockholm se nume\u0219te suveranism. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Un b\u0103tr\u00e2n securist, care s-a reprofilat dup\u0103 revolu\u021bie ca membru frunta\u0219 PSD \u0219i a sifonat \u00een interes personal oceane de fonduri publice are tupeul ordinar s\u0103 se reeticheteze drept alternativa la sistemul \u0103la ho\u021b de 35 de ani, \u0219i s\u0103 asmu\u021beasc\u0103 pwlimea cu asta. \u0218i milioane de oameni aleg s\u0103-l cread\u0103 orbe\u0219te, chit c\u0103 le dai linkuri cu activitatea individului, cu modul \u00een care a spamat o re\u021bea social\u0103 cu zeci de mii de bo\u021bi \u0219i postaci, \u0219i ai o serie de cet\u0103\u021beni de v\u00e2rste respectabile, care le confirm\u0103 manipula\u021bilor lui c\u0103 nu, epoca lui Ceau\u0219escu nu a fost o nobil\u0103 etap\u0103 de suveranism, ci una de grele lipsuri \u0219i umilin\u021be, \u00een care Cea\u0219c\u0103 decidea pentru tine pe cartel\u0103 c\u00e2t lapte \u0219i c\u00e2te ou\u0103 ai voie s\u0103 cumperi, \u0219i \u021bi le f\u0103cea \u0219i pe astea imposibil de g\u0103sit. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u0218i totu\u0219i, ai \u0219i acei b\u0103tr\u00e2ni care nu mai pot de dorul acelei perioade. Da, se \u0219tergeau membrii de partid pe bocanci cu noi, ce bine era. Te mint \u00een fa\u021b\u0103 c\u0103 ba da, aveau m\u00e2ncare \u00een magazine, aveau libertate de opinie, ba da, era parad\u0103 de c\u00e2ini cu covrigi \u00een coad\u0103. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Le pl\u0103cea s\u0103 fie abuza\u021bi. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Mul\u021bi dintre noi au construit o campanie de \u0219apte luni \u00een care au demontat over and over and over and over and over and over and over again minciunile \u0219arlatanului. Doar pentru a trezi nehot\u0103r\u00e2\u021bii la realitatea faptului c\u0103, dac\u0103-i l\u0103s\u0103m pe cei cu sindrom Stockholm s\u0103 \u00eenving\u0103 la puncte, treaba va fi belit\u0103 pentru to\u021bi. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">C\u0103 suntem \u0219i din aceia care nu apreciem abuzul. Care ne dorim libertatea de a face ce vrem \u0219i de a ne duce unde vrem. Care ne dorim respect \u0219i pre\u021buire \u00een rela\u021biile cu restul lumii. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Dar, cu c\u00e2t sindromul Stockholm la nivel de mase se accentueaz\u0103, cu at\u00e2t aceste libert\u0103\u021bi \u0219i nevoi sunt etichetate drept \u201eur\u0103\u0219ti poporul rom\u00e2n.\u201d <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u0218i se pot termina u\u0219or cu munc\u0103 for\u021bat\u0103 la Canal. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">* <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Mbun, acum c\u0103 am sc\u0103pat de escroc \u0219i de trep\u0103du\u0219ii lui, propagandi\u0219tilor de Telegram li s-a aprins un becule\u021b: stai a\u0219a, de ce s-o soogem prin batist\u0103 c\u0103 noi vrem \u00een NATO \u0219i UE, c\u00e2nd orice om cu minimum un neuron func\u021bional vede c\u0103 nu? Hai s\u0103 ie\u0219im la \u00eenaintare cu slogane proruse pe fa\u021b\u0103, cu \u201enoi alegem ru\u0219ii\u201d, \u201enoi vrem cu Putin\u201d \u0219i \u201ePutin iube\u0219te poporul rom\u00e2n.\u201d <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">C\u00e2t ne iubesc ru\u0219ii s-a v\u0103zut c\u00e2nd ne-au invadat \u00een 1944 \u0219i o spun m\u0103rturiile b\u0103tr\u00e2nilor. Au spart, demolat, furat tot ce se putea fura, au nimicit tot ce se putea nimici, au violat \u00een grup tot ce avea dou\u0103 picioare \u0219i uneori, \u0219i ce avea patru, au devastat gospod\u0103rii, au l\u0103sat praf \u0219i pulbere \u00een urma lor.