{"id":28274,"date":"2025-07-16T10:53:42","date_gmt":"2025-07-16T07:53:42","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/?p=28274"},"modified":"2025-07-16T11:06:06","modified_gmt":"2025-07-16T08:06:06","slug":"ne-indignam-de-misoginism-pana-ne-convine","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/ne-indignam-de-misoginism-pana-ne-convine\/","title":{"rendered":"Ne indign\u0103m de misoginism. P\u00e2n\u0103 ne convine"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>Azi, c\u00e2nd m-am uitat pe Facebook, trei oameni din lista mea &#8211; dintre care DOU\u0102 FEMEI &#8211; sharuiau de zor aceast\u0103 postare a unui nenic. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-embed is-type-rich is-provider-embed-handler wp-block-embed-embed-handler\"><div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\">\n<div class=\"fb-post\" data-href=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/fieger.savulescu\/posts\/pfbid0sbdrGTGSJsaTexb2Q4FUtDSrLY6fUZwDtX4XqWpdHHgrhQu74jmfoJ7t1EUT7JkXl\" data-width=\"552\" style=\"background-color: #fff; display: inline-block;\"><\/div>\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>Ne pl\u00e2ngem de num\u0103rul mare de femei omor\u00e2te. De num\u0103rul mare de femei h\u0103r\u0163uite de fo\u015fti so\u0163i sau iubi\u0163i, de pretenden\u0163i refuza\u0163i sau de idio\u0163i de pe net care pur \u015fi simplu NU vor s\u0103 \u00een\u0163eleag\u0103 c\u0103 nu e\u015fti interesat\u0103 \u015fi \u00ee\u015fi fac zilnic un nou cont fals s\u0103 te frece la cap. De num\u0103rul mare de femei b\u0103tute sau umilite verbal. De misoginismul cotidian, \u00een care orice ciumpalac cu patru clase crede c\u0103 se poate trage de br\u0103cinari cu tine. De faptul c\u0103, la orice job, trebuie s\u0103 muncim dublu s\u0103 ne demonstr\u0103m competen\u0163a, c\u0103 meritele noastre sunt continuu ignorate sau asumate de c\u00e2te un b\u0103rbat care n-a contribuit nimic la efortul propriu-zis. Etc. etc. etc. \u00e2<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Le tot repet\u0103m pe astea la simpozioane \u015fi evenimente dedicate drepturilor femeii, la care, evident, participantele sunt 99% femei \u015fi restul de 1%, cei mai buni prieteni gay care vor s\u0103 fie \u201esupportive\u201d. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Apoi, d\u0103m share \u00een mas\u0103 unei post\u0103ri din care, la prima lectur\u0103 obiectiv\u0103, te izbe\u0219te obsesia autorului fa\u021b\u0103 de termenii \u201elipitoare\u201d, \u201esupt\u201d \u0219i \u201elipit\u0103 \/ a se lipi\u201d. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Da, e o investiga\u021bie Rise Project despre un b\u0103iat din PSD care, ca mul\u021bi al\u021bi p\u0103rin\u021bi iubitori, a intervenit pe la prieteni s\u0103 asigure fiicei un loc de munc\u0103 bine pl\u0103tit la  stat. Uite ce u\u0219or se pot relata faptele, f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103 le infest\u0103m de sexualizare inutil\u0103 \u00een context \u0219i de problemele noastre mintale. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Uite ce decent, profesional \u0219i educat descrie Rise Project aceea\u0219i situa\u021bie. <strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/riseproject.ro\/posts\/pfbid09JzhEwRrzB3rbwUZbfyBEjz3efPi3am2TpQMxbhnS4DXywwQ6pAyLvRhC2XXQRXPl\">Aici<\/a><\/strong>. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u0218i totu\u0219i, voi alege\u021bi s\u0103-l sharui\u021bi pe ciumpalacul care infuzeaz\u0103 situa\u021bia cu toate ne\u00eemplinirile lui s*xuale, cu toate feti\u0219urile lui dizgra\u021bioase \u0219i cu toate fanteziile lui vomitive. De ce? Pentru c\u0103 i se permite. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Din textul lui Rise Project \u00een\u021beleg problema, din textul lui Bo\u0219ot\u00e2rc \u00cen C\u0103lduri \u00een\u021beleg problemele lui Bo\u0219ot\u00e2rc \u00een C\u0103lduri. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Dar am o veste pentru voi toate: c\u00e2t timp \u00eencuraja\u021bi un astfel de limbaj la adresa unei femei, c\u00e2t timp \u00eei comunica\u021bi rahatului \u0103luia obosit de lab\u0103 c\u0103 e normal s\u0103 obiectifice o persoan\u0103 pe care n-o cunoa\u0219te, mai devreme sau mai t\u00e2rziu ve\u021bi fi \u0219i voi \u021binta unui astfel de limbaj. Pentru c\u0103, mai devreme sau mai t\u00e2rziu, o ac\u021biune a voastr\u0103 va enerva pe cineva. E inevitabil. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Dac\u0103 nu \u021bi-ar pl\u0103cea s\u0103 umple un ciumpalac internetul cu l\u0103turi insinuante legate de tine, nu mai sharui l\u0103turi insinuante legate de alte femei. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Uite cum se face: <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201eAnamaria Constantin (28 de ani), fiica \u0219oferului personal al procurorului-\u0219ef al DNA, Marius Voineag, a fost angajat\u0103 la Curtea de Conturi \u00een mai 2025, \u00een func\u021bia de \u0219ef de cabinet al consilierului de conturi Ion C\u0103lin. A fost \u00eencadrat\u0103 cu studii medii \u0219i are un salariu brut de 8.000 lei, plus un spor pentru condi\u021bii v\u0103t\u0103m\u0103toare.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>A\u0219a relat\u0103m sec \u0219i la obiect aceste fapte. Lua\u021bi noti\u021be, c\u0103 poate v\u0103 mai civiliza\u021bi. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u0218i oricum, dac\u0103 salariul brut e de 8.000 de lei, cel net e de 4680 lei, adic\u0103 un salariu de om obi\u0219nuit, iar sporul pentru condi\u021bii v\u0103t\u0103m\u0103toare i l-a luat Bolojan. Chiar merit\u0103 s\u0103 \u00ee\u021bi desf\u0103\u0219ori toate zoaiele de nef*tut pe a\u0219a o g\u0103l\u0103gie de bani. \ud83d\ude00 \ud83d\ude00 <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>***<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Izbe\u015fte autorul cu o cafea.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.paypal.com\/paypalme\/Trollywood\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"250\" height=\"82\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/01\/paypal-.jpg?w=700&amp;ssl=1\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-25884\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/01\/paypal-.jpg?w=250&amp;ssl=1 250w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/01\/paypal-.jpg?resize=150%2C49&amp;ssl=1 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 250px) 100vw, 250px\" \/><\/a><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>***<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Vrei s\u0103 m\u0103 urm\u0103re\u015fti \u00een social media? \u00cemi po\u0163i da follow pe&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/lorenaalmighty\/\"><strong>Facebook<\/strong><\/a>&nbsp;\u015fi&nbsp;<strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/lorena.lup\/\">Instagram<\/a><\/strong>, subscribe pe&nbsp;<strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/channel\/UCCHBtHi6S2GlUFqETH70cjQ\">YouTube<\/a><\/strong>&nbsp;\u015fi pe<strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/@lorena.lupu\">&nbsp;TikTok<\/a><\/strong>.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Azi, c\u00e2nd m-am uitat pe Facebook, trei oameni din lista mea &#8211; dintre care DOU\u0102 FEMEI &#8211; sharuiau de zor aceast\u0103 postare a unui&#46;&#46;&#46;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":28275,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":true,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2},"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-28274","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-spicy"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/07\/anamaria-constantin.png?fit=1187%2C741&ssl=1","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_likes_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/28274","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=28274"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/28274\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":28278,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/28274\/revisions\/28278"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/28275"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=28274"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=28274"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=28274"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}