Felicit\u0103ri p\u0103rin\u021bilor care acord\u0103 permisiuni \u0219i beneficii egale fetei \u0219i b\u0103iatului, \u0219i le ofer\u0103 sume egale ca bani de buzunar, dar \u00een multe familii, fata prime\u0219te mult mai multe responsabilit\u0103\u021bi casnice pe cap, \u00een ideea c\u0103 ea va fi \u00eens\u0103rcinata cu treburile casei c\u00e2nd va fi so\u021bia \u0219i mama cuiva, \u00een timp ce b\u0103iatul e pe afar\u0103, s\u0103rind garduri \u0219i f\u0103c\u00e2ndu-\u0219i prieteni. Mai aud c\u00e2te un gigel cu \u201eCe mare lucru, s\u0103 dai cu aspiratorul\u201d, \u0219i te prinzi c\u0103 \u0103la n-a f\u0103cut curat la el acas\u0103 niciodat\u0103. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Apoi, e \u201eprotec\u021bia\u201d. \u00cen cazul fetelor, protec\u021bia asta \u00eenseamn\u0103 c\u0103 se st\u0103 nonstop cu gura pe tine, nu ai voie nimic interesant \u0219i orice decizie a ta e \u00eendelung criticat\u0103, chiar dac\u0103 e o decizie bun\u0103. Toat\u0103 aceast\u0103 pis\u0103logeal\u0103 te face s\u0103-\u021bi dete\u0219ti via\u021ba relativ u\u0219or. A\u021bi remarcat cum toate c\u0103r\u021bile cu amintiri frumoase din copil\u0103rie au fost scrise de b\u0103rba\u021bi? <\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u0218i \u00een cele mai discriminatorii familii, b\u0103iatul prime\u0219te bani de buzunar, pentru c\u0103 \u201ee b\u0103iat \u0219i are nevoie\u201d, iar fata nu, \u201es\u0103 nu-i cheltuiasc\u0103 pe prostii.\u201d <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Apropo de asta: <\/p>\n\n\n\n
2. Afli de mic\u0103 faptul c\u0103 toate nevoile tale sunt prostii. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Remarca\u021bi cum religiile ridic\u0103 \u00een slav\u0103 doar genul de martir\u0103 care renun\u021b\u0103 la tot, \u00eemparte tot ce are \u0219i moare de foame \u00eentr-o pe\u0219ter\u0103 la 25 de ani, suferind de tuberculoz\u0103? <\/p>\n\n\n\n E un gaslighting destinat s\u0103 minimalizeze nonstop nevoile \u0219i dorin\u021bele femeii, pentru c\u0103 altul e mereu mai important. Foarte pu\u021bini b\u0103rba\u021bi au experien\u021ba asta perpetuu minimalizant\u0103, de \u201enu contezi \u0219i nu ar trebui s\u0103 contezi\u201d, pe care multe femei o internalizeaz\u0103 \u0219i ajung s\u0103 se laude \u00eentre ele cu toate lucrurile la care renun\u021b\u0103 \u201epentru binele familiei\u201d. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Pentru cele mai mici r\u0103bufniri de orgoliu, e\u0219ti \u201epreten\u021bioas\u0103\u201d, \u201edificil\u0103\u201d, \u201enebun\u0103\u201d. <\/p>\n\n\n\n 3. Ajutorul t\u0103u e de la sine \u00een\u021beles \u0219i nu trebuie r\u0103spl\u0103tit niciodat\u0103. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n C\u00e2nd vine vorba de femei, oamenii se a\u0219teapt\u0103 pur \u0219i simplu s\u0103 fie servi\u021bi. Pentru c\u0103 setarea by default a femeii ar trebui s\u0103 fie amabilitatea. <\/p>\n\n\n\n C\u00e2nd un b\u0103rbat face ceva pentru tine, e un act de bun\u0103voin\u021b\u0103 \u0219i e treaba ta s\u0103 oferi reciprocitate. C\u00e2nd o femeie face ceva pentru tine, e treaba ei de femeie. Numai c**ele vor ceva la schimb. <\/p>\n\n\n\n C\u00e2nd le vezi pe toate acele tanti sictirite de la ghi\u0219euri: sunt foste tanti amabile, care s-au s\u0103turat s\u0103 se profite porce\u0219te de amabilitatea lor. <\/p>\n\n\n\n 4. Prietenia ta nu valoreaz\u0103 nimic. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n A\u021bi v\u0103zut forumurile de inceli care se pl\u00e2ng c\u0103 sunt un friendzone? Din punctul de vedere al femeilor despre care se v\u0103ic\u0103resc, probabil c\u0103 e o rela\u021bie fair and square, \u00een care \u00ee\u0219i fac reciproc servicii, a\u0219a cum ar face \u0219i cu un prieten b\u0103rbat, dar pentru c\u0103 ele au vagin, incelul simte c\u0103 i s-ar datora \u0219i sex. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Dac\u0103 \u021bi-ai supune amicii b\u0103rba\u021bi la lista de preten\u021bii jenante pe care o ai fa\u021b\u0103 de femei, \u0103ia \u021bi-ar tufe un pumn \u00een nas \u0219i te-ar trimite glorios \u00een mor\u021bii m\u0103-tii. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Dup\u0103 ce consta\u021bi \u00een c\u00e2teva situa\u021bii c\u0103 prietenia \u0219i ajutorul t\u0103u sunt evaluate la zero, \u00ee\u021bi pierzi orice chef s\u0103 mai fi prietenos cu cineva vreodat\u0103. P\u0103strezi pu\u021bine prietenii verificate \u0219i \u00een rest, pa\u0219ol na turbinca, c\u0103 dac\u0103 vreodat\u0103 decid s\u0103 \u00eempart pizm\u0103 \u00een st\u00e2nga \u0219i \u00een dreapta, promit s\u0103 o anun\u021b public, s\u0103 nu las loc de neclarit\u0103\u021bi. <\/p>\n\n\n\n 5. Mare parte din ziua ta e rutin\u0103. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n B\u0103rbatul \u00ee\u0219i petrece mare parte din zi f\u0103c\u00e2nd ce vrea. Femeia are lista aia lung\u0103 de obliga\u021bii, care \u021bin de treburile casei. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Iar c\u00e2nd vine vorba de curat, nu e doar timpul pe care \u00eel pierzi, e \u0219i repetitivitatea, rutina uciga\u0219\u0103 de neuroni. A\u0219a s-a \u0219i pasat aceast\u0103 preocupare femeilor. B\u0103rbatul preistoric: Tsss, c\u00e2t de plicticos e s\u0103 freci cu c\u00e2rpa rahaturi, ia hai s\u0103 facem religii \u0219i s\u0103 spunem c\u0103 a zis Dumnezeu c\u0103 e treaba femeilor. <\/p>\n\n\n\n C\u00e2nd se afirm\u0103 cli\u0219eul \u0103la cu \u201ecei mai buni buc\u0103tari sunt b\u0103rba\u021bi\u201d, se omite convenabil un detaliu: b\u0103rba\u021bii au g\u0103tit din pl\u0103cere, \u0219i numai c\u00e2nd au dorit s\u0103 g\u0103teasc\u0103, iar femeile din obliga\u021bie. C\u00e2nd o faci din obliga\u021bie, zi de zi, \u00ee\u021bi pierzi orice chef, \u0219i activitatea se adaug\u0103 pe lista de poveri zilnice. <\/p>\n\n\n\n \u201eCe hobbyuri ave\u021bi, doamn\u0103?\u201d Sp\u0103latul rufelor \u0219i frecatul geamurilor. <\/p>\n\n\n\n 6. Ciclul interminabil al program\u0103rilor <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n \u0218i dac\u0103 ai ceva bani, lumea are preten\u021bii ca tine s\u0103 ar\u0103\u021bi bine. Dar nu prea bine, c\u0103 atunci e\u0219ti sigur c***v\u0103 \u0219i orice carcalac te deranjeaz\u0103 cu aluzii s*xuale. \u0218i ar\u0103tatul \u0103sta bine e un nou \u0219ir de rutine \u00eengrozitor de plictisitor. Programare la coafor. La cosmetic\u0103. La epilat. La unghii. La pedichiur\u0103. La mor\u021bii m\u0103-sii. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Toate o or\u0103 dus, o or\u0103 \u00eentors. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Abia ai terminat cu unele, plm, iar a crescut m\u0103rarul \u0219i iar se v\u0103d r\u0103d\u0103cinile. Alo, bun\u0103 ziua, doamna Cici, m\u0103 programa\u021bi \u0219i pe mine s\u0103pt\u0103m\u00e2na asta? <\/p>\n\n\n\n Nu \u0219tiu voi cum sunte\u021bi, dar dac\u0103 eu a\u0219 putea renun\u021ba la toate aceste program\u0103ri \u0219i la tot timpul pe care-l pierd cu ele, a\u0219 fi un om fericit. <\/p>\n\n\n\n 7. Extrem de mult sabotaj <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n O gr\u0103mad\u0103 de oameni fac icter de ciud\u0103 v\u0103z\u00e2nd o femeie c\u0103reia \u00eei merge bine. Chiar dac\u0103 femeia nu le-a gre\u0219it lor cu nimic. Simplul fapt c\u0103 \u00eei merge \u0103leia bine dezl\u0103n\u021buie \u00een ei krakenul. \u00cen ce mod pot s-o dobor pe c**a asta, c\u0103 pare prea mul\u021bumit\u0103 cu via\u021ba ei. <\/p>\n\n\n\n \u0218i da, aici se includ \u0219i b\u0103rba\u021bi \u0219i femei. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Afli zvonuri despre tine care sunt total aberante – dar hei, c\u00e2nd e vorba de o femeie, aberatul e la liber \u0219i orice t\u00e2mpenie e obligatoriu adev\u0103rat\u0103. Rela\u021bii ok se stric\u0103 de pe o zi pe alta f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103 \u0219tii de ce. E ca \u0219i cum cari cu tine povara psihozelor tuturor celor care au ceva cu via\u021ba ta. <\/p>\n\n\n\n \u00cen concluzie: dac\u0103 a\u021bi fi femei, a\u021bi pierde 90% din pacea \u0219i confortul de care v\u0103 bucura\u021bi ca b\u0103rba\u021bi \u0219i a\u021bi fi prea obosi\u021bi la finalul zilei s\u0103 mai ave\u021bi chef de sex. 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