{"id":28982,"date":"2026-01-07T12:20:09","date_gmt":"2026-01-07T09:20:09","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/?p=28982"},"modified":"2026-01-07T12:40:26","modified_gmt":"2026-01-07T09:40:26","slug":"cand-maica-ta-nu-mai-e","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/cand-maica-ta-nu-mai-e\/","title":{"rendered":"C\u00e2nd maic\u0103-ta nu mai e"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Sunt copii care au rela\u021bii perfecte cu p\u0103rin\u021bii lor. Iubire, sus\u021binere reciproc\u0103, telefoane interminabile, comuniune a sufletelor. C\u00e2nd ace\u0219ti copii r\u0103m\u00e2n f\u0103r\u0103 p\u0103rin\u021bi, r\u0103m\u00e2n f\u0103r\u0103 un pilon esen\u021bial al vie\u021bii lor. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Apoi, sunt copii care nu au niciun fel de sprijin \u00een p\u0103rin\u021bii lor. Nu sunt niciodat\u0103 \u00eendeajuns de buni, \u00eendeajuns de de\u0219tep\u021bi, nu au prieteni suficient de buni, nu au gusturi mul\u021bumitoare la \u00eembr\u0103c\u0103minte, nu se calific\u0103 niciodat\u0103 pentru cel mai mic compliment. Aveam 10 pe linie la \u0219coal\u0103 \u00een \u00eencercarea disperat\u0103 de a-i dovedi maic\u0103-mii c\u0103 ar avea de ce s\u0103 fie m\u00e2ndr\u0103 de mine. Colegii m\u0103 urau, pentru c\u0103 p\u0103rin\u021bii lor \u00eei \u00eentrebau de ce nu pot s\u0103 fie ca mine. Numai mama nu sesiza niciodat\u0103 efortul pe care \u00eel depuneam zi de zi, s\u0103 fiu ca mine. Dac\u0103 luam premiul I, \u201da\u0219a \u0219i ce, \u00eenve\u021bi pentru tine\u201d. Dac\u0103 \u00een schimb, o lucrare de control primea vreo not\u0103 de 9, scandal imens. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Orice se strica \u0219i nu mergea \u00een cas\u0103 era mereu vina mea. Chiar dac\u0103 nu m\u0103 atinsesem de acel obiect. Dup\u0103 divor\u021bul de tata, g\u0103sise un \u021bap isp\u0103\u0219itor perfect \u00een mine. Pentru orice gre\u0219eal\u0103 real\u0103 sau perceput\u0103, \u00eemi \u0219uiera cu o r\u0103utate care \u00eemi provoca nop\u021bi \u00eentregi de pl\u00e2ns: Semeni cu taic\u0103-tu. (Taic\u0103-miu fiind monstrul pe care \u00eel blestema \u0219i \u00eel \u00eenjura de c\u00e2te ori \u00ee\u0219i amintea cum \u0219i-a sacrificat tinere\u021bea cu nemernicul \u0103sta ingrat, care s-a \u00eencurcat cu prima c*rv\u0103 ieftin\u0103 \u0219i a dat-o at\u00e2t de u\u0219or deoparte.) <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Dac\u0103 taic\u0103-miu a comis p\u0103catul, eu, un copil de 7 ani care nu \u00een\u021belegea de ce e brusc cea mai mizerabil\u0103 creatur\u0103 din univers, l-am pl\u0103tit cu v\u00e2rf \u0219i \u00eendesat. Nu \u00een\u021beleg nici azi un adult care r\u0103zbun\u0103 cu at\u00e2ta furie proletar\u0103 pe un copil o deziluzie amoroas\u0103. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Nu-mi d\u0103dea bani de nimic. Eu fiind elev\u0103 eminent\u0103, cu o pasiune pentru predat, d\u0103deam medita\u021bii la copiii din bloc \u0219i \u00eemi c\u00e2\u0219tigam banii de buzunar. Dar \u0219i a\u0219a, c\u00e2nd mi-a g\u0103sit ea o elev\u0103 repetent\u0103 la matematic\u0103, pe care am adus-o pe linia de plutire, mi-a re\u021binut banii, c\u0103 ea a g\u0103sit-o. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Avea o pl\u0103cere s\u0103 m\u0103 jigneasc\u0103, s\u0103 m\u0103 umileasc\u0103, s\u0103 caute zi de zi cum s\u0103 m\u0103 fac\u0103 s\u0103 m\u0103 simt \u00eengrozitor. De aici am furia asta de \u201dDracarys\u201d la cea mai mic\u0103 ofens\u0103 din partea oricui. R\u0103scole\u0219te \u00een mine trauma copilului mic care \u00eendura jigniri f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103 le fi meritat cu ceva \u0219i era prea slab s\u0103 se apere. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Mi-a impus un liceu pe care nu mi l-am dorit \u0219i pe care l-am detestat din r\u0103runchi. Liceul economic Sf. Gheorghe. Patru ani de chin pur. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Abia am a\u0219teptat s\u0103 \u00eemplinesc 18 ani \u0219i s\u0103 plec de acas\u0103. Am str\u00e2ns b\u0103nu\u021b peste b\u0103nu\u021b din varii munci \u0219i burse, s\u0103 dau la Actorie. Evident c\u0103 mi-a spus s\u0103 nu m\u0103 a\u0219tept la nicio sus\u021binere. Nu-i problem\u0103, mi-a trimis bani o m\u0103tu\u0219\u0103 binevoitoare, p\u00e2n\u0103 mi-am g\u0103sit un job la Bucure\u0219ti. Evident c\u0103 mi-a b\u0103gat \u0219i o \u0219op\u00e2rl\u0103 de genul: \u201dDac\u0103 \u00eemi vii gravid\u0103, s\u0103 nu te a\u0219tep\u021bi la niciun fel de ajutor\u201d. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">La asta i-am dat replica: Deja \u0219tiam c\u0103 nu m\u0103 a\u0219tept la niciun fel de ajutor, nu sunt b\u0103tut\u0103 \u00een cap \u0219i  nu m\u0103 surprinzi cu nimic. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Am avut o tentativ\u0103 de sinucidere la 15 ani, pentru c\u0103 povara acestei ranchiune era \u00eengrozitor de grea. Pentru c\u0103 anii treceau, dar maic\u0103-mea r\u0103m\u0103sese blocat\u0103 mintal \u00een anul divor\u021bului, ca Lasconi \u00een ziua anul\u0103rii alegerilor. \u00cenc\u0103 \u00eel blestema pe taic\u0103-miu cel nesim\u021bit ca \u00een prima zi. Culmea, domni\u0219oara de moravuri u\u0219oare \u00eel p\u0103r\u0103sise pentru altul mai bogat, \u0219i el \u00eencercase s\u0103 se \u00eentoarc\u0103, dar ea nu fusese interesat\u0103. (Ceea ce mi se pare fair.) Dar nici nu folosise momentul regretelor lui ca pe un \u201eclosure\u201d. Era \u00een continuare furioas\u0103 c\u0103 fusese \u00een\u0219elat\u0103 \u0219i abandonat\u0103, de\u0219i treceau 10, apoi 20, apoi 30 de ani. Degeaba \u00eei spuneai: Ce s-a \u00eent\u00e2mplat p\u00e2n\u0103 la momentul divor\u021bului e obiectiv vina nemernicului. Ce s-a \u00eent\u00e2mplat dup\u0103 divor\u021b. adic\u0103 ani de stagnare \u00een ur\u0103 \u0219i frustrare, e deja responsabilitatea ta. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">A\u0219a cum nu recuno\u0219tea eforturile mele, nu recuno\u0219tea nici eforturile bunicilor, p\u0103rin\u021bii ei, care ne-au ajutat zi de zi, ne-au hr\u0103nit de diminea\u021ba, ne-au dus la \u0219coal\u0103, ne-au f\u0103cut aprovizionarea, ne-au g\u0103tit masa de pr\u00e2nz \u0219i uneori \u0219i cina, c\u00e2nd mama avea ore suplimentare la munc\u0103. Fiind femeie singur\u0103, o munceau ca pe ho\u021bii de cai. \u0218i nu avea r\u0103ut\u0103\u021bi cu angajatorii ei; \u00ee\u0219i aducea nervii acas\u0103 \u0219i \u00eei r\u0103zbuna pe noi. Noi, cei care f\u0103ceam tot ce era omene\u0219te posibil s\u0103 fie bine.