{"id":28954,"date":"2025-12-31T11:50:13","date_gmt":"2025-12-31T08:50:13","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/?p=28954"},"modified":"2025-12-31T11:50:16","modified_gmt":"2025-12-31T08:50:16","slug":"rezolutii-pentru-noul-an-2","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/rezolutii-pentru-noul-an-2\/","title":{"rendered":"Rezolu\u021bii pentru noul an"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

A trecut un an ciudat. Privind \u00eenapoi, am senza\u021bia c\u0103 nu am f\u0103cut dec\u00e2t s\u0103 m\u0103 zbat \u00eentr-un r\u00e2u vijelios, umflat de furtuni, \u0219i s\u0103 lupt s\u0103 m\u0103 men\u021bin la suprafa\u021b\u0103. Dar iat\u0103, e 31 decembrie \u0219i am reu\u0219it, a\u0219a c\u0103 \u00eemi pot permite s\u0103 contabilizez experien\u021ba \u00een catastiful de Dificult\u0103\u021bi dep\u0103\u0219ite cu succes. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Sunt ani \u00een care \u021bi se tot propun \u0219i \u021bi se tot ofer\u0103 lucruri minunate \u0219i ani \u00een care nu vin pe \u021beav\u0103 dec\u00e2t rahaturi, \u0219i, dac\u0103 la final izbute\u0219ti s\u0103 r\u0103m\u00e2i intact fizic \u0219i emo\u021bional, po\u021bi spune c\u0103 e\u0219ti un \u00eenving\u0103tor. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Anul \u0103sta mi-au murit o gr\u0103mad\u0103 de oameni dragi \u0219i de prieteni buni, \u0219i cred c\u0103 aici \u00eencepi s\u0103 resim\u021bi b\u0103tr\u00e2ne\u021bea. C\u00e2nd e\u0219ti t\u00e2n\u0103r, nu \u00ee\u021bi prea mor apropia\u021bi. Poate \u00eentr-un accident, ceva ie\u0219it din comun, un \u0219oc cumplit, cumplit prin unicitatea sa. Dar c\u00e2nd cunoscu\u021bi \u0219i prieteni \u00eencep s\u0103 moar\u0103 casually, de pe o zi pe alta, \u00ee\u021bi dai seama c\u0103 timpul care \u021bi-a r\u0103mas \u0219i \u021bie e mult mai scurt dec\u00e2t ai crede, \u0219i \u00ee\u021bi datorezi \u021bie \u00eensu\u021bi s\u0103 faci toate lucrurile care te bucur\u0103, s\u0103 tr\u0103ie\u0219ti tot ce vrei s\u0103 tr\u0103ie\u0219ti \u0219i s\u0103 nu te complici cu mizerii m\u0103runte, pentru c\u0103, exact cum spun cli\u0219eele din manualele de dezvoltare personal\u0103: s\u0103 acorzi importan\u021b\u0103 neajunsurilor este o decizie. S\u0103 \u00ee\u021bi bagi pwla \u00een ele este o decizie mai bun\u0103. (Chit c\u0103 niciun manual nu o formuleaz\u0103 a\u0219a.) S\u0103 te bucuri pentru c\u0103 r\u0103m\u00e2i vertical \u0219i liber e cea mai bun\u0103 decizie. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ce \u00eemi propun pentru noul an? <\/p>\n\n\n\n

1. Zero energie investit\u0103 \u00een certuri \u0219i conflicte. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Eu nu beef cu nimeni. Dac\u0103 tu ai beef cu mine, e problema ta \u0219i \u021bi-o rezolvi manual undeva la distan\u021b\u0103. Nu mai tolerez niciun fel de agariceal\u0103, smardoial\u0103, gigeleal\u0103 \u0219i m\u00e2rl\u0103neal\u0103, \u0219i dac\u0103 v\u0103d tentative, interac\u021biunea se reteaz\u0103 instant, fie c\u0103 e online, fie c\u0103 e offline. Dup\u0103 ce \u00ee\u021bi mor oameni la care \u021bii \u0219i descoperi c\u0103 po\u021bi tr\u0103i \u0219i f\u0103r\u0103 ei, cape\u021bi dexteritate suplimentar\u0103 s\u0103 \u00eei flituie\u0219ti pe cei ce te enerveaz\u0103. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

