{"id":28090,"date":"2025-06-01T13:45:43","date_gmt":"2025-06-01T10:45:43","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/?p=28090"},"modified":"2025-06-01T15:12:19","modified_gmt":"2025-06-01T12:12:19","slug":"o-mamica-ucisa-de-ziua-copilului","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/o-mamica-ucisa-de-ziua-copilului\/","title":{"rendered":"O m\u0103mic\u0103 ucis\u0103 de ziua copilului"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

Ce cadou po\u0163i oferi unor copii nevinova\u0163i de 1 iunie, dac\u0103 nu prilejul de a privi, ziua \u00een amiaza mare, cum mama \/ m\u0103tu\u015fa lor este \u00eempu\u015fcat\u0103 \u015fi moare? <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Se \u00eent\u00e2mpl\u0103 \u00een Rom\u00e2nia lui 2025. Rom\u00e2nia \u00een care \u201emanosfera\u201d fra\u021bilor Tate face furori. O confrerie a b\u0103rba\u021bilor brutali, pro\u0219ti \u0219i r\u0103i din toat\u0103 lumea, care nu \u0219tiu s\u0103 se fac\u0103 iubi\u021bi, fiind, cum am zis, brutali, pro\u0219ti \u0219i r\u0103i, \u0219i atunci r\u0103sp\u00e2ndesc o mentalitate vomitiv\u0103 \u0219i toxic\u0103, cum c\u0103 femeia trebuie supus\u0103 \u0219i controlat\u0103, prin \u0219antaj, amenin\u021bare, violen\u021b\u0103, gaslighting, manevre psihologice, pentru a te asigura c\u0103 nu pleac\u0103 nic\u0103ieri, indiferent de c\u00e2t de \u00eengrozitor o tratezi. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

De unde mi-am dat seama c\u0103 uciga\u0219ul Robert Wolf e fan manosfer\u0103? <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Pentru c\u0103 indivizii din acest grup au un limbaj specific. Femeia a fost \u00eempu\u0219cat\u0103 cu dou\u0103 gloan\u021be \u00een piept, s\u0103 se asigure c\u0103 moare, \u0219i unul \u00een abdomen, s\u0103 se asigure c\u0103 ucide \u0219i bebelu\u0219ul pe cale de a se na\u0219te. Explica\u021bia: \u201evoiam s\u0103-i elimin fertilitatea\u201d. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Niciodat\u0103 n-am auzit b\u0103rba\u021bi preocupa\u021bi de \u201efertilitatea\u201d unei femei – de parc\u0103 era o vac\u0103 de pr\u0103sil\u0103 – p\u00e2n\u0103 c\u00e2nd manosfera a \u00eenceput s\u0103-\u0219i \u00eentind\u0103 ghearele otr\u0103vite \u0219i prin internetul rom\u00e2nesc. Termenul \u201efertilitate\u201d nu era utilizat frecvent, \u0219i nu \u00een leg\u0103tur\u0103 cu oameni. Era folosit \u00een biologie \u0219i \u00een zootehnie, pentru industriii care se bazau pe roade \u00eembel\u0219ugate sau pui mul\u021bi de animale. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Simplul fapt c\u0103, mai nou, oameni \u00ee\u0219i permit s\u0103 debiteze despre \u201efertilitatea\u201d altor oameni mi se pare monstruos \u00een sine. A\u0219a cum e monstruos s\u0103 se oplo\u0219easc\u0103 un necunoscut peste profilul unei femei cu care nu are, faptic, ABSOLUT NICIO TREAB\u0102, \u0219i s\u0103 abereze c\u0103 ar fi cazul s\u0103 fac\u0103 copii, din motive de \u201efertilitate\u201d. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