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">La 18 ani, cum ziceam, am plecat de acas\u0103. Aparent o adult\u0103, \u00een realitate un copil care c\u0103ra dup\u0103 sine un ocean de traume. M-am zb\u0103tut, mi-am creat un rost \u00een Bucure\u0219ti, am mimat normalitatea \u0219i a fost cel mai chinuitor rol din via\u021ba mea. Am f\u0103cut terapie, am adoptat o pisic\u0103 pe care am nimerit-o foarte tandr\u0103 \u0219i iubitoare \u0219i care s-a cuib\u0103rit la pieptul meu cu o iubire care mi-a fost medicament. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u00cen anii de studen\u021bie \u0219i dup\u0103, mama \u0219i eu am fost no contact. Ea ad\u0103ugase la lista ei de frustr\u0103ri boala pe mine c\u0103 nu am vrut s\u0103 fac ASE \u0219i s\u0103 devin miliardar\u0103. Eu tr\u0103iam \u00een sf\u00e2r\u0219it dup\u0103 propriile reguli. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ne-am re\u00eemprietenit dup\u0103 ce \u0219i-a primit diagnosticul de hipotiroidie, \u0219i a fost o penurie de Euthyrox prin farmacii. Eu eram deja blogger de succes, aveam cititoare farmaciste, m-a ajutat o doamn\u0103 amabil\u0103 \u0219i i-am trimis c\u00e2teva cutii cu un prieten al lui frati-miu. \u0218i ne-am re\u00eemprietenit. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">C\u00e2nd a v\u0103zut c\u0103 sute de oameni \u00eemi dau like \u0219i love la toate post\u0103rile, brusc s-a lipit de ea o parte din admira\u021bia lor \u0219i, pentru prima oar\u0103 \u00een via\u021ba ei, mi-a ar\u0103tat bun\u0103voin\u021b\u0103. Am decis s\u0103 \u00eencerc o rela\u021bie mam\u0103-copil cum vedeam pe la cunoscu\u021bi. Cu sunat des, trimis bani \u00een caz de nevoie, ascultat v\u0103ic\u0103reli. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u0218i, spre surpriza mea, am reg\u0103sit acelea\u0219i frustr\u0103ri pe care le p\u0103r\u0103sisem zece ani mai devreme. Acelea\u0219i frustr\u0103ri pe tr\u0103darea lui taic\u0103-miu, curva nenorocit\u0103 care \u00eel ademenise \u0219i etc. I-am recomandat s\u0103 \u00eencerce terapie, a refuzat indignat\u0103, c\u0103 ea nu e nebun\u0103. Era la fel de \u00eenc\u0103p\u0103\u021b\u00e2nat\u0103 ca mine, dar \u00eenc\u0103p\u0103\u021b\u00e2narea ei era doar pe direc\u021bie autodistructiv\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Rela\u021bia noastr\u0103 a mers minunat c\u00e2t timp mie ca influencer mi-a mers minunat. Apoi, a fost perioada aceea din 2019 &#8211; 2022 c\u00e2nd Facebook \u00ee\u021bi d\u0103dea block c\u00e2te o lun\u0103, din trei \u00een trei zile, pentru \u00eenjur\u0103turi vechi. Pentru mine a fost faliment personal, pentru c\u0103 mi-am pierdut toate campaniile de publicitate \u0219i o parte din donatori. \u0218i, c\u00e2nd num\u0103rul de likeuri a sc\u0103zut la 20 &#8211; 25 pe postare, \u0219i veniturile insuficiente m-au obligat s\u0103-mi caut un loc de munc\u0103, am pierdut \u0219i bun\u0103voin\u021ba ei. Au reap\u0103rut r\u0103ut\u0103\u021bile, umilin\u021bele, repro\u0219urile. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Numai c\u0103 Lorena din 2020 nu mai era dispus\u0103 s\u0103 tolereze nimic de genul. Mai ales c\u0103 v\u0103zusem cum al\u021bi p\u0103rin\u021bi tr\u0103iesc s\u0103 asigure toate cele necesare copiilor, iar pe maic\u0103-mea nu o interesase niciodat\u0103 dac\u0103 am ce-mi trebuie. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u00centr-o zi, \u00eentr-o ceart\u0103 extrem de violent\u0103, i-am retezat-o scurt: \u201dExact cum ne-am promis reciproc, nu m-am bazat pe tine cu nimic niciodat\u0103 \u0219i nu \u021bi-am cerut nimic niciodat\u0103. Dar \u00een aceste condi\u021bii, nici tu nu ai vreun drept s\u0103 \u00eemi repro\u0219ezi nimic.\u201d <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">N-a sesizat c\u0103 eram a naibii de serioas\u0103 \u0219i a continuat s\u0103 \u021bipe. Am \u00eentrerupt-o: Uite ce, eu m-am tot str\u0103duit s\u0103 fiu un erou pozitiv \u00een povestea ta, dar nimic din ce fac nu te mul\u021bume\u0219te. Iar eu refuz s\u0103 mai fiu sacul t\u0103u de box emo\u021bional. S\u0103 ai o via\u021b\u0103 a\u0219a cum \u021bi-o faci. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u0218i am \u00eentrerupt definitiv rela\u021bia. Au \u00eencercat diverse rude s\u0103 negocieze pacea \u00eentre noi, dar eu nu am cedat. Sunt un om r\u0103bd\u0103tor, dar exist\u0103 mereu pic\u0103tura care umple paharul, \u0219i dincolo de ea, nu te mai \u00een\u021belegi cu mine. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">M-a amenin\u021bat c\u0103 m\u0103 dezmo\u0219tene\u0219te \u0219i c\u0103 \u00eei las\u0103 casa lui frate-miu. I-am transmis: Nu ar fi dec\u00e2t continuarea unei vie\u021bi \u00een care te-a durut \u00een cwr de mine, n-ai dec\u00e2t. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Acum, la \u00eenceput de ianuarie, fratele meu m-a sunat c\u0103 mama a murit. Bolea de ceva timp, dar specialitatea ei din ultimii zece ani era s\u0103 se vaiete de toate bolile p\u0103m\u00e2ntului, de aceea nu am luat-o foarte tare \u00een serios. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Fratele meu m-a abordat foarte dur: Vino la \u00eenmorm\u00e2ntare, sau fac \u0219i eu no contact cu tine. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Am \u00een\u021beles c\u0103 el cerea de fapt ajutor, c\u0103 el, fiul adorat \u0219i niciodat\u0103 jignit \u0219i umilit, se sim\u021bea cumplit de debusolat \u0219i de r\u0103v\u0103\u0219it. Iar partea care m-a surprins era: \u0219i eu sim\u021beam aceea\u0219i durere \u00eengrozitoare. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Un p\u0103rinte care nu-\u021bi ofer\u0103 dragoste \u0219i grij\u0103 \u00ee\u021bi st\u00e2rne\u0219te aceea\u0219i suferin\u021b\u0103, dup\u0103 ce moare, ca unul care \u021bi-a oferit tot ce ai avut nevoie \u0219i a tr\u0103it pentru tine. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Am s\u0103rit pe tren, am venit acas\u0103, am folosit ziua de 5, smuls\u0103 de Bolojan din vacan\u021ba institu\u021biilor de stat, s\u0103 facem toate drumurile pe la birouri, s\u0103 ob\u021binem certificatul de deces \u0219i autoriza\u021bia de \u00eenhumare, \u0219i apoi am mers acas\u0103 la mama. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Avea casa decorat\u0103 p\u00e2n\u0103 la refuz cu fotografiile mele. Fotografii de c\u00e2nd eram copil mic, fotografii din adolescen\u021b\u0103, fotografii cu prietenii. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Prin faptul c\u0103  \u00eemi b\u0103gasem definitiv piciorul, ob\u021binusem \u00een absen\u021b\u0103 aprecierea pe care prezen\u021ba mea nu o adusese niciodat\u0103. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201eVezi c\u0103 te-a iubit \u0219i pe tine?\u201d m-a \u00eentrebat fratele meu. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201eLa pariu c\u0103 iubirea asta ar fi disp\u0103rut instant \u00een secunda \u00een care a\u0219 fi re\u00eencercat o apropiere?\u201d <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u00cen sicriu, mama e mic\u0103, fragil\u0103, ca o p\u0103pu\u0219\u0103. Nici \u00een moarte nu st\u0103 dreapt\u0103. \u0218i-a l\u0103sat capul \u00eentr-o parte, ca \u0219i cum s-ar sprijini de peretele sicriului. E frumoas\u0103 din nou, \u00een sf\u00e2r\u0219it a descoperit pacea. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">-Adio, mam\u0103. \u00cemi pare r\u0103u c\u0103 nu am putut fi niciodat\u0103 prietene, dar \u00ee\u021bi promit s\u0103 \u00eenv\u0103\u021b din exemplul t\u0103u. S\u0103 nu tr\u0103iesc niciodat\u0103 \u00een trecut, s\u0103 pun punct mintal unei situa\u021bii \u00een secunda \u00een care i-am pus punct faptic \u0219i, esen\u021bial: s\u0103 recunosc c\u0103 nu am urm\u0103 de p\u0103rin\u021beal\u0103 \u00een mine \u0219i s\u0103 nu fac copii. \u00ce\u021bi mul\u021bumesc c\u0103 m-ai \u00eenv\u0103\u021bat lec\u021bii f\u0103r\u0103 de care a\u0219 fi ajuns \u0219i eu prizoniera unei  vie\u021bi nefericite. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u0218i pentru prima oar\u0103, femeia din fa\u021ba mea mi-a r\u0103spuns cu bun\u0103tate \u0219i lini\u0219te. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">***<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u00ce\u021bi place s\u0103 cite\u0219ti aceste articole? Po\u021bi ajuta \u00een mod direct la scrierea lor. Iat\u0103 cum.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.paypal.com\/paypalme\/Trollywood\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"250\" height=\"82\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/01\/paypal-.jpg?w=700&amp;ssl=1\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-25884\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/01\/paypal-.jpg?w=250&amp;ssl=1 250w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/01\/paypal-.jpg?resize=150%2C49&amp;ssl=1 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 250px) 100vw, 250px\" \/><\/a><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">***<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Vrei s\u0103 m\u0103 urm\u0103re\u015fti \u00een social media? \u00cemi po\u0163i da follow pe&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/lorenaalmighty\/\"><strong>Facebook<\/strong><\/a>&nbsp;\u015fi&nbsp;<strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/lorena.lup\/\">Instagram<\/a><\/strong>, subscribe pe&nbsp;<strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/channel\/UCCHBtHi6S2GlUFqETH70cjQ\">YouTube<\/a><\/strong>&nbsp;\u015fi pe<strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/@lorena.lupu\">&nbsp;TikTok<\/a><\/strong>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Sunt copii care au rela\u021bii perfecte cu p\u0103rin\u021bii lor. Iubire, sus\u021binere reciproc\u0103, telefoane interminabile, comuniune a sufletelor. 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