2. Investesc timp doar dac\u0103 merit\u0103. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Timpul e cea mai valoroas\u0103 resurs\u0103 a omului. Nu \u00eel mai risipim aiurea, c\u0103 nu avem de ce. Lista mea zilnic\u0103 de \u201dto do\u201d va fi pe baz\u0103 de priorit\u0103\u021bi, \u0219i priorit\u0103\u021bile se vor concentra \u00een jurul unei \u00eentreb\u0103ri: C\u00e2t de mult merit\u0103 deranjul? <\/p>\n\n\n\n

3. O s\u0103 fac \u00een fiecare zi c\u00e2te un lucru care s\u0103 m\u0103 bucure. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Un lucru pe care nu \u021bi-l poate r\u0103pi nimeni, indiferent c\u00e2t de javr\u0103 este, e bucuria de moment. Dac\u0103 \u0219tii ce te pasioneaz\u0103 \u0219i faci cu drag acel lucru, pot s\u0103 latre zece haite de pot\u0103i la tine, c\u0103 nu au cum s\u0103 te priveze de ceea ce te bucur\u0103. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00cen momentul \u00een care \u00een\u021belegi c\u0103 e\u0219ti singurul responsabil de propria fericire, \u00eencetezi s\u0103-i blamezi pe to\u021bi cei ce te-au traumatizat \/ nedrept\u0103\u021bit \u00een trecut \u0219i te investe\u0219ti cu totul \u00een prezent. \u0218i abia atunci, via\u021ba devine frumoas\u0103 \u0219i liber\u0103 de bagaje. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

4.<\/strong> \u00cen ultimii 5ish ani, umorul a fost arma cu care am tratat toate provoc\u0103rile la nivel micro \u0219i macro care par s\u0103 m\u0103 bombardeze. <\/strong>\u0218i c\u00e2nd citesc glume ale mele mai vechi, constat c\u0103 mi s-a ascu\u021bit mult ironia. Poate c\u0103 e ceva de care aveam nevoie. Voi lucra la asta, c\u0103 \u00eemi place ideea de a evolua cu v\u00e2rsta s\u0103 ajung o bab\u0103 #bossbitch c\u00e2nd vine momentul. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

5. Voi oferi pozitivitate fiec\u0103rui om cu care voi interac\u021biona. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

C\u00e2teodat\u0103, m\u0103 surprinde de c\u00e2t de pu\u021bin e nevoie s\u0103 faci un om s\u0103 z\u00e2mbeasc\u0103. O doamn\u0103 \u00een v\u00e2rst\u0103 care \u00ee\u0219i num\u0103r\u0103 m\u0103run\u021bi\u0219ul la cas\u0103 \u0219i tu o \u00eentrebi de c\u00e2t mai are nevoie. Un coleg sup\u0103rat c\u0103ruia \u00eei faci un compliment. Etc. etc. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Sigur, sunt \u00eentotdeauna cazuri pe care nu le po\u021bi rezolva din curtoazie banal\u0103 diurn\u0103, dar ai \u00een fiecare zi puterea s\u0103 oferi gra\u021bie \u0219i c\u0103ldur\u0103, \u0219i c\u00e2nd vezi \u00een ce mod \u00eei schimb\u0103 pe ceilal\u021bi gra\u021bia \u0219i c\u0103ldura ta, realizezi c\u0103 ai mai mult\u0103 putere dec\u00e2t ai crezut vreodat\u0103. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Legat de planuri punctuale, aleg s\u0103 nu formulez rezolu\u021bii, pentru c\u0103, \u00een ultimii cinci ani, Dumnezeu a c\u0103p\u0103tat un obicei de a r\u00e2de \u0219i cu c**ul de planurile noastre punctuale \u0219i atunci, e mai simplu s-o iei one thing at a time \u0219i s\u0103 nu spui hop p\u00e2n\u0103 nu sari p\u00e2rleazul. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

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\u00ce\u021bi place s\u0103 cite\u0219ti aceste articole? Po\u021bi ajuta \u00een mod direct la scrierea lor. Iat\u0103 cum.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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