C\u00e2nd ideile bolnave ale manosferei se suprapun peste min\u021bile bolnave ale unor indivizi care cred c\u0103 e suficient s\u0103 vrea ei o femeie, iar consim\u021b\u0103m\u00e2ntul \u0219i condi\u021biile acestora nu conteaz\u0103, rezultatul e violen\u021ba \u0219i moartea. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Robert Wolf avea 49 de ani, Teodora 23. Ar fi \u00eemb\u00e2rligat-o pe la 13 – 14 ani, c\u00e2nd era o copil\u0103 naiv\u0103. Practic, a reu\u0219it s-o corup\u0103. Fata, spun unii, era \u00eentr-o rela\u021bie cu el. Al\u021bii spun c\u0103 nu. Dar brutalitatea, violen\u021ba, minciunile, abuzurile – tendin\u021bele lui de infractor, la care s-au ad\u0103ugat \u00eenv\u0103\u021b\u0103mintele distructive ale manosferei – au f\u0103cut-o s\u0103 plece.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00cen acel moment, b\u0103rbatul de aproape o jum\u0103tate de secol, care ar fi trebuit s\u0103 capete o anumit\u0103 \u00een\u021belepciune, cu v\u00e2rsta \u0219i experien\u021ba de via\u021b\u0103, \u0219i-a f\u0103cut o misiune din a o aduce \u00eenapoi. Cu amenin\u021b\u0103ri, cu \u0219antaj, cu agresiuni. Cum \u00eel \u00eenv\u0103\u021base manosfera. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Fata a ob\u021binut un ordin de protec\u021bie \u00eempotriva lui. \u0218i se \u0219tie c\u00e2t de greu ob\u021bii un ordin de protec\u021bie \u00een Rom\u00e2nia. Trebuie s\u0103 te duci s\u00e2nger\u00e2nd, b\u0103tut m\u0103r, \u00een patru labe, s\u0103 convingi autorit\u0103\u021bile c\u0103 nemernicul e un pericol real. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00cen momentul \u00een care fata a avut o rela\u021bie nou\u0103, fericit\u0103, cu un b\u0103rbat normal (\u201eun beta \u0219i un cuck\u201d \u00een limbajul manosferei), ba chiar a \u00eenceput s\u0103-\u0219i pun\u0103 \u00een practic\u0103 \u201efertilitatea\u201d (cu un copil mic \u0219i cu un al doilea pe drum), individul a luat-o ca pe o provocare direct\u0103 la adresa masculinit\u0103\u021bii lui angoasate, \u201ealfa\u201d. Pentru c\u0103, \u00een mintea acestor specimene, vie\u021bile altora nu sunt despre nevoile lor, ci tot despre el. \u0218i solu\u021bia lui psihopat\u0103 a fost una singur\u0103: crima. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Cred c\u0103 ar trebui s\u0103 existe ini\u021biative publice de deprogramare a manosferei. Cu tratamente psihologice, ba chiar psihiatrice, dedicate celor afecta\u021bi. O femeie NU e o proprietate, iubirea NU e o garan\u021bie c\u0103 po\u021bi abuza oric\u00e2t \u0219i face orice, iar dac\u0103 persoana nu e fericit\u0103 cu tine, e DREPTUL ei INALIENABIL s\u0103 caute fericire altundeva. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

