\u00cemi pl\u0103ceau foarte mult articolele tale de la Po\u0219ta redac\u021biei \u0219i nu le-am v\u0103zut \u00een ultima vreme. Mai ai rubrica asta? E p\u0103cat s\u0103 renun\u021bi la ea, sunt at\u00e2\u021bia oameni care au nevoie de compasiune \u0219i un sfat bun. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Pentru mine, 2025 a fost un an \u00eengrozitor. Sunt blocat\u0103 \u00eentr-un job plictisitor la stat, cu un salariu jenant, care e blocat de c\u00e2nd era bunic\u0103-mea virgin\u0103, \u0219i nici nu va cre\u0219te cur\u00e2nd. Mi-a\u0219 fi dorit un copil, dar so\u021bul meu e genul care face mereu calcule \u0219i \u00eemi tot explic\u0103 c\u0103 nu mi-l permitem acum. M\u0103 deprim\u0103 scumpirile, cre\u0219terile de taxe, lipsa de perspectiv\u0103, banii pu\u021bini, munca mult\u0103 \u0219i \u00eemb\u00e2csit\u0103 de rutin\u0103, monotonia. Anul 2025 a trecut degeaba peste mine, nu mi-a adus nimic bun \u0219i simt c\u0103 2026 va fi la fel, iar asta mi se pare \u00eengrozitor. Mi-a\u0219 da demisia m\u00e2ine, dar maic\u0103-mea \u00eemi tot spune c\u0103 sunt nebun\u0103 s\u0103 renun\u021b la un loc de munc\u0103 stabil. \u00cemi vine s\u0103 emigrez afar\u0103, dar \u0219i acolo, via\u021ba e grea pentru noii-veni\u021bi. Parc\u0103 nu e locul meu nic\u0103ieri. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Ai un sfat pentru mine? <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n S\u0103 ai s\u0103rb\u0103tori frumoase, <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n X. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n ***<\/p>\n\n\n\n Drag\u0103 X.,<\/p>\n\n\n\n Po\u0219ta redac\u021biei e o rubric\u0103 mereu activ\u0103, viguroas\u0103 \u0219i verde, dar e nevoie \u0219i de \u201ec\u0103rni\u021b\u0103\u201d de la cititori. Dac\u0103 voi nu \u00eemi scrie\u021bi, eu nu am la ce s\u0103 r\u0103spund. \ud83d\ude00 <\/p>\n\n\n\n Legat de spiritul scrisoricii tale: poate c\u0103 e o idee bun\u0103 s\u0103 \u00eencerci un pic de terapie. Detectez acolo un pui\u0219or de depresie, care trebuie luat \u00een serios \u0219i tratat profesionist, \u00eenainte s\u0103 se agraveze. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Dincolo de asta: oamenii din jurul t\u0103u par lucizi, maturi \u0219i c\u0103 \u00ee\u021bi vor binele. Da, \u00een valurile de concedieri care se \u00eent\u00e2mpl\u0103 acum, nu e cea mai bun\u0103 idee s\u0103 arunci un venit, fie el \u0219i mic, f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103 ai o alternativ\u0103 valid\u0103. Dar \u0219tii ce po\u021bi face? \u00ce\u021bi updatezi CV-ul \u0219i \u00ee\u021bi cau\u021bi altceva. S\u0103 pleci cu rost, nu la nimereal\u0103. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Da, scumpirile \u0219i banii pu\u021bini nu bucur\u0103 pe nimeni, dar s\u0103 \u021binem pu\u021bin cont de momentul istoric: r\u0103zboi \u00een vecini, care se poate extinde \u00eencoace \u00een orice clip\u0103, recesiune economic\u0103, instabilitate social\u0103. Po\u021bi alege s\u0103 te frustrezi, sau po\u021bi s-o prive\u0219ti ca pe un lucru care nu \u021bi se \u00eent\u00e2mpl\u0103 \u021bie personal ci, \u00een oarecare m\u0103sur\u0103, tuturor din lume, except\u00e2nd acei 1% miliardari \u0219i triliardari. \u0218i dac\u0103 nu \u021bi se \u00eent\u00e2mpl\u0103 \u021bie personal, ci multor oameni, tot ce po\u021bi s\u0103 faci e s\u0103 te \u00eenarmezi cu mult\u0103 r\u0103bdare \u0219i s\u0103 cau\u021bi solu\u021bii punctuale. Un job mai bine pl\u0103tit. O surs\u0103 de fun. Inclusiv idei care s\u0103 alunge rutina din ceea ce faci acum. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Da, nu avem cum s\u0103 influen\u021b\u0103m trendurile geopolitice, dar avem control deplin pe timpul nostru, zi de zi, \u0219i pe lucruri m\u0103runte din care deriv\u0103m bucurie. \u00cenva\u021b\u0103 o limb\u0103 str\u0103in\u0103, de exemplu. Eu, dac\u0103 a\u0219 avea timp, a\u0219 \u00eenv\u0103\u021ba turca sau araba, pentru c\u0103 \u00een Bucure\u0219ti sunt at\u00e2\u021bia oameni de afaceri vorbitori ai acestor limbi care pl\u0103tesc bine un interpreter. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Ce \u00eencerc s\u0103 spun este c\u0103 po\u021bi jeli \u00een batic c\u0103 via\u021ba e grea sau po\u021bi lua dificult\u0103\u021bile momentului una c\u00e2te una \u0219i s\u0103 g\u0103se\u0219ti idei cu care s\u0103 le rezolvi. <\/p>\n\n\n\n \u0218i dac\u0103 partenerul nu se simte preg\u0103tit pentru un copil – \u0219i \u0219tii \u0219i tu c\u0103 are dreptate – e bine s\u0103 respec\u021bi asta. La un moment dat, r\u0103zboiul se va termina. La un moment dat, economia se va regenera. \u0218i atunci vei face copii \u0219tiind c\u0103 au un viitor. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Hang in there. Eu nu cred \u00een \u201dmanifesting\u201d, dar dac\u0103 tu prive\u0219ti noul an cu at\u00e2ta negativitate, cred c\u0103 \u00ee\u021bi alungi oportunit\u0103\u021bile cu propria m\u00e2n\u0103. <\/p>\n\n\n\n F\u0103 azi ceva care s\u0103 te bucure. E s\u00e2mb\u0103t\u0103, e\u0219ti acas\u0103, g\u00e2nde\u0219te-te ce anume \u021bi-ar putea provoca o emo\u021bie pozitiv\u0103 \u0219i treci la treab\u0103. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Sper c\u0103 \u021bi-am fost util\u0103, <\/p>\n\n\n\n Lorena. <\/p>\n\n\n\n ***<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u00ce\u021bi place s\u0103 cite\u0219ti aceste articole? Po\u021bi ajuta \u00een mod direct la scrierea lor. 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