{"id":28863,"date":"2025-12-07T15:30:42","date_gmt":"2025-12-07T12:30:42","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/?p=28863"},"modified":"2025-12-07T15:30:44","modified_gmt":"2025-12-07T12:30:44","slug":"securistii-doliului","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/securistii-doliului\/","title":{"rendered":"Securi\u0219tii doliului"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Dup\u0103 cum am scris, s\u0103pt\u0103m\u00e2na trecut\u0103 mi-a murit un foarte bun prieten. Moartea e un dat natural, c\u00e2t te g\u00e2nde\u0219ti la ea biologic &#8211; finalul vie\u021bii &#8211; sau filosofic &#8211; tot ce se na\u0219te trebuie s\u0103 moar\u0103. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Dar strict subiectiv,c\u00e2nd izbe\u0219te pe aproape, moartea e unul dintre acele fenomene pe care \u021bi-e greu s\u0103 le \u00een\u021belegi. \u0218i nu m\u0103 refer ra\u021bional. Ra\u021bional, e u\u0219or s\u0103 asimilezi cele scrise \u00een paragraful precedent. E vorba de \u00een\u021belegere emo\u021bional\u0103. Ieri, acolo era o surs\u0103 de umor, r\u00e2sete, glume, ironii \u0219i veselie. Cum se pot transforma toate acestea \u00een nimic, dintr-un moment \u00een urm\u0103torul? <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Asta e partea dificil de \u00een\u021beles emo\u021bional, \u0219i asta e partea care provoac\u0103 o lung\u0103 alternan\u021b\u0103 \u00eentre negare \u0219i furie, triste\u021be \u0219i regret, pe care o numim scurt, doliu. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Fiecare dintre noi proceseaz\u0103 diferit durerea. Eu nu m-am putut duce la \u00eenmorm\u00e2ntare, de exemplu, pentru c\u0103 prefer s\u0103 mi-l amintesc r\u00e2z\u00e2nd. E imaginea care \u00eel definea.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u0218i, pentru c\u0103 \u00een cazul meu, modul \u00een care m\u0103 calmez e s\u0103 v\u0103d un film sau s\u0103 citesc o carte, pentru c\u0103 \u00een esen\u021ba mea am r\u0103mas un copil care are nevoie de o poveste s\u0103 adoarm\u0103, m-am \u00eenh\u0103mat la un serial lung \u0219i dramatic. Vikings. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Evident c\u0103 internetul e gazda c\u00e2torva dintre cei mai sini\u0219tri c\u0103ca\u021bi cu ochi: <\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"700\" height=\"270\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/12\/image-1.png?resize=700%2C270&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-28865\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/12\/image-1.png?w=752&amp;ssl=1 752w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/12\/image-1.png?resize=300%2C116&amp;ssl=1 300w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/12\/image-1.png?resize=150%2C58&amp;ssl=1 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 700px) 100vw, 700px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Dac\u0103 nu \u0219ti\u021bi, stima\u021bi telespectatori, exist\u0103 cretini care au impresia c\u0103 pot face audit pe doliul t\u0103u. C\u00e2t e de conform cu standardele, ce plan social media s\u0103 ai \u00een zilele de dup\u0103, ce ai voie s\u0103 spui, s\u0103 crezi, s\u0103 g\u00e2nde\u0219ti. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Nu e de ajuns c\u0103 ai suferit o pierdere \u0219i lup\u021bi s\u0103 faci pace cu ea cum \u0219tii tu mai bine, mai e nevoie \u0219i de genul \u0103sta de imbecil s\u0103-\u021bi fac\u0103 genul \u0103sta de remarci, s\u0103 rup\u0103 \u021besutul cicatrizat de pe ran\u0103 \u0219i s\u0103-\u021bi bage cuie \u00een ea. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u0218i \u0219ti\u021bi care e tragedia, oameni buni? <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Nu c\u0103 o vit\u0103 \u00eenc\u0103l\u021bat\u0103 ca asta \u00ee\u0219i sloboze\u0219te prostia \u0219i r\u0103utatea online. E la un buton distan\u021b\u0103 s\u0103 dispar\u0103 definitiv \u00een co\u0219ul de gunoi al listei de block, s\u0103 nu te mai deranjeze p\u00e2n\u0103 \u00ee\u0219i face urm\u0103torul cont fals cu care s\u0103 repete ciclul muism gratuit &#8211; block \u00een mor\u021bii m\u0103-tii. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Tragedia real\u0103 e c\u0103 exist\u0103 specimene de genul \u0103sta \u0219i \u00een via\u021ba real\u0103. Unde nu-i faci s\u0103 dispar\u0103 cu un simplu click &#8211; de\u0219i ce bine ar fi. Specimene care cred c\u0103 au autoritatea s\u0103 fac\u0103 fi\u0219\u0103 de evalu\u0103ri pe doliul altora. Pe \u00eembr\u0103c\u0103minte. Pe atitudine. Ie\u0219i \u00een ora\u0219? Te duci la munc\u0103? Dar mortul chiar nu a \u00eensemnat nimic pentru tine? <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Dac\u0103 \u00een urm\u0103toarea lun\u0103 e\u0219ti oricum altfel dec\u00e2t o viziune \u00een negru perpetuu posac\u0103, te treze\u0219ti cu ei cotcod\u0103cind ne\u00eentreba\u021bi. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u00cen momentul \u0103sta, mi-a\u0219 dori o lege: dreptul de a arde un dos de palm\u0103 oricui se bag\u0103 ampulea \u00een ceva ce nu-l prive\u0219te, c\u00e2nd nu e vorba de o infrac\u021biune. Da, dac\u0103 m\u0103 prinzi fur\u00e2nd saci de ciment din depozit, e dreptul t\u0103u \u0219i al poli\u021biei s\u0103 interveni\u021bi. Dar dac\u0103 e modul meu de a face pace cu o suferin\u021b\u0103, kindly d\u0103-te-n mor\u021bii m\u0103-tii p\u00e2n\u0103 \u00eenapoi \u00een maimu\u021ba originar\u0103. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">-Acuzat, a\u021bi fost reclamat c\u0103 l-a\u021bi slu\u021bit pe Gicu Pieleapulii \u00een b\u0103taie. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">-Domnule judec\u0103tor, \u00eemi f\u0103cea analiz\u0103 nesolicitat\u0103 pe doliu. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">-Achitat! <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u0218i a\u0219 \u00een\u021belege dac\u0103 genul \u0103sta de remarci stupide ar veni \u00een momentul c\u00e2nd m\u0103 vezi, a doua zi dup\u0103 un deces, la o petrecere \u00een club, dans\u00e2nd pe mese \u00eentr-un furou botezat party wear. De\u0219i am \u0219i acolo un amendament: unii \u00ee\u0219i trateaz\u0103 suferin\u021ba chefuind. De unde \u0219i expresia cu \u00eenecarea amarului \u00een pahar. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Dar cum modul meu de a amu\u021bi durerea e s\u0103 m\u0103 uit la b\u0103rba\u021bi fioro\u0219i sacrific\u00e2nd \u00een chinuri al\u021bi b\u0103rba\u021bi fioro\u0219i, sorry, nu e treaba ta s\u0103-mi spui dac\u0103 e bine sau r\u0103u. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u00cen \u00eencheiere: dragi prieteni, nu uita\u021bi c\u0103 ave\u021bi \u00een fiecare zi op\u021biunea s\u0103 nu fi\u021bi javre. E proverbul \u0103la: Polite\u021bea nu cost\u0103 nimic, dar \u00ee\u021bi c\u00e2\u0219tig\u0103 orice. E valabil \u0219i inversul: J\u0103vrismul nu \u00ee\u0219i c\u00e2\u0219tig\u0103 nimic, dar te poate costa faptul c\u0103 lumea trece pe trotuarul opus s\u0103 te evite. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">***<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u00ce\u021bi place s\u0103 cite\u0219ti aceste articole? Po\u021bi ajuta \u00een mod direct la scrierea lor. Iat\u0103 cum.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.paypal.com\/paypalme\/Trollywood\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"250\" height=\"82\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/01\/paypal-.jpg?w=700&amp;ssl=1\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-25884\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/01\/paypal-.jpg?w=250&amp;ssl=1 250w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/01\/paypal-.jpg?resize=150%2C49&amp;ssl=1 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 250px) 100vw, 250px\" \/><\/a><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">***<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Dup\u0103 cum am scris, s\u0103pt\u0103m\u00e2na trecut\u0103 mi-a murit un foarte bun prieten. Moartea e un dat natural, c\u00e2t te g\u00e2nde\u0219ti la ea biologic &#8211;&#46;&#46;&#46;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":28866,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_feature_clip_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":true,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2},"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-28863","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-spicy"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/12\/doliu.jpg?fit=1176%2C880&ssl=1","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_likes_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/28863","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=28863"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/28863\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":28867,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/28863\/revisions\/28867"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/28866"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=28863"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=28863"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=28863"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}