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Dup\u0103 care, ne-au \u00eendesat pe g\u00e2t o jum\u0103tate de secol de comunism bol\u0219evic infinit de abuziv, cu  confiscarea propriet\u0103\u021bii private, tratarea omului drept vit\u0103 de munc\u0103 \u0219i de pr\u0103sil\u0103, violen\u021b\u0103 la locul de munc\u0103, violen\u021b\u0103 \u00een familie, violen\u021b\u0103 care s\u0103 \u00eel \u021bin\u0103 pe om supus \u0219i cu fruntea plecat\u0103. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Judec\u00e2nd dup\u0103 comportamentul lor \u00een Ucraina, nu s-a schimbat nimic. Civili m\u0103cel\u0103ri\u021bi, c\u0103s\u0103pi\u021bi, blocuri demolate, gospod\u0103rii devastate, orfani tortura\u021bi \u0219i uci\u0219i \u00een cele mai barbare moduri. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u0218i totu\u0219i, la noi pe TikTok, Putin e izvorul universal al iubirii \u0219i binelui. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">E u\u0219or s\u0103 te enervezi, s\u0103-i faci pe to\u021bi imbecili, dobitoci \u0219i jigodii, dar la un moment dat, \u00ee\u021bi dai seama c\u0103 e mai mult de at\u00e2t. E sindrom Stockholm. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Unii vor bocanci \u00een cap \u0219i sentimentul c\u0103 sunt \u021binu\u021bi \u00een lan\u021buri. Libertatea le e incomod\u0103, nu \u0219tiu ce s\u0103 fac\u0103 cu ea, \u0219i aceast\u0103 ne\u0219tiin\u021b\u0103 \u00eei face s\u0103-\u0219i con\u0219tientizeze propriile limite \u0219i propria ratare. Ia s\u0103 urle unul toat\u0103 ziua la mine \u0219i atunci am o scuz\u0103 c\u0103 nu fac nimic cu via\u021ba mea. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Oric\u00e2t le explici, vorbe\u0219ti cu pere\u021bii. C\u00e2nd vorbe\u0219ti frumos cu ei, se r\u0103\u021boiesc la tine. Cazul AUR, care a instigat la ur\u0103, violen\u021b\u0103 \u0219i extremism toat\u0103 campania, \u0219i acum \u00eei cer ei lui  Nicu\u0219or Dan \u00eentr-un comunicat de pres\u0103 \u201es\u0103-\u0219i cear\u0103 scuze pentru declara\u021biile nedemocratice\u201d. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Nu \u00ee\u021bi dau de ales, dec\u00e2t s\u0103 devii abuziv \u0219i r\u0103u. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u0218i cea mai mare problem\u0103 a acestui sindrom Stockholm colectiv e c\u0103 se vor orienta natural, instinctual, spre urm\u0103torul abuzator, care \u00eei va face terci mai crunt dec\u00e2t predecesorul. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">***<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Izbe\u015fte autorul cu o cafea.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.paypal.com\/paypalme\/Trollywood\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"250\" height=\"82\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/01\/paypal-.jpg?w=700&amp;ssl=1\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-25884\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/01\/paypal-.jpg?w=250&amp;ssl=1 250w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/01\/paypal-.jpg?resize=150%2C49&amp;ssl=1 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 250px) 100vw, 250px\" \/><\/a><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">***<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Vrei s\u0103 m\u0103 urm\u0103re\u015fti \u00een social media? \u00cemi po\u0163i da follow pe&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/lorenaalmighty\/\"><strong>Facebook<\/strong><\/a>&nbsp;\u015fi&nbsp;<strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/lorena.lup\/\">Instagram<\/a><\/strong>, subscribe pe&nbsp;<strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/channel\/UCCHBtHi6S2GlUFqETH70cjQ\">YouTube<\/a><\/strong>&nbsp;\u015fi pe<strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/@lorena.lupu\">&nbsp;TikTok<\/a><\/strong>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>}n 1973, un infractor pe nume Jan Erik Olsson a \u00eencercat s\u0103 jefuiasc\u0103 o banc\u0103 din Stockholm, Suedia. 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