{"id":28323,"date":"2025-07-25T11:04:10","date_gmt":"2025-07-25T08:04:10","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/?p=28323"},"modified":"2025-07-25T11:04:13","modified_gmt":"2025-07-25T08:04:13","slug":"despre-insensibilitate-sociala","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/despre-insensibilitate-sociala\/","title":{"rendered":"Despre insensibilitate social\u0103"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

Salut, eu sunt Lorena Lupu, \u0219i \u00een caz c\u0103 m\u0103 \u00eentreba\u021bi ce mai fac, iat\u0103. Pe scurt, bine. Pe lung: m\u0103 confrunt pe internet cu un val de nostalgici ai lui Ceau\u0219escu. To\u021bi repet\u00e2nd aceea\u0219i poezioar\u0103 sc\u00e2rboas\u0103, toxic\u0103, detestabil\u0103, care m\u0103 face s\u0103 visez la mai vechea mea glum\u0103, aplica\u021bia Bocancul Virtual\u2122. C\u00e2nd tastezi o minciun\u0103 tic\u0103loas\u0103 \u0219i insult\u0103toare pentru inteligen\u021ba interlocutorului, se desprinde un bocanc virtual din ecran, dar cu cuie reale \u00een talp\u0103, \u0219i \u00ee\u021bi rade cu sete una peste mecla sc\u00e2rboas\u0103 de gunoi odios \u0219i b\u0103tubil cu capul de bordur\u0103. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0218i sunt dou\u0103 cli\u0219ee care m\u0103 fac s\u0103 frec toate l\u0103mpile din cale, poate-poate apare djinnul lui Aladdin s\u0103-mi \u00eemplineasc\u0103 dorin\u021ba cu Bocancul Virtual\u2122. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Prima e \u201en-ai tr\u0103it atunci, de unde \u0219tii\u201d. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Degeaba exist\u0103 m\u0103rturii scrise cu duiumul, degeaba exist\u0103 sute de mii de fotografii, materiale filmate, interviuri, ce vrei \u0219i ce nu vrei. \u201eN-ai tr\u0103it atunci, de unde \u0219tii\u201d. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0218tiu pentru c\u0103 pot \u00eentreba, are cine s\u0103-mi povesteasc\u0103, am b\u0103tr\u00e2ni \u00een familie, ca toat\u0103 lumea, cunosc mii de b\u0103tr\u00e2ni, \u0219i de la ora\u0219, \u0219i de la sat, \u0219i de la capital\u0103, pot citi, m\u0103 pot documenta. \u0218i am empatie, s\u0103 m\u0103 transpun. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Cu \u201en-ai tr\u0103it atunci, de unde \u0219tii\u201d po\u021bi nega orice oroare a istoriei, orice perioad\u0103 de exploatare \u0219i abuz, orice genocid, orice r\u0103zboi. \u201eN-ai tr\u0103it atunci, de unde \u0219tii?\u201d Po\u021bi nega chiar istoria ca \u0219tiin\u021b\u0103. Ceea ce e un paradox, pentru c\u0103 tot fanii lui \u201eN-ai tr\u0103it atunci, de unde \u0219tii\u201d sunt fier\u021bi pe istorie. Dar o istorie idealizat\u0103, placat\u0103 cu aur, ca \u00een filmele lui Sergiu Nicolaescu, unde to\u021bi b\u0103rba\u021bii falnici din trecut erau Ilarion Ciobanu \u0219i Colea R\u0103utu, vorbeau rar \u0219i ap\u0103sat, retezau zece turci dintr-o lovitur\u0103, \u0219i c\u00e2nd se uitau pe sub spr\u00e2ncene la una, r\u0103m\u00e2nea aia gravid\u0103 cu triple\u021bi. Nici nu trebuiau s\u0103 dea cing\u0103toarea jos, ceea ce oricum nu \u021bi-ai fi dorit, de la miros. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0218i dac\u0103 \u00eencerci s\u0103 le comba\u021bi tu lor istoria asta mitizat\u0103 \u0219i augmentat\u0103 cu \u201eN-ai tr\u0103it atunci, de unde \u0219tii\u201d, \u00eei cuprind brusc pandaliile, de zici c\u0103 sunt Piedone vizit\u00e2nd Mega Image Lujerului sau \u0218o\u0219oac\u0103 \u00eentr-o mar\u021bi. \u201dTr\u0103d\u0103tor nenorocit de \u021bar\u0103, tu faci de ru\u0219ine condi\u021bia de rom\u00e2n.\u201d <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Dau block pentru s\u0103n\u0103tatea mea mintal\u0103, c\u0103 dac\u0103 m\u0103 apuc s\u0103-mi bag pwlili \u00een mor\u021bii lor, m\u0103 pomenesc iar cu restric\u021bii de c\u00e2te 30 de zile de la Facebook \u0219i nu merit\u0103 dup\u0103 ce am muncit s\u0103 cresc pagina la 114.000 urm\u0103ritori. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Da, boule \u0219i vaco, \u0219tiin\u021ba asta care se nume\u0219te istorie se bazeaz\u0103 fix pe studiul vremurilor din care n-ai tr\u0103it. Altfel nu exista. \u0218i pentru c\u0103 exist\u0103 posibilitate de documentare a trecutului, \u00een scris, \u00een \u00eenregistr\u0103ri, film\u0103ri, fotografii, cioburi, h\u00e2rburi, ruine, PUTEM AFLA CUM E \u00ceN VREMURI \u00ceN CARE N-AM TR\u0102IT. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Fie ca o p*l\u0103 deosebit de viguroas\u0103 \u0219i de d\u00e2rz\u0103 s\u0103-\u021bi pocneasc\u0103 repetat omu\u0219orul p\u00e2n\u0103 c\u00e2nd vomi\u021bi cu jeturi, a\u0219a cum vomit eu c\u00e2nd o citesc pe asta cu \u201eN-ai tr\u0103it atunci\u201d. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

