{"id":28968,"date":"2026-01-03T13:50:29","date_gmt":"2026-01-03T10:50:29","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/?p=28968"},"modified":"2026-01-03T13:50:31","modified_gmt":"2026-01-03T10:50:31","slug":"nu-poti-tipa-la-restaurante-sa-si-faca-programul-dupa-tine","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/nu-poti-tipa-la-restaurante-sa-si-faca-programul-dupa-tine\/","title":{"rendered":"Nu po\u021bi \u021bipa la restaurante s\u0103-\u0219i fac\u0103 programul dup\u0103 tine"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

Am o doamn\u0103 \u00een lista de prieteni a paginii. Doamna respectiv\u0103 are un bistro \u00een Bra\u0219ov. Admit, am o gr\u0103mad\u0103 de cofet\u0103rii \u0219i de restaurante \u00een lista paginii, pentru c\u0103 m-am s\u0103turat de agresivitatea postacilor ca ursul de ghinde \u0219i vreau s\u0103 m\u0103 uit la ceva frumos: fotografii artistice cu m\u00e2ncare apetisant\u0103 \u0219i pr\u0103jituri delicioase. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Doamna respectiv\u0103 a postat un mesaj pe care l-a primit de la un cet\u0103\u021bean. Pe un limbaj extrem de agresiv, omul porc\u0103ia restaurantul pentru c\u0103, aparent, \u00een Bra\u0219ov, unit\u0103\u021bile care nu ofer\u0103 program de Revelion au program scurt de Anul Nou, s\u0103 apuce \u0219i angaja\u021bii un pic de s\u0103rb\u0103toare cu familiile. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0218i omul \u021bipa c\u0103 el e turist \u0219i c\u0103 a r\u0103mas fl\u0103m\u00e2nd, c\u0103 patronii din Bra\u0219ov nu vor bani. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ce te frapa era tonul. De parc\u0103 restaurantul \u00eei datora s\u0103-l hr\u0103neasc\u0103. De parc\u0103 le d\u0103duse deja bani. De parc\u0103 era ac\u021bionar la ei. De parc\u0103 era un \u0219ef nervos la el pe tarla. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

De ce ai l\u0103tra a\u0219a la o firm\u0103 privat\u0103, care nu \u00ee\u021bi datoreaz\u0103 absolut nimic? \u00centreb sincer, \u0219i o \u00eentreb din ipostaza de client care a convins un business de reparat laptopuri s\u0103-i repare laptopul defect de Cr\u0103ciun. Nu cu urlat, nu cu \u021b\u0103r\u0103nie, nu cu agariceli, ci cu rug\u0103min\u021bi fierbin\u021bi, explica\u021bia c\u0103 lucrez la ceva \u0219i promisiunea c\u0103 ofer suplimentar ce bonus \u00ee\u0219i dore\u0219te specialistul. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Simplul fapt c\u0103 un business ofer\u0103 servicii publice nu \u00eel transform\u0103 \u00een sclavii t\u0103i umili \u0219i supu\u0219i. Da, po\u021bi face un review unui serviciu deja contractat. Po\u021bi da o stea \u0219i o critic\u0103 feroce pentru un serviciu de proast\u0103 calitate. Dar dac\u0103 legea le ofer\u0103 acela\u0219i drept la s\u0103rb\u0103tori legale pe care \u00eel ai \u0219i tu, nu po\u021bi \u00eenc\u0103lca acest drept, iar dac\u0103 totu\u0219i o faci, con\u0219tientizeaz\u0103 c\u0103 ceri unui om s\u0103 renun\u021be la timpul lui liber s\u0103 te serveasc\u0103. \u0218i ob\u021bii asta, dac\u0103 omul e dispus s\u0103 te ajute, cu polite\u021be perfect\u0103, bune maniere \u0219i da, bani \u00een plus. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Dictonul \u0103la, \u201eclientul nostru, st\u0103p\u00e2nul nostru\u201d a n\u0103scut mul\u021bi mon\u0219tri. Mul\u021bi mitocani misecuveni\u0219ti. Mul\u021bi gigei care prin \u201edrepturi\u201d \u00een\u021beleg \u201dmonopol pe drepturi\u201d. Mul\u021bi care nu pricep c\u0103 libertatea ta se \u00eentinde c\u00e2t \u021bi-e plapuma, \u0219i de la margini \u00eencolo \u00eencepe libertatea altuia. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ca turist, e treaba ta s\u0103 studiezi ofertele din locul de destina\u021bie, s\u0103 vezi care sunt obiceiurile de s\u0103rb\u0103tori \u0219i, eventual, s\u0103 faci rezerv\u0103ri \u00een prealabil, s\u0103 te asiguri c\u0103 ai ce m\u00e2nca. Dac\u0103 unii nu \u021bin deschis de s\u0103rb\u0103tori, e dreptul lor. Legal. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ar face mai mul\u021bi bani dac\u0103 ar deschide? <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Da. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Pot alege s\u0103 renun\u021be la ace\u0219ti bani? <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Da. Sau dac\u0103 \u00eei motivezi cu pozitivitate \u0219i recuno\u0219tin\u021b\u0103, ai mai multe \u0219anse s\u0103 le c\u00e2\u0219tigi cooperarea. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Dac\u0103 devii violent verbal pentru c\u0103 nu te-ai documentat din timp legat de obiceiul local, tot ce ob\u021bii e c\u0103 cineva te face vedet\u0103 cu mesajul t\u0103u agresiv din nimic. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0218i cred c\u0103, \u00een anul 2026, trebuie s\u0103 recuper\u0103m cu to\u021bii bunele maniere \u0219i civiliza\u021bia care s-au pierdut \u00een 2024-2025, cu mitoc\u0103nia suveranist\u0103 care ne-a molipsit pe to\u021bi. Trebuie s\u0103 re\u00eenv\u0103\u021b\u0103m \u201dv\u0103 rog frumos\u201d, \u201dmul\u021bumesc\u201d, \u201dam o propunere pentru dumneavoastr\u0103\u201d \u0219i restul frazelor care nu cost\u0103 nimic, dar fac interac\u021biunea uman\u0103 suportabil\u0103. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Low key, \u00een\u021beleg \u0219i aprob programul scurt de S\u0103rb\u0103tori. \u00censeamn\u0103 respect pentru angaja\u021bi. E o decizie uman\u0103, \u00eentr-o lume care \u00ee\u0219i uit\u0103 din ce \u00een ce mai mult omenia. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

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