{"id":28725,"date":"2025-10-31T11:54:59","date_gmt":"2025-10-31T08:54:59","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/?p=28725"},"modified":"2025-10-31T12:16:28","modified_gmt":"2025-10-31T09:16:28","slug":"amenda-pentru-doliu","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/amenda-pentru-doliu\/","title":{"rendered":"Amend\u0103 pentru doliu"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>Tragedia de la Colectiv a schimbat via\u0163a de noapte a Bucure\u015ftiului. \u00cemi amintesc verile relaxate \u015fi f\u0103r\u0103 griji de p\u00e2n\u0103 \u00een 2015, c\u00e2nd c\u0103ldura zilei se transforma \u00een r\u0103coric\u0103 pl\u0103cut\u0103 \u015fi c\u00e2rcium\u0103ream p\u00e2n\u0103 diminea\u0163a. Bucure\u015ftiul de noapte era un loc vesel, care tr\u0103ia cu intensitate fiecare moment de distrac\u0163ie, un loc al glumelor, r\u00e2setelor \u015fi evenimentelor de toate tipurile. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ce f\u0103cea bucure\u015fteanul obi\u015fnuit, by default, de cum se l\u0103sa ora 7 seara? Se urca \u00een ma\u015fina personal\u0103, chema un taxi dac\u0103 inten\u0163iona s\u0103 se fac\u0103 rang\u0103 sau \u00een metrou dac\u0103 era s\u0103rac \u015eI IE\u015eEA \u00ceN ORA\u015e. Acum, c\u00e2nd ies \u00een ora\u015f cam o dat\u0103 la dou\u0103 s\u0103pt\u0103m\u00e2ni, \u015fi e o alegere, pentru c\u0103 atunci c\u00e2nd ai pagin\u0103 de peste 100k urm\u0103ritori pe Facebook, invita\u0163iile la desfr\u00e2u curg pe band\u0103 rulant\u0103, stau \u015fi m\u0103 minunez cum barul era, acum un deceniu, a doua mea cas\u0103. \u00cemi scriam articolele la un espresso dublu \u00een bar, plimbam un laptopa\u015f dup\u0103 mine peste tot, \u015fi locuin\u0163a era doar un spa\u021biu unde reveneam s\u0103 dorm \u015fi s\u0103 schimb \u0163inuta zilei.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Colectiv a venit ca o lovitur\u0103 din senin \u015fi a ucis mul\u0163i tineri minuna\u0163i, crema vie\u0163ii de noapte din Bucure\u015fti. Pe unii \u00eei cuno\u015fteam, b\u0103usem o cafea, o bere, pe al\u0163ii \u00eei urm\u0103ream doar online. Cum m\u0103 \u015ftiau pas\u0103re de noapte, o parte din prieteni \u015fi din familie m-au sunat \u015fi pe mine s\u0103 m\u0103 \u00eentrebe c\u00e2t de crunt m-am ars. \u015ei c\u00e2nd am r\u0103spuns cu o glum\u0103 tipic\u0103 mie, \u201enu m-am ars c\u0103 nu era nimeni sexy pe aici\u201d, \u00een loc s\u0103 r\u00e2d\u0103 mi-au zis pe un ton serios c\u0103 sunt t\u00e2mpit\u0103, de unde am \u00een\u021beles c\u0103 treaba era groas\u0103. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Aveam invita\u021bie la concertul Goodbye to Gravity \u0219i \u00eemi pl\u0103ceau. De ce nu m-am dus? Nu \u0219tiu, uneori am genul acesta de presim\u021biri. A\u0219a am evitat o curs\u0103 cu ma\u0219ina care s-a transformat \u00eentr-un accident fatal pentru to\u021bi cei din vehicul, o dat\u0103. C\u0103 tot le place sugerani\u0219tilor s\u0103 m\u0103 fac\u0103 satanist\u0103: da, se pare c\u0103 Satana m\u0103 \u021bine str\u00e2ns sub aripa lui neagr\u0103 \u0219i fo\u0219nitoare, lol. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Pentru via\u021ba de noapte a Bucure\u0219tiului, Colectiv a fost \u00eenceputul sf\u00e2r\u0219itului. Apoi, trei ani de pandemie i-au format pe oameni \u00een obi\u0219nuin\u021ba de a bea acel espresso dublu acas\u0103 \u0219i de a petrece serile \u00een pijama cu vinul cump\u0103rat la Carrefour. Uite, Carrefour, asta e o men\u021biune gratis, cadou de la mine, te rog, nu plecaaaa din Rom\u00e2nia.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Colectiv, o dram\u0103 cumplit\u0103 a corup\u021biei autorit\u0103\u021bilor locale, a autoriza\u021biilor emise cu sila \u0219i a improviza\u021biilor de efecte speciale \u00een spa\u021bii nepotrivite pentru acestea, a \u00eensemnat, pentru mul\u021bi dintre noi, pierderea unor prieteni dragi, \u0219i, mai mult, a unui tip de inocen\u021b\u0103 cu care ne duceam la petreceri, a\u0219tept\u00e2ndu-ne s\u0103 ne bucur\u0103m de moment, c\u0103 nimic r\u0103u nu se poate \u00eent\u00e2mpla. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ieri seara, evenimentul de comemorare a victimelor s-a lungit pu\u021bin peste ora stabilit\u0103 cu Jandarmeria. C\u0103, \u0219ti\u021bi cum e, nu \u00eei po\u021bi face program fix doliului. \u0218i efectul pierderii unor oameni dragi e un sentiment zdrobitor de singur\u0103tate. \u00cent\u00e2lnirea cu al\u021bii, care sufer\u0103 exact ca tine, e exact genul de comuniune-antidot. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Iar Jandarmeria l-a amendat pe organizatorul Marian R\u0103dun\u0103 cu 3.000 de lei. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u00cemi amintesc cum, pe 24 ianuarie, gibonii sus\u021bin\u0103tori ai pre\u0219 ales guru Dilimache Putinescu au plecat din spa\u021biul oferit de prim\u0103rie pentru mar\u0219ul lor, s-au dus buluc \u00een Pia\u021ba Victoriei \u0219i au \u00eencercat s\u0103 intre \u00een cl\u0103direa guvernului, f\u0103r\u0103 consecin\u021be. Cum, dup\u0103 ce BEC nu a validat candidatura aceluia\u0219i Dilimache Putinescu, turme de giboni au dat foc cl\u0103dirii, f\u0103r\u0103 consecin\u021be. Cum vaca na\u021bional\u0103 Diana \u0218o\u0219oac\u0103 &#8211; \u00eemi cer scuze c\u0103 jignesc vaca, un animal bl\u00e2nd, tandru \u0219i afectuos, care, dac\u0103 decide c\u0103 te iube\u0219te, \u00ee\u021bi reface coafura cu o limb\u0103 pe tot capul &#8211; s-a sc\u0103l\u00e2mb\u0103it public \u00een n\u0219pe manifesta\u021bii ad-hoc pe care nu le-a autorizat nici sulea, f\u0103r\u0103 consecin\u021be. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u0218i brusc, ne pocne\u0219te a\u0219a un heirup al corectitudinii c\u00e2nd? C\u00e2nd e vorba de ni\u0219te apar\u021bin\u0103tori ai unor victime decedate \u00eentr-un incendiu. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Pe bune, Jandarmeria Rom\u00e2n\u0103? At\u00e2t s-a putut? <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>V-a\u0219 ura s\u0103 trece\u021bi \u0219i voi prin ce au trecut ei, c\u0103 poate \u00eenv\u0103\u021ba\u021bi ce \u00eenseamn\u0103 pierderea \u0219i v\u0103 molipsi\u021bi de un strop de compasiune. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>***<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Dac\u0103 \u021bi-a pl\u0103cut articolul, arat\u0103-\u021bi sus\u021binerea cu o dona\u021bie.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.paypal.com\/paypalme\/Trollywood\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"250\" height=\"82\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/01\/paypal-.jpg?w=700&amp;ssl=1\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-25884\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/01\/paypal-.jpg?w=250&amp;ssl=1 250w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/01\/paypal-.jpg?resize=150%2C49&amp;ssl=1 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 250px) 100vw, 250px\" \/><\/a><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>***<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Vrei s\u0103 m\u0103 urm\u0103re\u015fti \u00een social media? \u00cemi po\u0163i da follow pe&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/lorenaalmighty\/\"><strong>Facebook<\/strong><\/a>&nbsp;\u015fi&nbsp;<strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/lorena.lup\/\">Instagram<\/a><\/strong>, subscribe pe&nbsp;<strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/channel\/UCCHBtHi6S2GlUFqETH70cjQ\">YouTube<\/a><\/strong>&nbsp;\u015fi pe<strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/@lorena.lupu\">&nbsp;TikTok<\/a><\/strong>.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Tragedia de la Colectiv a schimbat via\u0163a de noapte a Bucure\u015ftiului. \u00cemi amintesc verile relaxate \u015fi f\u0103r\u0103 griji de p\u00e2n\u0103 \u00een 2015, c\u00e2nd c\u0103ldura&#46;&#46;&#46;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":22786,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":true,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2},"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-28725","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-spicy"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/01\/lumanare.jpg?fit=640%2C424&ssl=1","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_likes_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/28725","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=28725"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/28725\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":28728,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/28725\/revisions\/28728"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/22786"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=28725"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=28725"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=28725"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}