A doua e aia cu \u201eFamilia mea a avut de toate acas\u0103\u201d. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

OK, deci tac-tu a fost secretarul de partid \u00een comuna Gheboaia. Prin urmare, c\u00e2nd 99% din popor primea cinci ou\u0103 pe lun\u0103 pe cartel\u0103 \u0219i st\u0103tea 4 ore la coad\u0103 pentru ele, \u0219i se terminau exact cu doi in\u0219i \u00eenaintea lui, tu f\u0103ceai baie \u00een albu\u0219uri de ou\u0103. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0218i asta, \u00een mintea ta, \u00ee\u021bi d\u0103 dreptul s\u0103 negi experien\u021ba a restului de 99%. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

P\u0103i fie ca o sut\u0103 de p*le deosebit de viguroase \u0219i d\u00e2rze etc. s\u0103 etc. \u0219i etc., c\u0103 asta e chiar mai tic\u0103loas\u0103 \u0219i mai infect\u0103 dec\u00e2t prima. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

S\u0103 ne imagin\u0103m un milionar contemporan. S\u0103 zicem Codin Maticiuc, c\u0103 tot m\u0103 freac\u0103 ling\u0103ii lui la icre c\u0103 am f\u0103cut mi\u0219to de profunda cugetare \u201eJustin Timberlake e un organ de reproducere feminin.\u201d <\/p>\n\n\n\n

S\u0103 zicem c\u0103 merge Codin la orice podcast vre\u021bi voi \u0219i enun\u021b\u0103: \u201d\u00cen Rom\u00e2nia nu e s\u0103r\u0103cie, pentru c\u0103 eu am de toate\u201d. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00cen minutul imediat urm\u0103tor, sute de mii de sup\u0103ra\u021bi l-ar desfiin\u021ba de pe internet cu totul. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0218i totu\u0219i, toler\u0103m s\u0103 vin\u0103 bitongii de securi\u0219ti s\u0103 ne spun\u0103 c\u0103 \u201ePe vremea lui Ceau\u0219escu n-a fost s\u0103r\u0103cie, pentru c\u0103 familia mea a avut de toate\u201d. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Fie ca o mie de p*le deosebit de viguroase \u0219i de d\u00e2rze etc. etc. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Cum s\u0103 negi trauma a 99% de oameni cu luxul \u00een care ai tr\u0103it tu? C\u00e2t de animal insensibil, lipsit de empatie, tic\u0103los p\u00e2n\u0103-n m\u0103duva oaselor \u0219i nemernic s\u0103 fii? <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Cine vrea s\u0103 afle cum a fost cu adev\u0103rat comunismul, se poate documenta. Nu de pe TikTok, nu de pe Telegram, nu din basmele odraslelor de securi\u0219ti, ci din experien\u021be reale ale celor care au tr\u0103it lipsuri de nedescris, o disperare mut\u0103 \u0219i lipsa oric\u0103rei speran\u021be de libertate. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0218i da, po\u021bi reconstitui toate astea chiar dac\u0103 n-ai tr\u0103it atunci. De aceea \u021bi-a dat Dumnezeu creier. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Izbe\u015fte autorul cu o cafea.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Vrei s\u0103 m\u0103 urm\u0103re\u015fti \u00een social media? \u00cemi po\u0163i da follow pe Facebook<\/strong><\/a> \u015fi Instagram<\/a><\/strong>, subscribe pe YouTube<\/a><\/strong> \u015fi pe TikTok<\/a><\/strong>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ce le-a f\u0103tat mintea<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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