{"id":28216,"date":"2025-07-01T10:45:05","date_gmt":"2025-07-01T07:45:05","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/?p=28216"},"modified":"2025-07-01T10:56:10","modified_gmt":"2025-07-01T07:56:10","slug":"loredana-si-mascarada-gpsy","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/loredana-si-mascarada-gpsy\/","title":{"rendered":"Loredana \u015fi mascarada g*psy"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

\u00centotdeauna o ap\u0103r pe Loredana, c\u00e2nd o mai h\u0103r\u0163uiesc gigeii cu remarci legate de v\u00e2rsta ei, de disponiibilitatea de a fi sexy \u015fi rea la v\u00e2rsta ei \u015fi alte gigelisme obosite similare. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00cen schimb, modul \u00een care se raporteaz\u0103 la etnia rom\u0103 mi se pare absolut aiurea \u015fi da, \u00een acest punct, criticii ei au dreptate. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Loredana a jucat un personaj de etnie rom\u0103 \u00eentr-o telenovel\u0103 din 2007. Nu o pot \u00eenvinui pentru asta, decizia e a directorului de casting, \u015fi nimeni nu e nebun s\u0103 refuze suma pe care a \u00eencasat-o ea pe rol. Dar o pot \u00eenvinui de faptul c\u0103, de atunci, trateaz\u0103 etnia rom\u0103 ca pe un filtru de Instagram: on \u015fi off \u00een func\u0163ie de nevoi. C\u00e2nd mai c\u00e2nt\u0103 ni\u015fte l\u0103ut\u0103re\u015fti, \u00ee\u015fi seteaz\u0103 dark skin pe Facetune \u015fi \u00ee\u015fi face \u015fapc\u0103 din toate monedele de 50 de bani pe care le-a primit rest la butic \u015fi cu asta, a rezolvat identitatea rom\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ei, bine, nu a\u015fa func\u0163ioneaz\u0103. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Comunitatea rom\u0103 a avut parte de at\u00e2ta traum\u0103 transgenera\u0163ional\u0103, de at\u00e2ta marginalizare \u015fi persecu\u0163ie, \u00eenc\u00e2t nu po\u0163i aborda subiectul dec\u00e2t cu maxim respect \u015fi \u00een niciun caz nu pretinz\u00e2nd c\u0103 ai fi. Nu e\u015fti. Nu ai experimentat bullyingul \u015fi nep\u0103sarea cu care o persoan\u0103 de etnie rom\u0103 se familiarizeaz\u0103 de la cre\u015f\u0103, \u00eentr-o \u0163ar\u0103 care a tratat \u00eentotdeauna discriminator \u201e**ganii\u201d? Atunci nu mai \u00eencerca s\u0103 pretinzi c\u0103 ai fi. Nu \u0219tii cum e, nu vei afla niciodat\u0103. C\u00e2nt\u0103 melodii l\u0103ut\u0103re\u0219ti, dac\u0103 \u021bii neap\u0103rat, dar c\u00e2nt\u0103-le ca femeie alb\u0103 care nu \u00eencearc\u0103 s\u0103 par\u0103 ceea ce nu este. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ca s\u0103 nu punctez faptul c\u0103 melodia ei nou\u0103 abund\u0103 de termenul \u201e***ganc\u0103\u201d. Po\u021bi face un drinking game. C\u00e2te o \u00eenghi\u021bitur\u0103 de c\u00e2te ori auzi cuv\u00e2ntul, \u0219i la sf\u00e2r\u0219it, garantez c\u0103 vei merge \u00een patru labe de beat. \u201e***ganc\u0103\u201d nu e un alint \u0219i nu e un compliment. E un cuv\u00e2nt pe care dacii verzi \u00eel folosesc pentru a jigni persoana vizat\u0103, pentru a o minimaliza \u0219i a o \u00eenjosi. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

C\u00e2nd auzi un astfel de cuv\u00e2nt, tu ca artist, mai ales ca artist care se consider\u0103 apropiat de comunitatea rom\u0103, trimi\u021bi piesa \u00eenapoi la autor, s\u0103 schimbe versurile. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

E ca \u0219i cum eu, care am fost la toate edi\u021biile Pride, a\u0219 scoate m\u00e2ine o pies\u0103 nou\u0103 \u201efaggot \u00een sus \/ faggot \u00een jos \/ faggot la mare \/ faggot la soare\u201d. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Sau respec\u021bi comunitatea \u0219i te ab\u021bii de la slurs, sau la\u0219i subiectul \u00een pace cu totul. Nu, nu te vor considera una de-a lor dac\u0103 \u00eei tot \u201e**g\u0103ne\u0219ti\u201d. Dimpotriv\u0103, te vor judeca \u00een t\u0103cere \u0219i \u00ee\u021bi vor scuipa \u00een frappuccino c\u00e2nd nu te ui\u021bi. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

E at\u00e2t de \u00eenjositor s\u0103 exploatezi astfel imaginea \u0219i cultura unei etnii \u00eendelung chinuite, \u0219i s\u0103 ignori cu superioritate modul \u00een care privilegiile tale sunt o palm\u0103 peste ochi pentru ei. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201eP\u0103i da, dar \u0219i Babasha are o manea unde folose\u0219te termenul.\u201d <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Babasha chiar este. \u0218i vorbe\u0219te din interior. \u00cen fond, a fost huiduit de un \u00eentreg stadion pentru etnia lui. Lucru care Loredanei nu i s-a \u00eent\u00e2mplat niciodat\u0103. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Trata\u021bi comunit\u0103\u021bile vulnerabile cu delicate\u021be \u0219i m\u0103nu\u0219i de catifea, dac\u0103 \u021bine\u021bi neap\u0103rat s\u0103 aborda\u021bi subiectul. Nu fi\u021bi ca Loredana. Pentru c\u0103 NU a\u0219a se face. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Izbe\u015fte autorul cu o cafea.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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