{"id":28733,"date":"2025-11-01T20:56:39","date_gmt":"2025-11-01T17:56:39","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/?p=28733"},"modified":"2025-11-01T21:01:03","modified_gmt":"2025-11-01T18:01:03","slug":"imi-pare-rau-doamna-dobre","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/imi-pare-rau-doamna-dobre\/","title":{"rendered":"\u00cemi pare r\u0103u, doamn\u0103 Dobre"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

Azi, goarna AUR-SOS-POT-ist\u0103 Crina Dobre a hot\u0103r\u00e2t s\u0103-\u0219i fac\u0103 coming out-ul ca masochist\u0103. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Te tot \u00eentrebi ce e \u00een capul femeilor care sus\u021bin partidele acestea misogine, care le tot ciupesc din drepturi, \u0219i ele nu par s\u0103 sesizeze, iar confesiunea doamnei Dobre \u00ee\u021bi d\u0103 r\u0103spunsul la care nu te g\u00e2ndeai: le place s\u0103 fie violate, abuzate, luate cu japca, tratate ca ni\u0219te obiecte de \u0219ters la pxl\u0103. Singura mea nedumerire e \u00een ce univers cinematic Marvel po\u021bi avea orgasm \u00een condi\u021biile astea, dar hei, dac\u0103 asta le place, probabil c\u0103 asta le \u0219i excit\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Doamn\u0103 Dobre, \u00eemi pare sincer r\u0103u pentru dvs. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00cemi pare sincer, sincer r\u0103u c\u0103 n-a\u021bi cunoscut un b\u0103rbat pe care s\u0103-l dori\u021bi \u0219i cu ale c\u0103rui avansuri s\u0103 fi\u021bi de acord. C\u0103 nu a\u021bi avut parte dec\u00e2t de romantismul de tip c\u0103r\u0103mid\u0103-n cap \u0219i tras femeia de p\u0103r p\u00e2n\u0103-n pe\u0219ter\u0103. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

M\u0103 \u00eentreb dac\u0103 desconsiderarea propriului consim\u021b\u0103m\u00e2nt vine dintr-o traum\u0103 din copil\u0103rie, dintr-o familie disfunc\u021bional\u0103 care v-a ignorat dorin\u021bele \u0219i nevoile p\u00e2n\u0103 v-a dresat s\u0103 fi\u021bi atras\u0103 doar de persoane care v\u0103 ignor\u0103 dorin\u021bele \u0219i nevoile, sau, exact ca membrii comunit\u0103\u021bii LGBTQ, a\u021bi fost \u201eborn this way\u201d. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Dac\u0103 e o traum\u0103, v\u0103 asigur c\u0103 exist\u0103 tratament de specialitate. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Dac\u0103 sunte\u021bi born this way, v\u0103 dorim un Andrew Tate care s\u0103 nu v\u0103 \u00eentrebe niciodat\u0103 ce v\u0103 dori\u021bi, ci s\u0103 ac\u021bioneze pe principiul \u201eL-a\u021bi v\u0103zut pe Kunta Kinte?\u201d, s\u0103 fi\u021bi \u0219i dvs. \u00eemplinit\u0103 erotic. C\u0103 \u00een rest, nu p\u0103re\u021bi. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Problema e c\u00e2nd ne explica\u021bi c\u0103 asta ar trebui s\u0103 ne plac\u0103 \u0219i nou\u0103. \u0218i, ca om care se respect\u0103 pe sine, v\u0103 asigur, doamn\u0103 Dobre, c\u0103 niciodat\u0103 nu \u00eemi vor spune al\u021bii ce trebuie s\u0103-mi plac\u0103. Singurul st\u0103p\u00e2n pe pl\u0103cerile \u0219i nepl\u0103cerile mele sunt eu. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Dar v\u0103 pot ajuta cu o mic\u0103 confesiune. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0218ti\u021bi ce orgasme minunate se pot tr\u0103i cu b\u0103rba\u021bi pe care \u00eei dori\u021bi \u0219i dvs.? Care nu trebuie s\u0103 utilizeze japc\u0103, \u0219antaj, coerci\u021bie, abuz, pentru c\u0103 p\u0103s\u0103rica dvs. are ini\u021biativa de a se umezi de cum \u00eei vede? <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Sigur, nu se \u00eent\u00e2mpl\u0103 la ordin \u0219i nu se \u00eent\u00e2mpl\u0103 dup\u0103 dou\u0103 replici. Omul trebuie s\u0103-\u021bi acorde timp \u0219i s\u0103 nu fie agresiv cu tine. S\u0103 \u00ee\u021bi dea voie s\u0103-l descoperi \u0219i s\u0103 decizi tu dac\u0103-l placi. S\u0103 te trateze cu respect, \u00een primul r\u00e2nd pentru cine e\u0219ti tu ca om. S\u0103 nu se libidino\u0219easc\u0103 \u0219i s\u0103 nu se slino\u0219easc\u0103, ci s\u0103 simt\u0103 chimia interac\u021biunii \u0219i s\u0103 se prind\u0103 dac\u0103 e cazul s\u0103 propun\u0103 ceva sau nu. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Genul \u0103la de sex e cu adev\u0103rat pasional \u0219i delicios, pentru c\u0103 nu e\u0219ti material de lab\u0103 asistat\u0103, ci participant egal. Faci ce dore\u0219ti, nu ce \u021bi se impune. \u0218i da, alegi, nu te ia pe sus agariciul mai violent. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Dac\u0103 a\u021bi fi tr\u0103it o singur\u0103 dat\u0103 acest tip de orgasm, nu i-a\u021bi mai fi l\u0103udat \u00een vie\u021bi\u0219oara dvs. pe cei ce v\u0103 iau pe sus. \u0218i a\u021bi fi \u00een\u021beles c\u0103 b\u0103rba\u021bii c\u0103rora le cauz\u0103m nepl\u0103ceri sunt cei care merit\u0103 nepl\u0103ceri, pentru c\u0103 ne trateaz\u0103 \u00een continuare ca pe obiecte. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Primi\u021bi, v\u0103 rog, profunda mea comp\u0103timire, \u0219i v\u0103 urez ca, \u00eentr-o zi, s\u0103 descoperi\u021bi un b\u0103rbat care s\u0103 v\u0103 iubeasc\u0103 respectuos. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Cu mult\u0103 empatie, <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Lorena Lupu. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Dac\u0103 \u021bi-a pl\u0103cut articolul, arat\u0103-\u021bi sus\u021binerea cu o dona\u021bie.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Azi, goarna AUR-SOS-POT-ist\u0103 Crina Dobre a hot\u0103r\u00e2t s\u0103-\u0219i fac\u0103 coming out-ul ca masochist\u0103. Te tot \u00eentrebi ce e \u00een capul femeilor care sus\u021bin partidele...<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":16623,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":true,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2}},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-28733","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-spicy"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/mail.png?fit=640%2C387&ssl=1","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_likes_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/28733","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=28733"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/28733\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":28736,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/28733\/revisions\/28736"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/16623"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=28733"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=28733"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=28733"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}