{"id":28446,"date":"2025-08-24T11:56:23","date_gmt":"2025-08-24T08:56:23","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/?p=28446"},"modified":"2025-08-24T11:56:26","modified_gmt":"2025-08-24T08:56:26","slug":"copilul-meu-n-are-cum","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/copilul-meu-n-are-cum\/","title":{"rendered":"Copilul meu n-are cum"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

Zilele astea, am ajuns viral\u0103 pe Facebook. Cu un text \u00een care exprimam comp\u0103timire pentru modul \u00een care via\u021ba unui t\u00e2n\u0103r de 20 de ani a fost nimicit\u0103 de droguri, \u0219i a ajuns de la un om care le avea pe toate \u0219i putea face tot ce \u00ee\u0219i dorea, o epav\u0103 \u0219i un pu\u0219c\u0103ria\u0219. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0218i dat fiind c\u0103 avem aceast\u0103 problem\u0103 la nivel na\u021bional cu consumul de droguri, mai ales la adolescen\u021bi, am scris un text \u00een care \u00eendemnam s\u0103 medit\u0103m serios la moduri \u00een care tinerii ar putea fi avertiza\u021bi \u0219i f\u0103cu\u021bi s\u0103 \u00een\u021beleag\u0103 toate aceste pericole. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00cen momentul imediat urm\u0103tor, mi s-a umplut postarea de gigei \u0219i gigele, care f\u0103ceau ca toate animalele, \u00eel blestemau pe cel \u00een cauz\u0103 (Vlad Pascu) \u0219i m\u0103 porc\u0103iau pe mine c\u0103 \u201ejustific criminalul\u201d, c\u0103 \u201esigur victimele sunt de vin\u0103 pentru mine\u201d \u0219i c\u0103 \u201esigur am luat bani de la familia Pascu\u201d. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Oferta de a scrie texte sponsorizate e public\u0103, mai ales c\u0103 mul\u021bi se trezesc spun\u00e2ndu-mi ce subiecte ar trebui s\u0103 abordez, de parc\u0103 a\u0219 fi salariat pe social media lor, nu autor pe a mea, \u0219i ar fi interesant s\u0103-i v\u0103d pe to\u021bi \u0219efii \u0103\u0219tia ai mei wannabe pun\u00e2nd \u0219i banii acolo unde le este gura. Dar nu, familia Pascu nu m-a contactat niciodat\u0103, n-ar avea de ce, c\u0103 un text al meu nu va avea niciodat\u0103 autoritatea s\u0103 le scoat\u0103 copilul din \u00eenchisoare \u0219i au oricum sute de mii de euro de pl\u0103tit ca desp\u0103gubiri \u0219i cheltuieli de judecat\u0103. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

E pur \u0219i simplu a\u0219a: eu c\u00e2nd v\u0103d un copil ajung\u00e2nd s\u0103 fac\u0103 t\u00e2mpenii, nu pot g\u00e2ndi \u00een termeni ca \u201edrogat\u201d \u0219i \u201ecriminal\u201d. Pentru mine, un copil r\u0103m\u00e2ne un copil, \u0219i dac\u0103 a ajuns s\u0103-\u0219i injecteze varii substan\u021be la v\u00e2rste fragede, c\u00e2nd statul \u00eel considera inapt de discern\u0103m\u00e2nt – c\u0103 de aceea e\u0219ti responsabilitatea unui p\u0103rinte \/ tutore! – e un copil dus pe c\u0103i gre\u0219ite, tulburat \u0219i foarte, foarte nefericit. Un copil care-\u0219i va petrece dup\u0103 gratii cei mai frumo\u0219i ani ai tinere\u021bii. \u0218i o s\u0103 ias\u0103 la 28, c\u00e2nd al\u021bii au deja cariere \u0219i vie\u021bi, iar el va trebui s\u0103 o ia de la zero. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

