{"id":28170,"date":"2025-06-19T12:28:59","date_gmt":"2025-06-19T09:28:59","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/?p=28170"},"modified":"2025-06-19T12:29:02","modified_gmt":"2025-06-19T09:29:02","slug":"posta-redactiei-sotul-parasit-se-razbuna","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/posta-redactiei-sotul-parasit-se-razbuna\/","title":{"rendered":"Po\u0219ta redac\u021biei: So\u021bul p\u0103r\u0103sit se r\u0103zbun\u0103"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Periodic, oferim iubire cititorului nostru. \u00cen sensul \u00een care el sau ea, sau chiar tu, de ce nu, ne trimite(\u021bi) problema voastr\u0103 de suflet pe birou@lorenalupu.com. Noi citim, cuget\u0103m \u0219i analiz\u0103m, apoi propunem o solu\u021bie sau d\u0103m o opinie \u00ceNTR-UN ARTICOL PE BLOG.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Sau \u00een consulta\u0163ie privat\u0103, contra cost.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Scrisorica de azi zice a\u0219a:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Drag\u0103 Lorena, <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Un caz cutremur\u0103tor s-a petrecut \u00een satul \u00een care eu locuiesc, \u00een urm\u0103 cu vreo 12 ani. Un b\u0103iat de 29 de ani a fost p\u0103r\u0103sit de so\u021bie care a plecat cu un \u0219ofer de tir \u00een Italia. El a r\u0103mas cu un copil de aproximativ 4 sau 5 ani cafe suferea de autism. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Nu \u0219tiu sigur dac\u0103 b\u0103iatul statea mai mult la el sau la fo\u0219tii socri, dar cert e ca el a avertizat-o sa se \u00eentoarc\u0103 la el, ca altfel ii va ucide p\u0103rin\u021bii \u0219i copilul. Ea nu s-a \u00eentors, a\u0219a c\u0103 el s-a \u021binut de cuv\u00e2nt. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>\u0218i-a ucis socrii cu toporul, iar pe copil l-a sufocat cu perna, apoi s-a sinucis \u0219i el, nu \u00eenainte de a l\u0103sa un afi\u0219 pe poart\u0103: ,,Nu \u00eentra\u021bi, am comis crime! Suna\u021bi la 112!&#8221; Cu pu\u021bin timp \u00eenainte m-am \u00eent\u00e2lnit cu el \u0219i m-a salutat respectuos, ca era mai t\u00e2n\u0103r cu vreo 2 sau 3 ani dec\u00e2t mine, \u0219i nu mi-as fi \u00eenchipuit vreodat\u0103 ca ar fi \u00een stare de a\u0219a ceva. Nu \u00eel cuno\u0219team prea bine, dar as fi b\u0103gat m\u00e2na \u00een foc ca e un b\u0103iat cuminte \u0219i chiar era u\u0219or timid. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Nu am mers acolo c\u00e2nd politia a anchetat cazul pentru c\u0103 m\u0103 afecteaz\u0103 aceste lucruri. Din p\u0103cate, mul\u021bi din comunitatea noastr\u0103 au acuzat-o pe femeie, de parc\u0103 ea era vinovat\u0103. Bunica ei, care era vecina noastr\u0103, venea la mama \u0219i se pl\u00e2ngea ca vecinii nu mai vorbesc cu ea din acest motiv. Mintea unor oameni func\u021bioneaz\u0103 ciudat.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>X.\u201d <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">***<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Drag\u0103 X., <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u00ce\u021bi mul\u021bumesc pentru poveste. E important s\u0103 consemn\u0103m toate aceste situa\u021bii de abuzuri extreme, s\u0103 \u0219tim cu ce ne confrunt\u0103m, noi ca na\u021biune. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u0218i da, s\u0103 \u00eencerci s\u0103 tragi de cineva amenin\u021b\u00e2nd c\u0103 vei comite crime e incalificabil. Faptele respectivului individ sunt absolut abominabile, \u0219i sper c\u0103 exist\u0103 un cazan special de smoal\u0103 pentru el \u00een iad. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Pe de alt\u0103 parte, poate c\u0103 r\u0103ceala s\u0103tenilor nu e pentru c\u0103 o \u00eenvinuiesc pe femeie de respectivele crime ci, pentru c\u0103, mam\u0103 fiind, \u0219i-a pus palma-n zona dorsal\u0103 \u0219i a plecat \u00een lume, l\u0103s\u00e2ndu-\u0219i partenerul s\u0103 fie p\u0103rinte singur, cu un copil cu nevoi speciale. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Eu provin din genul acesta de familie. Taic\u0103-miu ne-a p\u0103r\u0103sit de pe o zi pe alta, pentru c\u0103 \u0219i-a \u00eent\u00e2lnit iubirea vie\u021bii, \u0219i a r\u0103mas mama s\u0103 creasc\u0103 \u0219i s\u0103 \u00eentre\u021bin\u0103 singur\u0103 doi copii. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Cred cu t\u0103rie c\u0103, dac\u0103 nu e\u0219ti sigur c\u0103 vrei s\u0103 r\u0103m\u00e2i pe via\u021b\u0103 al\u0103turi de omul respectiv, nu te apuci s\u0103 torni plozi. Din secunda \u00een care apar copiii, nu mai iei decizii egoiste, ci iei \u00een calcul binele copilului. Chiar dac\u0103 pleci, discu\u021bi cu partenerul pe care-l la\u0219i \u00een urm\u0103 \u0219i vezi cu ce po\u021bi ajuta de la distan\u021b\u0103. M\u0103car s\u0103 contribui financiar, dac\u0103 tot nu e\u0219ti acolo. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Femeia are dreptul s\u0103 se combine cu cine vrea ea, c\u0103 e o lume liber\u0103. Dar nu are dreptul s\u0103 se comporte ca \u0219i cum copilul a disp\u0103rut miraculos, dup\u0103 ce s-a desp\u0103r\u021bit de cel\u0103lalt p\u0103rinte. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Maic\u0103-mea nu ne-a pus perna pe fa\u021b\u0103, dar toat\u0103 via\u021ba ne-a purtat o form\u0103 bizar\u0103 de ranchiun\u0103, ca \u0219i cum noi eram de vin\u0103 c\u0103 masculul plecase.  <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Spun cu asta c\u0103 psihopatul are dreptate s\u0103 \u0219antajeze cu crime, \u0219i chiar s\u0103 le comit\u0103? NU. \u0102la e cel mai josnic \u0219i odios om. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Spun doar c\u0103 t\u0103nti\u021b s-a apucat de plodit, apoi a decis brusc c\u0103 ea e domni\u0219oar\u0103 din nou, c\u0103 acest lucru e iresponsabil \u0219i condamnabil moral, \u0219i c\u0103 s\u0103tenii au dreptate s\u0103 o desconsidere. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Singurul meu regret e c\u0103, din \u00eent\u00e2lnirea a doi mon\u0219tri, unul sadic \u0219i s\u00e2ngeros \u0219i cel\u0103lalt iresponsabil, au pl\u0103tit cu via\u021ba trei suflete nevinovate: p\u0103rin\u021bii femeii \u0219i copilul de 4 ani. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Mul\u021bumesc din nou pentru mail, <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Lorena. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">***<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Izbe\u015fte autorul cu o cafea.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.paypal.com\/paypalme\/Trollywood\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"250\" height=\"82\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/01\/paypal-.jpg?w=700&amp;ssl=1\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-25884\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/01\/paypal-.jpg?w=250&amp;ssl=1 250w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/01\/paypal-.jpg?resize=150%2C49&amp;ssl=1 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 250px) 100vw, 250px\" \/><\/a><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">***<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Vrei s\u0103 m\u0103 urm\u0103re\u015fti \u00een social media? \u00cemi po\u0163i da follow pe&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/lorenaalmighty\/\"><strong>Facebook<\/strong><\/a>&nbsp;\u015fi&nbsp;<strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/lorena.lup\/\">Instagram<\/a><\/strong>, subscribe pe&nbsp;<strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/channel\/UCCHBtHi6S2GlUFqETH70cjQ\">YouTube<\/a><\/strong>&nbsp;\u015fi pe<strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/@lorena.lupu\">&nbsp;TikTok<\/a><\/strong>.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Periodic, oferim iubire cititorului nostru. \u00cen sensul \u00een care el sau ea, sau chiar tu, de ce nu, ne trimite(\u021bi) problema voastr\u0103 de suflet&#46;&#46;&#46;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":19242,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_feature_clip_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":true,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2},"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-28170","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-spicy"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/mailbox-1819966_640.jpg?fit=640%2C457&ssl=1","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_likes_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/28170","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=28170"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/28170\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":28171,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/28170\/revisions\/28171"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/19242"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=28170"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=28170"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=28170"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}