{"id":28691,"date":"2025-10-23T13:23:31","date_gmt":"2025-10-23T10:23:31","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/?p=28691"},"modified":"2025-10-23T13:42:36","modified_gmt":"2025-10-23T10:42:36","slug":"stirea-hartuirii-lui-artan-m-a-ravasit","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/stirea-hartuirii-lui-artan-m-a-ravasit\/","title":{"rendered":"\u0218tirea h\u0103r\u021buirii lui Artan m-a r\u0103v\u0103\u0219it"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">O am \u00een list\u0103 pe doamna Adriana Moscu. Mama unei tinere de 18 ani care, \u00eentr-o sear\u0103, la un eveniment, a fost h\u0103r\u021buit\u0103 de Artan, vocalistul trupelor Timpuri Noi \u0219i Partizan. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Doamna precizeaz\u0103: \u201eDup\u0103 ce a fixat-o insistent toat\u0103 seara, a venit la masa ei, s-a aplecat peste ea din spate \u0219i a \u00eencercat s\u0103 o s\u0103rute cu for\u021ba \u0219i s\u0103 trag\u0103 din \u021bigara ei electronic\u0103. Ea \u0219i prietenii ei i-au cerut s\u0103 plece, dar el a f\u0103cut-o abia dup\u0103 insisten\u021be \u2014 ca s\u0103 mearg\u0103 la o alt\u0103 fat\u0103 <a><\/a>t\u00e2n\u0103r\u0103, pe care a \u0219i s\u0103rutat-o pe obraz, tot f\u0103r\u0103 acordul ei.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Fiica mea i-a spus c\u0103, dac\u0103 nu p\u0103r\u0103se\u0219te incinta, va chema poli\u021bia. L-a \u0219i filmat c\u00e2nd spunea, ironic, c\u0103 \u201es\u0103 cheme poli\u021bia dup\u0103 ce ajunge la el la mas\u0103\u201d. C\u00e2nd s-a dus la organizator, acesta a spus c\u0103 Ple\u0219ca \u201emai face a\u0219a ceva\u201d \u0219i c\u0103 o s\u0103 fac\u0103 tot ce poate ca Ple\u0219ca s\u0103 nu mai apar\u0103 \u00een peisaj, dar c\u0103 loca\u021bia nu e a lui \u0219i, astfel, nu are prea multe p\u00e2rghii.\u201d <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u0218i men\u021bioneaz\u0103 c\u0103 fiica ei a avut experien\u021be traumatice precedente cu al\u021bi b\u0103rba\u021bi care au \u00eencercat \u00een mod agresiv s-o aga\u021be, de aceea e foarte afectat\u0103 emo\u021bional. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Poli\u021bia s-a autosesizat \u0219i acum, Artan e anchetat pentru h\u0103r\u021buire. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u0218tirea m-a f\u0103cut vrai\u0219te pentru c\u0103 a fost o vreme, \u00een perioada 2010 &#8211; 2015, c\u00e2nd Artan \u0219i eu eram foarte buni prieteni. \u0218i prin foarte buni prieteni spun strict \u201efoarte buni prieteni\u201d. \u00cenainte ca presa s\u0103 devin\u0103 atrocitatea de clickbait care era acum; c\u00e2nd \u00eenc\u0103 aveau timp \u0219i bani s\u0103 sus\u021bin\u0103 financiar articole narative scrise cu r\u0103bdare \u0219i creativitate, am f\u0103cut un interviu cu Artan \u0219i am descoperit c\u0103 locuia la zece minute de mers pe jos de mine. \u0218i c\u0103 era un om lipsit de orice libidino\u0219enie, orice agresivitate machist\u0103 t\u00e2mpit\u0103 \u0219i orice vedetism. Prin urmare, ne vedeam prin parcul IOR serile s\u0103 r\u00e2dem \u0219i s\u0103 fum\u0103m iarb\u0103. \u0218i s\u0103 povestim idei creative, ceea ce n\u0103\u0219tea alte idei creative. Un fel de echivalent mai artsy al ie\u0219itului cu b\u0103ie\u021bii la beri dac\u0103 vrei.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Dup\u0103 aceea, m-am angajat fulltime \u00eentr-un job foarte solicitant \u0219i foarte bine pl\u0103tit care mi-a m\u00e2ncat tot timpul \u0219i nu am mai avut vreme de taifas \u00een parc. Dar, de\u0219i nu ne mai vedeam, aveam fa\u021b\u0103 de Artan aceea\u0219i prietenie dintotdeauna. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">S\u0103 citesc c\u0103 omul \u0103sta at\u00e2t de inteligent \u0219i de neagresiv a devenit un bully \u0219i un pr\u0103d\u0103tor sexual al unor copile de 18 ani e un \u0219oc pentru mine. Asta \u00eemi spune c\u0103 oricare dintre noi poate deveni m\u00e2ine un bully \u0219i un pr\u0103d\u0103tor sexual. C\u0103 s\u0103n\u0103tatea mintal\u0103 e mai fragil\u0103 dec\u00e2t pare \u0219i c\u0103 nu \u0219tim c\u00e2nd ajungem s\u0103 ne dezbr\u0103c\u0103m \u0219i s\u0103 ne flutur\u0103m pxla goal\u0103 pe strad\u0103. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I-am \u0219i scris: De ce s\u0103 faci a\u0219a ceva? Nu mi-a r\u0103spuns. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Nu exist\u0103 scuz\u0103 pentru un astfel de comportament. Toat\u0103 empatia mea e cu doamna Moscu \u0219i cu fiica ei, care va avea nevoie de ani de terapie s\u0103 poat\u0103 avea rela\u021bii normale cu sexul opus. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Oameni buni, ave\u021bi grij\u0103 de voi. \u0218ti\u021bi vorba aia cu \u201dAi grij\u0103 de corpul t\u0103u\u201d. Eu v\u0103 zic \u201dAi grij\u0103 de mintea ta\u201d. C\u0103 iat\u0103, un om care acum zece ani era de un umor spumos \u0219i de un talent incontestabil ajunge acum s\u0103 provoace traume unor feti\u021be \u0219i s\u0103 dea cu subsemnatul la circ\u0103. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ave\u021bi grij\u0103 de prietenii vo\u0219tri, de prieteniile voastre, de stabilitatea \u0219i de echilibrul vostru. Cere\u021bi ajutor. C\u0103 iat\u0103 unde se poate ajunge. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u0218i, pentru numele lui Dumnezeu: dac\u0103 a\u021bi trecut de 40 de ani, l\u0103sa\u021bi adolescentele \u00een pace. Ele v\u0103d un bo\u0219orog. Chiar dac\u0103 unele accept\u0103 oferta financiar\u0103, ele v\u0103d tot un bo\u0219orog, iar rela\u021bia va fi \u00eentotdeauna tranzac\u021bional\u0103. \u0218i m\u0103car pe \u0103ia care \u00ee\u0219i doresc rela\u021bii tranzac\u021bionale \u00eei \u00een\u021beleg: ea \u00ee\u0219i prime\u0219te banii, el \u00ee\u0219i prime\u0219te pl\u0103cerea, chit pe chit. Dar s\u0103 tragi ca t\u00e2mpitul de adolescente care se uit\u0103 cu sc\u00e2rb\u0103 la tine e patologic. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">***<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Dac\u0103 \u021bi-a pl\u0103cut articolul, arat\u0103-\u021bi sus\u021binerea cu o dona\u021bie.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.paypal.com\/paypalme\/Trollywood\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"250\" height=\"82\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/01\/paypal-.jpg?w=700&amp;ssl=1\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-25884\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/01\/paypal-.jpg?w=250&amp;ssl=1 250w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/01\/paypal-.jpg?resize=150%2C49&amp;ssl=1 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 250px) 100vw, 250px\" \/><\/a><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">***<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Vrei s\u0103 m\u0103 urm\u0103re\u015fti \u00een social media? \u00cemi po\u0163i da follow pe&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/lorenaalmighty\/\"><strong>Facebook<\/strong><\/a>&nbsp;\u015fi&nbsp;<strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/lorena.lup\/\">Instagram<\/a><\/strong>, subscribe pe&nbsp;<strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/channel\/UCCHBtHi6S2GlUFqETH70cjQ\">YouTube<\/a><\/strong>&nbsp;\u015fi pe<strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/@lorena.lupu\">&nbsp;TikTok<\/a><\/strong>.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>O am \u00een list\u0103 pe doamna Adriana Moscu. 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