M\u0103 scuzi pe mine c\u0103 nu pot s\u0103 vituperez venin \u0219i injurii la adresa unui copil. \u00cen special c\u00e2nd e deja jos. \u00cen special c\u00e2nd via\u021ba \u0219i libertatea lui sunt deja afectate. E ca \u0219i cum ai da cu biciul \u00eentr-un cal mort. O inutilitate \u0219i o prostie. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

M\u0103 scuzi pe mine c\u0103 m\u0103 intereseaz\u0103 mai mult s\u0103 vedem ce putem \u00eenv\u0103\u021ba din asta noi, ca societate, \u0219i cum s\u0103 prevenim s\u0103 se repete dezastrul. Faptul c\u0103 tu spumegi la adresa lui Vlad Pascu nu \u00eempiedic\u0103 un alt pu\u0219tan racolat de dil\u0103ri pe TikTok s\u0103 intre cu ma\u0219ina \u00een al\u021bi trec\u0103tori nevinova\u021bi m\u00e2ine. Dar dac\u0103 to\u021bi ne g\u00e2ndim cu ce prevenim dec\u0103derea \u00een abis a propriilor copii, poate avem o \u0219ans\u0103. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

La asta, o parte din idio\u021bi mi-au explicat superior c\u0103 nu, copilul lor n-are cum. C\u0103 ei l-au educat nemaipomenit \u0219i c\u0103 e mai presus de orice rahat de genul. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Am o veste trist\u0103: sunt mul\u021bi, mul\u021bi p\u0103rin\u021bi care habar nu au ce fac adolescen\u021bii lor. E v\u00e2rsta la care devii expert \u00een minciuni, eschive \u0219i subterfugii, \u00een \u201edorm la o prieten\u0103\u201d \u00een timp ce tu te duci la club p\u00e2n\u0103 diminea\u021ba \u0219i \u00een \u201eam b\u0103ut doar o bere\u201d \u00een timp ce tu e\u0219ti rang\u0103 de beat. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00cen loc s\u0103 pierde\u021bi timpul pe net s\u0103 \u00eenjura\u021bi ineficient pe unul care e deja la bul\u0103u, nu mai bine petrece\u021bi timp cu copiii vo\u0219tri? <\/p>\n\n\n\n

C\u0103 una dintre principalele cauze ale dependen\u021bei de droguri e ne\u00eemplinirea emo\u021bional\u0103. \u0218i asta nu se rezolv\u0103 nici cu urlatul, nici cu poruncitul, nici cu \u201eCasa e a mea, u\u0219a e a ta\u201d. Ba dimpotriv\u0103. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Da, copilul t\u0103u are cum. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Da, tenta\u021biile \u00eel p\u00e2ndesc la tot pasul. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Da, are poten\u021biali dil\u0103ri la \u0219coal\u0103. \u0218i \u00een parc. \u0218i \u00een club. \u0218i \u00een mesageria privat\u0103 a re\u021belelor social media. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Da, are prieteni de aceea\u0219i v\u00e2rst\u0103, care sunt \u0219i ei vulnerabili la manipulare \u0219i corup\u021bie, \u0219i da, \u00een cele mai grave cazuri, se \u00eendeamn\u0103 unul pe altul la prostii. C\u0103 le lipse\u0219te experien\u021ba de via\u021b\u0103 s\u0103 discearn\u0103 \u00eentre bine \u0219i r\u0103u. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Da, m\u00e2ine po\u021bi fi tu mama care \u00ee\u0219i viziteaz\u0103 fiul la \u00eenchisoare. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Mediteaz\u0103 la asta \u0219i vezi dac\u0103-\u021bi mai arde s\u0103 cotcod\u0103ce\u0219ti agresiv pe net la str\u0103ini care nu-\u021bi datoreaz\u0103 nimic, \u00een loc s\u0103-\u021bi vezi de copilul t\u0103u, singurul \u00een via\u021ba c\u0103ruia po\u021bi schimba ceva. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

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