P\u00e2n\u0103 c\u00e2nd nu con\u0219tientiz\u0103m psihozele declan\u0219ate \u0219i alimentate de acest mindset malign, b\u0103rba\u021bii susceptibili la acest tip de manipulare vor provoca nepl\u0103ceri enorme tuturor femeilor care intr\u0103 \u00een contact, chiar \u0219i superficial pe net, cu ei. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nu e normal s\u0103 tratezi necunoscute ca pe slugile tale personale, nu e normal s\u0103 s*xualizezi discu\u021bii cu femei care nu au nicio treab\u0103 cu tine, nu e normal s\u0103 pretinzi so\u021biei \/ partenerei s\u0103 fie sclava ta f\u0103r\u0103 discern\u0103m\u00e2nt \u0219i s\u0103 \u00eendure orice \u0219i nu e normal s\u0103 devii un calvar \u00een vie\u021bile femeilor care nu vor, sau nu mai vor s\u0103 aib\u0103 treab\u0103 cu tine.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Cum ne putem proteja noi, femeile, individual, p\u00e2n\u0103 c\u00e2nd institu\u021biile de stat decid c\u0103 e cazul s\u0103 ne protejeze? <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Vaccinul mintal e s\u0103 citi\u021bi siteuri \u0219i forumuri de manosfer\u0103 \u0219i s\u0103 recunoa\u0219te\u021bi termenii cheie. Niciodat\u0103 p\u00e2n\u0103 la manosfer\u0103, un b\u0103rbat nu a fost preocupat de \u201efertilitatea ta\u201d, niciodat\u0103 nu te-a \u00eentrebat dac\u0103 vrei \u201evalidare\u201d (\u00een ce plm comisie e\u0219ti tu, s\u0103 ai vreo autoritate de a valida pe cineva?), niciodat\u0103 nu \u021bi-a vorbit de \u201ehipergamie\u201d (adic\u0103, faptul c\u0103 \u00eentre unul ur\u00e2t \u0219i prost \u0219i unul frumos \u0219i de\u0219tept, femeia \u00eel va alege pe cel frumos \u0219i de\u0219tept, ceea ce, btw, fac \u0219i ei c\u00e2nd p\u0103r\u0103sesc nevasta plictisitoare de 40 de ani pentru frumu\u0219ica de 20), \u0219i niciodat\u0103 nu \u021bi-a vorbit de \u201ezid\u201d (pragul de 30 – 35 de ani, dup\u0103 care, vezi Doamne, o femeie nu mai valoreaz\u0103 nimic, \u0219i ar fi cazul s\u0103 te gr\u0103be\u0219ti s\u0103 te f*\u021bi cu el acum, c\u00e2t ai \u0219anse, lol.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Gigi duru de TikTok, Florin Cocin\u0103, care le f\u0103cea \u201ec\u00e2rpe\u201d \u0219i \u201ezdren\u021be\u201d pe votantele lui Nicu\u0219or Dan, era \u0219i el membru al manosferei. De unde \u0219tim? Din retorica lui \u201ev\u0103 folosim doar pentru o noapte\u201d, amenin\u021barea clasic\u0103 a membrilor manosferei fa\u021b\u0103 de \u201efeministe diabolice\u201d, care \u201enu-\u0219i recunosc condi\u021bia de femei\u201d, adic\u0103 sclave folosibile dup\u0103 bunul plac \u0219i preg\u0103tite s\u0103 tolereze orice. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Realitatea e c\u0103 singurele femei pe care aceste specimene le \u201efolosesc pentru o noapte\u201d sunt naivele u\u0219or de intimidat care pun botul la gargara lor infect\u0103. Restul le citesc ratarea \u0219i psihoza de la o po\u0219t\u0103. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Respinge\u021bi indivizii infesta\u021bi de manosfer\u0103 de la primele replici, pentru propria voastr\u0103 protec\u021bie, s\u0103n\u0103tate fizic\u0103 \u0219i mintal\u0103. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Dan T\u0103nas\u0103, hauristul, e \u0219i el infestat de manosfer\u0103. De unde plm \u0219i-ar fi permis altfel s\u0103 \u00eei predice Andreei B\u0103lan despre superioritatea femeii cu \u201ehusband and kids\u201d fa\u021b\u0103 de cele \u201echildless and broke\u201d (adic\u0103 f\u0103r\u0103 copii \u0219i \u201edistruse\u201d, de vreme ce orice femeie ce nu \u00ee\u0219i dore\u0219te s\u0103 fie pr0asta necondi\u021bionat\u0103 a unui alfal\u0103u e \u201edistrus\u0103\u201d). <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00cen mod normal, via\u021ba personal\u0103 a oric\u0103rei femei, sau a oric\u0103rui b\u0103rbat, prive\u0219te doar pe cel \u00een cauz\u0103, \u0219i nu pe to\u021bi b\u0103g\u0103torii \u00een seam\u0103 aiurea. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Indivizii din manosfer\u0103 nu se dau \u00een l\u0103turi de la nicio nemernicie, pentru c\u0103 asta \u00eenseamn\u0103, \u201es\u0103 maintain frame\u201d, adic\u0103 s\u0103 ar\u0103\u021bi perpetuu ce gunoi odios \u0219i sc\u00e2rbos e\u0219ti. De aceea, po\u021bi \u0219i tu s\u0103 maintain the frame of \u201emar\u0219 la cote\u021b, ratatule\u201d. E singura cale prin care minimizezi paguba. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Am pierdut multe oportunit\u0103\u021bi profesionale, mul\u021bi bani \u0219i multe proiecte din cauza acestui tip de indivizi, care mi s-au pus curmezi\u0219 uite a\u0219a, de-al dracului, dar m\u0103car sunt s\u0103n\u0103toas\u0103 \u0219i \u00een via\u021b\u0103, \u0219i cu un brand personal construit cu for\u021be proprii. Cazul cutremur\u0103tor al Teodorei Marcu arat\u0103 ce p\u0103\u021besc cele care le acord\u0103 o \u0219ans\u0103. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

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